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Phyllis Patnode Obituary

Phyllis S. Patnode NORFOLK - Phyllis S. Patnode, 67, of the 700 block of Euwanee Place, passed away April 11, 2009, in a Norfolk hospital. She was a retired computer programmer and a native of Orwell, Vt. She is survived by her husband, Skip Patnode; one son, Norman Patnode and wife Elaine of Woodbridge, Va.; and one daughter, Susan Cervantes of Norfolk. Phyllis was also survived by her mother, Iris F. Stacy of Norfolk; five grandchildren, Lauren, Alissa and Ryan Patnode, Jessica and Carlos Cervantes; and numerous nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her father, Harold A. Stacy and her sister, Anne Warner. A memorial remembrance will be held Saturday from 5 to 6 p.m. in the Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, Tidewater Drive Chapel. Interment will be at a later date in Vermont. Memorial donations may be made to the Khedive Transportation Fund, 645 Woodlake Drive, Chesapeake, VA 23320. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 14, 2009.

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April 8, 2021

Skip & the Patnodes,
You have our condolences. A dozen years, and I know you miss her greatly.
Pat & Jean Mahowald

Betty Quesnel

April 18, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.
Phyllis was a wonderful classmate, when we were at the Orwell, VT School.

Dan & Ruth Korolyshyn

April 18, 2009

Skip, our deepest condolences to you
and your family. We will miss seeing
Phyllis with you at all of the Alfa
events, but I'm sure that she will be
there in spirit. God bless.

Barbara Stephenson

April 17, 2009

Skip very sorry to hear about you're loss.Hope all is well with you. Next time I get into town I will stop in to see you.

Betty Ladd Moyer

April 16, 2009

Skip and all your family,
Words can not express my sorrow for you all at this time. Each will grieve for Phyllis in their own way. I remember walking on the golf course path with her last year when Perry & I came to Williamsburg to visit. I’m so glad we got to spend some time with you all. We never realize how precious time is and how short our time in this life can be.
Hugs to you all, you will receive many and keep them all in your hearts-they’re all special hugs.

Pat & Jean Mahowald

April 16, 2009

Skip & the Patnodes,
You have our deepest condolences. God bless you all.

Roland (Peeps) Cormier

April 15, 2009

Skip My deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this difficult time. I have fond memories of our time together in VS 25 and of your recent visits. May God bless and strenghten you

Bob Nnickerson

April 15, 2009

Skip, I'm so sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you.Time only well heal,Sorry brother.

Jean Williams Turner

April 15, 2009

Skipper...I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I believe we are long lost second cousins and if so, I spent many a memorable summers with you and your family in Orwell during the early 1960s. Please contact me when time allows you move forward. We need to catch up and share memories.

Nathan Knight

April 14, 2009

Susan,

I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Your mother was one of the nicest and most pleasant persons I've ever met and I knew she loved you immensely.

kathy Boyd. Fincher

April 14, 2009

to the patnode family i have many good memories of phyllis and family when we lived next door in millington tenn.may God bless you at this time and always

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