Oliver Boldizar

Oliver Boldizar obituary

Oliver Boldizar

Oliver Boldizar Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 17 to Dec. 19, 2015.
Oliver Boldizar, November 12, 1977 - November 11, 2015.

Oliver passed away in Santiniketan, India, at 11:11 AM on 11-11-15 from complications resulting from living life his own damn way. He lived about as far from the mainstream as it's possible to go, free from the bonds of 21st century self-repression, a man from a different age and time. At 38, he died too young, but he spent more than half of that travelling and lived far more than double that in intensity, as his liver attested during the autopsy. He didn't drink alcohol, but he did experiment with various forms of biohacking in his search for knowledge and immortality.

He had no patience for organized structures of any sort, including school, but would have no problem doing 200,000 prostrations to get to the next stage in some Tantric teaching. He gave himself the equivalent of a PhD in several subjects, including ancient Tibetan texts, chemistry and eastern religions. He spoke English, Slovak, German, French, Spanish, Tibetan, Bengali, Hindi, Pali and possibly other languages he learned while living in caves, meditating for months at a time while villagers in India, Nepal, Brazil, Uruguay, Peru, Ecuador, California, or any of the other odd places he lived, brought him one bowl of rice a day.

He had a beautiful mind and generous soul, and was loved as a son, brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, friend, but he would come back and haunt all of us if we gave him a mainstream funeral. In his honour, we have decided not to hold a standard memorial ceremony. Instead, we will plant him illegally under a tree in the Spring, so he can laugh at the Man one last time and his body can reincarnate along with his soul.

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Jeanine sturm

August 3, 2023

Thank you, so much, for what you gave and shared with me. I will never forget you and had planned on seeing you again in this life. I'm sad that we won't meet again in this corporeal form. May we meet again somewhere, somehow. Goodbye, Friend.

Anonymous

August 2, 2023

My condolences to Olivers family and friends. I dont know any of you not even Oliver. Jyst stumbled across this.Oliver seems to of had a pretty wild and fun life following his dream. Qhat a great friend writing this obituary from the heart his way

Michael McLaughlin

January 9, 2016

He was a gem, with many facets. I had the pleasure of sitting with him in both Junction City and Tres Coroas, and for all his brilliant ability with languages, I recall him as a quiet person. As a fellow Buddhist, that quality is truly an inspiration. He translated a beautiful prayer from Tibetan which has been on my refrigerator for over ten years now. He will be missed.

Tamra

January 7, 2016

I remember sitting with Oliver during meditation practice at a northern California retreat center.

Sending peace and love to Oliver and his family ... always.

dwight chapman

January 6, 2016

I spent time with Oliver at the Buddhist center in northern California. Drove him down to the airport for an international flight at one point. I found him to be such a lovely, gentle, kind, and somewhat shy individual, but with a really big and warm heart. He and I had great conversations on deep subjects, and I always remember the twinkle in his eye while engaging in debate as he so loved to do. The place we lived was a structured Buddhist center, and I had no idea at the time that he fought the organized Buddhist framework. He would be happy to know that the lama that he studied under at the time fought that as well, and finally left. But it was a wonderful place to be and I remember him smiling a lot and working hard to help forward the vision. Many of those of us who lived there at the time really felt that it was a particularly charmed time and were really thankful for the time spent there. I know Oliver felt the same way. I did several retreats with him during that time. He was one of the individuals I would have loved to reconnected with. I am really sad that he has left all of us here. But am beyond certain that he has moved on to a place where he can continue to grow. Best wishes on your next journey Oliver. You will be missed here.

January 5, 2016

Oliver was very generous to me many years ago. Prayers for an auspicious rebirth!

Clarita Maia

January 5, 2016

Great Oliver....one of a kind! OM TARE TAM SOHA!

January 5, 2016

Prayers for a swift rebirth and an auspicious life of great dharma activity.

John and Pema Swearingen

January 4, 2016

Oliver spent a few months in silent, solitary retreat at our place in about 2004. May he rest in peace. We send our condolences to his family.

January 4, 2016

I didn't know you Oliver but thank you for your ardent quest for meaning. I hope you will be an inspiration to many.

Jehad Gebara

December 23, 2015

My friend throughout elementary, junior, and high school. He was an amazing friend. There are so many questions, I wish I could ask him. My deepest condolences go out to the Boldizar family. You will forever be missed. I will cherish the memories I have of you. Rest In Peace Oli.

Carla Amaral

December 23, 2015

Oliver rest in Peace

Carla Amaral

December 23, 2015

My deepest condolences to the Boldizar family for your great loss. May God bring you much comfort during this very difficult time. Oliver was indeed a very special person.

Marc Seguin

December 23, 2015

Most sincere condolences to Boldizar family. Oliver was an incredible person. Most people who don't understand his way, may say he lived outside the box...but really....did he? I think not. Peace and love to his family.

Jane Steblyk

December 22, 2015

Sincere condolences to the Boldizar family.
Oliver is undoubtedly on to his next adventure.

John Young

December 22, 2015

To Paul and all of the Boldizar Family.
I would like to offer my deepest sympathies for the loss of your cherished son. May he rest in eternal peace.

Cynthia Tannis

December 22, 2015

Please accept my sincere condolences.

Debbie Boucher

December 21, 2015

I am heartbroken for your loss of Oliver. He lived a life that I cannot begin to comprehend. It is remarkable that his story has touched the minds and hearts of so many. Perhaps it is because we all wish to search for something more, but fail to act. His mastery of languages, intelligence and spirituality made him unique and he truly lived on his own terms. I know he will be held forever in your hearts. My sincere condolences to each of you.

