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Edmund Stronski Obituary

Edmund J. Stronski HAMPTON - Retired Navy Cmdr. Edmund J. "Ned" Stronski, 90, passed away Tuesday, Oct. 26, 2010 in Suffolk. Born in Albany, N.Y., June 20, 1920, he was a longtime resident of Hampton. Ned was preceded in death by his father and mother, Andrew B. and Alice Flood Stronski; his wife, Jean Noesser Stronski; and two daughters, Mary Lorraine Stronski and Loretta Jean Stronski. He is survived by four loving children, Elizabeth Stronski Deshotel (Clopha) of Bridgeport, Conn., Catherine Elena Stronski of Vero Beach, Fla., Claire Stronski Isley (Sam) of Chesapeake, and James Andrew Stronski (Angelika) of Jacksonville, Fla.; and six grandchildren, Hanabeta Deshotel, Katarina Deshotel, Abraham Deshotel, Dawn Deshotel, Bonnie Deshotel and Joseph Isley. Ned lived in Schenectady, N.Y., at his parental home until he entered the Navy in 1942. He was a graduate of Siena College with a B.S. degree in physics. While serving in the Navy, he attended the U.S. Navy Postgraduate School and graduated with a major in meteorology. Upon retirement from the Navy, Ned enrolled in graduate school at Old Dominion University, where he earned a M.S. degree in education. Ned was a veteran of World War II, as well as the Korean and Vietnam wartime periods. His sea service was served in various types of naval vessels. Destroyer duty accounted for several years of his naval service, which included the command of the USS Turner (DDR-834) and the USS Earl B. Hall (APD-107). Additionally, he served six years of sea duty with the U.S. Naval Meteorological Service. He retired from the Navy in 1968 after 26 years of active duty. Upon retirement from the Navy, Ned was the Naval Science Instructor for the NJROTC unit in Kecoughtan High School for 13 years. Ned was a longtime parishioner of St. Joseph Catholic Church, Hampton. He served on the parish board for several years as well as the new church building committee. He also served as a lector at Sunday masses. Ned was a docent for the Mariners' Museum for more than 20 years and was a life member of the Military Officers Association. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Friday, Oct. 29, at St. Joseph Church, Hampton, by the Rev. Alistair McKay. Interment will be in St. Mary's Catholic Cemetery in Norfolk at 10 a.m. Saturday. The family would like to extend a special thank you to Maryview Nursing Care Center. R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home is in charge.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 28, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Edmund Stronski

21 Entries

Beth Deshotel

April 30, 2011

Thank you, Dad, for always standing behind us, loving us and giving us your best.
"Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;"
from "Crossing the Bar" by Alfred Tennyson
(Dad's favorite)

Jim Fulcher

March 29, 2011

I served on the USS TURNER (main control) 1961/1962 under Commander Stronski, He was a great leader and fine gentlemen. I know he has been missed greatly. We need more like him.

November 8, 2010

I, too, wish to join all of my classmates and friends who have contributed such wonderful memories of a man who meant so much to us at such an important time in our lives. Both my brother Stephen ('80) and I learned much from this great man.

Norman Pearce (KHS '76), Grand Rapids, MI

THERESA FRAZIER

November 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 1, 2010

My condolences to the Stronski Family.
Co worker and Friend of Claire's. Caroline Catalano Grigsby

Toni Haaland

October 31, 2010

To the Family of Commander Stronski, My husband and I were students in KHS's NJROTC program in the 1970's. I was also a classmate of Jim's. We send our prayers and our heartfelt condolences to you. We have a deep love for your father and gratitude for the many ways he taught, led and guided us. He will always be in our hearts.
-Toni and Mark Haaland, Burke, VA

October 31, 2010

I was a classmate of Claire's and one of the many NJROTC student's CDR Stronski influenced and guided. His counsel during my senior year as part of the senior staff of the unit were foundational to my military and post-military career. My prayer's and condolences to the family.

Steve Turley, Major, USAF(Ret)

robert sneed

October 29, 2010

To the Family Of Commander Stronski, My Deepest Condolences . I also was in the KHS NJROTC Unit in 1974 under his leadership. Jim, your Dad was a wonderful leader. Once in lifetime, people like him come along and give a lasting impression. He will be missed.

