Thomas J. Calogero

1958 - 2012

ONEIDA -- Thomas J. Calogero, 54, of Oneida, N.Y. passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at SUNY Health Science Center, Syracuse, N.Y.
Tom was born April 29, 1958 in Utica, N.Y., the son of Joseph and Regina Clare (Waterman) Calogero. He was a graduate of Westmoreland Central High School and received a Bachelor of Arts degree in economics from Manhattan College. Tom was vice president and principal of Allied American Abstract Corporation.
He had a hungry imagination as a boy; he read everything he could get his hands on including: Edgar Allan Poe, Jules Verne and H. G. Wells. Later in life he enjoyed authors such as Thomas Wolfe, Gayle Lynds, Ken Follett and Laura Hillenbrand, among others. His life and values were formed by this hunger and scholarly pursuit. He travelled extensively each night when reading. He often remarked how he visited many exotic locations and was able to explore new ideas when he read.
His approach to life was formed by the interesting places he visited in his reading, and his spirit and soul were shaped by the value and importance he had for family.
In his personal and professional life, he was dedicated, devoted, respectful, compassionate and most of all generous of his time and talents. Never would a request by family or friend go unanswered or ignored; he was always optimistic, steady and strong. He knew that there was nothing that could not be overcome.
He embodied a big heart, a sharp mind and a gentle soul. He was inspiring in his determination, resolve and energy; he was always a warm, caring, patient and nurturing son, brother, uncle and friend. We are all grateful for the generous and unwavering support he always provided through many happy times and through occasional hardship.
Surviving are three brothers and sisters-in-law, Joseph and Mary Calogero of Clifton Park, N.Y., Michael and Christine Calogero of Westmoreland, N.Y., Peter and Mary Calogero of Sherrill, N.Y.; two sisters and a brother-in-law, Helen and Timothy Newman of New Hartford, N.Y., and Mary Beth Calogero of Liverpool, N.Y.; nieces and nephews, Christine Newman Burns and husband Kevin, Rachel Calogero, Mary Kay Calogero, Melissa Newman, Christopher and wife Katie Calogero, Michael Calogero, Matthew Calogero, goddaughter Clare Calogero and great-nephew Colin Burns. Tom also leaves numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and many special friends. Tom was a proud Jasper and cherished his inclusion and friendship with the "fellows."
Relatives and friends are invited and may call Tuesday from 4-7 p.m. at Nunn & McGrath Funeral Directors, 470 French Road, Utica, N.Y. Funeral services will be Wednesday at 11 a.m. from the Church of the Annunciation, Clark Mills, N.Y. where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment will be in St. Patrick's Cemetery, Oneida, N.Y.
Please consider a donation to the family for a scholarship fund in Tom's name at Manhattan College or The Westmoreland Children's Reading Program at the Pool, PO Box 237, Westmoreland, NY 13490. Envelopes for both will be available at the funeral home.
Messages of sympathy at: www.nunnandmcgrath.com.