Darrell A. Taylor Sr.
Darrell A. Taylor Sr.
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Darrell Taylor Obituary
Sep 25, 1974 - Dec 26, 2011
Age 37. Omaha. Survived by wife, Tammy; father, Daryl Sheley; mother, Ruth Taylor; sons, Darrell Taylor Jr., Adrrell Taylor, Antrell Taylor, Andrell Taylor; brother, Willie Taylor; sister, Talycia Sandoz; grandparents, William and Helen Sheley of Columbia, MO; aunt, Annette Smith; uncles, Frank, Dorsey, and Reginald Taylor; niece, Kaviona Freeman; mother-in-law, Bobbie Davis; god brother, Charles Evans; special brothers, Dominique McGhee, Brian Smith; special sister, Krea Taylor.
VISITATION Friday 5-8pm at Braman Mortuary (72nd St. Chapel). FUNERAL SERVICE Saturday 11am at Grace Apostolic Church, 2216 Military Ave Omaha, NE 68108. Interment at Evergreen Cemetery. Visit www.bramanmortuary.com to leave a condolence
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This obituary was originally published in the Omaha World-Herald.
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Charles Evans
July 28, 2017
It's been years at this point and the pain has not faded. I miss you big bro. There's so much I've wanted to say but have no one to say it too since you've been gone. I will miss you for the rest of my life.
Nikita Davis
June 16, 2013
Happy Fathers Day! You were an amazing father who always made time for those that mattered most! RIP
Nikita Davis
May 21, 2013
It's been almost 17 months since you left us but at times it feels like it was just yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you; some days more than others. Andrell is always doing or saying something that reminds me of you. So many days I think to myself, "Bear is missing this, Bear is missing that!" I have to remind myself that though you are not here physically your spirits lingers in this family. You were with us at Andrell's 3rd and 4th birthday parties, you were there for his first day of Preschool. You're always there, watching over us! We love you and we miss you more than any words could ever explain. Rest easy and enjoy the view from up there in Heaven. Love Nikita and Andrell
Annette Smith
May 20, 2013
Dearest Nephew,A person never misses goodbye until the person is gone. I miss you with all of my heart and soul.
This is a lonely place without you.Rest in love until we meet again. Your only Aunt!
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Your Twin
May 17, 2013
i Miss you !
Briana Watson-Taylor
November 16, 2012
man , cousin .. i really miss you ! <3 i see you when i get there -- tell me pops i said waassup i miss him & i love him dearly : )
Cameron Taylor
November 13, 2012
Darrell, Man I'm sorry I found out so late. We have known each other for as long as I can remember. I remember how we would tell everyone we were cousins, cause we both shared the same last name "Taylor". I still remember when you would show up at my high school & tell the front office that we were cousins, & they would give you a pass to come visit me & we would rome the halls talking to our friends. I will miss you Man. You will always have a spot in my heart & mind, I never will forget you.
TAMMY TAYLOR YOUR WIFE
April 4, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say,
But first of all to let you know that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from Heaven, where I dwell with God above,
Where there are no tears or sadness, there is just eternal Love.
Please do not be unhappy, just because I'm out of sight,
Remember that I'm with you, every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me, and said, ” I welcome you”.
“It's good to have you back again.
You were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly as part of my big plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man”.
Then God gave me a list of things he wished for me to do.
And foremost on that list of mine, is to watch and care for you.
I will be beside you, every day of the week and year,
And when you're sad I'm standing there, to wipe away the tear.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth, and all those loving years,
Because you're only human, there's bound to be some tears.
One thing is for certain, though my life on Earth is over,
I am closer to you now than I ever was before.
And to my many friends, trust God knows what is best.
I am not far away from you, I'm just beyond the crest.
There are rocky roads ahead for you and many hills to climb,
Together we can do it, taking one day at a time.
It was my philosophy and please I'd like for you,
To give unto the world, so the world will give to you.
If you can help someone who's in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night, my day was not in vain.
And now I am contented that my life it was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
When you're walking down the street and I am on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind.
