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8419 YOUNG-Robert Bartlett Young, Our dear friend, husband, father and grandfather Bob Young, 74, passed away on December 12, 2009 following a brief battle with pancreatic cancer. More important to "Bachelor-Bachel or- Master-Master Bob" than his numerous accomplishments in the fields of journalism, banking, publishing & illustration or his college and graduate degrees from Dartmouth, Harvard Business, Columbia Journalism and Art Center in Pasadena was the joy he took in writing and painting, in good food, local and Italian wines, jazz and opera, travel, and the laughter he shared with his family and his many friends. Bob shared warmth and friendship with everyone he met, and he willbe greatly missed by the many who l oved him. A small family service was held immediately upon his passing, and a spirited celebration of Bob's life will be planned for mid-January. Cremation has taken place, and his as he swill be scattered over many meaningful spots of his life's landscape, including his birthplace of Pasadena, and final hometown of Morro Bay. He is survived by his wife Sally Young; his brother Bill Young; his children from his first marriage to the late Gretchen Roethke Young, William Young & Jody Young Llewellyn; his gran dson & namesake Bartlett Llewellyn; his stepdaughter, Sally's daughter Cara Martin; and a large & loving family fullof nieces, nephews, and friends so close they became 'adopted family.' In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Bob's honor to one of the following organizations: the Allied Arts Association of Cambria (artistsofcambria.com); the Foundation for the Performing Arts Center of SanLuis Obispo (pacslo.org/fpac); the Cate School Kline-Roethke scholarship fund (cate.org); and Hospice Partners of the Central Coast(hospicepartners.org).

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Published by Pasadena Star-News on Dec. 20, 2009.

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Brita Lombardi Bishop

January 8, 2010

As a friend of Jody's and Doug's from San Francisco, I have long heard stories about the wonderful Papa Young and seen the fruits of his artistic talents which embellish the walls of Jody's and Doug's home (and were an integral part of their wedding invitation and had us all in awe). Jody is one of the most thoughtful, positive, creative and loving people I have had the good fortune to know which is a testament to both her mom and dad's legacy. I know Robert Bartlett Young's spirit lives on in all of you and that you honor him every day by being the incredible people you are - living life to the fullest and appreciating every moment. He was taken too soon....Love and hugs to all of your families, Brita and Gavin

Karen Fort

January 6, 2010

Dear Sally: I said all the words I could find just prior to Bob's passing. The tributes of others say it all: a truly cherished and respected man who shared his talents and boundless enthusiasm and compassion with all he met. Such a privilege to have had him as part of our lives. Our deepest wishes to you and the family for shared comfort and love to carry you through this sad time. I wish we could be there for the great celebration of his life. We know it will be inspiring and memorable. Love Karen and David Fort from Canada

Merrell Clark

January 5, 2010

Sally, I know you only because Bob let me know how special you were to him. I am so sorry that his death has separated you two, though I believe you still are together.

Bob was one of several leaders in Los Angeles that I met in the 1970s as I then was vp of a large NYC foundation that was making grants to encourage creative second careers by retired professionals. Not only did he "get it", but he wound up leading it in several organizations he influenced then.

He and I kept in touch every year by Email. While I happened to be like him in many ways, as a writer and artist, he has continued to be an inspiration to me as the one who really succeeded in retirement. He modeled the creative life of a retired professional, sharing the joys of his vision, gifts, humor and lifestyle with his family and friends until the end.

What a truly life-shaping joy it has been to know Bob Young.

Bill Morley

January 4, 2010

Over the span of too few years of brief greetings, occasional chats, a scattering of shared meals, and one wonderful day looking at the sea from Highway 1, I came to find in Bob a humble man, a bit of a curmudgeon, willing, in his modest enthusiasm to give a hint about art and photography or good Italian restaurants or expand upon his most recent journey to Italy.

His one accomplishment for which he seemed the absolutely most grateful was his mariage to Sally.

I can't get around the idea that he's gone for good, only spending some time in a painting class in Italy.

Jennifer Dwyer

January 1, 2010

When I think of how to describe how I felt about just learning of Bob's passing,'shocking' does not adequately describe this loss...

I was very forunate to be, what I would describe as, an "adopted family" member; Bob and I met as an usher and patron of PAC-SLO, respectively. However, over the years that our friendship--and my admiration, love for him and and the entire Young family--grew, he, in typical 'Bob' fashion, repeatedly guided me down some challenging roads, helping me to learn many of the lessons that have helped, literally, make me the woman I am today. Whether it was a long ride to Santa Barbara to help me find an academic internship, or the countless cups of "Bar Stucks" that we shared as he imparted his Life's Wisdom and Greatest Joys, whenever I feel like crying about his passing, I will seek solace in all our memories, lessons that he taught...Thank you, Bob, (and Sally and Family) for being who you are to me. Though we will all miss you terribly, I will take solace in the knowledge that you are listening to Italian sopranos, painting w/ Da Vinci, and sucking back espresso with the Angels. We have all lossed a great man, but Bart and the rest of us have gained a Guardian Angel. Please let me know about services, if there is anything you need...

