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Chuck Bennett
November 17, 2024
I cant believe its been so long. So many memories of Pat growing up. For some reason, 2 things came to mind 1st when thinking of Pat.
The first recollection when I saw this anniversary message was Pat and I were in the play "I Remember Mama" in 3rd or 4th grade at SJF. Neither one of us wanted to be in the play and I recall us practicing then being on stage together reading our lines in front of everyone. We were both so nervous, and of course were both horrible and couldnt wait to get the play over with. But we did it!!
The second thing was Pat and I were eraser monitors at SJF and we would turn on the machine and open the bag in Sister Veronica's classroom and the chalk dust would be all over the place and the entire class would laugh at the plumes of chalk dust behind sister Veronica and her desk, and she didnt have a clue. It still makes me laugh!!!
Hope the family and kids are doing well!!
chris Utley
September 15, 2016
I miss you brother Pat, you were not only only my brother but one of my best friends. You helped mold me into the person im am today. I will never forget all the good times.
linda owens delmont
July 8, 2011
To the Utley family, I am so sorry to hear about Patrick's passing. My brother and I grew up playing with Patrick and Danny. Our house was just a few doors up the street from theirs, and we spent many happy days riding bikes, roaming the hills, and just hanging out. I lost touch after my family moved to Huntington Beach when I was fourteen, but I will always remember him as one of the kindest friends from my childhood.
God Bless,
Linda Owens Delmont
Billy Kahl
May 24, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to High School with your Father. I didn't go to school at SJF, but went to church there. Pat and I were the best of friends @ RHHS, and I have the best and fondest memories. We even connected again in the early 90's in the O.C. My friend sent me this, I feel awful it took so long for me to hear about this, and am devasted I ever lost touch. God rest your soul my friend. You left nothing but a positive loving mark in my heart.
Your Friend Forever,
Billy Kahl
Pat Jenks
February 25, 2011
Dear Utley family... I was so sorry to learn of your loss. I have many fond memories of Pat and the slumber party's at the Utley home off of PV Drive when we were kids at SJF. God bless you and Pat.
Valerie Lee (Zoolalian)
February 24, 2011
To Jessica and Brian and the Utley family, I am so sorry to hear about Pat's passing. I just found out yesterday. Pat and I went to school together at St. John Fisher 1-8th grade and then at Rolling Hills High School 9-12th grade. I know I don't have to tell you this but Pat was very sweet and funny and always had a smile on his face. He always made me smile and laugh even if he didn't mean to. I am sorry we lost touch over the years. I was hoping to see him at the reunion. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
John Graham
February 24, 2011
My name is John Graham. I went to SJF with your dad. I remember sleep overs and the big brothers. Every time I passed the old house in PV, even now, I thought of him. Sorry to have lost track of him and now hear of his passing. Please tell me more about your dads life. Photos even. I am at [email protected].
Regards,
John
Becky Santos Kolk
February 24, 2011
To the Utley family. I am so sorry for your loss. Pat and I went to St. John Fisher together and I have many great memories from those days. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
chuck bennett
February 24, 2011
To the Utley family. I'm so sorry to hear about Pat's passing. He was my best friend when we were kids at St. John Fisher, I'm just sick I didn't know until now. . My condolences to his children and the rest of the family. Hope the rest of the boys are doing ok. God Bless Pat, Chuck Bennett
February 24, 2011
Jessica,
I'm so sorry to hear about your father's passing. I just found out yesterday. Pat was a classmate of mine at St John Fisher from 1st through 8th grade and than at Rolling Hills High School. Myself and Becky Santos have been planning a reunion of the SJF Class of 76 for June 25, 2011. I let all the classmates whom we have found of your fathers passing. We have a FB group where we are posting old photos from SJF. Let me know if you would like to join it. We have some pictures of your dad up there and will have more in the coming months. Again my thoughts are with you and your family.
Michelle Urban Mestrovich
Laurie Soto
February 24, 2011
Patrick, you will be missed. I am sorry we all weren't able to connect. May God rest your soul and bring peace and comfort to your family, especially to your children. You were always such a kind soul.
Jessica Utley
January 5, 2011
My name is Jessica and this was my dad. Thank you for writing and my dad was an amazing man, he will be missed dearly.
Patti Londre
November 24, 2010
To the Utley family, we Mathys girls from St. John Fisher have been sharing this sad news and fondly remembering the Utley boys in most of our classes. We send you our condolences.
Patti Mathys Londre
Jane Mathys
November 24, 2010
I was so sad to learn of Patrick's death. My prayers go out to your family. I was a classmate of Robert's at St. John Fisher and Rolling Hills High. 3 of my 4 sisters and I had an Utley brother in our class; we remember you all so well. Take good care of each other this holiday season. Love, Jane Mathys Allison
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