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1917
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2010
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Neva Kuykendall Obituary
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LIL David Chapin
December 31, 2010
When it comes to someone as special and caring as Nan.A woman who tpuched the hearts of everyone she met.As a grandmother she was always there to look up to.Her wisdom and guildence was heart felt.
I feel blessed to have had her in my life, She gave me a mother and four aunts who I Love very much! And cousins who are all apart of special memories.She was a rock that will live forever in our hearts.I know heaven became a better place when God called her home.
Thank you Nan for family and memories you gave.
God blessed us all with your Love.
"LIL" David and Danielle Chapin
Bob Filmer
December 6, 2010
To Mrs. Chapin, and all of the Chapin family-
It is with great sorrow to hear of the loss of your mom, Nana. Mine and my families thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bless you all.
Ron Barrett
December 6, 2010
Neva was a very special friend to my late grandfather (Poppy) "Gene". The two of them had lots of fun together the last years of his life. My family and I were blessed to get to know her a bit during that time of his life. We were glad the two of them were able to be so close. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Leslie Cope
December 5, 2010
We lost the matriarch of our family this week. From my standpoint as one of her great-grandchildren, Nanny was put on this earth to be a grandma, and she was the best one I could have hoped for. I love and treasure this woman. I have so many wonderful memories of her. For instance, I used to spend every Wednesday after school with her just to hear her stories while we worked on Uncle Eddie's fliers together. Every week, I would ask her to tell me the same stories, and she always did, although I'm sure she thought I had a terrible short-term memory (then again, you didn't have to do much to get Nanny to talk). I loved her stories of living through the depression. In fact, I taped her recalling the times of surviving off of bread and milk and how they would take old curtains to make clothes. She learned young to appreciate the small things in life and she passed that along to me and many other family members. I will forever be grateful to her for this, and for so much more.
I have numerous stories of her generosity, wit and charm. She was a unique soul and one that I was so fortunate to know and love. I have an ache that won't be healed soon, but I thank God for every moment I had with her. These are now cherished moments that I will keep tucked away in my heart forever.
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Leslie Cope
December 5, 2010
We lost the matriarch of our family this week. From my standpoint as one of her great-grandchildren, Nanny was put on this earth to be a grandma, and she was the best one I could have hoped for. I love and treasure this woman. I have so many wonderful memories of her. For instance, I used to spend every Wednesday after school with her just to hear her stories while we worked on Uncle Eddie's fliers together. Every week, I would ask her to tell me the same stories, and she always did, although I'm sure she thought I had a terrible short-term memory (then again, you didn't have to do much to get Nanny to talk). I loved her stories of living through the depression. In fact, I taped her recalling the times of surviving off of bread and milk and how they would take old curtains to make clothes. She learned young to appreciate the small things in life and she passed that along to me and many other family members. I will forever be grateful to her for this, and for so much more.
I have numerous stories of her generosity, wit and charm. She was a unique soul and one that I was so fortunate to know and love. I have an ache that won't be healed soon, but I thank God for every moment I had with her. These are now cherished moments that I will keep tucked away in my heart forever.
Darryl Rogers
December 5, 2010
I was so blessed to have Nan as a Grandmother, the memories are endless with such a loving woman who's family meant everything in the world to her.
We have a close knit family and it did not matter if you were her kid, grand kid, in-law, she treated everyone like family. She was such a strong willed person that was always there for me no matter what, I could always count on her. Although the last 9 years were rough on her health she continued to be the glue that kept this family strong. I would like to add that the Terrace, where she lived since 2002, took great care of her and for that I will be eternally grateful.
I was fortunate to spend most Thursdays with her this last year and they were a blessing. I will miss those times and so many more of our times together. I love you Nanny.
Jay Savicky
December 4, 2010
I met Nan 41 y.o. ago and have know her longer than my own mother who passed away at an early age. Nan has been my Grandmother from the first time I met her. She is the the kind of grandmother you saw depicted on TV shows as a child, but thought really never existed in real life. I worked side by side with Nan in our Pet store, where she made work fun. She could relate with all age groups, she was "Nan" to everyone. She was a major influence in our 3 kids lives, and all their friends as well. She was the universal grandma everyone wished they had. Every year she made me my very own Pecan pie, which was always the best to be had. What always amazed me more than anything is how she thrived at being a grandmother. It was her purpose in life, what she lived for. She could tell you every grandchild's birthday, made sure every grandchild received something from her on every birthday and every Christmas. This in itself was huge as she had numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, even great-great grandchildren. She worried about each one, wanted the best for each one. Went to every graduation as long as she was able, and never missed an important grandchild's event. Nan (or my nickname Nanook) was the definition of a grandmother. I feel so lucky to have had her influence, and all her Nanisms to carry on with. I shall always miss her, but never will I forget her complete unselfish love that she spread over us all. Nan will continue living in our heart and souls forever.
