John Dourley

John Dourley obituary, OTTAWA, ON

John Dourley

John Dourley Obituary

Published by Ottawa Citizen on Jun. 30, 2018.
DOURLEY, OMI, Fr. John Patrick Peacefully at home at the Springhurst OMI Residence, on June 22, 2018 at the age of 82. He was predeceased by his parents Nellie (Nee Brown) and John Patrick "Jack" Dourley. Born in Venosta, Quebec, John was a resident of Ottawa all his life. He will be fondly missed by his cousins Francis Morris, Tommy Morris, Mary Morris, Kevin Morris, Donald Morris, Lawrence Morris and Keith Morris, members of his OMI religious community and many colleagues and friends. After a year at St. Theresa's Novitiate, Arnprior John made his first profession as a Missionary Oblate of Mary Immaculate in 1958. He made his perpetual vows in September 1961 and was ordained to the ministerial priesthood in June 1964. His lifelong teaching career began at St. Patrick's College in 1965 and ended at Carleton University in 2001. John held Licentiates in Philosophy and Theology, from St. Paul University in Ottawa, as well as a Masters in Theology from Ottawa U and an M.A from St. Michael College, University of Toronto. He obtained his PhD in Theology from Fordham University, NY in 1971. In 1980 John became a Jungian Analyst having earned a diploma in Analytical Psychology from the C.G. Jung Institute in Zürich. John, an esteemed scholar, brilliant thinker, theologian and author, wrote extensively (13 books) on Jung and religion; his most recent book: "Jung and his Mystics". John made presentations to the International Association for Analytical Psychology in Barcelona 2004, Cape Town 2007, Montreal 2010, and Copenhagen 2013. John had a private practice in Ottawa as a Jungian analyst up until his death. He was one of the founding analysts of the first training program for Jungian analysts in Canada. On a more personal level, John enjoyed good conversations and meals with friends and colleagues especially his fellow Oblates. He enjoyed skiing, skating and fishing until health challenges made it impossible. Prayer service at St. Joseph's Church, Wilbrod Ave, on Wednesday at 7:30 p.m. Mass of the Resurrection at St. Joseph's Church Thursday 11 a.m. Burial to follow at St. Theresa's Cemetery, Arnprior. In lieu of flowers, for those who wish to honour John with a memorial tribute, please consider a donation to: Galilee Retreat Centre, 398 John Street N., Arnprior, ON K7S 2P6. https://www.arbormemorial.ca/en/kelly-somerset

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Ralph Moxness

April 17, 2019

We have just learned of John having passed away. We had lovely dinners with him at our home in the Glebe as he was our tenant in the home we purchased where he had lived for 14 years. A wonderful enjoyable dinner guest and friend who could speak knowledgeable on so many topics. He had love of sports and wonderfully great humour which we will miss. God bless. Ralph & Cindy Moxness

Sande Ramage

July 6, 2018

Thank you John for seven intense months of weekly analysis. Profound insights, hard work, humour, struggle, deepening imaginative practice and such respect.

And thanks for your razor sharp scholarship, brilliant writing and superb one liners that could bring uncomfortable but revealing truth and light in an instant.

I miss Friday morning enormously but know you have changed everything for the better. Travel safe into The Great Mother.

Peter Tobin

July 6, 2018

John's love of music was wide-ranging, from that of the NAC Orchestra to favorites like the Wabash Cannonball and the Orange Blossom Special.
When seven of us gathered for supper, discussions/arguments would inevitably
ensue. Religion, politics, world views were the usual topics. While most were serious and balanced they sometimes morphed into 'argument as entertainment' with John as the conductor or 'argument as sport'. In the latter, although out-numbered six to one, John always came out on top.

John Myles

July 5, 2018

Thank you for the new eyes you gave us for seeing God's creation John.

Laura London

July 3, 2018

We thank Father Dourley for being part of Speaking of Jung. His cooperation and kindness was greatly appreciated. May he rest in peace.

July 2, 2018

Millie Schafer

July 2, 2018

Thank you, John, for the earthy memories that will be cherished forever! No doubt you are now living with the Divine - and can now experience this reality without further exploration and discussion. Enjoy your new life!

Bob Flynn

July 1, 2018

John was a remarkable man, a rare combination of intellectual depth, incomparable sense of humour, and knowledge of professional sports. He was a credit to the Oblates and to the Church. RIP.

June 30, 2018

We have known John since teen-age years and
have always kept in touch, especially on our
birthdays. Sad to know he is gone and we
now look forward to greeting each other in
heaven. Pat & Lorraine (Bonner) Coyle
Langley, BC..

Rod Ralph

June 30, 2018

As a friend said when I told him the news of John's passing, it was a privilege to have know him. He made a great contribution. I will miss our annual Golden Lake Theologicals and Sens and Jays bashing. RIP.

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