And when you feel a gentle breeze of wind upon your face,
That's me giving you a great big hug, or just a soft embrace.
When it's time for you to go from that body to be free,
Remember you are not going, you are coming home to me.
I will always love you, from that place way up above,
I will be in touch again soon.
P.S. God sends his love.
Mr. Samuel
March 30, 2012
U still the boss /5 star g big relo
Shanell Taylor
March 29, 2012
Bear.... kuzin Darrell who wanted his name to sound like mine so i would always tease you.just so I could hear you correct me that was our personal joke,one of many & the contagious chuckle of yours that anyone couldnt help to laugh when you did, goes without sayin..i still remember the birthday cake & all the memories . Miss You. Rest
Annette Smith
February 28, 2012
Dearest Nephew, you are in my thoughts everyday.I will help keep your legacy alive! My grandkids birthdays are not the same without you.I love you forever and a day.
Tammy Taylor
February 14, 2012
Happy Valentines babe, this is so crazy I love you
J. Yarbro
February 2, 2012
Brother, we miss your presence and your smile. We will make sure your seeds are cultivated in the love and truth you desired. Rest in Peace Darrell
Darrell Taylor Jr
February 1, 2012
dad I love you and miss you...you really were the best dad ever even though we had our times you always stayed there for me and if you were standing here now I would tell you I'm sorry ..I love you & thanks for everything you did for me ..Rest 4 Me !
natoshia porter
January 31, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Tameka Green
January 31, 2012
To my sister and my nephews, I know it is very hard for yall right now. You may think he is gone, but he is not. I look at my nephew's and all I can is him.He my be gone, but his spirit is in of yall. Bear, I am so sorry you had to leave this world. My sister and nephews are hurting so much without you. I know that you want the best for your kids and they will make you proud. Rest in Peace.
Your Wife
January 28, 2012
Well babe, this seems so unreal....your vigil we had for you last night was great never did I think you were ever gonna be gone out of our lives forever......we have so many memories of you to cherish.I Love you sooooo much as we were leaving Wrestling practice shortly after your murder Antrell looks up at The dark sky and says"Mom" are people stars,I had never thought about things like that and I said baby, they could be and his reply was.....ok one of tho stars is "my Dad" Rest easy now babe and please continue to Watch over us smooches & tears
Ruth Taylor
January 28, 2012
To my #1 son,your job down here on earth-well done servant.You did not die.You are a thousand winds that blow, the diamonds gift of snow.Of quiet birds,in circled flight,you are the soft stars that shine at night. God cares about every detail in my life.He collects every tear in a bottle.He numbers every hair on our head.He knows every hurt in my heart.The Lord knows all I'm going through. He loves me. He cares for me. He will make sure not one detail is overlooked in my life. God cares right down to the last detail.God loaned you to me for 37 years. My son, my baby, my gift, my present, my protector, my friend, my guide, my other half. Love, # 1 Mom
Annette Smith
January 28, 2012
My Dearest Nephew, words could never express this heartfelt emptiness.You were born a defeater!You came out like a bear, growling instead of crying.Your mom nicknamed you,SugarBear.You were a son to me a brother to my children and an Uncle to my grandchildren. Life here on Earth will never be the same without you.I am going to be there for your mom,wife, children and your siblings just like you expect me to be.I watched you grow from a boy to a man,now you are a legend!Precious and few are the moments I will always cherish that we
Ortrilla Johnson
January 26, 2012
God bless u auntie Tammy
Mary Green
January 26, 2012
Wow,I can't believe a month has gone by since your passing. But thank God you marked Adrrell because everytime we look at him we see you your little mini me. You are truly missed by all. Rest on Bear rest on and hope to see you there. My mansion is hopefully next to Hattie's
POLO
January 26, 2012
Andrell's 3rd Birthday
January 26, 2012
Kavionna & Uncle Bear I Love You
January 26, 2012
Rest in Peace DAD
January 26, 2012
we miss you
January 26, 2012
jermetta green
January 26, 2012
