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John Knol Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for John Knol
122 Entries
Martha Mendus
September 2, 2025
We miss you and your guidance.
Your compassion was among the greatest - extended to all of your students.
Prayers for peace.
Keep the faith and the faith keeps you. Always.
brad o
July 28, 2021
still keeping the faith it will always keep you,
he encouraged me to be me and to never give up he was kind and the best teacher I ever had.
he was my teacher all through high school he would stand up for me in any and all things, I would enjoy spending time with him after class or schoolstop by and spend time with him laughing listing to music we both like jazz rock and the band steely Dan, he took me and other class Mates out to the movies after school once, I didn't have a dad and he taught me to stand up for myself he was like the big brother I never had he pushed me to try he was always there to talk to nomater what was wrong, if I could see him tell him or just tell him, I love you mr knol I'll never forget you thank you so much for everything, he would always say keep the faith , faith keeps you, I would tell him back Faith keeps you, god bless you and your family he was the greatest teacher and a wonderful human I'll remember him for the rest of my life.
Ricardo Alejandro
October 1, 2016
It's still there. Sometimes more prominent than others. That feeling that you're still behind me, Mr. Knol. You know, when my grandpa died, I had a lot of regrets about it. He and I didn't see eye to eye much. I still
loved him, of course. And after he was gone, you sort of took his place.
I didn't have you around much longer, but you still made it feel like I could do right by my grandpa, and still had another one there to guide me. Even when I didn't think I'd go anywhere, you never left a doubt that you did. It always makes me want to cry, knowing you're gone when that feeling comes up.
But it's only now I see how off that is. I do miss you. And I do love you as well. However, as it was said, your life should be celebrated, not mourned. And I'd rather continue to celebrate it. I'm not sure still on where I'm going, or what I want to do. And I'm always still wanting your advice. I can only hope what steps I've made are ones you'd be proud of.
Knowing you were ever there, and always will be, tells me there can't be a way to forever be lost, as it's really just a time to think and direct those thoughts. I'll find my way, and keep going. And I'll keep myself going as you always taught me and won't stop til I drop. So keep the faith, Mr. Knol, cuz I know it's kept you. And may harmony always find you.
Taye smith
January 29, 2015
Keep the faith
Faith keeps you
Love you...thank you sir.
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Stormy Boggs
December 16, 2013
Hey Mr. Knol, just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today... well everyday really. I miss you so much. Fly high my sweet angel. I know you are up there watching over me. So until we meet again, keep the faith, and faith keeps you<3 RIP
Mark Stout
November 9, 2012
I loved Mr.Knol so much. I just started thinking about him and how incredible he was. I was a student of his. He always made you feel special and I am grateful that I had the chance to be in his history class. He was the kind if guy that shows you humans can be so great. I'll remember him for the rest of my life and miss him. Keep the faith he would always say.
Caleb Lee
August 2, 2011
mr knol once told me i had the power to change the world. its crazy to believe than any man could have that kind of faith and confidence in a freshman in high school. its crazy to believe that there is not one person that can say anything negative about him. not many people can say that they have met someone that actually changed who they are as a person. but mr knol did change me. the last time i saw him alive, he told me that if he ever had a son, he wishes i were him. i still cant believe hes gone after all this time has passed. to this day, i will be out somewhere like the mall or the grocery store or anywhere, and i could swear i see him. i see someone that looks like him everywhere at least once a week, and every time i do, i know that he is with me for real. i love him so much and miss him more than i can express. keep the faith. fly high mr knol i love you. i will see u again
Jamee Bowhay
February 7, 2011
Today I found myself thinking alot about you... Sometimes you pop in my head and I realize how much I still miss you.
School would have never been the same without you, and Tai Pei still isn't...
I remember the first time I went to Tai Pei in 9th grade, you took me after school because mom was always stuck late working and I would have to sit up there for hours....
I still find myself wanting to talk to you and get some more helpful advise...
You were ones of those people that you meet in life that your aurora is just shining bright, and everyone you speak to, you make a huge difference in their day.. I know you did in some many of our lives....
If you could see me now... I wish I would have had you around for all these crazy things that I managed to get into in these last couple of years.... I'm going to make you proud of me again soon...
So until I see you again...
Keep the Faith
Stormy Boggs
December 6, 2010
Mr. Knol was my best friend. He was my inspiration, my light, and my soul. He always kept me on the right track, n I started to stray away from it he would help me get back to where I needed to be. Mr. Knol was the most amazing person I had ever met. When I heard he was gone, i couldn't stop crying. I know he wouldn't want me to. But I couldn't help it, he was a massive part of my life and I always leaned on him for a lot. Mr. Knol changed my life in ways that if he didn't.. I don't know where I would be right now. I'm sad to have lost him, but I would much rather have loved him and lost him than to have never met him at all. I love you John Michael Knol. You will always be remembered in my heart.
Just Sherril, cropped from the other picture...Aug. 1974
Sherril Smoger-Kessous
May 9, 2010
Michael by his car on grounds of Institute of Logopedics
Sherril Smoger-Kessous
May 9, 2010
Michael and Sherril Smoger on grounds of Institute of Logopedics
Sherril Smoger-Kessous
May 9, 2010
Michael on the Institute of Logopedics campus apartments in Dec. 1974.
