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Betty Holey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 1, 2014.

Betty J. Holey, 54, of Midland, passed away Monday, April 29, 2014, at MidMichigan Medical Center. She was born Sept. 17, 1959 in Midland, to Richard and Jane (Jeffrey) Holey.

Betty was a central operator for Midwest Detection and Veterans Alarm. She was a member of the Midland Nazarene Church.

Betty is survived by her brother, William (Kristy) Holey; and sister, Susan ( Steve) Thrush. Betty was preceded in death by her sister, Ruth Ann Hammond-Holey.

A memorial service will be held 3 p.m. Saturday, May 3, 2014, at Midland Nazarene Church, with Pastor Gary Miller officiating.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider the family in her name. On-line condolences can be given at smithminer.com

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April 25, 2022

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Rod miller

I miss you so much BJ. It just isn't the same when I come home to visit and I cannot see you.
You are in my heart and thoughts always. You know that you always were and always will be my number one girl. Love.

May 15, 2014

Jonie Inman

Betty you will be sadly missed and we all know you will be looking down from heaven. You were a good person and was loved to be around. I think God took you to soon but he knew that you are now his angle.

May 4, 2014

Maria Pretzer (Tucker)

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in you time of sorrow. I grew up in the same neighborhood as Betty and attented the same schools. Heaven has a new beautiful angel.

May 4, 2014

I grew up in the neighborhood with Betty and her family, very sorry to see this news. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Jill Baker

May 3, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of this sad news. I was a childhood friend of Betty, she will be missed dearly!

May 2, 2014

Karl Kretz

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Had many laughs when we worked together. Always a smile.

May 2, 2014

Chuck Grasley

My condolences to each family member. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May you find peace in your soul.

May 2, 2014

courtney cirabisi

You were the first friend I made in Brackenwoods. You helped me out with a lot the 3 years i knew you. Always had a listening ear. You never gave up on me even when i was a dumbie. Friends like you are hard to come by. Ill never meet another like you. i still cant believe youre gone. Knowing youre not just a phone call away anymore hurts.. but heaven gained a new angel and i have a new guardian angel. I Love you Betty.

May 1, 2014

Barbara Forman

Rip i didnt really know u just u being friends on facebook and playing games now u will not have any more pain i will miss u

May 1, 2014

kitty whitehead- sova

we were friends for years you held my first born he is now 34 i will miss you my friend love ya sis

May 1, 2014

mom betty,will be missed alot.she is in a better place now with no more pain and suffering.you will be my gaurdian angel always.from:joseph.sherman.booth.

May 1, 2014

Ida MacDonald

Oh Betty...I've known you for a lifetime. Way back in the day when you and Rod met, that's when we met. I used to talk to you sometimes on the CB. You have been a part of my family from that time, on. You were a wonderful person and you will be missed by so many. I know you're in a much better place now and pain free. Fly with the angels, Betty.

May 1, 2014

Burt, I miss your texts and phone calls. There will never be another Burt for me. I became your "bestie" a few weeks ago. I will see you soon. To all of your friends and family, I am with you in spirit! Love, Ern

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May 1, 2014

The Brickel Family

Betty certainly had a heart of gold and cared deeply for her fur babies! She will be missed and thought of fondly. God's Blessings, Betty. Our sincere condolences to your family and friends.

May 1, 2014

I am going to miss mom betty very much.she is gone to a much better

May 1, 2014

Kathy Lentz

Bill, we are so sorry to hear that Betty has passed away. She was a unique, loving and very special person. Kathy & Ed Lentz

May 1, 2014

Laurie Miller

My friend,my sister and a WONDERFULLY
LOVING SOUL.....I Thank God for you Betty,you Loved my kids like your own niece and nephew! There is a whole in my heart until we met again.

May 1, 2014

Jana Provenzano

Aunt Betty, I can not express what you mean to our family! I can't help but think of so many memories of you...feely mealy arms...coloring , playing and reading...you stopping me when I was a teenager and telling me I HAD TO CALL YOU AUNT BETTY NOT JUST BETTY...because it was rude for me to not...I love you! I know your soul is where you wanted it to be! My deepest thoughts are with your family...

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May 1, 2014

Jana Provenzano

Aunt Betty, I can't even tell you what you mean to my family...I can't help but think of so many memories...feely mealy arms...you stopping me and telling me how rude it was NOT to call you AUNT Betty (when I was to teenager) ...hours spent reading and playing...I only wish I could have been closer to you in the end...but I know your soul is where you wanted it to be...love you


To her family my deepest thoughts are with you ALL! Much Love

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