Debi Savicky
December 4, 2010
How blessed I've been with having Nanny for my grandmother. I could fill a book of beautiful, funny, and interesting memories. Instead I want to express just the main essence of what my Nanny was to me. All my life I saw Nan as bigger than life. She has been our family's compass, our guiding light. These past few days, I just have been wondering, how do I continue on in this world without my Nan? I found my answer the other day. Nan is so much a part of who I am, that I now know she lives on with me. She will be there as always during fun times as well as the difficult times. Her beautiful voice will always be in my head, telling me "well Debba, you just have to do what you have to do" I went on many vacations with her, one in particular has gotten me through so many difficult times. We were in her friend's car and a gas station attendant told her she need to replace a tire. He said "you and this little one (I was under 10) could be stuck in the desert should something happen. Nan looked him straight in the eye and said "Where there is a will, there is a way." We made it home safely, which I never doubted, cause Nan was always right!! These words have served me through my entire life. Whenever life throws me a curve ball, I remember Nan and say to myself "where there is a will, there is a way." She is so right, when you want it to be corrected, you get the will and the "way" works itself out. So this has been my life's mantra. I can only add that there is so much more in Nan. Her main goal in life was to always serve her family. She could never do enough to help whoever needed help. Everyone of us has experienced and known her unconditional love, and we feel the same way towards her. While she may have left this world for a better place, she has not nor ever will leave her family. We all are fortunate to carry Nan in our hearts and memories. So Nanny till we meet again, please know I will never forget a thing you taught me, and know you will be with me every moment spiritually. I love you with all my heart and soul..... Your loving grandaughter.
Kenneth Faulkner
December 4, 2010
To a special lady who everyone knew as Nan...I'll never forget how sweet and considerate she was of me, always bringing me shirts and pants and school supplies when I lived with Melvin and Joyce. She treated me like one of her own and I love her like my own grandmother..........There will always be a special place in my heart for you, I love you Nan.....
Kenneth Faulkner
December 4, 2010
To a special lady who everyone knew as Nan...I'll never forget how sweet and considerate she was of me, always bringing me shirts and pants and school supplies when I lived with Melvin and Joyce. She treated me like one of her own and I love her like my own grandmother. ---------There will always be a special place in my heart for you...I love you Nan.....
Esmeralda Veik
December 4, 2010
This world has lost a beautiful soul, but Heaven gained a true Angel. There are many wonderful people on this earth because of Neva. I am lucky to be married to one of them. Thank you Nanny for my family! Love you! Save us all a spot...
The O'Dell Siblings
December 4, 2010
Debi, Darryl and Nan
Lisa Park
December 3, 2010
Lisa, Nanny, Tae
Lisa Park
December 3, 2010
Nan always enjoyed her cards
Lisa Park
December 3, 2010
Lisa Park
December 3, 2010
Cruise Nanny Cruise, she always heard that come from mine and Leslie mouth everyday when she picked us up from school in her Blue Ford Tempo with a ribbon tied to her antenna. Then she would say “Hun my foot isn’t on the gas petal. I can‘t go any slower” and then we would all laugh. She would often take us to Burger King for a whopper. She loved her hamburger with extra onions. We would often spend the night over at Nanny’s. I remember how she loved watch Wheel Of Fortune and then in the morning we would walk to Mc Donald’s for breakfast. She’s the only person that made their pancakes look tasty. Always had a bite of a pancake and chew it with a sip of coffee. I feel so blessed that I was able to have such a close and joyful relationship with my Great Grandmother. I love her laugh. It was so contagious. She was the most amazing lady.
I know you are gone but I still feel you next to me. I love you Nanny!
Lisa Park
December 3, 2010
Cruise Nanny Cruise, she always heard that come from mine and Leslie mouth everyday when she picked us up from school in her Blue Ford Tempo with a ribbon tied to her antenna. Then she would say “Hun my foot isn't on the gas petal. I can‘t go any slower� and then we would all laugh. She would often take us to Burger King for a whopper. She loved her hamburger with extra onions. We would often spend the night over at Nanny's. I remember how she loved watch Wheel Of Fortune and then in the morning we would walk to Mc Donald's for breakfast. She's the only person that made their pancakes look tasty. Always had a bite of a pancake and chew it with a sip of coffee. I feel so blessed that I was able to have such a close and joyful relationship with my Great Grandmother. I love her laugh. It was so contagious. She was the most amazing lady.
I know you are gone but I still feel you next to me. I love you Nanny!
Mike Trivitt
December 3, 2010
Pictures are worth 1,00 words - what wonderful memories you must have. We are sorry for your loss and have each of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Betty
December 3, 2010
I am so sorry to hear that aunt Neva passed away. All of Mildred's children loved spending time with her when she came to visit and I am so sorry that I didn't get out there to see her again. I know that all of you in her family cherished her and loved her very much and I pray that the pain of losing her will be eased by the wonderful memories that you have of the time that you spent with her.
Love you all,
Tom Miller and Family
Ferna Mills
December 3, 2010
My deepest condolences to the family. I remember Aunt Neva's smile the most for she always had one to share. An awesome lady who will be greatly missed.
Virginia Smith
December 2, 2010
I remember showing up on Neva's doorstep in September of 1967 not even knowing who she was; except she was from the Church. She welcomed me into her home not knowing that some 31 years later I would proudly call her Aunt Neva. God Bless You All.
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