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Edward Schillinger Obituary

SCHILLINGER
EDWARD A., on Nov. 15, 2008,
age 62, of Lafayette Hill; beloved husband of Joan (nee Savage); father of Rachel E. and Rebecca J. Schillinger; son of Edward and Alice (nee Gianinni) Schillinger; brother of Michael and James. Memorial Service Sat. Nov. 22, 11:30 A.M. at Leverington Presbyterian Church, 6301 Ridge Ave., Phila., PA 19128. Visitation 10-11:30 A.M. at church. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, memorials to above church, Deacons Fund.

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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on Nov. 16, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Edward Schillinger

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Luvina Oliver

May 18, 2023

Hello my name is Luvina, I attended Pathway School when I was 14 I am now 57, Dr. Schillinger was my counselor in 1980-1981 Dr. schillinger was very attentive, kind, and caring person. I often think about the school, I would not be the person that I am today. I learn so much during the time I was there. My deepest condolences to the family.

Jim Archuleta

November 10, 2019

I am so glad that Ed and I stayed in touch after Dec 15, 1967, even tho we never saw each other again. Christmas cards, post cards and phone calls. He was a good man, I love him and still miss him.

Amanda Alkon

September 13, 2017

If anyone read what was written about Ed on Sept 12, 2017 and wondering who wrote it, It was written by Amanda Alkon by the way. I assumed the guest book had my name through my email address.

September 11, 2017

I was reading Ed`s obituary a few days ago. I didn`t know Ed as much as some of the other students at Pathway. One thing that I remember about Ed which was going back from years ago in 1988-89, That there was something about Ed that Ed seemed easy to get along with. Ed seemed to be able to take his upsets in stride which is what other people indirectly said about Ed as I was reading the guest book. My prayers go out to Ed`s immediate and extended family and all whom knew Ed.

Jim Archuleta

November 29, 2008

I last saw Ed on Dec 15, 1967, the day I was discharged from the Army. We have remained in contact thru our Christmas greetings and by phone on several occasions. In knowing Ed for only a little over the year we worked together in the operating room at Madigan General Hospital, I know he was truly a good person. I remember shaking hands with him when I left Washington, feeling in my heart that that was not enough. Guys did not hug each other much in 1967 but I wish I had that day. I do, and will love him and miss him.

Bonnie Hallman

November 25, 2008

I was one of the lucky people that got to know Ed at the Pathway School. He was a brilliant, caring, kind man and also a friend to us all. I used to love to go to his office and laugh about something that happened in the work program with one of his students. I say laugh because he always calmed me and made it funny before I left. I will take with me his teachings of grace and love for the remainder of my life. My heart goes out to Joan and his precious girls, his love for you was and is remarkable!

Anne French

November 24, 2008

Everything that has been written here and that was said at the celebration of life service has one overriding theme: that Ed truly lived his life as Jesus taught us to live. He clothed himself every day in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. I recently heard an old Hebrew saying: “May you be covered in the dust of your rabbi.” Ed walked so closely in the shadow of his rabbi, that he carried the "dust" of Jesus wherever he went. Hopefully, some of it rubbed off on those of us blessed to have known him.

Celine Kirts

November 23, 2008

In this season of Thanksgiving, I will undoubtably count among my blessings the significance of having met a man such as Ed, who humbly walked this earth with a most generous spirit, and the blessing of having met his most loving family, an inspiring example of strength, dignity and dedication. Thank you for sharing your intimate journey with so many of us. Sincerely, Celine Kirts

Bill Kirkpatrick

November 22, 2008

I am one of the numerous staff and students at the Pathway School who have had the honor and privilege of knowing Ed. Although many fond words come to mind when I think of Ed the one that always finds it way to the forefront is "kind". In the 23 years that I worked with Ed, I never heard an unkind word spoken by him. He was always the epitome of professionalism regardless of the intensity or severity of the issue at hand. Meeting on a regular basis as we refilled our coffee cups Ed would always ask, "How are Marie and the boys doing?" We shared many laughs over the years talking about our childrens' most recent adventures as they matured from small children to young adults. His love for Joan and his girls was always evident. They were his world, his life. Ed was truly a role model for us all - not only for our students but our staff as well. He was admired, loved and respected by everyone; what a wonderful testament to his goodness.
Ed will be missed by everyone but forgotten by none of us who have been touched by his kind, calm and compassionate spirit.

