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Garrett C. Roby

1994 - 2014

Garrett C. Roby obituary, 1994-2014, Norfolk, VA

BORN

1994

DIED

2014

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Garrett Roby Obituary

Garrett C. Roby

Norfolk - Garrett Christopher Roby came into this world on November 9, 1994 in Norfolk, Virginia and passed away on October 5, 2014 at the age of 19 years old. Preceding him in death was his maternal grandfather, Lawrence Edward Flanagan.

ATC1 Garrett Roby attended Fairlawn Elementary, The School of International Studies at Meadowbrook, and was an honor graduate of Norview High School, Class of 2013. He served in the U.S. Air Force as an Air Traffic Controller, Airman 1st Class. He was an honor graduate of BMT, TRS 322 in April 2014, and completed Tech school at Keesler AFB in Mississippi prior to joining his unit at Seymore Johnson AFB in Goldsboro, North Carolina. He was in All City Chorus in elementary school and played the violin in middle school. He was a proud member of the Meadowbrook Naval Cadets. He sang baritone in the Norview High School Men's Chorus and Varsity Singers, where he was selected to the All-District Chorus and was a featured singer in the 2013 Virginia Arts Festival International Tattoo. His four years at Norview were shaped by his many friendships in the chorus and the NJROTC program, and was a member of the honor guard and drill team. While at Norview HS, Garrett played JV and Varsity Football, as a linebacker and a long snapper.

He had a passion for the great outdoors, and was an accomplished fisherman and hunter. He spent much of his free time with his Dad and friends fishing wherever and whenever he could. He loved fly fishing on the Jackson River in Bath County each spring with his circle of boys and their Dads. He took pride in every fish he caught, no matter the size or species. He was awarded a Virginia Master Junior Angler award and caught countless fresh and saltwater citation fish. During the past few years, he enjoyed fishing from his kayak on many lakes, ponds and rivers in the Hampton Roads area. Garrett even managed to catch a prized Koi fish from Lake Edward.

Garrett was the best son and little brother in the world. He loved his family and friends. He was easy to be around because he found joy in the simple things. He did all things with love, and chose to define himself based on things he could do rather than things he could not. He touched so many lives, and we know his spirit will live on forever.

Left to mourn his memory are his loving parents Kevin and Danielle Roby, and his older sister Gabrielle. He is survived by his maternal grandmother, Gabriele Flanagan, "Nanny", of Norfolk and his paternal grandparents, Ted and Roberta Roby of Michigan. He had many aunts, uncles and cousins including his mother's brother, Stephen Flanagan, wife Madeline, and their children Ryan, Victoria and Matthew. His father's siblings include Kim Allen Roby and his wife Gayle, and Kim's children Rhiannon Roby and Brenton Roby. Jim Roby and his wife Debbie, and Jim's daughter, Nina. Keith Roby, and his children, Stacy, Sarah and Teddy. Katie Roby Hooker, and her daughter Megan. Karen Roby Richards, her husband Mike, and their sons James, Michael and Kirby. Katherine "Kitti" Roby Harlowe, her husband Scott and their children Kenneth "K.J." Boyles and Nick Harlowe (Fiance Amanda Huffman) and K.J.'s wife Shannon, and their children Meadow and Skyler.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be given to the Garrett Roby Memorial Music Fund, through the Norfolk Education Foundation, 800 E. City Hall Ave, Suite 1203, Norfolk, Virginia 23510. May music continue to touch the lives of children as it did his. The family is especially grateful to the many friends who have come to lend comfort including the US Air Force support teams at Seymore Johnson and Langley, and Norfolk and Virginia Beach Public Schools staff.

A celebration of his life will be held at 2:00pm Sunday, October 12, 2014 at Woodlawn Funeral Home Chapel, 6329 E. Virginia Beach Blvd, Norfolk. The family will receive friends from 1-2pm prior to the service. Condolences may be offered online to the family at www.woodlawngroup.com.



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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 10, 2014.

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Kelly Horton

January 28, 2023

I still think of Garrett often. It´s been nearly a decade and I will always remember him as a bright, confident, polite, and all around remarkable ninth-grade honors English student. I will always be grateful that I had the privilege to be his teacher.
I am a better human because I had the privilege to know him - because to know him was to love him.
All my love to his amazing parents and beautiful sister.

Trudy Schumpert

October 17, 2014

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. May God uphold your family during this difficult time.
The Schumpert Family, Norfolk, VA

Elizabeth Ward

October 16, 2014

May you find comfort in the very happy memories that were made during his life. I wish you comfort and strength during this time and all the days that follow. Hold the memories close to your heart always. Kevin, Elizabeth and Austin Ward (fellow BMT)

October 15, 2014

The Roby family is in our thoughts and prayers. Our sincere condolences.