Glenn Goodroe

October 29, 2010

We wish your family the best through this tough time and we offer our condolences.

John H Bell

October 28, 2010

My prayers and sincere condolences to the family of this fine man.Within the communities of KHS and Elizabeth Lake Estates,Cmdr Stronski was a well respected leader,teacher,and neighbor.I did not know him well,but I knew of him,and that was always a positive...especially considering the caliber of professional persons living nearby.I'll always remember him.

October 28, 2010

To the Stronski family: Please accept my heartfelt condolences. CDR Stronski was simply a courageous Naval officer, dedicated family man and devout Catholic. He really made a difference in the lives of NJROTC students he instructed at KHS. He also worked a lot with my parents serving St. Joseph's Parish community through the years. Jim, all the best to you...it's been a long time!

COL (ret) Joe Curtin....KHS '76
Woodbridge, VA

Mike August

October 28, 2010

Heartfelt sympathies to my longtime friend Jim Stronski and his family as I learn of the passing of your father.

Ric Paquette

October 28, 2010

My condolences to the Commanders family. I was in the NJROTC unit at KHS from '72-'75. I have many good memories of his classes. He provided excellent leadership. He served our country well.

Robert Comet

October 27, 2010

My sincere condolences to Ned's family. I did docent/volunteer work with Ned for many years at The Mariners' Museum on Wednesday and we had a lot of fun swapping sea stories. He was a positive upbeat colleague and I miss him.

Robert E Comet, Capt,USN (Ret)

Bonnie Bridger Mittelmaier

October 27, 2010

CDR Stronski touched, influenced, and inspired many young lives. He served as a positive model of strength, integrity, and courage. On behalf of the Kecoughtan Classes of 1968 and 1969 we extend our sincere sympathies and condolences to the family and friends of CDR Stronski. He will live on in the hearts of our classmates.
Bonnie Bridger Mittelmaier
KHS 1968 & 1969 Reunion Class Committee Member

Linda Shackelford

October 27, 2010

My prayers are with your family. Cmdr. Stronski was commander to both of my brothers, George and Mark while in ROTC at Kecoughtan. My brother, George Kiemer, helped with the crazy stuff with Lawrence Peters and the GO NAVY stickers on Ft. Monroe!! When George passed away four years after graduation, Mr. Stronski and family had St. Josephs hold a special mass for him. That was a wonderful gesture that my family will always treasure. He will be missed. Condolences to your family at this time and may your memories bring you comfort. Linda Kiemer Shackelford

October 27, 2010

Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss.
My late father, QMCS(SS) Arthur W. Spriggs, USN (Ret), was the Asst. Naval Science instructor under CDR Stronski's command at KHS. I can recall that "The Chief" always spoke very highly of his leadership, dedication, and support. I know that his positive influence on the lives of countless young adults will be long remembered and honored.

Captain David A. Spriggs, USNR(Ret)

Dale & Theresa Orren

October 27, 2010

Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Stronski family at the passing of the Commander. I am one of many students that benefitted from his mentoring while part of the KHS NJROTC unit, 1975-1978. Even now as a US Navy retiree, I reflectly fondly on those times, recognizing we are all better for having known CDR Stronski--Thank you for caring about all of us. Both Theresa and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. MMCM(SS/SW)(USN, Ret)

RSVP

October 27, 2010

Cmdr. Stronski was a member of the Retired Senior Volunteer Program for many years. His service at the Mariners Museum was greatly appreciated. Please accept our condolences.

Lawrence Peters

October 27, 2010

I pretty much owe my military career to him and the Chief. They touched a lot of lives in that unit mine was one of them. The Cdr had a lot faith in me, maybe more than I did myself at that time. I will always be grateful for the opportunities he gave me. He also put up w/ the crazy stuff we did. Like putting GO NAVY signs at Ft Monroe before the Army-NAVY game. Or the cardboard cut out of a Naval Officer on the TRADOC Cdr's front door. LT USCG (retired)

Eric Johnson Major, USA, Ret.

October 27, 2010

Commander Stronski was my NJROTC instructor @ KHS. What a fine officer and quiet leader. He was a great example for many to follow and provided firm guidance to us "teenagers". Thank you Sir! My prayers for your family during this difficult period. God Bless you all.

Sincerely,

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