Harriet Bleiman

November 22, 2008

Our family was so saddened to hear about Ed's untimely passing. He was Billy's therapist at Pathway for over 7 years- he was truly the most gentle and kind man and Billy always felt comforted when Ed spoke with him. As past Board Members of Pathway, we, along with Bill, express our deepest sympathy on this solemn day and hope that your wonderful memories of Ed will get you through this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.... Harriet, Jeff, and Bill Bleiman

Jeanette Filopanti

November 21, 2008

For the 20 plus years I’ve worked with Ed I have been awe-struck by his true ability to relate to people on whatever level they were on. It was not uncommon for a student in distress to ask, “Can I see Dr. Ed?” Many of us who have been fortunate enough to have had Ed in our lives, understood and appreciated the genuine thoughtfulness and comfort he offered us. Ed’s passing is a great loss to everyone he touched.

Wayne Stratz

November 20, 2008

I was reading a book recently in which the author pondered why humans place flowers on graves. As I was driving home from work on the day I heard the news, I heard a haunting version of I'll Be Seeing You. I wondered where I would see Ed and I immediately thought of the flower garden where we both worked. My students and I have planted some of his favored day lilies there. I'll see you there next summer. And I will see your beauty in those flowers for that is why we place them on graves... To remind us of beauty.

Peace, Hope, Joy, and Love

Jim Verrecchia

November 20, 2008

My friends of old,
It has been some time since I had contact with you and I recall many wonderful times with you during my college years. I had been praying for you all, and Ed during this difficult but graced time and my prayers continue especially during this sad time of loss. As Ed was a gift to you all in life, he is now a gift to our loving God as we commend him to life eternal. May God give you his peace!

Diane Sipe

November 20, 2008

I've known Ed for more than 20 years. He was kindest, and the most gentle man I've ever known. He will be missed by students and staff. He always had a kind word for everybody he came in contact with. My deepest sympathy for the Schillinger family, my prayers are with all of you.

Diana Phifer

November 19, 2008

Dr. Ed was a wonderful human being and a dear friend. I, like everyone else who had the pleasure of knowing him, am truely blessed by each interaction we had. I will be forever grateful for him and the mark he made on my heart. I cherish the memories made as we worked together, and hope to put into practice the many lessons taught to me by this amazing man. I will miss his physical presence, but know that he is in a better place and he will continue to watch over us.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family..the loves of his life.

Marty Heenan

November 19, 2008

Eddie and I were boyhood pals, the best kind of pals. We attended Corpus Christi and Cardinal Dougherty, together. Our paths parted around 18 or 19 when the Service came calling. Eddie made it back to Philly while I settled in Florida. We probably only saw each other 4 or 5 times in the past fourty years, yet, when we did see each other, it was a special event. He was a terrific left-handed pitcher on our Corpus Christi baseball team. I remember him as a kind, considerate kid. I'm pleased to discover that he was also a kind, considerate adult. My thoughts go out to his wife and daughters.

Holly Coia

November 19, 2008

I had the honor and pleasure of working with Dr. Ed during my years in the residential program at Pathway. What important lessons he taught us--to make time for each other, to have at the ready a kind word of encouragement, to celebrate the small victories when the battle seems insurmountable, to hold dearest those things of real value-a loving family, faith in God, true friends, and honest work. Those of us lucky enough to have known Dr. Ed are better people for it. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

Maryann Ballone

November 19, 2008

To Dr. Schillinger wife and family my deepest sympathy on your great loss. I only knew Ed very briefly but I came away feeling that we knew each other for years. I know that he is with the Lord and closer now to us all than he could ever have been in life. I feel truely blessed that our life paths crossed each other. God Bless You. TA @ The Pathway School