Sherril Smoger-Kessous
May 9, 2010
My name is Sherril Smoger-Kessous. I attended Wichita State University in their graduate program of Logopedics, the same program Michael was in.. For a very short period of time our paths more than crossed, they intersected. I was Michael's Jewish New Jersey friend (somewhat of an oddity in Wichita, Ks, at least in those days)..After graduation I left Kansas, returning to my more familiar neck of the woods on the East Coast. The thing is I never really stopped thinking about Michael. I attempted contacting him several times throughout the years and remember receiving a card from him once. I contacted Michael's mother, I believe by letter, after the dual Oklahoma City tragedies :the Bombing of the Federal Building in April of 1995 and the destruction of the Tornadoes in May of 1995. Michael's Mother was kind enough to respond to me with a long letter of explanation from her vantage point and pictures of the destruction after the tornadoes. I still have these photos online. She gave me Michael's address in Edmond and I wrote, but I never heard from him. Every once in a while, I would do a search on yahoo or Google and more recently on facebook, but again I could make no connection. Tonight, when I came home from my Mother's Day festivities, where we had done some internet searches for a few people, I happened to put Michael's name in search engines again, when suddenly I found newspaper articles about a "missing school teacher, age 59 (I am 58) named John Michael Knol, who taught in Putnam High School in Oklahoma and there was a photograph. I enlarged the picture, and knew immediately, even after 35 years, that the missing man was the Michael. I knew. Then I found this guest book page and began to type. I also searched for the few pictures I had of him from days before I left Wichita in December of 1974. I will try to post them here. To Michael's family, I send you my very deepest condolences. I know it's been less than 9 months since Michael's death and I can only imagine your grief. Coming across the news of Michael's death 9 months later , my grief is fresh and profound. I am so very sad and sorry. I still thought I might see him again sometime, somehow, in my life. His affect on me in that short period of time between August 1973 and December 1974 was profound. I loved Michael's humor, his intelligence. and his warmth. To be honest I loved Michael. My heart is aching. If you'd like to communicate with me, I am on facebook and my email address is: [email protected]. All my love and wishes of condolence.
Sherril Smoger-Kessous
Morris Plains, New Jersey
Dasvid Rundle
January 14, 2010
Dear Joni and Jana:
I was one of your brother's speech pathology students at the Institute of Logopedics from about 72 to 74, when I left. Mike was the only male figure, besides my priest, in my lifer till I moved back home.[I was a teenager with cerebral palsy tryig to become a man and cope with being disabled and everything, Mike tried tyo prepare me for certain things but it is only now I fully appreciate his wisdom, compassion and common sense.
but I alway appreciated his laughter. I can see and hear him now, I wish I had tried to contact him before now but when I did, I learned he was gone. I am so sorry I did not say this to him but I thank God I knew, this great man.
January 14, 2010
Today I received the news about Mike's passing. I knew him at WSU and saw him about 9 years ago. Mike was attending one of the reunions in Wichita of the football players. He was the same kind man and outgoing man he had been 30 years before. Mike never seemed to want the attention or stardom so many star athletes seek. Really how many athletes attend college and study how to help the Handicapped? I have never read a tribute guest book with so many young people acknowledging a man who did the kind of things Mike could do. It was a privilege to know Mike. I am inspired by everything I know of Mike and of what I have read here.
God bless you!
God Bless us all!
Angela, East Hampton Connecticut
Deedra Devine
December 23, 2009
I am saddened to learn the news about Mike. I first met Mike at the Institute of Logopedics in Wichita. He was my supervisor as I completed my student teaching in Speech and Language Pathology. He was a giving and caring educator, with heart and help for those children who needed the most. I kept in occasional contact with Mike through his years in Big Bear. It has been years now, but he will always hold a special place in my heart.
John Michael--John Knol Sr--John Junior Knol
November 18, 2009
Knoley #71
November 18, 2009
Joni Michele and John Michael
November 18, 2009
Wichita State University 1968-1972
November 18, 2009
November 18, 2009
Mikey
November 18, 2009
DEBORAH BRUNKHORST-FELTS
October 11, 2009
JAN & JONI, SO VERY SORRY TO HAVE JUST HEARD ABOUT MIKE. WHAT A LOSS TO ALL WHO KNEW AND LOVED HIM. MY THOUGHTS AND BEST WISHES ARE WITH YOU BOTH.
JOHN GHARET
October 10, 2009
My friend Mr. Knol was someone who was there for me when i lost my grandpa a couple of years ago and then when i lost my grandmother this year. he held me in his arms and said he was going to be there for me and see it through to the end and i would have never wanted to hear it from another soul but him. Mr Knol to me was known as old timer and we would talk and make jokes about different things. in the words of your brother god bless this creation on the beautiful earth.
Tony Duesing
October 2, 2009
I knew Mike in the early 70s. I was only around 7 or 8 years old. My mom, bother and I lived at the Institute of Logopedics in Wichita. My brother has some disabilities. We lived next door to Mike.
