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James Otis Durham Sr. NEWPORT NEWS - James Otis Durham Sr., passed away peacefully Oct. 29, 2010 in Riverside Specialty Hospital surrounded by family and friends. Otis, as he was affectionately known by many, was born Jan. 15, 1946 in Manson, N.C., to the late Sonny and Lue Ethel Durham. He received his education from the North Carolina Public School system. He was preceded in death by his wife, Regina D. Durham and one brother, Robert C. Durham. He was the owner and operator of Eddie's Furniture in Newport News, where he served the community for more than 30 years. His business flourished and he enjoyed the conversations of his many customers and friends. Although a native of Manson, he was a longtime resident of Newport News and a dedicated lifelong member of Palm Tree Baptist Church, where he served faithfully as a Trustee and later became a Deacon. He leaves in God's care a devoted daughter, Shannon A. Durham of Newport News; one son, James Otis Durham Jr. of Newport News; nine sisters, Juanita Porter (Clyde) of Newport News, Jearlene Porter (Melvin) of Hampton, Minnie Harrington of Brooklyn, N.Y., Mary Eaton of Norlina, N.C., Elnora Turner (Bernard) of Macon, N.C., Maple Russell and Geneva Watson both of Henderson, N.C., Barbara Dortch of Manson, N.C. and Jacquelyn Tyson (Lynn) of Warrenton, N.C.; one brother, Harrill Durham of Durham, N.C.; one grandson, Nigel Durham; two sisters-in-law, Janet Boone (Samuel) of Portsmouth, Brenda Porter of Chesapeake; and a host of loving and supportive nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. A celebration of life will be held at noon Wednesday, Nov. 3, at Palm Tree Baptist Church, Suffolk, with Pastor Anthony Sommerville officiating. Interment will be held at Carver Memorial Cemetery. Viewing will begin at noon today, Nov. 2, at Crocker Funeral Home and the family will receive friends from 6 to 7 p.m. The family will receive friends at 747 29th St., Newport News. Special thanks to the staff of Renal Advantage and Riverside Specialty Hospital for their care and support.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 2, 2010.

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Stanley Kearney

November 4, 2010

He is my friend and mentor. I will truly miss him his spirit was like no man I have met.I know now that God has a new angel, so do not fret he is in good hands.Gods hands and he's never lost one.

June & Benny De Jesus

November 3, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Henry Mitchell

November 2, 2010

Sorry To Hear Of Your Loss.May Peace And Love Be With You During This Time.

THE MIZELLS

November 2, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Patricia A & Calvin Watson, Jr

November 2, 2010

Shannon,
Today - the pain is great.
Tomorrow - the PROMISE OF JOY!!
Forever - HE LIVES IN YOU...

JORDAN FAMILY

November 2, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

November 2, 2010

Shannon & Nigel, may God continue to strengthen you in the mist of your loss.Pop-Pop would be very proud of your Love and Endurance. You were a faithful and loving daughter. May the works you have done speak for you. Isaiah 41:13---For I am the Lord, your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you "DO NOT FEAR", I will help you.... Shannon God will keep you and help you through this time! Love Janice & Carl Richardson

Leonard Mitchell

November 1, 2010

Shannon,may God keep you and your family during this time. My prayers are with you and your family, Love Jay.

Sallie Cooke

November 1, 2010

Rest in Peace Cousin Otis. I know you are in a place where you are no longer suffering. To Shannon, Nigel, and the rest of the family, I pray for strength and comfort during your time of sorrow.

Gary and Monette Damon

October 31, 2010

My condolences Shannon on the passing of your beloved Father

Gary & Monette Damon

October 31, 2010

My condolences Shannon on the passing of your beloved Father

Maria

October 31, 2010

Shannon, Nigel & Paul, we extend heartfelt sympathy to you. May the serene peace and love of our Creator comfort and sustain you during this time and forever. Much love to you.

Cookie, Cheryl, Jimmy, Monette, Monique, Paula, Dee and the entire Moss Family.

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