Bernadette, Johnny and Jane Vitale

November 18, 2008

Our hearts were very saddened to read the passing of Eddie. However, after reading the most loving comments made by so many people who knew Ed, it was so uplifting to know how many lives he touched. We were very close neighbors on Bambrey Street for many years. Even as a young child, he was very special—he was bright, good looking and just a nice kid. I understand that my deceased father just loved him and took him to the ballgames whenever he had an extra ticket. To his wife and children, Alice, Eddie, Michal and Jimmy, may the loving memories of your beloved husband, father, brother and son bring so much joy and peace to all of you. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this sad time.

Rebecca Anhorn

November 18, 2008

I will never be able to fully express the impact that Dr. Ed has had on my life both professionally and personally. He was the listening ear that made you feel that everything you shared was so significant and meaningful. He was a mentor, a friend, and an amazingly talented clinician. I am thankful for and will greatly miss our "friday time" spent together over coffee and walks around campus visiting the programs. Thank you Dr. Ed for being a positive force in my life and exemplifying the importance of true friendship. My prayers go out to the Schillinger family and may you rest in peace Dr. Ed.

Kevin Hornberger

November 18, 2008

I also count myself as very blessed and fortunate to have known Ed and worked with him at Pathway. We would often meet at the end of the school day in the cafeteria where many of the students congregated. It was obvious that Ed was both professional and humane in so many ways. Ed always seemed to put his personal needs aside to make himself available to support the students and his coworkers. I will always remember Ed's warm and generous spirit that he shared with so many.

Sandra Price

November 18, 2008

To the Schillinger Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your son, husband, father and brother.

I did not know Eddie very well at all, but will be forever grateful to him and Joan for having me over for New Years Eve dinner several years ago when I was in Philly dealing with a family issue.

I had heard great things about Eddie and his family over the years and when I finally met them, I then understood first hand, their kindness and genorosity.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sandra Price (Wayne Price's sister and Jim's friend).

Dr. Ben Champion

November 18, 2008

Dr Ed and I were great friends at Pathway.  I will cherish the may positive memories I have of that time together and for the times we shared specifics about how our faith helped us to live one day at a time.  He was a rare and sweet-spirited man who will be greatly missed by so many of us who had the priviledge of knowing him and working with him to help the students, parents and staff of The Pathway School.

Suzanne Thomas

November 18, 2008

While I was reading the other entries in this guest book, several words were used over and over again to describe Dr. Ed. Gentleman, kind, thoughtful, etc. These words describe him but are not enough to do him justice. When I passed Ed in the halls at Pathway or stopped for a conversation, the question of "how are you" was more than just a courtesy. They were spoken with real interest and sincerity. He really did care about how you were. You could see his kindness in his eyes and hear it by the tone of his voice. Every now and then you meet someone that touches you and makes you see things a little differently. Dr. Ed was that kind of man. Even when he became ill, I heard many stories of Ed counseling others and caring for people who needed his guidance. I am in awe of Ed, Joan and the entire Schillinger family and the love and strength they have shown by example during these difficult months. They have been the model of what love and spirituality should be and they will continue to be in my prayers. We have all been blessed in knowing them.

Rose Prendergast

November 18, 2008

My husband Tom and I along with Cass Alexander, Jim Purcell and many more were part of the Bambrey Street Crowd. We all grew up together in a time that was so wonderful and are left with beautiful memories to sustain us. Whenever Ed, Joan, Alice (Ed's mom) and Tom & I were together, we would reminesce about the good old days. Tom & Ed had a great childhood together and the stories of those days would make us all belly laugh. Tom was part of Ed's bachelor party and I can tell you that with Ed's quiet refined manner the bachelor party was no where near quiet and refined.

We loved Ed and he will be sadly missed. Tom had a bear hug from Ed the last time he saw him and it will be something he carries with him forever.