I only came across this guest book from wanting to do a Google search today, Oct 2. It was 39 years ago today that a Wichita State plane carrying football players crashed in the Colorado mountains, killing many. I was watching a new documentary about this crash from the Wichita PBS TV station. While watching it, I briefly saw Mike Knol's WSU photo as they were showing photos of players that died from a yearbook. Mike's photo was next to one of the players that past away. So needless to say I was shocked when I read the recent news about Mike and his passing.
While living next to Mike in the 70s, he one day saved my mother's life. She is now 84. That day Mike was to take us boys somewhere. I don't remember where, maybe the Zoo. Mom didn't feel like going and told us boys to go. When we met up with Mike outside our front door, Mike asked where our mom was at. We told him she wasn't feeling good and wanted to stay home. Instead of going, Mike wanted to go in our home and see mom. She had a condition that ended up taking her to the hospital that day. If Mike didn't turn around to check on my mother, she most likely would have been dead when we returned.
I remember Mike as a very nice and easy going person. I can't help think how Mike's personality affected me positively. I really liked him. I remember when he would take us somewhere, many times he would drive his car with no shoes on! I thought that was "cool."
Rest in peace Mike.
Mary Ann (Smallwood) Bolton
September 17, 2009
Jana Beth & Joni Michelle,
So sorry about John Michael...
Your grandma Hazel had a brother, Buster and I am his daughter.
After your lives calm down, I would like to exchange some family history with you. It has been my retirement hobby since 1997. When you are ready, email me: [email protected]
Love, Mary Ann
stephanie coleman
September 10, 2009
I believe that Mr.knol was a good man because he had a great sister and she talked about Mr.Knols all the time.Mr.Knols has people that really care about him. i wish i could have met him but i never got the chance and i love Mrs.Jena and her family so much. she has helped me alot and also my classmates. Mrs.Jenna my heart goes out to your family.God bless you all and i will keep you in my heart.
Ken Bogden
September 9, 2009
Jana and Joni--
I was a teammate of Mike. I have not seen him since college, I fell out of touch with him as I did with many of my teammates. When I heard of Mike's death, the memeory of him came back like it was yesterday. The memory was not of him as a football player, but as a person. Your brother was a guy that everyone liked and he could make everyone smile. He had a good heart and I know he will be missed. My condolences to you. God bless.
John Marshall High School Beatnecks 1967
September 7, 2009
Andrew Owens
September 6, 2009
Hi,my name is Andrew Owens, Drew. I am one of Mr. Knol's past students who graduated in 2009. I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers have all been for you and him for some time now. I can't believe how much of an impact he has made on my life. I can honestly say that I would not be the man I am today without him and his help.
In my last semester of senior year I was on the brink of dropping out. Dr. Wentroth, Mr. Knol, my Mother, and myself had a meeting to discuss it. Mr. Knol was the only reason I stuck it out through my senior year.
When I heard the news I was heartbroken. I dropped to my knees right there and sobbed for close to 2 hours. He was an inspiration to me and like a father. I could always count on him to be there for me.
I wrote something to make me feel better. I'm not exactly the kind of person who would do so, but something was telling me to. I wrote "I can't find the words to say what my tears have not already said. You were a teacher, a mentor, a light in a dark world, and to an extent, my everything. I love you Mr. Knol and I feel sorry for anyone who wasn't lucky enough to know you and your kind soul. You WILL be missed. KEEP THE FAITH!!
(and the faith keeps you)"
I just wanted you to know how much he was to me and so many others in such hard times of our lives. I will be willing to do anything I can to help you in this time of need. No matter what it is, just ask.
Thank you and God bless.
Keep the faith,
Drew Owens
Heavenlee Jacobs
September 5, 2009
I met Mr Knol 5 years ago when he began encouraging me to be the only person in my family to graduate highschool. Then when my brother died my sophmore year and I had nobody to turn to, he held me as I broke down and cried in the middle of school. And then he was there for me with words of encouragment as I moved out on my own senior year. And finally at graduation he was next to the stage to tell me how proud he was... and to tell me good luck in the army and to stay in touch. He was definatly the father I never had and I will never forget the impact he had on my life.
Amy Liebetreu
September 5, 2009
Mr. Knol was a very special, and precious person. It is rare that you have the privilege of having someone like that touch your life whether directly or indirectly. My daughter and I moved to OKC in 2005 after her father was killed in Houston, Texas. The transition was very difficult but Mr. Knol was the only person to make a connection with her and bring happiness back to her. She loved him very much and I loved him for this gift he gave to her unconditionally . I will always be grateful to him and we will always love and miss him. God bless you and yours always.
Amy Liebetreu
Amy Liebetreu
September 5, 2009
Mr. Knol's was a special gift to everyone who knew him and all of the other lives he touched directly or indirectly. A person like that is rare gem. My daughter and I moved to OKC after her daddy was killed in 2005. Mr. Knols was the first and only person who was able to make a connection with my daughter and make life better for her. She would come home on a daily basis and tell me all kinds of Mr. Knol stories. She really loved him and I loved him for being so kind and good to her. We are heartbroken and he will always be with us in our hearts. God bless you and your family.
Kathryn Davis
September 5, 2009
What a fitting tribute to Mike. The memorial was beyond words. We lost a great man and freind. My thoughts and prayers are with his fanily.
