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TIMOTHY BLAKE ROURKE
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TIMOTHY ROURKE Obituary
With family by his side, Tim was called into the presence of his Lord, on Monday, January 21, 2013. At age 46, his 3 year struggle with sarcoma came to a peaceful end. The loving husband of Leigh-Anne (Carmichael), cherished father of sons Brendan and Taylor of Abbotsford BC, much loved son of Marilyn and Edward Rourke of Ottawa, dear brother of Pamela Hogg (Stephen) of Calgary and Jeffrey (Kari) of Boston. He will also be sadly missed by many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
Born in Ottawa, Tim graduated from Sir Robert Borden High School (Nepean, ON), Trinity Western University (Langley, BC), Houghton College (Houghton, NY) and Western Washington University (Bellingham, WA), all leading to a Masters Degree in Education. He served as principal of Ocean Cliff Elementary School (Surrey, BC). Tim was passionate about children, and believed a quality education included activity, fun, and respect of others. He loved reading, sports, technology and outdoor life. He regularly shared his enjoyment with family and many friends.
Tim's faith in Christ was the foundation of his daily walk and the lens through which he looked at life. In Ottawa, he attended St. Paul's Presbyterian Church and in Abbotsford, Ross Road Community Church. The prayers and support from these congregations has greatly impacted his life, and the lives of his family.
On Saturday, January 26 , 2013, a Memorial Service will be held at Ross Road Community Church. The family wishes to express sincere thanks for the prayers and support of many friends and neighbours in Ottawa, Abbotsford and elsewhere.
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Jason Ha
April 18, 2013
It was yesterday when all of sudden Mr. Rourke popped-up in my head. So I decided to Google his name in order to get in touch with him. When I was informed about the news (yesterday), I was devastated.
Mr. Rourke was my 7th grade teach at White Rock Elementary School. He has taught me the guitar, which he would always have it with him. He taught me how to me a man. He SHOWED me the ways to live my life. I remember him saying he loves when his past students come visit him. I visited him a couple of times about a years after I graduated from W.R.E.
On the day of my elementary school graduation, I remember being very excited. Then Mr. Rourke came up and told me to wait until I graduate from high school. He said the happiness will be tripled. In 2010, the day of my high school graduation, the first person that I remember was Mr. Rourke because that day, my happiness was tripled and Mr. Rourke was 110% correct.
In 2005, I moved to Long Island, New York. Mr. Rourke asked me to come visit him for the last time before I left the beautiful town, White Rock. He prayed for me and my family. I also remember Mr. Rourke telling me about his life in the east coast.
Right now, I am a musician attending Berklee College of Music. And I am here now happy, because of Mr. Rourke.
Dear Mr. Rourke,
I know you probably can't see nor hear this (I HOPE YOU DO!)
But, I just wanted to let you know that I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!!
You have changed my life completely and I would like to thank you for being my six-string friend :) - by the way, I still have the shirt that you signed.
I can't wait to see you and your guitar in Heaven!
Sincerely,
Jason Ha
Felicia Taylor
March 12, 2013
I was just going through old district emails and I discovered Tim's name. I didn't know Tim well but I remember being a teacher on call at his school in Cloverdale, BC. At that time he was a VP. Anyway, I had applied for a position at the school where he worked. Tim and the lady principal interviewed me. I was so nervous but tried my best. I didn't get the job, but when I was at the school another day to substitute teach, Tim called me into his office. He told me that I should keep up the great passion and ideas I had for teaching. He encouraged me that if I kept that up, it wouldn't be long until I got a permanent teaching position. I can't tell you how much that encouraged me!! That meant so much coming from a VP!! I didn't give up and I did eventually end up getting a wonderful permanent position. I found out that we both graduated from TWU and I assumed he was a Christian, as I am too. His thoughtfulness was a real testimony to his faith in Jesus Christ. I am so sad to hear about your loss but so glad for the amazing legacy Tim left behind.