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to all the family, Joan, Rachel, Becky, Alice, Mike & Jim and many more. We love you all.

Sue (Reed) Heitzenrater

November 18, 2008

To the Schillinger Family,
I haven't seen Ed in many, many years but have so many great memories of him during our wonderful teenage years. We were so fortunate to spend those years of our lives with a very special group of friends.
Even though we all grew up and went our separate ways, I know we all have a special place in our hearts for those days and most importantly those amazing friends. Ed was one of the best of the best. I don't think he ever said a nasty word about anyone. He loved everyone and we all loved him.
May you have comfort in the knowledge that he is at peace now and he left his mark on all who knew him. He will remain alive in all of our hearts.

Stephen Anderson

November 17, 2008

Dr. Ed was always willing to talk to his students anytime of the day! Me being one of them! Dr. Ed didn't care if you had a disablity he would talk to you like a regular person and man to man.

I will miss him dearly living just a block away and as a great man who the world has lost. Dr. Ed you will be missed by not only pathway but by all people that have known you.

May you rest in peace

John Rozance

November 17, 2008

I haven't seen Dr. Schillinger for a few years now, but I certainly remember him fondly. I truly enjoyed having him work with me through my high school career, and he always checked up on me while I was a West Chester. While any time we loose someone from this earth it is hard, I do believe that he is in a better place with Jesus. I can only imagine the pain and distress this brings his family, and for this, you have my condolences.

So Dr. Schillinger, you will be sorely missed, but hopefully someday we can all join you in heaven where I know you are.

Bill Rennekamp

November 17, 2008

I have known Ed for over twenty years now – mostly through our work at Pathway and the times – once a month or so – when we would get together and go off campus somewhere for lunch. We had one rule during those lunches and it was a good one. We never talked about work. Ed talked a lot about his family – about his wife and her garden and her career. And he talked about his two daughters. I remember how his eyes would sparkle when he did. He talked about their school and future plans and experiences abroad. And he talked about trips to the shore – always so special to him – at times opportunities for the thought and reflection that he believed brought him closer to God.

He would ask, too. He would ask what was happening in my life – if I was planning any trips – how my car was holding up. Invariably, though, he would ask not about things or events in my life, but about me – about how I was doing. Sometimes my answer was that I was fine; other times not. But, whatever my answer, his response to it was always supportive – always filled with a genuine concern and caring that lightened my burden – that gave me strength.

I believe that God lives in us – all of us. No one told me this; I came to that conclusion by watching and by listening to other people – people like Ed. Never once in all of the years I have known him have I heard him say anything negative about anyone. Never once did I find him attempting to maneuver in what many seem to see as a dog-eat-dog world to get himself into a position advantageous to himself but disadvantageous to another. He did not reach out to grab – he simply reached out. And in that reaching out, he healed – he healed many.

God lives in us. God’s love invites us to reach out to our brothers and sisters. Ed accepted that invitation. He accepted it with the gentleness that was his strength and with the love and caring that was his passion. He saw the love of God not just in himself, but in everyone else, and he reached out. He reached out and brought others to see it in themselves - not by preaching; he never preached. He did it by a quiet extension of his own heart, touching the hearts of other human beings – each one unique to him, each one special.

I see God in Ed; I still do; I always will. He was one of those remarkable individuals who helped me to see God in others; and for this I am extremely grateful. God’s love shines in him even now; he magnifies it.

Ed took great comfort in Jesus as the Good Shepherd, seeing himself as one of the Lord’s sheep. I can understand this. Yet, at the same time, I believe that Ed was a good shepherd himself – a very good shepherd, caring and guarding and looking after so many. I will miss my good shepherd. But I shall take my own comfort in the fact that I know with certainty that he continues to tend to those he loves.

Priscilla Kinzie

November 17, 2008

It's hard to believe that Ed's life has come to an end as we know it. I am so saddened by your loss and my heart goes out to Joan and the girls. At the same time, I rejoice that he is finally at peace and resting in the presence of our dear Lord, Jesus Christ. I have been so encouraged by your many emails through these last 15 months. Your faith has often strengthened me. I look forward to seeing Ed someday and we can all rejoice in praising our Lord. He has given you so much strength thru all of this.