Luann Stoltz Gullett
September 5, 2009
Mike Knol was always a friend to everyone. I had the pleasure of dating Mike in college and yes, we had some great adventures. In later years we spent hours on the phone sharing life stories and hopeful words of wisdom. I am so Blessed, as we all are, to have had Mike in our lives.
For some reason, possibly because it is so fitting, I cannot seem to get this quote out of my mind when I think of Mike.
"A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others."
I am with you in spirit.
Luann Stoltz Gullett
Charley Roberts
September 4, 2009
Also a teammate of Knoly's at WSU. He was so friendly to us as freshmen with him being the wise and knowledgeable upperclassman. He gave lots of good advice about life and how to enjoy it. This has helped me remember again how important it is to appreciate who and where we are at all times. God gives us our times here on this earth and Knoly sure helped teach me how to properly live it. It is so good to read here how he continued to share this through his career. The big guy is smiling down on us today.
Monty Evans
September 3, 2009
In times like these, words seem to fall short in adequately expressing the loss we all feel. Mike touched so many lives in a positive way for his classmates, teammates, friends and students. He had a such a great sense of humor and joy for life! As we all tend to follow our own paths in life and sometimes lose contact with classmates, I'll never forget running into Mike several years ago. We had a great visit and he was so upbeat and positive about teaching and his 'kids' at PCHS. I remember thinking to myself that here was a guy who truly loved what he was doing! Peace be with you my friend...we all miss you.
Don Burford
September 3, 2009
Not only when I saw Mike, but just hearing "Knol-ee" would make me smile. Warm sincere feelings of care and humor simply radiated from him. Even in this time of sadness, I find myself smiling.
I was a teammate from WSU. We didn't run around together or were cronies, but Knolee was a good friend. Everyone loved seeing Mike.
God calls us to be Disciples of Christ by being a living example of Christ. Mike did what God calls us to do.
Bruce Gerleman
September 2, 2009
Mike Knol...I love the guy. Mike was my teammate at Wichita State. I was a freshman and Mike was a sophomore living on the same floor in the athletic dorm Fairmount Towers. We had so many laughs and so many great times with his suite mates Donnie Christian, RandyKiesau and Johnny Taylor. Even though I was younger they embraced me and were my good friends. Mike is always so thoughtful, so happy and a commedian at heart...I will never forget his famous laugh, shriek, sound that he made as he entered the room...a high pitched eeeeeeeeee! Laughter....Laughter and happiness is how I will always remember Mike Knol... now he is at peace with his teammates....All my love to the family. Sincerely, Bruce Gerleman
michael gawf
September 1, 2009
MR.Knol will be dearly missed by his family and friends. And he will be dearly missed by his students. Mr.Knol loved teaching at putnam city high history class. He enjoyed leading the anime club. His favorite phase after class was Keep the faith and faith keeps you. We will miss and love him every much
"Jay" Cates
September 1, 2009
Mr Knol thank you for all the enlightening conversations. Thank you for praying for my safety while I was overseas. You are indeed an inspiring friend and I hope to see you again.
Michael and JP
August 31, 2009
Michael, Jana, John Patrick, and Joni Knol
August 31, 2009
Eleanor Goetzinger
August 31, 2009
I had the privilege of working with Mike @ PCH for four years. We both were teachers in the special education department working with students with behavioral concerns. Through those years, I had my own personal adversities & Mike would give me a quote that I continue to remember today. “What does not destroy me makes me stronger,” by Nietzsche. God bless you Mike & you will be greatly missed by all.
Eleanor Goetzinger
Robbie Younglas
August 30, 2009
Mr. Knol,
A great man, a great teacher, a great mentor, and a great friend. You will truly be missed more than words can express. I will never forget the first time we met, and all the i time spent in your classroom. Although you never taught any of my classes, you have taught me more than any school curriculum could ever cover. Any time i ever needed to talk, your door was always open. I can remember my junior year of high school, my lunch period was your planning period. Because some classes were in session during lunch, i couldn't go to your room because i didn't have a hall pass. When i told you about it, you wrote me a hall pass, and it said "any time". Your door was always open to me, any time, even after i had graduated. I am going to miss going back up to Putnam City to visit you after school. I always loved listening to what you had to say, and hearing about what was new with you. You have truly had an impact on my life, and on me being the man i am today. So with that being said, goodbye for now, because we will meet again. Keep the faith, and faith keeps you.
August 30, 2009
Joni & Jana,
One Behalf of the Class of JMHS Class 1968, We send Our Deepest Sympathy. And know that the Class of 1968 will miss Mike.
Chris Finney
JMHS Class of 68
Steve McCaskey
August 29, 2009
Joni & Jana-
Please accept my deepest sympathy for this terrible time you are going through. Your brother, Mike, was a terrific guy. When I first met him, Mike was teaching speach therapy in Wichita at the Institute of Logopedics- working with children who had great handicaps. He was always enthusiastic about his work.
Years later, when my wife Gina and I were visiting Wichita, Mike insisted on taking us to see this great, new movie called "Star Wars". He was just as enthusiastic about a film as he was about helping kids.