well i just dont know what to say bear i met you in 1993 'lol' that was a long time ago but at that time i knew you and my cousin tammy was going to be toghter for ever yall yall had three wonderful boys iam going too miss all of our talks that we use to have and the way you smile when you showing off your GOLDS.[lol] you will truly will be miss by many rest in peace cousin bear i know you up there with my mom and my baby and both of all is sitting around her getting all her love tell them i miss them too love you always metta
I Love and miss you Dad your LIL CHAMP
Antrell Taylor
January 26, 2012
Punkin
January 26, 2012
When I heard about the passing of my dear childhood friend Bear my heart melt for his family and friends because a Good Man has gone far to soon R.I.P my friend until I see U again
Tammy Taylor
January 26, 2012
I Love you
Tammy Taylor
January 26, 2012
To my husband,this has been the longest month of my life I can't explain the hurt I feel every day knowing that you will never come home to our family again. I want to Thank you for our handsome, smart sons. I remember like yesterday how proud you were and how much you bragged about having all sons and each time I was pregnant you knew they were boys. I truly love and appreciate all that you did to make our family what we are today our relationship had our ups and downs but through it all we had that different type of love for one another. As I'm typing this the tears I'm fighting so hard to stop from flowing I know your helping me to stay strong while your surrounded around God & Our "Guardian ANGELS" i know you will continue to help me become that strong person you always wanted me to be. I Love you so much and I know you will continue to watch over Your entire family, your wife
Antrell Taylor
January 26, 2012
Dad I Love you so much and I wish you was still here from antrell
Luconda Smith
January 25, 2012
Tammy my thoughts n prayers r wit u n your boys
Too many tears,,,,,,,,we miss you
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
Your CHAMP 2012 WINTER NATIONALS I LOVE YOU DAD
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
We miss you!!!!!& LOVE YOU MORE
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
REST IN PEACE..........
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
Your "CHAMP"
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
Your absence from us has left the biggest void in our lives....FAITH speaks for itself
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
I Love You Rest In Peace
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
Tulsa 2012 missing you
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
We miss you Babe!!!!!
Tammy Taylor
January 25, 2012
#1 Dad
January 25, 2012
Dawnisha Bullion
January 23, 2012
As I struggled with if I was going to Tulsa. I remembered how upset Bear was that J'dyn didn't make it to kick off. I remember plain as day when I answered the phone and Bear said why didn't you tell me why you weren't going. I felt like I was 7 and said I don't know. He told me to make sure that he made it in January and we did. As emotional as this trip was for everyone. I can truly say he would have been proud of the boys. They gave it there all and they fought to the end and the older boys were right there next to them just like he had always been. Tammy we love you and the boys we cried together this weekend and lord knows we laughed. In those hours when times get rough drop to your knees and ask god to help you through this. The kids and I are here for the long hall because he was there for us. We love you and the boys. Liberty here we come. We miss you coach.
Our #1 "GUARDIAN ANGEL"
Tammy Taylor
January 11, 2012
To my dear husband words can't explain how I'm feeling or how our sons are feeling, my mind takes me back as we were returning home from one of Antrells wrestling tournaments a couple of weeks ago I was reading a book titled "Is Heaven for real" you were asking ?'s about the story & I explained several parts going on & on from the little boys perspective of what Jesus looks like, you were very interested......now you know for yourself.......rest on babe WE LOVE & MISS YOU ~_~,
I Love You :-( Unbearable Pain
Tammy Taylor
January 9, 2012
We Love & Miss you Dad
Tammy Taylor
January 9, 2012
Missing you
Tammy Taylor
January 9, 2012
Daniel Mercado
January 7, 2012
The Taylor family is in our prayers my friend we will never forget you. You where a great man, god took you from us too early... We will miss you my friend.