I will miss Ed here at Pathway. We both go way back to the beginning of our start at Pathway. He arrived at school just a year before me. I remember eating lunch with him along with my students and having funny conversations. I remember when He would talk about his Mom and when he and Joan got married. We would often share conversation about our own children. He always had time to stop and chat and give an encouraging word.

Again, my heart goes out to you and I will continue to keep you all in my prayers as you travel thru these next few weeks and throughout the coming year. Keep trusting Him who gives you strength and never leaves you.

If there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask.

Ed's co-worker and Friend at Pathway

Cass (Alexander) McDevitt

November 17, 2008

Our sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Eddie Schillinger, as we called him. When we read the obituary it made us so sad to think that it has been so long since we have seen him.

We were teenage friends. A whole group of us lived on Bambrey street and the surrounding streets. We didn't hang out on the corner but right on our front steps, where our parents could look right out and see us. You realize later that it was an idyllic time. We had no peer pressure; we were more afraid of our parents than anything else. Eddie was one of our group all through high school and after. Then we all went our separate ways moving from the area and getting married and starting our own families.

When we read the words about Eddie we weren't surprised. He was a great kid who became a well-respected husband, father and friend. This made us realize just how much we missed that time in our life. He was always a very special person and he was loved. What nice memories we have of him from a time long ago.

Susan Marquette-Cleaver

November 17, 2008

What a special person! One of the first people I met at Pathway in the winter of 1988, Ed immediately impressed me as a kind and genuine man. Ed was always 'filling people's buckets' -- recognizing others for their efforts, and making them feel valuable. I have great memories of Ed when we traveled far and wide to do evaluations off-campus. He clearly adored his family, and was so proud of his girls. I can only imagine how much he will be missed by family, friends and colleagues. I think that tomorrow, I will try to pass on some of Ed's thoughtfulness to someone else . . he would've liked that.

Mary Alice Lombardi

November 17, 2008

Wow, I have known Dr. Ed. for more than 20 years. That has been my great pleasure. If I had to describe him in one word, I would say that he was a "gentleman". I say this in two ways, Dr. Ed was a gentleman in the way he carried himself and the way he spoke but more importantly he was a gentle man. He had a way about him that made you feel calm and made you look at the more spiritual side of life rather than the day to day stuff that might be making you a bit nuts at the time. Dr. Ed could talk to you about a day on the Ocean City Beach and you would forget about whatever was bugging at the time. I will miss this wise man.

Jim Purcell

November 17, 2008

We hit it off as classmates right from the first grade. I listened to him practice guitar when I thought we should be out playing. He couldn't teach me to hit the punching bag in his basement, on Bambrey street, more than two times. I threw the pass in Whittier schoolyard when he ran into the fence and gave him the scar on the right side of his face. He held onto it for a touchdown!
I visited him at Madigan Gen'l Hospital before I went overseas with the Army. He gave me some of the greatest advice I ever had. It was easy to love and respect the guy.
My prayers are with him and his family at this difficult time.

Meghann Radick

November 17, 2008

Ed was an amazing person who brought so much joy and inspiration to those around him. He always put others ahead of himself. One of my first memories of Ed. was him carving a turkey for the kids and staff to celebrate a Thanksgiving dinner in a cottage a Pathway. Ed then asked each student to share something that they were thankful for. When it was Ed's turn to share he said that he was thankful for his family, friends and working at Pathway. This year, when it is my turn to share what I am thankful for (as I have since continued the tradition with the students) it will include being thankful for having been blessed to have had the opportunity to have know Ed. Ed was the kindest man I have known and I will miss him greatly! My prayers go out to Ed's family.