That's what I will always remember about Mike: His enthusiasm and joy for life. His range of interests were unlimited. We could talk about football, philosophy, farm equipment, books, music, film, cleft palates, truck driving or shrimp scampi in basil sauce.
The giant void created by his loss is exceeded only by the much larger force and impact that was his life.
We will always think of Mike with a smile. A wonderful man. A great loss.
God be with you.
Steve & Regina McCaskey
Rick & Terry Stephens
August 29, 2009
It was with great sadness that I learned of Mike's passing. We were teammates at WSU and roomed together during two a day practices. As I read through the posted messages, I was clearly reminded of what a kind, generous and positive individual he was and how much I enjoyed being around him, his parents and sisters. I deeply regret that we did not stay in contact through the years. And but for such fond memories of Mike the world seems a less hospitable place. I and my wife Terry, who knew Mike as a WSU student, extend our heartfelt condolences to the family.
Ken Marose
August 28, 2009
Mike,
You will always be remembered as a friend with a radiating smile who always had a cheerful "Top of the morning" greeting for everyone. We shared and taught in the same classroom at Mayfield, and you were adored by students and faculty alike. You and I shared a love for sports, music, dogs, and the special students we taught. I still remember having front row seats when we saw Bo Diddley in concert.
God Bless,
Ken Marose
Taylor and Knol
August 28, 2009
Lazoma and Knol
August 28, 2009
Joanne Peterson
August 28, 2009
I think PCO has lost one of the most caring and influential teachers it has. During my time there, I never saw him without a smile and his smiles were contagious enough to wipe away anything that had you down in the dumps. The impact he made in the lives of his students (and collegues) will be the legacy that he leaves...and that is one heck of a legacy!
August 28, 2009
Mike and i became friends when he was on staff at Mayfield Middle School. I knew he was a special man from the beginning. He was such an inspiration to the young and the old. Like everyone, i will miss him deeply. Joni and Jana you are in my heart.
~Annie,OKC, Oklahoma
Jerry Bagley
August 27, 2009
So many cherished memories flood into my mind as I think of Mike. I loved being around Mike and his positive spark that ignited that huge smile that only Mike could smile. He will always live in my memory.
Although I am deeply saddened by our loss I will hold tight to the images of the Mike I knew as my great and dear friend. I love that man.
Jan and Joni, I am so sorry for your loss.
Keep the faith.
Ellen Maddux Lisle
August 27, 2009
Reading the many lovely tributes to Mike has been a joyful walk back to happy years at John Marshall High School.
I had lots of fun times at the Knols home. I always felt welcomed by the whole Knol family.
I called Mike "James Michael." I don't remember if he liked that, but I did. I thought he had a pretty name.
I also called him my best friend. He was the big brother I always wanted. He was my age, but he WAS bigger!
I knew Mike looked out for me. However, as I read these tributes, it appears Mike was always looking out for all of us.
Jana and Joni, you were lucky to have Mike as your real big brother. He adored you!
Jana and Joni Knol
August 27, 2009
A Celebration of Life for John Michael Knol, the world's greatest teacher and a hero to his students, will be held on Saturday, September 5 at 2:00 p.m. at Putnam City High School in the auditorium. The school is located at 5300 N.W. 50th in Oklahoma City. Everyone who shared his life's journey is welcome.
In lieu of flowers, a memorial scholarship fund has been established in Mike's honor to help the students he loved so much, carrying on his legacy of kindness. Contributions may be sent to: PCHS Scholarship Fund -- Mike Knol, 5300 N.W. 50th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73122.
Mike lives forever through the infinite lives he touched. He believed that every human being has an important contribution to make to our world and had a unique gift to help his students achieve their highest human potential.
Again, we most sincerely appreciate the uplifting words and memories shared by all who were fortunate to walk beside him on his path.
One of Mike's favorite philosopher's was Gibran, so we borrow a line from an enlightened soul to honor another, "Love knows not it's own depths until the time of separation."
Keep the faith,
Jana and Joni - Mike's sisters
Michael Knol - May 2005
August 26, 2009
Michael Knol - May 2006
August 26, 2009
Jami Page
August 26, 2009
Mr. Knol was a jolly man who held the heart of many children in his hands. He was a step in father, a mentor, a strong shoulder to lean on and a great friend. He was there for the kids when they needed him. He gave his phone number to them if they needed to call him. He was the best role model my son could have ever had. I was lucky enough to have had both of my children in his history class. I had meet with him on many school functions. He always had a genuine smile and a secure hand shake. You couldn’t have been in better company. He is dearly missed by my family. I’m sure he is missed by anyone who had the pleasure to meet him. I wish the deepest sympathy to all of you. People are put in your life to teach you lessons and Mr. Knol taught them all. God Bless.
Mary Scott
August 26, 2009
Mr. Knol was an inspiration and mentor to many children. Just his presents meant so much to the kids and especially my grandson. He continued to seek advice from Mr. Knol even after graduation. He will truly be missed and will always be loved by all of us. God Bless you and our thoughts and prays are with you all.