From Daniel j.r & Fam
Stephanie Ross
January 5, 2012
To Tammy, Ms. Ruth and the Taylor family. I will look unto the hills from where my help comes from, all my help comes from the Lord. My condolences to you all in your time of sorrow. I know God will be your comfort in the time of need. I will continue to pray that God keeps you wrapped in his loving arms now and forever. Knowing that he is just a prayer away. These coming days will be hard and God will be there to see you through. You have family and friends that you can call on if and when you need us. Please remember we are here for you too. May God continue to Bless and keep you all. Love Always & Forever.
Denise Hoskins
January 5, 2012
Tammy my heart goes out to you and those beautiful boys. It just doesn't seem real yet. I will continue to pray for strength for you daily. God is good! He is the only one that will help you. You are a strong woman. Confess that out loud. Affirm it. Your boys will follow your lead and will continue on a positive path that Darrell would be proud of. I just know it. Love you all.
Mary Costello
January 5, 2012
To the entire Taylor family, our condolences. Darrell was a special man whom my son seemed drawn to. I will always remember how accepting and loving he was with Ethan. His pride in Antrell was always obvious. I will miss his smile, but I saw today at school that it lives on in Antrell. Our prayers for you.
January 4, 2012
Bear,,,,,,May God keep your wife busy with the Joys of her heart.....and May the Lord Jesus Christ hold you in his bosom as you experience everlasting life.....Heaven,,,,(Chinn)
Camille Mitchell
January 3, 2012
Tammy and Bear I have looked up to you two since I was seven years old both of you were there for me whether it was coming to the pancake man and book fairs or taken me to have my first meal at Fazolis these are memories that I will cherish forever. I just want to tell ya'll that I LOVE YOU and I am so sorry that the family had to go through this horrible tragedy again but I know that he is up there smiling down on the fam!! Love Ya'LL
Dana Lampkin
January 3, 2012
Ruthie, It has been such a long long time since we have been in touch with one another. I am crying as I write this. Darling I am so very sorry about the loss of Bear. I remember you and I spending New Years Eve together at The South Seven, I still have the picture. I last saw Bear in 2010, he came by my house on Grand I was surprized and very happy. I remember him and Tyree as little boys. May God wrap his arms around you darling and comfort you. I understand the pain and agony of losing a child, (you know i lost Nia), God and time heals. Baby you are in my heart and prayers Ruthie. Honey please call me (402)-934-6597
rachel harwood
January 3, 2012
to the taylor family, so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person. i've known the family since we was little kids playing in the streets of saratoga and browne.my condolences to the family
Cara Mitchell
January 3, 2012
My family,
I know that there are not enough words in the dictionary that will make it better. I want you all to know that I love you all and you all are in my prayers. My phone is always on and my door is always open for the family. Bear will be greatly missed by everyone but he will always be with us.
sharee bryson
January 2, 2012
My cousins Tammy, Antonio, Adrell & Antrell, I know how much you all loved Bear. Believe me he loved you all just the same. These next days, weeks & months even years are going to be difficult. However, Tammy you are a WOMAN of GOD and you know the POWER of his STRENGTH. Your faith will help you & the boys move forward. You will never get over the loss of Bear, however his legacy will live on thru his boys. Adrell & Antrell, continue to excell in athletics as that is one thing you all shared with your father. He enjoyed watching you all wrestle & play football. He loved bragging about how good you were even more!!
Love you all,
Sharee Bryson
Tammy Taylor
January 1, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Betty Sullivan
January 1, 2012
Tammy, I heard and read about the devastating loss of your husband. Words cannot express the true sorry that i feel for you and your sons. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. I pray that God strengthens you and give you peace in the days ahead. Cousin Betty "Jo Jo "Sullivan (McKinney),Jackson, MS
monica blacksona-robinson
January 1, 2012
My sister tammy & family I jus want u to know that I love u all very much, & I pray that God will comfort u as only he can at this difficult time in ur life, God knows wats best for all of our lives and he will always be there through all things, remember that I luv u & please don't hesitate to call me anytime day or night:) luv u sis & nephews always.
t
December 31, 2011
Rip God bless
Jeff Ziegler
December 31, 2011
I'm so sorry for the loss of this great man. I knew him through wrestling, and have spent many weekends sharing gym space with Darrell and the lil Taylor boys. I know he is in a better place then here, and may he rest in peace.