Brian Trusty

November 17, 2008

Every great piece of music always has the steady beat. The heart beat that brings it all together. For many years "Dr. Ed" was that beat. No matter how high things got or how low, he was that steady influence, that encouraging word, that rythmic beat that brought us that assurance and reassurance even when we did always believe it.

We lost a coworker, a friend, a mentor, but we gain far more and are all richer by having the opportunity and priviledge to have known Dr. Ed.

One of things that Dr. Ed loved was the roast of the outgoing gradutes from Pathway evey June, and every year he made a point to thank us for putting it together. As I writing this, I am reading the last card that he sent me. It reads ..."thanks for all the time and effort. The students, staff and parents loved it...God Bless"

Ditto to you Dr. Ed.

Jan Harper

November 17, 2008

Dr. Ed was one of the few people who gave me a warm fuzzy feeling without ever having to say a word. "Come as you are and I'll accept you" was his motto. He had a special gift of making me feel that being myself was more than enough it was something special
God bless his gentle soul

Rosemarie Beier

November 17, 2008

Ed and I met 27+ years ago when we were both in our early 30's and I was a new employee at Pathway. At that time, Ed was engaged to Joan, the love of his life. One of our first talks was about his bachelor party! Then came Rachael and Rebecca, his beloved daughters. Having a daughter a few years older, Ed and I would look to each other for counsel and advice over the trails and tribulations of raising girls. Over a cup of coffee, we had endless conversations over stuff, some silly and some quite serious. Our talks continued albeit less frequently over the past 18 months. My visits to your home were precious to me.

Good-bye, my friend, and God speed.

Rosemarie Schoeffling

November 17, 2008

It was a great pleasure to have known and worked with Ed. I can remember the day he began working here at Pathway. We would often talk in the White House Kitchen, about our families, trips I took, and retirement. I enjoyed sharing the happy events in his life, his marriage and his girls. Ed always ask about my family, and how I was doing. He was a very kind and gentle person. He was a true gentlemen. Ed will be remembered always in my prayers and thoughts. My condolences to you and your family.

Donna Keenan (Megna)

November 17, 2008

I am honored to say I worked with Dr. Ed at Pathway. I admired the way he spoke with not only the students, but the staff as well. He truly listened and cared about everyone at Pathway. Dr. Ed always asked me about my family, as if he knew them for years (He had never met anyone in my family). But that's the way Dr. Ed was....so caring and so giving of himself. He will be missed by everyone who was privileged to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time.

Tracey and Tony Monteleone

November 17, 2008

Ed was a truly good person who really cared about the kids. Our sympathy goes to his family. Know that we are thinking of you through this difficult time.

Rose Hunt

November 17, 2008

I will always remember Ed and our conversations about our travels to and from the sea shore. I believe one of his favorite places was the beach. He always made it a point to ask about my family and was so giving of himself when I lost my son several years ago. Ed I will miss you. My deepest condolences to the Schillinger family.

Shari Donath

November 17, 2008

For all the years I worked at Pathway, Ed was always there to thank me for each and everything I did for the kids. He purposely came to see me in my art room to praise the programs, events, and art work that the students and I produced. He was one of the kindest and most genuine persons I have ever known. He had a huge heart, a kind smile, and it seems a specific intent to bring joy and love into everyones lives. I will miss him a lot, and think of him often. He gave our world lots of love and postive energy that I feel will continue to spread across the planet. God bless Ed and all his goodness.

Erin Solana

November 17, 2008

I feel very fortunate to have met and spent time with Ed during my time at Pathway. His presence filled a room with warmth, care,support, sincerity and calm. He touched so many people and will forever be held in my thoughts as a true angel whose presence touched everyone fortunate enough to know him. My thoughts are with his family at this time.

Emily Killar

November 17, 2008

I am fortunate to have worked closely with Ed at The Pathway School for six years prior to his illness. Gratitude is what I feel when I reflect on my friendship with Ed. I feel grateful that I was blessed to know someone who gave so much of himself to those in his care, to his friends, to acquaintences. Grateful to him for teaching me by example and during our talks about setting priorities in life, family first and then everything else falls in to place. I feel comforted when I think how his good will and good work will live on in those whose lives he touched (and there are so many), but I will still miss my friend Ed.
My sincerest condolences to Ed's amazing wife and daughters, his entire family, and his circle of friends.