Mark Barrett
August 26, 2009
For the past week I have reflected on all the fun and crazy things Mike and I did in high school...with Eddie, with Ellen and Fran, with Randy and Tom, with so many friends and teammates, and then we moved on. He went North then West, and I went North and then East...never again to share more than a couple of nights with a few beers and a few laughs. The time when our pranks seemed apparelled with a glory and the freshness of a dream...it had passed...where is it now, the glory and the dream? Flowers come and go, and the birds will sing, and the sunrise renews hope daily, but where ever we went, the glory and the dreams were never the same.
We had heard the call...we felt the heavens laugh as we cruised in bliss and wonder...but it faded into incoherint murmurs, ordinary light and daily routines. Though the dreams and joy which were once so bright, are now forever gone from our life...we will grieve not...rather find strength in knowing that what ever was, ever will be....Mike's glory and Mike's dreams live on in all of us.
Peace to Mike's sisters and students.
Nannette (Chandler) Amador
August 26, 2009
As I read the wonderful tributes to Mike, particularly those of his students, I thought of the words of Jack London.
"It is so simple a remedy, merely service. The call is for the nobility of thinking, nobility of doing. The call is for service, and such is the wholesomeness of it. He who serves all, best serves himself."
Mike's philosophy was to put the needs of others before his own. He was a man who always tried to make a positive difference in the lives of all who knew him. He truly lived the commandment that one should love his neighbor as himself.
Joe & Jo Dee Ann Lunn
August 26, 2009
Joni, Jan, John & Michele,
Dear friends, please accept our deepest condolences. God Bless.
With our Love,
Janice Reynolds
August 26, 2009
My deepest sympathy goes out to Mr. Knol's family and students in the loss of a man who loved children and wanting them to be all that they can be in life. I am a retired Putnam City School teacher with a connection with Putnam City Original High School. With great sadness, I have been following the disappearance and finding of Mr. Knol. His last breaths were taken a mile from my home in a place that I pass daily. Tributes made by his students are very touching. It is evident that Mr. Knol made positive differences in lives he touched. What a wonderful legacy. Leaving for heaven in land that he loved seems perfect if it were his time to be with the Lord. He loved nature and he just became spirit with it on that fateful day. He had hope for a new school year, but God had other plans. May he rest in peace. Janice Reynolds Edmond, Oklahoma
Susan Holmes Steffey
August 26, 2009
Growing up in Britton, I knew Mike from the time he was a baby. We went to Britton grade school together and John Marshall--Mike was 4 years younger, but in between my brother, Jim, and sister, Beth and then Ann was three years behind Beth. We were all saddened to hear about Mike and convey our deepest sympathies to all the family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. The Holmes Kids--Susan Steffey, Jim Holmes, Beth Butler and Ann Brown
Ken Duren
August 26, 2009
It is a given that Mike was a loved and respected teacher and human being while on this short trip we call life. It is my hope that such a special soul gets to lay some of his burdens down on the other side for he was indeed a sensitive person who was loved by many, especially my family. God's home is now your home.
Paul Belflower
August 26, 2009
Joni & Jana,
Our deepest sympathies in your loss of Mike. Sounds like he touched MANY lives. I’ll always remember Mike as a big ‘ol teddy bear and surviving the terrible plane tragedy while playing football at WSU. We all certainly had fun growing up together “in the country” back then out by Lone Star! We’ll be thinking of you.
Luise Chappell Hooper
August 26, 2009
Though I haven't seen Mike since high school, I am so happy to find how many lives he continued to touch and influence during his lifetime. I wish that I had known him better.
My deepest sympathy goes to his family and loved ones. As I read through this guest book I hope the wonderful sentiments people have expressed bring you joy and peace.
Kelly Knipfer
August 25, 2009
I am very lost in words that Mr. Knol past away! I never thought one of my close teachers would past on as soon as I gradauted! He was my pirate time teacher all through high school!I am going to miss him dearly! Mr. Knol was an awesome man and he always made me smile when i was having a bad day! He is going to missed dearly! He is in a better place now and I hope he watches over all of us! I love you Mr. Knol!
Bobbie Howell
August 25, 2009
Jan and Joni,
I can't even imagine how you feel, but I do know for sure Mike is with your mom and dad, in a wonderful place.
I have read the guest book, and what a loving man Mike was. You can certainly be proud of your brother.
Donna McDaniel-McMillan
August 25, 2009
I followed the news story with interest and concern. Even though I had totally lost touch with Mike, I was so saddened to hear of his death. I went to Prom with Mike our junior year at JMHS. He was a big, warm, wonderful guy! I remember Mike's mom calling my mom to see what kind of flowers he should get for my corsage! What a sweetheart! I am touched by all the nice things written by his students. I know he will be sorely missed by his school, his friends, and his family. My deepest sympathy to all who loved him.
greg adkins
August 25, 2009
I had lost total touch w/ Mike for decades. Reading these words from others is truly great... they allow us to see that he continued to grow and give and be as funny, ernest & good a Team-mate in life, as we knew him to be at WSU.
He was Knol-ee to us. He seemed to carry this horrifying yet beautific scar on his heart. Few of us late arrivals noticed becuase from it emminated this dazzeling light that was unbelievably warm, full of great humor, humongous smiles, self deprecation, and fellowship.
Its great to know he carried that scar so well thru to the end, and in doing so touched so many folks. Others share that scar as well, and somehow we are the better for it.
