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Stanley Graves Obituary

Stanley Hope Graves HAMPTON - Stanley Hope Graves, 94, passed from this life on Saturday Nov. 20, 2010. Born Oct. 26, 1916 in the Lahore area of Orange, Va., he was the youngest of four children born to Channing Page and Natalie Burrus Graves. He received a civil engineering degree from Virginia Military Institute, Class of 1939. He then began a 42-year career at Newport News Shipyard as a designer. It was at this time that he met and married his wife of 60 years, Louise Tennis Graves. During World War II, he served in Europe in the 272nd Artillery Battalion as a reconnaissance pilot. He continued his military career locally as a Battalion Commander in the U.S. Army Reserves, retiring as a lieutenant colonel. He was a longtime member of Memorial Baptist Church in Hampton. His favorite pastime was watching sports, especially college basketball and the Atlanta Braves. Mr. Graves had been an avid hunter throughout most of his life. He loved spending time with family and friends on his farm in Orange, especially at this time of Thanksgiving. Mr. Graves is survived by his sister, Violet Page Graves of Orange; daughter, Page Graves Nestor and husband Robert of Virginia Beach; daughter, Rhonda Louise Graves and Ellen Coleman of Hampton; granddaughter, Jenna Brown Agnello and husband Bryan of Norfolk; granddaughter Kathryn Leigh Brown and Joe Rodgers of Palo Alto, Calif.; grandson Michael Channing Brown and fiancée Christine Suter of Norfolk; stepgrandson, Owen Nestor of Newport News and stepgranddaughter, Katie Nestor of Norfolk. He will also be missed by his many nieces, nephews, and friends. A funeral will be conducted at 2 p.m. Wednesday, Nov. 24, at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home by the Rev. Lawrence Biermann with interment to follow in Parklawn Memorial Park. The family will receive friends today from 6 to 8 p.m. in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Memorial Baptist Church, 317 Lee St., Hampton, VA 23669.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 23, 2010.

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Frank Parker

December 1, 2010

On behalf of the VMI Class of '39 let me offer our condolences for your recent loss. I'm sure he will be missed by all and especially his Brother Rats.
In the Spirit.

Jim and Joan Pierce

November 23, 2010

Our hearts are with all of you there in Virginia during this sad time of loss. Our prayers will remain with you. Though we did not know "Stanley" personally, we know how much you all loved him and what a large part he was in everyones life. May your memories sustain you until you see one another again.

November 23, 2010

I worked for Stanley years ago in the shipyard He was a good boss and a fine man. My sympathy to the family.

Bob Adams
Greenville, SC

Beth Allen

November 23, 2010

We know how much Stanley will be missed. John and I will be thinking of you all and love you

Brian, Gigi & Harrison Mellor

November 22, 2010

Our Deepest Condolences goes out to the Graves Family.

CS and Eldon Taylor

November 22, 2010

You are in our thoughts.

Glenn Graves

November 22, 2010

Page, Lovey and families. I was saddended to hear of the loss of your Father. We had many fond memories of he and Louise and those "Card Parties" in the country.Prayers and comfort to all.

Melinda Smith

November 22, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was a kind man and we were lucky to have met him. Warmest Regards, Soren and Melinda Smith (neighbors) Hampton VA

Kim Freeborough

November 22, 2010

R- He seemed like a mighty fine man and we know he was an excellent father and neighbor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Susan Dunkailo

November 22, 2010

Mr. Graves' kindness to me as a young friend of his daughter Rhonda are with me to this day. His earthly body may have left us, but his generosity of spirit will live in us always. My deepest sympathy to his entire family.

Bob and Pam Shiner

November 22, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May his memory bring peace to your hearts.

Peggy Dannenberg

November 22, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Please accept my deepest sympathies. May God Bless and bring comfort to your family.

Paul Gresham

November 22, 2010

a fine commander and outstanding man.

November 22, 2010

There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this Thanksgiving, but it will be filled with loving memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. From your loving family next to you all at "Graves End" in Lahore, Virginia - Trudy, Ronnie, Jason, Kristen, Tim, Carrie, & Andrew

Marshall Brown

November 22, 2010

The sorrow felt is tremendous, Stanley was a great man and a friend for many years, may God bless you all in this time of sorrow.

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