With Love and Sympathy,
Jennifer L. Dwyer

Kathi Rippe

January 1, 2010

The pleasure was ours when we painted and had critique with Bob on Wednesdays. His positive ways, warm smile and kindness are treasures to keep. Our hearts go out to you and yours regarding his passing.
Sincerely,
The Wednesday Irregulars

December 26, 2009

Dear Sally,

Bob was such a special person. My sincere sympathy to you and your family. Not only was he a talented man, but a true example of a gentleman. I so enjoyed speaking with him, and will miss him.
Joanna Giorlando Limberg

December 26, 2009

Dear Sally.Jeff,Alex: Bob was a wonderful man to know and a joy to usher with at the Performing Arts. My prayers for you and your family.
Virginia Rohde

Jeniene Cenoz

December 23, 2009

Sally, Jeff, Alex and I were so sorry to hear about Bob. During the time you guys did Team in Training we loved talking to him, walking with him and getting to know the both of you. We will treasure the painting we have of his. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Jeniene, Jeff and Alex Cenoz

December 22, 2009

Very sad to learn about Bob. He was a great friend to my brother, Stan and Stan's son Matt, as well as the rest of the Williams family. Our thoughts are with you and your family. - Andy Williams (Seattle)

Steve & Barbara

December 20, 2009

Sally dear, we feel so privileged to have spent as much time with you and Bob as we did. He brought a richness to our lives that could only could have come from him, and he never failed to buoy our spirits when we needed it most. We loved him and will miss him for a long, long time. We love you too Sally, and are here for you always.

Nancy Mellen

December 19, 2009

We were shocked to read about Bob's passing. We are very sorry for your loss, he will be missed.

Sincerely,
Nancy Mellen and Rachel Andreatta

Dennis & Ardith

December 18, 2009

Dearest Sally: Ardith & I are so sorry for your loss. We cherish our memories of Bob at your home, Monterey Jazz Festivals, & his travel reports & drawings from Italy. Tis a mighty God we serve and He will surely see us through.

stephanie raser

December 18, 2009

Sally, I feel so fortunate to have been able to know Bob. He was such a kind fun caring person. We had many conversations about politics, travel, music and art. When he came to Anam-Cre' he had a new idea or print out of what he wanted to make in the clay. He always had a vision on how to glaze it, and was very particular on the colors he was looking for. It was always fun watching him admire his finish masterpiece. You could see the joy in his face. We will miss him dearly at the studio. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Katherine Dorn Zotovich

December 17, 2009

Sally, Pete and I are deeply sorry for your loss. Bob knew no strangers. He was loved by all he met. He enriched the lives of so many here on the Central Coast and beyond. We feel so blessed to have called him friend. He was truly a remarkable man. He painted life with a broad brush of passion~ we will miss him.

Penny Lentz

December 17, 2009

I'm so shocked and sad to hear about the passing of Bob. He was a delightful man and artist. He was always so kind, and friendly, and always smiling. And funny...he had such a great sense of humor. This is a big loss for our artist community.

December 17, 2009

Sally, we are so sorry for your loss. We have been good friends of Bill Young's for many years and heard lots of great stories about Bob.

Brian McKeever and Jan Monaghan

Leonard Milstein

December 16, 2009

Sally, so sorry for your loss. We got to know Bob over the years as ushers at the PAC. He was truly a wonderful person that we were fortunate enough to get to know.
Leonard Milstein & Virginia Rohde

Kathy Ruoff

December 16, 2009

Sally, I am so sorry for your loss. Bob will be terribly missed. I will always remember him fondly. What a wonderful man he was!

Neal Losey

December 16, 2009

Bob was a great friend of KCBX and I always appreciated his enthusiasm for music. He'd get very excited about the things he liked and I really enjoyed talking to him about things he had heard, seen, discovered. Didn't get to do it enough. He will be missed.

shevon sullivan

December 16, 2009

We will all miss our Bob who came to Pottery class and filled our hearts with stories of his travels. He sculpted many political figures, made special little boxes for various family members. He was really proud of the cell phone bed! I can still hear him speaking Italian to us, practicing with Joanna. We will never forget Bob who filled our lives with so much happiness. We are sorry for his family's loss. Anam-Cre' Pottery Studio
Shevon Sullivan

devra cooper

December 16, 2009

sally - i was so sorry to hear of your loss. i can see bob's smiling face. the thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. devra cooper

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