Marisa Williams

November 17, 2008

I haven't had the pleasure of knowing Dr. Schillinger personally, however I have encountered him numerous times on campus and in the cafeteria, all which have been very pleasant. He always smiled and said "hello". To the family, May God through His Holy Spirit continue to comfort you during this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

maggie gillston

November 17, 2008

My sincere condolences go to the
entire family at this very difficult
time.

John Stewart

November 17, 2008

I remember Ed in numerous ways. He was always kind, gentle, warm, caring, and so much more. Ed always came down to see what was in the candy jar on my desk and talk with me about whatever was going on or ask about how things were going with me and my family. His warmth, love of life, and complete dedication to everyone who met him will be missed immensely. I will miss Ed dearly but know he will always be with me in spirit and heart.

Judy Smith

November 17, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Schillinger Family. I will always remember how he would greet me every morning and ask how my family was doing. I am glad I got the chance to know such I wonderful man. I will never forget him.

Monica Miller

November 17, 2008

Ed will be greatly missed, he truly was a wonderful man and every child he worked with was trully blesses. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Schillinger family.

Nick Dorazio

November 16, 2008

I have many fond memories of Dr Schillinger while working here at the Pathway School.
Too many to even mention. A few that come to my mind are all the times Ed would come down to the maintenance shop to borrow tools. He would borrow simple tools such as screwdrivers and wrenches to fix problems at home. We would always joke with Ed and say "would you like us to show you how to use that?"
He would chuckle and say "that might be a good idea so I don't make problem worse"
Another time I remember is sitting with Ed and his wife at a former pathway student's graduation party.
We all had a blast that evening! But the thing that I most remember about Ed is all the countless times he would stop me on campus and ask "how's the baby doing" I'm grateful that I had the chance to see and speak to Ed one of the last times he visited pathway several months ago. Best wishes go out to the Schillinger family.
Sincerely,
Nick Dorazio.
Residential staff- Anthony Wayne Cottage.

Bill O'Flanagan

November 16, 2008

A Life Well Lived

When he let go this mortal coil
What of a rational or spiritual plan
Perhaps the best I've ever known
Ed was that good a man

He lasted longer than they said
With a cancer that was so very bad
To give his girls a bit more time
Ed was that good a Dad

While others sought the spotlight
His modesty and humility truly grand
Radiant smile when he spoke of Joan
Ed was so good a husband

I saw them struggle against fate
But I've never seen a stronger one
Than was the love they felt
Ed was a wise, good son

For staff and students at Pathway
He spoke and modeled to the end
No thorn in any word he spoke
Ed was that good a friend

Ed believed with strength and depth
In the God that put us here
That God has made the final call
To bring our Ed up there

A Friend of Ed

Seth Finkle

November 16, 2008

Ed will be remembered fondly as a quiet, gentle humanitarian whose humble grace and compassionate wisdom will never be forgotten. It has been my privilege to have his friendship for these nine years. His passing saddens me deeply, although I take some comfort in knowing that his faith and goodness will remain alive and well in the hearts of the many lives he has touched. Ed, I'll miss you, my friend. God bless you and your family.

Rashonda Saunders

November 16, 2008

Dr. Schillenger was a wonderful man who will be deeply missed. My prayers go out to his family.

Dianne Manfredini

November 16, 2008

Ed was always there to listen, to talk, to share, to guide, to laugh, to share a soft pretzel and to provide support. He was grounded in faith and in the importance of living a life in which your priorities were not only clear, but guided the journey throughout your life. He personified gentleness, humility, and the true meaning of being a Christian. He touched so many people in so many ways, often in private,and gave with hardly a complaint, of his time, thoughts and search for goodness. We have been blessed to have had him in our lives and to have had the privilege of calling him a friend.

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