Ottawa Citizen

December 21, 2015

Blair Crawford at the Ottawa Citizen brings us this story: The solitary death of Oliver Boldizar: An unsettled genius's search for meaning http://ow.ly/WcenU

Paul McKeague

December 21, 2015

My condolences to the family of Oliver. Thank you for sharing him with us through this marvellous obituary. I read it with gladness, grateful to know that this man was on this planet.

December 21, 2015

"My sincere condolences, you will be always part of this earth, you have taught us that we are not just body we are also spirit."
With love Grace Cherie
Namaste (Toronto, ON)

Stella K.

December 21, 2015

My condolences to your family, Oliver Boldizar and happy travels home. My son is also born the same year. <3

Stephan Klovan

December 20, 2015

Very sad news, however this is THE most amazing obituary I think that I've ever read.......a true testimonial to Oliver's VERY unique life! My deepest condolences to his family and close friends.

Judith Haggety

December 19, 2015

My sincere condolences to the family of Oliver. What a splendid and extraordinary life he led. And what a brilliant obituary. His energy is now here, there and everywhere.
I don't know Oliver or his family. A cousin copied the obit to my FB. Still....I am thrilled for the life he dared live.

rwbs

December 19, 2015

"The plain fact is that the planet doesn't need more successful people. But it does desperately need more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers, and lovers of every kind. It needs people who live well in their places. It needs people of moral courage willing to join the fight to make the world habitable and humane. And these qualities have little to do with success as we have defined it"
Rest in Peace, Oliver - you surely embodied the wish of David Orr. Namaste.

Sona & Martin

December 19, 2015

Wow, what a beautiful obituary, says alot about Oliver's mind ans soul. He lived fuller life then most people will ever live. Oliver continue your remarkable journey. Rest in peace

Robin Swallow

December 19, 2015

The planet does desperately need more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers, and lovers of every kind. It needs people who live well in their places. It needs people of moral courage willing to join the fight to make the world habitable and humane. David Orr
Namaste Oliver WELL DONE RWBS & CC

Kae Schade

December 19, 2015

What a remarkable young man and a wise old soul you were; I just wish I had known you. My prayers for your family with their beautiful memories of you. Namaste Oliver

Kharmin

December 19, 2015

I didn't know you in this Lifetime, Oli, but the people who did, clearly love you! Keep on learning and living "to the fullest", wherever your existence takes you next!
Bright Blessings and {{{Zen Hugs}}} to all who will miss your physical presence on this plane.

Annonymous

December 19, 2015

Now he lives without earths boundaries too, finally at peace in the universe. An amazing young man!

Karen

December 18, 2015

My condolences to the Boldizar family. Oli was truly one of a kind. May he rest in peace.

michaela

December 18, 2015

beautiful person nech sa uz nikdy nenarodis nech dosiahnes ciel

December 18, 2015

What an inspiration!

December 18, 2015

What an incredible life, an incredible legacy and an incredible family who allowed this young man to carve his own path in life. He may not have been the typical son, brother, uncle, cousin, friend or the one you had envisioned as an adult with a firm direction in life, but no doubt he will be remembered by many for years to come as a rare gem, one of a kind who lived his life on his terms. God bless him and his family. Maybe he rest in peace looking down on the world.


~ anonymous

December 18, 2015

Oliver, I haven't met you and for that reason I'm sorry. Your quest for life continues at another level, you lived you truly did. Be blessed with Love and Eternal Light. Jamilah (Dubai UAE)

JG

December 18, 2015

Rest in Peace Oliver. May you find peace and tranquility. Condolences to Oliver's friends and family.

anonymous

December 18, 2015

I do not know this young man named Oliver but I see his family is very proud of him of his life as he lived it. If we ever so brave and adventurous.

Sherrie

December 18, 2015

WOW, what an awesome obituary. Wish I had known him. Wish I could be there for your illegal burial :D RIP you wonderful wonderer :D

Judith Tennant

December 17, 2015

Surely Oliver has reincarnated to the next level and we can expect more wisdom and compassion to unfold in our world in the years to come. Namaste Oliver

Anon Ymous

December 17, 2015

OMG This is the best darn obituary I ever read. Seemed he had an interesting life, more than I can ever imagine, REST IN PEACE Oliver :-) I wish I could be there for the illegal burial...........

December 17, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Patricia Miller

December 17, 2015

Oh Oliver I wish I knew ye. I hope my obituary can be half as interesting. May you come back in a higher realm.

Chantal M.

December 17, 2015

The only sadness is that I only heard of you now! Rest well,

Phyllis Kirby

December 17, 2015

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. A life well lived. Wishing you many more journeys Oliver.

Karen Briggs

December 17, 2015

My sister only just informed me of Oliver's passing. Seems the style of this obituary has gained much attention on Facebook. I only new Oliver as a child, but my memories of him are ones of warmth and love. He was a sweetheart. Your life sounds like an amazing , beautiful, spiritual adventure Oli. Blessings to you.

A friend

December 17, 2015

Everyone has his or her own way of learning things. His way isn't the same as mine, nor mine as his. But we're both in search of our destinies, and I respect him for that.
Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

Heather Desormeaux

December 17, 2015

Godspeed Oliver. Wish our paths had crossed. May your family find comfort in their memories. Sleep well.

Yossi Amor

December 17, 2015

May you rest in peace Oliver.

Jean Boulay

December 17, 2015

Wow. I didn't know Oliver but wish I did. And good for you for the excellent write up and for ensuring that he is buried in a manner becoming his beliefs.

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