February 8, 2013
My uncle was my giant, my courage and one of my biggest supporters. He could always see the good and the light in everything and is a part of my better choices. I look forward to seeing him again one day and making him proud. I'll also never forget his last words to me and how they make me laugh yet feel safe and like he's always watching over me. The Rourke presence in my life will forever be cherished. Love always.
Martha Martin
February 8, 2013
So sorry to hear about Tim's passing. We were L.I.T.'s together at Pioneer 30 years ago, and I still remember his joy in life and his great sense of humour.
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Janeen Grant
February 5, 2013
Mr. Rourke was by far my favourite teacher. His passion for teaching showed everyday and touched many students at White Rock Elementary, myself included. He will be dearly missed, but not forgotten.
Martin Topp
February 4, 2013
Larry Offner just posted about Tim in the OPC Alumni on Facebook. My wife Fiona and I are both so very sorry to learn of this news this morning, and sorry that we lost touch with Tim and Leigh-Anne after their wedding - not knowing that they were living so close to us. I remember Tim so well from Ontario Pioneer Camps and Pioneer Pacific, and Jeff and their parents. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God's peace that passes understanding be your strength.
Jackie & Brian Stapledon
February 3, 2013
To Ed and Marilyn - I read about Tim's passing in the e-news from St. Paul's. We wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. May the Lord comfort you.
Keith (& Ofelia) Jackson
January 31, 2013
Tim is rejoicing in the presence of his Lord. I was not fortunate to know Tim, but his dad, Ed, and I were friends when we grew up together in church. My prayers and best wishes are with you. When you're out in BC, please connect.
Lisa Schuhmacher
January 28, 2013
Thoughts and prayer come to the Rourke family. Even those who didn't know Tim were praying for a miracle. May God overwhelm you with his peace and comfort and may your memories overwhelm you with the love you shared.
Lisa Schuhmacher (friend of Jeff & Kari & family)
Angela D
January 28, 2013
I was a student of Mr. Rourke's 16 years ago, in my grade 8 and 9 years. I remember distinct conversations clearly from that time with him. I respected him a lot. I remember in a volleyball practice he affirmed me in front of my team as someone who preforms well under pressure. I had never heard that before. Now as a business owner and a mom I have to tell myself that "I can do this" often. I'm not sure I would know how much I can handle if Mr. Rourke had not affirmed that in me so early. It really was his spiritual gift to discern needs and affirm character and leadership in his students. I'm feel so lucky to have had him as a mentor at that point in my life. I am looking forward to thanking him in person when I see him in heaven.
Praying for your family during this very sad time.
Mary Ann Woodrow
January 28, 2013
I met Tim last year at Jeff and Kari's home in MA. It was quite obvious that his love for the Lord was and is his foundation. I am thankful for having had the chance to meet and spend some time with him before he left this earth because his life touched mine very deeply. I rejoice in knowing that such a godly man was in the school system. Our children need more men like him impacting their lives.
My prayers are for his precious children, his dear wife, and the rest of the family: "May God be near to you during these hard days of sorrow, may He be your comfort and your hope. May each of you rest in Him, hold one another, and know that one day you will all be reunited. Amen"
One final word, "Thank you, Tim, for being a witness to the love of Christ to so many children who otherwise might not have "seen Him" had it not been for you being the hands and feet and love of Jesus to them. I am sure you are reaping great rewards in heaven."
Love to you all, my dear brothers and sisters in Christ, who are mourning the temporary loss of this beloved man!, Mary Ann
Martyn Sandy Thomas
January 28, 2013
Our prayers are with you during these difficult times - may you be surrounded by God's indescribable peace.
Diane & Laird
January 28, 2013
Ed and Marilyn: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
May God bless you!
Diane & Laird - The Ottawa Mission
Marianela Martinez
January 27, 2013
We were deeply saddened to hear of Tim's passing. Our sons were so fortunate to have had Tim as their principal at Ocean Cliff in their Grade 6 & & 7 years. His passion and enthusiasm provided them with some wonderful school memories which will last a lifetime. We offer our sincere condolences to his wife, sons and extended family.
