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Carroll Anstaett Obituary

OLEAN - Carroll W. Anstaett, of 4 Skyview Drive, Olean, passed away peacefully Wednesday (Jan. 31, 2018) at Olean General Hospital.

Born Oct. 12, 1925, in Batavia, Ohio, he was one of two sons of Stanley and Gertrude Windspear. On June 16, 1948, in Lancaster, he married Anne Stutzman, who passed away Sept. 11, 1974. Together, they had two children, Wendy (Tom) Schlegel of Bluffton, S.C. and Gary (Julie) Anstaett of Tavares, Fla. On Aug. 8, 1981, he married Dolores Neary Nunamaker, who survives.

At age 16, Carroll was ruled ineligible for a fifth year of Batavia High School athletics, so he quickly enrolled at Miami University of Ohio, where he was one of the first freshmen to participate in varsity sports. He was a catcher on Miami's baseball team for two years before entering the Army. Later, he played for the United States Naval Academy, but resigned to play baseball; first, with Glenn L. Martin Bombers (World Amateur Champions) in Baltimore, Md., before enrolling in Syracuse University with a full scholarship. He played for two years and was selected as captain and Most Valuable Player.

After graduation, he played for several teams in the Boston (Milwaukee) Braves system. An injury forced Carroll to leave professional baseball and return to Ohio. However, a team manager in Olean wanted Carroll to play for him, even though he knew about the severe eye injury. Carroll played two years with the Olean Oilers, working as news director at WHDL Radio in the offseason.

Carroll was president of the Olean Oilers from 1955 to 1957 and was especially proud of watching Paul Owens of Salamanca eventually become General Manager of the Philadelphia Phillies, after being hired in 1955 as the Olean Oilers' playing manager.
In 1952, he entered the investment business with Bonbright & Co., which later became Smith Barney, from which he retired in 2008 after 56 years.

Active in the community, he helped establish the Olean Little League and was a manager of a Little League team as well as a Babe Ruth team for many years, and has continued to financially support Little League through the years, including establishing an endowment for Olean Little League. One of his proudest accomplishments was helping to secure the large Forness Park area, which is the home to many ballfields for all age groups.

In 1957, Carroll was selected by the Olean Jaycees as their first Outstanding Young Man. He was president of the Olean Chamber of Commerce, the Olean Area Campfire Girls and the Olean YMCA. He also was the director of the National and New York State YMCA Councils, and was honored by the YMCA "Salute to Olean." In addition, he received the Chamber of Commerce LOUIE Award in 2001.

Carroll was president of the New York Miss America Pageant for eight years, and was especially proud when Miss New York (Tawny Goldin) became Miss America in 1976. He was also elected a board director of the National Pageant State Representatives. He was a judge at over 40 Miss America Pageants, including state pageants in Ohio, Kentucky, Washington State and West Virginia. He also judged at the National Miss Rodeo America Contest in Oklahoma City for two years.

Carroll was fortunate to be able to play golf with over 80 tour professionals at pro-am tournaments such as the Bob Hope Chrysler Classic for eight years, nine years at the Vegas Invitational, the Frank Sinatra Celebrity-Am and various LPGA and Senior PGA circuit events, enjoying partnering with golf legends like Phil Michelson, Jim Furyk, Lee Trevino, Payne Stewart, etc. The last year he played with the pros was at age 81, where he had a hole-in-one at the Vegas Invitational.

Because of his love for Olean, Carroll established a number of sizable permanent endowments in the community. These include Olean General Hospital, Olean YMCA, Genesis House, JCC Foundation, Olean Community Theatre, Pfeiffer Nature Center, Gift Tree, Community Care of Western NY, in addition to Olean Little League, Syracuse University Athletes, Miami University of Ohio, two endowments honoring his father's 50 years as school principal and high school baseball coach at Amelia, Ohio, plus a scholarship program for graduates of his high school at Batavia, Ohio.

In addition to his wife and two children, he is survived by five step-children, Thomas Graves of Olean, Anne (David) Bastine of Wayland, Barbara Brooks of Long Beach, Calif., Stephen (Connie) Graves of Las Vegas, Nev., and Patricia (Carl Utris) Graves of Port St. Lucie, Fla.; one sister, Dolores (Thomas) Stephens of Tucson, Ariz.; and several nieces and nephews.