Kendra Edwards and Family

Jolie Huffman

October 15, 2014

I think of your family and Garrett every single day. I am so sorry for your loss.

Francine and Jim Robo

October 14, 2014

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Garrett was loved by so many. May you find some comfort in knowing that. Our sincere condolences on your loss.

Carmela Hill

October 14, 2014

I know Garrett from Fairlawn . I was a custodian there. Garrett was such a nice child. My prayers goes out to his family.

October 13, 2014

Forever

Chris Whetzel

October 12, 2014

Garret was a true friend and inspiration. He will never be forgotten, all my love to him and his family

Heather Jenkins

October 12, 2014

The world became a little dimmer today, it happened when I heard that you had gone away.
The angel smile that could melt my heart, now belongs to God...never to part.
That's some comfort, yes it's true, but it doesn't take away the fact that we'll never more see you.
and though we wrestle to try and understand, the best we can do is take each others hands.
Hold on tight, say prayers, and yes even cry,
Knowing we'll see you again one day in the sky.
So rest well now my beautiful friend.
As we move forward knowing this is not the end.

Fly high Roby...Pilots never die...they only fly higher than we can see.

Steven,Janet Bone and family

October 12, 2014

Love prayers and our deepest sympathy.

October 11, 2014

May the God of Peace and Love embrace you and your family . Our heartfelt sympathy .Laverna and
Ronald "Pooby" Jones. Norview High School.

Kay Hase

October 11, 2014

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God's love and comforting presence surround you in a very special way during your time of sorrow.

October 11, 2014

I'm really going to miss him so much

Kellette Elliott

October 11, 2014

So sorry for your loss. It's hard seeing such a close-knit family experience such sadness. Sending my love your way.

Nellie Lewis

October 11, 2014

Danny,
I am so sad to hear this news. Garrett was lucky to have such a special mom, and you such a special son. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

October 11, 2014

To Gabbie and family,
"Let not your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me."
My prayers are with you and your family. May God continue to bless you and your family during your time of loss.
Marcia E. Brown

Beverly

October 11, 2014

Garrett and I went to middle school together and weren't very close, but he was very kind to me at a time when very few people were. I'm sending prayers and good thoughts towards your family in this time of grief in hopes that the pain will ease with time.

October 11, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sorrowful time. God will bless you with strength and love as time goes on.
Sending my Christian Love,
Polly Reynolds

October 11, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Uncle Bob and Aunt Joan

Raelene and Kelly

October 11, 2014

We are very sorry to learn of Garrett's passing, and can't begin to imagine the depth of your loss. We didn't have the privilege of knowing him, but it seems that he lived a full life, and was surrounded by many friends and of course, a loving family. We hope and pray that your memories of him will bring you some measure of comfort. Raelene and Kelly

Vondra Mackey

October 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers are with the Roby family.

Julie (Morin) Brousseau

October 11, 2014

My heart and prayers go out to your family during this difficult time.

Jennifer McDuffie

October 11, 2014

I will never forget hearing Garret sing an old spiritual number with the Norview male chorus at the Fine Arts Festival at The TED. It was so moving. Danielle and Gabby I think you know my heart is with you and your family during this incredibly difficult time of sorrow. I do know this, Garret was loved and cherished by so many and especially by his family. The love you all shared will go on forever...

Esther Covan

October 11, 2014

May God give you the peace and comfort you need as you grieve the loss of your son. I am praying for you.

October 11, 2014

I wish i had the pleasure of knowing Garrett,Our family's have been to far apart wish we all lived closer to each other. My prayers, Thoughts and Love goes out to each and everyone of you Your cousin Tami Morin Erlenbach from Michigan

Nikki Johnson

October 10, 2014

My deepest condolences goes out to the Roby Family. Didn't know him that well but I do remember seeing him throughout the hallways of Norview with a smile on his face. R.I.P Garrett Roby. Your legacy lives on.

Amanda Ash

October 10, 2014

I remember many fishing stories staring Garrett. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Mathew Austin

October 10, 2014

I was a friend with him on facebook and for a cadet also he will also be missied in NJROTC.

Lisa Capps

October 10, 2014

To The Roby Family:

Prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Gladys Edmunds

October 10, 2014

May God comfort you all? I'm truly sadden for your loss.
I pray for comfort, for you and the family

Lynnell Gibson

October 10, 2014

Danielle:
We will miss Garrett deeply. He was such an amazing young man who touched all of us. Please know that we are grateful to have known him and to have had you share him with us. May God give us all strength during this time and provide comfort in the future.