Donna Paul
January 27, 2013
Your son ,husband,father,brother and friend was, as you well know a very special man.I was so fortunate to have had him pass through my life at W.E. Kinvig.I felt as if I knew the love of his life Leigh-Anne, adored sons Brendan and Taylor through all of the wonderful stories that Tim shared with pride about his beloved family.The service I attended today was one that touched me deeply.It was inspiring and uplifting to feel so much love from so many people.Mr.and Mrs.Rourke please find comfort in the wonderful son you gave our world.Brendan and Taylor your father will never be far away watching over you both forever.Leigh Anne please know that prayers and strength are being sent your way by those who care and are so saddened by your loss.To all other family members and friends thank you for sharing so much of your lives with us while paying tribute to such a kind generous caring man.We are so very lucky to have known Tim .God Bless you all.
January 27, 2013
I had the pleasure of meeting Tim while he was the Principal at Ocean Cliff Elementary school. I enjoyed the way he related to the Grade 7 boys whether it was during a geocaching adventure or hiking durning the Grade 7 year end camp. Best regards to his children, wife, family and friends
Art Birch
January 26, 2013
We have the highest regard for Tim and for all of you. We will continue to pray you through the adjustments ahead. Art & Rosabelle
January 26, 2013
Marilyn & Ed, Jeff & Pam, Leigh Anne , Taylor & Brendan we are so sorry to hear of the passing of Tim. I have really enjoyed the opportunity to re-connect with him after all these years through his wonderful emails! Take care of yourselves - we are thinking of you all.
Norma & Mervin & Kim Stanzel
January 26, 2013
Dear Marilyn, Ed and Family:
We were very sad to hear of Tim's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
love,
John and Sandra Schaw (Calgary)
January 26, 2013
I will always remember the timely music Tim would send out to brighten the day.
My deepest sympathy.
Deborah Thorvaldson
Lisa Warnock
January 26, 2013
We have known TIm since his college days, watched him marry his sweet wife, and as teachers in Surrey, have observed the inspiring example of leadership he has set in our school district. Throughout the years he has always been an encourager to others and affected others with his positive attitude. Most of all, he lived a life that glorified God. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Nicole and Darien Russell
January 26, 2013
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Our children were blessed to have Tim as their principal at Ocean Cliff. He was a compassionate, caring and inspiring leader at our school and will be deeply missed. May you take comfort in the knowledge that Tim has touched the lives of many.
Heather Dellemonache (Holmes)
January 25, 2013
My Mom just let me know that she had read the obit in the Ottawa paper... Tim and I were buddies in Gr12 and 13 at SRB... a very good friend that was always there for support. I am so very sorry to hear of the shortness of his existence - I am sure that he will be as missed in BC as he was when he left Ontario. My sincere condolences to his family... Mr. Rourke, not sure if you remember me from high school days, but big hugs your way.
Dave, Michelle, Carly, Mike, Mackenzie Penner
January 25, 2013
Although we didn't personally know Tim, we have been impacted by his journey. My husband was fortunate to hear him speak at a men's bar-b-que and was in awe of what strength and gentleness Tim possessed. Our children school with Tim and Leigh-Anne's boys, and also feel the sadness that his loss has brought. We will continue to lift the family up in prayer as they begin this new path, knowing that God's power and grace will be sufficient.
Kim Williams
January 25, 2013
Oh Ed, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please stop by the store when you can for a coffee and a big hug.
Kim
January 25, 2013
Mr Rourke taught my grade 8 gym class. At the time, I suffered from severe major depressive disorder, a diagnosis that isn't overly common in 13 year olds. I was completely unaware that life could be different. Because of Mr. Rourke, I ended up being accurately diagnosed. I'm fairly certain I wouldn't have made it out of my teenage years alive if such a diagnosis wasn't made when it was...I always felt as though Mr. Rourke saved my life.