As one who believes in the hereafter, I think a special group of old teamates greeted Mike 1st...can you see him blush, smile, shreek & laugh as the doors open on that elevator?
Fran Johnson Derrick
August 25, 2009
Mike and I were friend in highschool and beyond. We dated some in highschool and later in our 30's. I can say we were always friends. I remember walking Mike off the field after a highschool football game and I was so proud. I really wish that I had been in touch more. His spirit was bigger than he was and even though I know he had some sad/dark times they did not overcome him.
Ryan Logan
August 25, 2009
Mr. Knol was a kool person and i hope he is happy where he is at.
Bob Densmore
August 25, 2009
Mike witness to me about my salvation and Jesus when I was a senior in high school and brought me to the Lord. I have never forgotten him. Thank God for Mike. Bob Densmore Terrell, tx.
Joe Rohr
August 25, 2009
I was fortunate enough to have the distinct pleasure and privilege of working with Mike at Putnam City. I have yet to meet such a kind, compassionate, and respected man. His wisdom is truly timeless. I looked at Mike as more than a friend, he was my Mentor. From day one he instilled upon me to “Keep the Faith” and the faith will in turn “Keep You”. “Mike’s way” has a way of transforming even the toughest. His reassuring smile, warm heart, and kind words have a way of sticking with you. Even though I have moved on, I took part of Mike with me. I will never forget Mike; I respect the man, value his friendship, and will be forever grateful for sharing with him the love of teaching.
Jana Knol
August 25, 2009
The outpouring of loving kindness and compassion that has been expressed on this and other venues only demonstrates how much our brother, Mike was loved, and has sustained us during this challenging journey. We would like to share a poem written about Michael by the mother of one of his students who had Down's syndrome. This is only one of thousands that Mike has received over the years, but we hope that it will bring peace and comfort to his beloved friends and students, whom he considered his extended family.
Tender Moments
He searches the room -- blue eyes filled with fear,
New kids, new school -- can he hold back the tears.
His lip starts to quiver as he holds Mom so tight,
Then into the room walks a man called "Mike."
A teacher, speech pathologist, great friend to the kids,
Mike is a Santa Claus in the world of Special Ed.
Heart full of love -- arms opened wide
Into them runs this small, frightened child.
The tears cease to trickle -- gone is his fright,
As a smile, sign, and words all say, "Hi Mike!"
written for John Michael Knol by Louise Tucker Jones
Keep the faith,
Jana and Joni -- His sisters
Gary Shuffield
August 25, 2009
Mike was a wonderful person as a child he was full of life and a friendship that went from gradeschool to highschool.He had parents that were great and sisters who loved him dearly.
Mike was always bigger than life and had a heart of gold.
My friend you will be missed.
We are truly blessed to have known you.
Joan Corbin
August 25, 2009
Mike was always with my brothers Tom and Bill Corbin. I called him my best brother and he was certainly one of my favorite brothers! He and Tom always laughed about both of them having a sister named Joanie/Joni! He was with our family on many occasions for dinner and lively conversations. It was great fun to listen (as you could not get a word in edgewise) to Tom and Mike talk of politics, history, cabbages, kings and other important things! Mike was truly a member of our family.
One of our worst nights was when the airliner went down with Wichita State Football team. We picked up Tom from OU and went directly to Mike’s to be with his Mom. We waited for news for what seemed like an eternity then we got the call from Mike that he was ok! What joy!
Mike was also with us through our Mother’s final illness, he was our Rock! He held us up, gave us comfort and he even helped us move Mom’s belongings. It will be hard to live in a world without Mike as he made it a better place. I shall miss my best brother Mike!
Steve & Barbara West
August 25, 2009
While working with Mike at Mayfield Middle School, we came to respect him like few others. He was a one-of-a-kind. To know him was to not find anything you didn't like about him. Like a minister who is known because of his pastor's heart, Mike had a true educator's heart like few others we've known. He seemed bigger than life, like Grizzley Adams with a permanent, welcoming smile. Our lives are truly blessed for having crossed his path a few years ago.
Maggie Neaves Price
August 25, 2009
I met Mike during our college days. I’ll always remember his great smile, sharp wit and wickedly funny sense of humor. Rest in peace, friend.
Marqua Schuette (Steely)
August 25, 2009
Mike and I went to JMHS together and I just remember his great smile and super laugh. He was always so much fun to be around and he will absolutely be missed! Through the years you lose touch with so many people, but even though I had not seen him for many years, I can still see his joyful face. My sincere sympathy goes out to his family in this very tough time.
Sarah King
August 24, 2009
Mr. Knol was the best person i have ever met. he helped those who needed help, including me, and he cared for everyone. he will be missed dearly.
Margie McCaskey Barr
August 24, 2009
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Mike touched many lives with his smile and kindness. Our family shared a bond with Mike and your family that has lasted for many years. The loss is felt by many...and he will not be forgotten. He will be remembered with a smile!
Kirk Wilson
August 24, 2009
I am in shock. I will always remember Mr. Knol as an upbeat guy who always supported PCO Debate and me as an educator! He is a true inspiration. Mr. Knol was the best colleague anyone could ask for; a teacher the caliber that I can only pray my daughter is one day lucky enough to have; and someone I knew I could always count on-a friend. My deepest sympathies go out to the family, friends, and to PCO - they truly broke the mold on this guy, and he will never be replaced!