Francine Williams
December 31, 2011
Tammy,
My long time dear friend. I am so so so sorry for your loss and your family's loss. Keep your head high and know that he is watching over you and the kids as well as other family. You will always be a very dear friend to me and may god be you to help you through these trying times to see you through.
Sincerely,
Francine Williams
Faye Mountain
December 31, 2011
To the Family of Darrell A. Taylor known to me as "Bear" My family & I are very sorry for your loss. He was a good friend of ours. Charles Evans is my brother in law and he introduced Bear to our family. He was a good man and we will be praying for you and your family. God bless his children and each and everyone of you. Respectfully submitted Faye Mountain & Family
tammy taylor
December 31, 2011
to my husband, i'm speechless i can put enough words together to say that i am missing you. as tears flow from eyes my heart beats differently i know in my heart that you will continue to watch out for our family. i'm ending now babe i know you will still be at every wrestling tournament with adrrell & antrell cheering them on as well as darrell jr about all that you expected from him. i will stay strong through GOD & you i love & miss you so much!
rest on babe ~_~, I KNOW FOR A FACT YOU ARE IN HEAVEN
Jennifer Wall
December 30, 2011
Tammy &Ms.Ruth I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AN WORDS CAN'T. EXSPRESS. YOUR PAIN JUST NO I AM NOT PRESENT IN FELSH BUT PRESENT IN PRAYER AN MY FAMILY WILL MISS & LOVE YOUR SON AN HUSBAND AND BROTHER A GREAT DEAL, GOD BLESS &BE WITH U IN YOUR TIME OF NEED,ALWAYS WILL LOVE MY BROTHER BEAR!
Jennifer Wall
December 30, 2011
Tammy &Ms.Ruth I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AN WORDS CAN'T. EXSPRESS. YOUR PAIN JUST NO I AM NOT PRESENT IN FELSH BUT PRESENT IN PRAYER AN MY FAMILY WILL MISS & LOVE YOUR SON AN HUSBAND AND BROTHER A GREAT DEAL, GOD BLESS &BE WITH U IN YOUR TIME OF NEED,ALWAYS WILL LOVE MY BROTHER BEAR!
Diane Smith
December 30, 2011
We the Smith family of Columbia, MO send our condolences to the Taylor family. Know that God continues to embrace you in your loss of a great man, a husband, father, brother, son, and friend...We love you and if there is ANYTHING that we can do for you in your time of need know that we are here for you. Kathryn, Diane, Brian, Jan, Carm, Sam, Shawn and Shannon and many more. The Smith's
Nicole Jackson
December 30, 2011
To the Taylor family: Sorry for your loss, may you find comfort in the Lord during this difficult time.
Rose Bernstein
December 30, 2011
Remember your Dad's spirit will always be a part of you. Along with your Mom, your Dad created a dynamic and loving family.
He will always be with you and your mom.
Trust. We are there for you if you ever need us.
Carmelita Fitch
December 30, 2011
Tammy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family during this difficult time. Love, CC
December 30, 2011
There are not adequate words for a time like this. Please know, though, that I wish you comfort and peace, as time allows. Darrell Jr and Adrrell, please call on me for anything. My condolences to your family.
Mrs. Becky Terrell
The Walker Family
December 30, 2011
In the mist of your sorrow and pain know that this man gave his life to God. He was serious about prayer and praying with his sons. He came to church to learn Gods word and in the mist he was transforming his life. He loves his sons he will be missed in the sanctuary. “ Encourage Yourself in the lord”
The Walkers
Tamika warren
December 30, 2011
God only takes the best. Taylor family you are in ny prayer. It is now that god will carry Darrel.
Sametrice Blackburn
December 30, 2011
Ms Taylor & Family,
I wish I had words to comfort and sustain you in your grief, but I know there are none that will take away any pain you are feeling now. My heart aches for you,
Although words seem futile now in the midst of your sorrow, they are all I have to give you. Please accept these written words as warm hugs.