In addition to his first wife, he was predeceased by a brother, Dale (Eleanor) Anstaett in 2004. At Carroll's request there will be no visitation or funeral service. He considered his many permanent charitable endowments to be his community legacy. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.

Memorials if desired may be made to the Carroll Anstaett Olean Little League Fund at the Olean Community Foundation, 301 N. Union St., Suite 203, Olean, N.Y. 14760; Olean General Hospital, 515 Main St., Olean; or the Olean YMCA, 1101 Wayne St., Olean.

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Published by Olean Times Herald on Feb. 2, 2018.

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Jo Ann Miller and Alan Hewitt

February 28, 2018

Dear Dolores,

From my Miss New York days, and the time we met at the airport in Buffalo, and all the special events we shared in Palm Springs together, I'll never forget the graciousness Carroll always showed to us. I know how special he was to you and how much you loved each other, but please remember that love never dies. You were soul mates and that bond of love lasts forever!

Blessings to you and your family!

In Gods love, Jo Ann Miller and Alan Hewitt

I always wanted to marry a man like Carroll - but Dolores, you got him first!

Judith Keithley (Graham)

February 23, 2018

Dearest Dolores - You and Carroll were the 2 most influential people in my young life as I competed at Miss NYS and then in Miss America. Carroll was a role model and mentor like no other. Brilliant, kind and gentle I can still hear his wonderful chuckle and good nature. He is (and was) a legacy. Those who knew him will embrace his grace throughout their lives. Bless him and YOU - his very beloved wife and companion.

Linda Carter

February 6, 2018

Dearest Dolores and family,
My heartfelt condolences to you all. I just heard about Carroll's passing and I can't find the words to express how truly sorry I am. Carroll was the absolute definition of a gentle and kind man. I am honored to have known him.

brenda hettrick

February 2, 2018

A wonderful tribute for a wonderful man. He certainly lived his life to the fullest and did so much for so many. My thoughts are with you all at this most difficult time.

Kris Coleman

February 2, 2018

Dear Dolores and family,
We met in Olean in 1974. He was intelligent, moral, conscientious and a true gentleman. He passed on his wisdom with a caring and gentle heart. Today I learned of all the things he did for his community and organizations. I'm even more impressed!
How he enriched my life! And yours Dolores. You always adored him and it showed. Much love to you all from afar. Xoxo

Pam Bennett

February 2, 2018

Although I never met him, In the pix with grampa Carrol and Danielle's babies, I saw the happiness and love in his eyes, That said everything. I'm truly sorry for the grieving you are experiencing

February 2, 2018

Sorry to hear of Carroll's passing. I have such fond memories of him when I worked in the Olean Morgan Stanley office. He always took the time to stop in my office to visit with me. He made me feel welcome and at home. He was a special man. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May his memories comfort you. Warmest regards, Kay Mutton

Nancy Clark

February 2, 2018

Dolores...So very Sorry to hear the passing of Carrol. He was a great man..

Dan Bradley

February 2, 2018

Wendy,
So sorry to read of your Dad's passing. He was an extraordinary man. My parents considered him a great friend and spoke of him often.

Beth Williams

February 2, 2018

Our thoughts are with you. When I think of Uncle Carroll, I think of a sporty TBird that he had just gotten....I think it was blue. I was quite impressed! And shares of Disney stock...I think he was trying to interest me in the market!

Ellen Freitag

February 2, 2018

Dear Wendy and Gary,
This is a lovely tribute to your father. I send my most heartfelt condolences to both of you and hope that your sweet memories help you through this time of mourning. He will live on through your good deeds and I am happy to have known your dad. Peace be with all of you. From my heart to yours, Ellen

Elizabeth n justin Chapman

February 2, 2018

To the family and dolores thank u for all u all have done. It means so much to the community and the memories he has made with everyone. Carroll was a god sent gift for our community and his legacy's will live on in our community. I am sorry for the loss of carroll but please knw he is still walking with u and all of us. He always told me he lived a good life and being his caretaker he always made me leave with great memories. To all of u love u all. Sincerelly elizabeth and justin chapman

Michelle Shim

February 2, 2018

What a beautiful eulogy for a man that was truly a pillar of our community and a beloved family man. My sincere condolences go out to Dolores and the entire family.

Irene and Dave Kahe

February 2, 2018

Dear Dolores and Family....our hearts are sad because of Carroll's passing. He was MR OLEAN and will be missed by many but his legacy will live on because of his generosity. Sending our love to you Dolores. Love Irene and Dave and Family

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