Eddie Beaty
August 24, 2009
To Joni & Jan,
I will not forget the good times that I enjoyed with Mike from Peewee baseball,church basketball, high school sports and activities well into our adult lives. I remember the great times with Mike, Mark, myself, along with all of our John Marshall friends at the Split T.
I will always remember Mike's easy-going and fun loving smile. Mike may be gone, but our memories of him will last forever.
Cal Bryant
August 24, 2009
Mike was one of a kind-a true, compassionate friend, teacher, co-worker, and a man of his word with true integrity seldom found in the world today. I'll miss this gentle gaint. He was one of two most trusted co-workers I found in 18 yrs of teaching special students.
Keilan Wellington
August 24, 2009
Mr.Knol always told stories about his life to us in class. And we would always listen. Because he is the best teacher in the world and we loved him. every day after class he would say "Keep The Faith" and in response we would say "And The Faith Keeps You." And now that is my motto that smple phrase keeps me going. So I say to you Mr.Knol "Keep The Faith."
Chauncey Shillow
August 24, 2009
Dear family of John Michael Knol,
As a teacher of high school students in Oklahoma City, I have watched how the lives of students can be changed by a word and an example. From what I've read, it sounds like Mr. Knol provided both. I pray that God would help you mourn during this time and that He would comfort you with His overwhelming love.
Bailey Blankenship
August 24, 2009
My name is bailey blankenship Mr.Knol was my teacher. I remember when i walked into class crying or upset he alway gave me a hug and said "Keep the Faith" No matter what he was always there for me and kept me strong, he never let me give up. He was an amazing man and i never thought i would be alive to see him pass I havent stopped crying for the past 2 days but no matter what he will be known as my favorite History teacher. I love you Mr.Knol and i will see you soon! "Keep the Faith"
-Bailey Blankenship!
Randy Upchurch
August 24, 2009
Dear Joni & Jana, I'm looking out my Ofc window from Britton Road & Kelly toward the house. I'm so sad but celebrating my memories of the best man in my wedding and and other fun times in High School & Wichita State me & Mike & beaty & corbin had together. I want to be of help any way I can and can be reached at 850.0051. What the students have all said is right on of how great a friend can ever be - sounds like he never let life's tuff times change him and remains the greatest & closest friend I ever had. love, Randy Upchurch
Cindy
August 24, 2009
My daughter was a student of Mr. Knols and although she had problems in school she felt he was always there to listen and just lend support when she felt the world was closing in on her. He will be missed. My prayers go out to you.
August 24, 2009
He was my daughter's Pirate Time teacher and every 9 weeks when we would meet with us about her schedule, he was always so upbeat and positive. You could tell he was a fun, unconventional teacher who was totally "approachable" and in touch with his students and really knew how to talk to them and council them! My daughter tells of how he always dug in his pocket and gave lunch money to those students that had nothing for lunch. He will be missed!!!
Sonya
Frankie Roberts
August 24, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Frankie Roberts
August 24, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Yen Tran
August 24, 2009
I never had you in class but that never stopped you from welcoming me into your classroom with an enormous grin if I happened to pass by. Thanks for all those times you offered to unlock the class door because all the Asian club members were waiting outside because our sponsor was always late. Thanks for your openmindedness to always ask to be included with anything the club did. Thanks for everything.
Robin Olson
August 24, 2009
To the entire family of Mike..........I send my deepest sympathy. He managed to have me laughing during Math class way back in the 7th grade. He was larger than life - his smile - his personality. He will be truely missed. As I was reading our year books yesterday from John Marshall and what he wrote every year......he was a true friend.
Robin Olson
Lori Thompson
August 24, 2009
Mr Knoll, I will never forget the kindness you showed during an orientation when I showed up after just having had minor surgery. You made sure that I was comfortable, and basically told me and my daughter that we didn't need to be there. She was able to come see you and do her class schedule, one on one with you. I think that you were one of the most loved teachers and advisors at Putnam City High. The students, staff and even the parents, are all the more richer for having known you. L Thompson OKC, Ok
B Carrethers
August 24, 2009
To the entire Knol family, I send my deepest condolences to you all. May God comfort you all during this time of pain and greiving. I did not know Mr Knol personally but I can tell you his story has touched my heart. I believe his mission is completed and God needed his Angel back home. Once again, God bless you all.
B. Dely
August 23, 2009
A long time friend of my Brother, a friend, teacher and mentor to my son, Michael Knol is not only a teacher, but an educator, a friend, a mentor and a voice of reason in any situation that comes before him. Although I did not know him as well as some, my experiences with this man has, in my opinion, made me a better person for it.
Not only do I feel extremely fortunate to know Michael, I feel fortunate, as the father of one his students, to see the impact that Michael's life experience and reasonings has made on my son.
I am proud to have been considered his friend.
Michael is not gone, he is merely moved on to the next level and will continue to be a postive influence to those who have known him, and to those who will know him in whatever realm in which he now resides.
Thank you Michael Knol.
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