May God cover you with peace, healing and comfort during this time.
Isis Winston,Percy
December 30, 2011
To, Tammy,& Ms. Ruth Im soooo sorry for your loss. From the Winston family we would like to send our warmest sympathy to your family
The Brewer Family
December 30, 2011
Tammy,
You and your boys are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray that GOD gives you the strength you need to get thru these minutes, days, weeks, months and years without your husband. Lean on GOD, He has your back! We love you
December 30, 2011
O my brother bear, I cannot believe you are gone. You have always looked out for me and I know you will still do that. I know I am in NC now but I will make sure momma and tally are good. I miss you already. Mashanda Charlotte, nc
Y Jones
December 30, 2011
Tammy and Taylor Family
May God~ Hold your Hand and lift your Hearts~ May you find comfort in knowing that he is in a better place. It brings~ Tears to my eyes~ to see one of my Childhood Friends leave this world so young.~ Just know that God See's all and (He is the One) that will bring things to the light. (Bear) touched a lot of people lives.~~We had the Best Bus rides to school~Playing around in the hallways~ He just had that Happy & Playful personality all the time,~~and then ~~He threw the Best "House Party's" 20 yrs old~~~~~~ (But that just goes to show back then people had Love for one another)When he became a father he Realize it was time to grow up and change gears from (Being A Boy to a Man)I seen the Family man side~ He was all about raising his Children~~ I also seen him with his wife (Tammy) you are a strong woman. Just know that (Bear) truly loved you and God is going to comfort you in these days, months, years to come. Always hold on to what you know best and that is Prayer!!!
~~Mr. Darrell (aka) Bear~~ your going to be Truly missed~~~My Friend~~May you Rest in Peace~~~
Saunsoci
December 30, 2011
Samarea will always love you and remember uncle bear and amigo appreciates you as well. I love you and my heart goes out to .Ms. Taylor and Tammy and the boys. Love you all.
C Jones
December 29, 2011
U was a true friend. Always been such a sweetheart always willin 2 give others ur last. U will be miss always
December 29, 2011
Keep Your Fork;
the Best is yet to Come
There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things 'in order,' she contacted her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes.
She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in.
Everything was in order and the Pastor was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her.
'There's one more thing,' she said excitedly.
'What's that?' came the Pastor's reply.
'This is very important,' the young woman continued. 'I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand.'
The Pastor stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say.
That surprises you, doesn't it?' the young woman asked.
'Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request,' said the Pastor.
The young woman explained. 'My grandmother once told me this story, and from that time on I have always tried to pass along its message to those I love and those who are in need of encouragement. In all my years of attending socials and dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance!'
So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to tell them: 'Keep your fork ...the best is yet to come.'
The Pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many people twice her age, with twice as much experience and knowledge.
She KNEW that something better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the young woman's casket and they saw the cloak she was wearing and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over, the Pastor heard the question, 'What's with the fork?' And over and over he smiled.
During his message, the Pastor told the people of the conversation he had with the young woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. He told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.
He was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork let it remind you, ever so gently, that the best is yet to come. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed Cherish the time you have, and the memories you share ... being friends with someone is not an opportunity but a sweet responsibility. YOU WILL BE MISSED MY FRIEND
Howard Family
December 29, 2011
My heart goes out to the family & friends of Mr. Taylor. My family & I will keep his loved ones in our prayers. You guys lost a loved one on earth, but have gained an angel. Saying don't cry is easier said than done, but he is truly under Gods wings now. Again you guys are in my prayers.
kelley Hollingsworth & family
December 29, 2011
please know that our prayers are with your family, so, so sorry for your loss. bear was like a brother to me, we grew up playing together as kids. he will be greatly missed!
