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Sally Nelson-Upton Obituary

Sally J. Nelson-Upton
Virginia Beach - Sally J. Nelson-Upton 72
A gathering of friends and family will be held Sunday July 28th 2013 at her home away from home Seatack Recreation Center 141 South Birdneck Road Virginia Beach, VA. 23451 from 12 noon until 2pm.
Miss Sally passed away Monday July 17th in the comfort of her home, surrounded by her loving family. She was born November 18th 1940 to Harry & Helen Nelson in Brooklyn, New York. She was the youngest of 8 children and is survived by her siblings Mildred LeMarquand, Sadie Chrzanowski, and Sonny Nelson.
Young Sally loved music and dancing, she was a New York City rock-n-roll gal through and through. She shared fond memories of saddle shoes, poodle skirts, and adventures in Coney Island and throughout Brooklyn.
Settling into Virginia Beach in the early 80's she became a role model to her children, working multiple jobs to support them while still making time to provide a nurturing, fun and loving home. She worked at W.T. Cooke Elementary and an oceanfront hotel for 20+ years and made innumerable friends. She enjoyed her retired years among her newly extended family at the Seatack Recreation Senior Center where she enjoyed playing games, crafting, and swimming.
She was a wonderful parent and mentor to her children and as they grew older developed into their best friend. With heavy yet full hearts she leaves behind her four children, Sally, Helen, AJ, and John. She also leaves behind nine grandchildren, and three great grandchildren. She was met at Heaven's Gate by her first grandchild, her guardian angel.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 21, 2013.

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Lydia

September 24, 2024

Much love, Grief never really goes away, I think you just get accustomed to it being part of your life

Jackie Williams

August 19, 2013

AJ and John with a prayerful and sad heart I offer my deepest sympathy.I just found out,otherwise I would have been at the memorial.Her memory will always be in my heart.We worked together at W.T. Cooke.Much Love!!

Jackie Williams

Wayne Sr Buckley

July 26, 2013

My thoughts are with your family.So sorry for your loss

Wayne Sr Buckley

July 25, 2013

My thoughts are with your family,so sorry for your loss.

Lydia Buckley

July 25, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during your grief for such a wonderful human being. My love especially goes out toward John, may the holy spirit keep you surrounded with love and mercy

Linda Taylor

July 22, 2013

May God bless the family of this special lady who did so much for so many. God will keep her safe until you see her again!

John and Joellen DiMauro

July 21, 2013

God has another Angel.... Thoughts and prayers are sent for all the family.

Stephen Gavin

July 21, 2013

Our sincerest condolences to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

July 21, 2013

My thoughts are with your family during this time.

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