Vincent Cargill
January 25, 2013
Marilyn/Ed, Tim's own family, siblings & other relatives: My "Heartfelt Sympathy". Take comfort in the fact that we know that Tim is gone b4 us to meet his saviour face to face.
Marilyn & Ed, be also comforted by the fact that u beautifully raised ur son in the love and fear of the Lord. We continue to keep u all in our prayers. Love. Vincent.
January 25, 2013
Remembering the courageous, inspirng interview with Pastor Darren and praying for comfort and strength,
Abe & Marcyne
Douglas Cole
January 25, 2013
Tim was a solid and stalwart individual. I have very fond memories of him and he will be dearly missed. Much love to you all (Ed, Marilyn, Pam and Jeff) in this time of grief.
Lorissa, Rene, Brenna, Leah & Eden Pelletier
January 25, 2013
Our hearts and prayers are with you Rourke, Hogg & Carmichael families. Tim's faith lived out especially this past year has been an inspiration to my own family and has had a positive impact on many others. May God continue to walk closely with you all in the days to come.
Love - The Pelletiers
Greg Hamre
January 25, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Hamre family.
Andrew Cole
January 25, 2013
Such sad news. Ed/Marilyn, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I pray God will give your family strength as you remember your son, an amazing man.
January 25, 2013
Ed and Marilyn;
So saddened to hear of Tim's passing. Our prayers continue for both of you and Tim's family.
Ab and Maureen Miller
Rudie & Louise Willms
January 24, 2013
We will remember Tim as a strong, courageous godly man. He loved life and his God. Our prayers are with you Leigh- Anne & your boys.
Richard, Lesley, Ryan & Kristen Sakaki
January 24, 2013
We are deeply sadden to hear of Mr. Rourke's passing. He was the Vice-Principal when our kids went to AJ McLellan Elementary in Surrey. Mr. Rourke's positive energy and enthusiasm made a lasting impression on our kids. Our thoughts and prayers are with his wife, children and family.
Michael Nolan
January 24, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Love the Nolans - Ottawa / Constance Bay
Marcy Neudorf
January 24, 2013
Praying for you all as you go through this difficult time.
January 24, 2013
I am so very sad to hear of Tim's passing, he was a very good friend in high school. I hope he is in a better place now. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sherry Cantar, ON
Wendy Krueger
January 24, 2013
Tim was an excellent example of educational leadership in Surrey School District where I got to know him in a mentorship program. I am very sorry that Tim has gone. My heart goes out to his family and colleagues.
Mark & Sandy Nesbitt
January 24, 2013
We were so sad to hear of the passing of Tim. We will be thinking of and praying for the Rourke family at this time of loss.
Bruce Jackson
January 24, 2013
So sorry to read this, Ed and Marilyn. Our prayers are with you and the family.
Bruce & Lorenda Jackson
DeLand, FL
January 24, 2013
Dear Mr and Mrs Rourke,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Eric Delorme
Carol Predmore
January 24, 2013
Im so very sorry for this loss to the world. Our comfort is that we will see Tim again and Heaven is rejoicing at his entrance.
Carla Bellamy
January 24, 2013
Our hearts break for you all as you adjust to the loss of Tim at such a young age. Praying that you lean hard on God for the only source of the kind of strength you will need to carry on. And that his boys will always remember who Tim lived for.
Prayerfully,
Terry & Carl Bellamy
Bill and Heather McAlpine
January 24, 2013
We are so sorry to hear of Tim's passing and will be upholding the family in prayer in the days to come. May God's comfort be more than sufficient in the journey ahead. With love and deepest sympathy, Bill and Heather McAlpine
Dale Ward
January 24, 2013
We send our love to Tim's wife, boys, parents, sister and brother and all his loved ones. You have lost a dear guy, but we're thankful for his faith in the Lord who is always with him and that Tim with his Lord. Dale and Natalie
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