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PAUL BENGTSON Obituary

April 11, 1951 - April 13, 2012 EDMONA Paul Arthur Bengtson, beloved father, brother, grandpa, uncle and friend, passed from this life on April 13, 2012, in Edmond, Oklahoma, at the age of 61. He was born in Trona, CA April 11, 1951, and was a graduate of Bakersfield HS in 1969. He came to OKC in 1970 and was a member of Ambucks, NRA, and Eagle Scouts. He was very dedicated to his life work and passion of auto mechanics, so much so that almost everyone who knew him took their car to him. He owned Sharpe Automotive for 40 years and was an instructor at Norman Technical College. He was commonly known around town as Tall Paul. He made each of his family and friends feel as though they were his favorite. He is survived by Donene Bengtson, his wife of 34 years; his daughter, Melinda Chada and her husband Evan; his son, Paul Ryan Bengtson; his granddaughters, Gracelyn Rylee and Markey Genice Bengtson; his grandson, Colton Coy Bengtson; his two brothers, Eric (Kathy) Bengtson and Allen (Susie) Bengtson; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Franklin Niles and Naomi Inez Bengtson. Memorial Services will be held 3 p.m. Wednesday, April 18, 2012, at Vondel Smith Mortuary North Colonial Chapel.

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Published by Oklahoman on Apr. 15, 2012.

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Baby Sister2

April 22, 2012

Brother Paul will truly be missed too by mom and I. If there ever be an individual who stepped up to this family - bro you did. I'm so glad to have also shared a "gun show" where your acknowledge of guns and cars equaled bro's and all the stories of you and brother's adventures. We laughed till we cried. You came forward and was looking over my shoulder with encouragement when we both knew it was difficult. Your always concern of mom was just a call or drop in - ALWAYS.
Good man with a big HEART.

No, love you more.......

"Sis" & "Mom"

April 21, 2012

Brother Paul will be deeply missed by mom and I. He was always there for us more so after we lost brother and sister. He truly was a valued friend and extended family member. I am sure glad that I got to share a "gun show" with him outside of the shooting range. The many, many stories of him and JR's adventures was an evening of love and laughter always. Bro Paul - thanks for stepping up and having our backs in the most trying times. I know it was hard on you too, but always, selfishly set it aside to help your family and friends. Won't have thought it would be any other way....
No, love you more........

Anna Tomkowiak

April 16, 2012

Paul was a terrific person and an honest, talented businessman to boot. Never short on smiles, jokes, or advice; the world was indeed a better place with him in it. My sincerest prayers and sympathies go out to his family.

Chip Kooi

April 16, 2012

Paul was one-of-a-kind. No one knew his way around an automobile better than he did, and no one cared as much (in my experience) as Paul did about helping people have a safe and reliable car to drive. It was his way of making the world a better place, and he did it superbly. He was a good friend.

Keith Voyles

April 16, 2012

From Everyone at XL Parts, We express our Deepset Sympathy.. Paul will be missed!!!!

April 16, 2012

From ALL the Folks at XL Parts, Paul will be missed!!!!

Paul Graeber

April 15, 2012

Pablo was a unique individual, always willing to help out anyone in need. You would always find him with a big smile on his face and a joke to tell you. His vast knowledge of many subjects kept you in awe and he will be missed by many, many people. I am proud to call him a friend for well over 30 years. Rest in eternal peace Pablo...

Frances King

April 15, 2012

Our deepest sympathy and prayer go out to his dear family and friends. Paul will be missed by the many that knew him from Sharpe automotive and his church family, and other influences he was involved in.
He always had a nice smile when ever we saw him or a clever quote .
Our Love
Frances , Maury and Andy King

Denise Tribbey

April 15, 2012

Am so very sorry for all of Paul's family upon his loss. He will be missed by many of who have known him for so many years. We'll miss that friendly smile and warm hello he always had for us at church. May God's peace and love be yours at this time. I love you all!

Dave Ward

April 15, 2012

Paul was one of the most talented mechanics I've had the pleasure of meeting and doing business with. Paul you are truly going to be missed. My condolences to his family.

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