BRUCE OLMSTED

BRUCE OLMSTED

BRUCE OLMSTED Obituary

Published by Ottawa Citizen on Nov. 3, 2012.
OLMSTED, Bruce
At Princess Margaret Hospital in the early hours of October 31, 2012, Bruce passed away peacefully after a fight against cancer that only a warrior could wage. Bruce was loved and adored by his family, friends and legal colleagues and his powerful positive energy will be missed by all. He was the brother and best friend to Eleanor Olmsted (Toronto) and her three children, Tally Osborne (fiancée Julien Lardy), Lindsay Osborne and husband Mike Ranger, and Geoffrey Osborne; brother of Valerie Warner (Calgary) and her two children Jana El Guebaly and husband Pat Clendon and Lani El Guebaly; dear friend of Jamie Pine of Niagara Falls; life-long friend of many including Kurt Sjolund, Mark Spergel, Jeffrey English (Taiwan), Marilyn Ayerst (Bahamas), Dr. Jeff Dover (Boston), Dr. Jason Rivers (Vancouver), Craig Stephens, Walter Shanly, and Katie Ray. He was predeceased by his older brother John Eric Olmsted (2006), mother Marjorie Kingsland Salter Olmsted (2007), and father Col. Earl Alexander Olmsted (2008), all of Ottawa.
Bruce was born in Ottawa on Dec. 02, 1955. Shortly thereafter his family moved to Fort Churchill, Manitoba where he lived until he was two. They then moved back to Ottawa, and when Bruce was five, the family moved to Madison, Wisconsin for two years. On their return to Ottawa, Bruce attended elementary school at Broadview Avenue Public school and thereafter attended Nepean High School where he won many academic and athletic awards. It was in high school that his love of sports really flourished.
Although Bruce studied commerce at Carleton University and maintained an A+ average for the first two years, he devoted the majority of his time to playing football with the Carleton Ravens as a defensive lineman. One of his greatest moments in second year was scoring the winning touchdown in the annual Panda game between Carleton and Ottawa University. Granted early admission to Osgoode Hall Law School in Toronto at York University, he participated in the intensive criminal law program which prepared him well for his chosen career as a criminal lawyer. At York, Bruce played on the Yeoman football team but then discovered his passion for rugby and started playing on the York Yeoman Rugby team. He later played on the TRU (Toronto Rugby Union) and represented Ontario on the Ontario team. He also was involved in setting up Fletchers Fields in Ottawa. After graduating from law school in 1979, he articled with Edward McGill and continued to practice with him until he became a standing agent for the Department of Justice. Thereafter he became defence counsel and later a member of the Criminal Lawyers Association. In 1994 he moved his practice to Daley Byers to work with Bruce Daley. Eventually, Bruce set up his own chambers in 2002 working with esteemed counsel Glenn Orr, Ravin Pillay, Noel Gerry, Louis Alexiou, John Sheard and Peter Lam. Bruce had tremendous empathy for people's struggles and was known for his kindness, compassion and extending a hand to help. He really cared about his clients and was tireless in their defence. There is a universe of lawyers in Toronto whose lives were touched by Bruce including his dear friend John Marko who predeceased him. Bruce was a proud member of the 48th Highlanders of Canada Officers' Association, the Royal Canadian Military Institute, the Orange Lodge, and the Grafton Legion. For the last 15 years Bruce shared a farm with his sister Eleanor in the Northumberland Hills where he loved to ATV and relax on weekends. It was the venue for his many annual legal parties. For 56 years, Bruce enjoyed camping at Red Pine Camp on Golden Lake (even if the bunks were too short). In 2009, Bruce purchased a house in Florida near Cocoa Beach where he escaped cold winter weather. There he unwound with Johnny K. and Laura Prentice and became great friends with Joe and Elaine Bessette. Bruce will also be missed by his aunt Rita Salter (Belleville); his cousins Ted & Muriel Langdon, (Toronto, Arizona) and daughters Cathy and Caroline, and Judy and Marilyn Salter (Belleville) and Billy Salter (Calgary); great niece and nephew Nadia and Jalen Clendon (Calgary); and Dr. Nady El Guebaly and wife Joan, Dr. Raymond Osborne, Dr. Barney and Linda Taggart, dear friends from Red Pine Camp, especially Betty and Gordon Campbell; Terrace Good, Barrett Layzelle, Evelyn Alban, Bill Mondrow, Hassan Farra, and Maria Martins. The family would like to thank all the doctors, nurses and support staff at the hospitals where he was treated for outstanding care, especially Dr. Meharchand and Dr. Zeldin at Toronto East General Hospital, Dr. Judith Balogh at The Odette Cancer Centre , and Dr. Lillian Siu and Dr. Laura Dawson at Princess Margaret Hospital. A private family ceremony will be held in Ottawa in the springtime. A celebration of his achievements in the Toronto legal community will be held at The Courthouse bar on November 08, 2012 between 5 and 8 PM, located at 57 Adelaide Street East, at the corner of Church and Adelaide (416-214-9379). All who knew Bruce are welcome. In many ways and on many levels, Bruce was larger than life: physically, intellectually, and in his capacity to face the worst of his illness with the best of his courage, irrepressible sense of humour and signature rapier wit. Over the course of the past two years Bruce liked to say that "every day above ground is a good day"….so have a nice day!


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Ruth O'Halloran

August 12, 2013

It was only this past week while at Red Pine Camp that I found out Bruce had died. I was sitting in the donated adirondak chair thinking of your parents when someone told me about Bruce. My sincere sympathies, long overdue. I will always remember him as a (younger than me) busy, engaging little kid at Camp. Thanks so much for writing the story of his life. It helped me visualize the man he became.