Tiffany Jones
December 29, 2011
The good are dieing young, and the Lord has called on another soldier. I have nothing but, good memories of our friend Bear. "Loved, to hang at the house parties he through 20years". Bear always had positive words, and smiles to give. My prayers go out to his wife, kids and family as a whole. He will be missed, but never forgotten. T.T
Aysa
December 29, 2011
Bear was a good person with a heart of gold. One day 37 years ago an Angel opened the book of life and wrote Bear's birth,then she whispered as she closed the book. Too Beautiful for earth.
With my deepest sympathy to the family of Bear! May GOD bless you all
RONNIE HOUSTON JR
December 29, 2011
To the FAMILY OF DARRELL TAYLOR SR .MY FAMILY AND I WOULD LIKE TO SEND OUR CONDOLENCES ON THE LOSS OF YOUR WONDERFUL SON (THE BEAR) YOUR LOSS IS EVERYONES LOSS WE LOVE YOU ALL AND WILL BE PRAYING FOR THE FAMILY ,,RUTH YOUR BIG BEAR WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR ANGEL GOD WILL COMFORT AND CARE,AND RAP HIS ARMS AROUND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY ,,SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS BEAR WILL BE TRUELY MISS BY ALOT OF PEOPLE,,GOD BLESS AND GOD KEEP YOUR FAMILY,,,FROM RONNIE A HOUSTON JR FAMILY....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nelson Family
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor family our thoughts prayers are with you in your time of terrible loss. Bear was a man you could be proud of. Just know that he is in a better place watching over each of you...
Ellen Sexton
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor family,
Bear will be missed by many. I will forever remember his smile , his dedication to his mother and sons, his determination to find his spiritual side, and the generousity of his heart. I wish you God's peace in this trying time.
Sincerely,
Ellen Sexton
Jennifer Ross
December 29, 2011
Condolenses to the taylor family. Bear was like a brother to me. I will miss his warm smile and positive presence. Love from Jennifer Ross and Parks family.
Paulette Suggs
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor Family, Ruth my prayers are with you for the loss of your son may god be with you in your time of need. Paulette Suggs
Mariza Silva
December 29, 2011
To my extended family I am sincerely sorry for the loss we are all dealing with (family and friends). Bear was only in my life for about 4 yrs but very much touched it and my 2 sons. Dauvy will always remember you calling him "Big Head" and I'll always remember that grin and chuckle. You were a very kind and overly generous man and will never be forgotten. You truly made your mark and touched lives! You and my fiance had a great brotherly type bond that he will cherish forever and we will celebrate your life. I know you are looking down on all of us now and we all miss you and love you dearly! Love Mariza & McGhee Family
Keith & Lisa Mills
December 29, 2011
Prayers and condolences from the Mills Family to the Darrell Taylor Sr. Family! May God bless, strengthen & comfort you as you mourn the loss of Bro. Darrell.
Lori Jasa
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor Family,
On behalf of the students and staff of Kiewit Middle School, our deepest condolences to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry & Vickie Young
December 29, 2011
Our hearts are heavy in knowing that the family is dealing with such pain and sorrow. Bear will be missed beyond measure...he was a little brother to us and we loved him with all of our hearts. We send our love to the Taylor Family!
Vanessa Warren
December 29, 2011
That vivacious smile will be missed. Words can not remove the pain you all must feel but the Lord is with you and He will see you all through this time of bereavement. Cherish the memories you have of him and know that Bear is looking down on you all.
Pastor T L & Gwen Brewer
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor family, May faith be your guide through this time of grieving.May it be the source of your strength and the light of each tomorrow.With Sympathy.Pastor T L & Gwen Brewer
The Smith Family
December 29, 2011
To the Taylor Family,
I just want to send you my condolences. I know how you fill, & what your going through. But keep in mind "GOD" is good all the time, & he will see the family through this bad situation.Just hold on 2 "GOD" unchanging hands. "GOD" has prepared a special place for your love one. May "GOD keep the family together, and strong throught this journey "DARRELL" made it to the otherside. He's in "GOD'S" hands now.
I Have a Place in Heaven
I have a place in heaven
So Please don't sing sad songs for me, Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears.
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with "GOD" is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
MAY "GOD" be bye the family side @ all times.
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