Paul Flesias

April 7, 2013

Found out today of Bruce Olmsted passing my condolences to his family did some work for him years ago was a great friend.

January 16, 2013

My vivid dream of Bruce last night led me to google him this morning. I am devastated by his passing. I met him in 1982 during my house sale to his former girlfriend's parents; he had many! We held each other's hand over the years to come; he was always full of surprises, fun and new experiences. I am thankful that I have the memories sharing time with such a remarkable man. Love and peace to all his family and friends, Sandra Benns

Barbara Eagleson

December 15, 2012

To Valerie, and Elenor and Families

My brother Bob told me of Bruce's passing only today! As the children of your parents best friends, Mae and Everett, I pass on my sincere condolences and those of my brother. he was taken far too soon.
Sincerely Barbara Eagleson

December 4, 2012

I just found out about Bruce's passing. My deepest condolences.

Yvonne Goebel

Jeffrey English

November 30, 2012

I've never had a better friend or wiser mentor than you Bruce. Thanks for being such a great person for so many enjoyable years. I hope heaven doesn't change you that much. I'll see you again my friend.

C

November 16, 2012

Bruce saved me in many ways, and helped me better my future. For that, I am forever grateful for having the pleasure of meeting him. You will be missed. Enjoy your retirement, Bruce!

November 9, 2012

he was both a mentor and mentee
also a real mensch
jerry herszkopf

Walt Steesy

November 9, 2012

We share the loss of Bruce as a member of our greater Olmsted family.

Genealogist, Olmste(a)d Family Association

Mike Strak

November 8, 2012

It is with deep sorrow and regret of hearing of the news that Bruce had passed away.I had not talked to Bruce in many years and didnt know he was sick.I should have kept in touch with him, thats what good friends do.Your brother was a good man and did his best to help people.I wish I could have been a better friend to him espechially while he was sick and will miss him dearly. My deepest condolences to Elenor and family

Steve Church

November 7, 2012

Bruce, among many things, we will miss your irrepressable wit, insight and athletic fervour. RIP Hemmer!!

Don and Donna Spencer

November 7, 2012

It is with a sad heart that I leave this message for the family and friends of Bruce Olmsted. We have only known him for a short time, but he always treated us like we have know him forever. We both wish we had more time to just sit and joke the way he always did. I am sure there will be an ATV waiting for you when you reach your final destination.

Elaine Bessette

November 6, 2012

Eleanor, we can't tell you how sorry we are. We loved Bruce dearly, and will miss him. God he loved it here in Florida. If we can do anything down here, please let us know. I will call you.

Jeffrey Dover

November 4, 2012

Our hearts are heavy with the passing of Bruce.
Too soon and far too young.
A true friend through thick and thin.
Always there with a joke, a smile, a jibe. Witty to the end. No one made us laugh more than Bruce.
His signature wit, wry sense of humor and brilliance was tempered with his loveable side. Big and mean on the playing field yet “gentle as a bear” off it.
So glad we had a the chance to spend time with him this summer, most recently at the Spergel wedding where in spite of his failing health he remained fun and upbeat.
We will miss you Bruce.

Jeff Dover and Tania Phillips.

Blair Henry

November 4, 2012

Great memories of a man whose charm and heart were larger than his stature . A unique character we will all miss . My sympathies to family and friends .

Susan Mullin

November 3, 2012

We are so sorry to hear of Bruce's passing. Although we did not know him well, we knew of his great friendship with Craig Stephens and how close they were. He will be missed by two little girls at the Tuesday night dinners.
John and Susan Mullin

Andre Morency

November 3, 2012

It was with great sadness to have heard of Bruce's passing this week. Bruce was an old friend from our days at Nepean High School where we played football together and got into some fun mischief as members of the Key Club. I have fond memories of the "big bear" To Eleanor and the family, my sincere condolences.

Andre Morency

November 3, 2012

It was with great sadness to have heard this week of Bruce's passing. Bruce was an old friend from our days at Nepean High School where we played football together and got into all sorts of fun mishief as members of the Key Club. I have fond memories of the "big bear". To Eleanor and the family, my sincere condolences.

Michael Gennis

November 3, 2012

I have many fond memories of Bruce from our days at Nepean High School. A big guy with a great wit and a heart to match. Deepest condolences from the entire Gennis family.

Marla Spergel

November 3, 2012

Eleanor,
Mark and I were grateful to have spent weekly quality dinners with Bruce at our house, where he and Mark would venture to Highland Farms ( Bruce's favourite food discovery) and grocery shopped. On their return home, Mark would lovingly cook Bruce and me dinner. We shared special moments while we moved back to Toronto with Bruce. He will never be forgotten - and was larger than life. There is not a day that goes by - that I don't think about Bruce moments. We miss him dearly . Love Marla

John & Cheryl (Forward) Drain

November 3, 2012

Dear Eleanor and Valerie, just read about Bruce's passing and his difficult fight with cancer. John and I are so very sorry for your loss of such a great guy. I know now why my Mom & Dad used to hate reading the obit's. They always felt so bad to read about the loss of yet another good friend. Please let us know when the wake will be in Ottawa, as we would like to attend. [email protected]
Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Take care, Cheryl & John

Peter Kuske

November 3, 2012

It was with great sadness that I read of Bruce's passing this morning. I extend my condolences to Eleanor and the entire family, with this camp sing song tune in mind..."We'll meet again, don't know where, don't know when, but I know we'll meet again some sunny day"

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