Erika Handley

October 10, 2014

To the Roby Family;

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time but just take comfort in knowing that God needed another Angel to sing in His chorus and He chose your Baby. May Our Almighty Father give you peace and understanding and ease your pain.

October 10, 2014

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." May God's peace be with you and your family.
Barbara Hunt

Danny Dail

October 10, 2014

Danielle and Kevin , I am truly sorry for your loss.You guys are in my prayers.

October 10, 2014

I pray for comfort ,for the family. Sincerely, Earl Williams

Carol

October 10, 2014

Mrs Roby, I am a neighbor, we have said hi in passing when I walk my dog. I met your son one day when she got out and he called me to tell me he found her. I walked around the corner and there she was smiling as he smiled at me as well. He said she was so friendly and sweet and that is what I thought of him as well. He will be missed by so many and I hope the happy memories you keep in your heart and hear from others who knew him help get you and your family through these sad tough times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Onika Flores

October 10, 2014

May God grant you peace and love during this time. Praying for His comforting arms to surround your family.

Tanya Fowler

October 10, 2014

May God comfort you all. I'm truly sorry for your loss. Know you are in my prayers.

Anita Monroe

October 10, 2014

Praying for your family at this very difficult time and wishing you many sweet memories.

Keith Dyer

October 10, 2014

You and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayers. Deepest condolences,
Keith Dyer

October 10, 2014

Danielle, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Garrett. You and your family are in my prayers. Blessings to you and your family.

Betty Donley

Dominque Pollard

October 10, 2014

My deepest sympathies to the Roby family on the recent loss of their beloved son. Mrs Roby, you and your family are in my immediate prayers. May God send his holy spirit to comfort you during your time of bereavement.

Kim Bielmann Cabotaje

October 9, 2014

I will always remember Garrett as the boy with a twinkle in his eye and a quick wit who was ever on an adventure. As his neighbor and his teacher, I cannot recall a time that he was not polite and smiling. I wish you some peace, Gabrielle, Kevin and Danielle. In time, may you find only happiness in your memories.

ATC Graduation 2014

Sean Avery

October 9, 2014

Rick Jasper

October 9, 2014

Kevin & Danielle,

You have my deepest condolences and sympathy at the loss of your son. Garrett was one of the brightest and most respectful, as well as respected, young men I got to know through the NPS Music Program. His positive demeanor and smile were blessings that always seemed to help lift the spirits of those around him. You raised a wonderful son; know that his loss here on Earth is Heaven's gain and that he will be forever in your hearts.

Melisa Ingram

October 9, 2014

Kevin,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ric Burnley

October 9, 2014

Tough to lose a fishing buddy. Feeling your pain and sharing your loss. Love and peace.

Sondra Holmes

October 9, 2014

Kevin and Danielle, you have my deepest condolences in the passing of Garrett. It was always a pleasure seeing him growing up and playing in your front yard. Your family will remain in our prayers.

Debbie Bonney

October 9, 2014

Kevin, Danielle, Gabrielle
I am so sorry for your loss. I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time.

Charlie and Hattie Walls

October 9, 2014

Deepest sorry for you and your Family during this sad time.

Charlie and Hattie Walls.

Charity Zellmer

October 9, 2014

Kevin,
My deepest condolences on the lost of your son. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Vanessa Smith

October 9, 2014

Kevin and family,

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time.

Please remember When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know.

Allen Stanley

October 8, 2014

?Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…my thoughts are with you and your family that you find peace and courage during this difficult time..

Monte Ellis

October 8, 2014

Mrs. Roby and family,
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I know nothing can be said or done to relieve you of the pain that you all are feeling at this time. I pray for your strength as you go through this time in your lives. Focus on the good memories, they will warm your soul during the hard moments. We will continue to pray for you, be strong!!

Sara Sadler

October 8, 2014

I had the honor of being one of Roby's (as we called him) instructors at Keesler. It was a distinct honor and privilege to get to know such a wonderful young man. He always had a smile that could light up a room. I never saw him happier than when we were at a paintball tournament and he was crushing the competition. As I mourn for your family, I hope there is peace in your heart knowing how many lives this young man touched in his short time on this earth. My heart and the hearts of the rest of us who knew him here are heavy. We send or condolences to your family in this time of grief. He will forever be part of our Air Force family and deeply missed.

Evelyn Williamson

October 8, 2014

Danielle and family,
I am so saddened to hear of Garrett's passing. Although I never met him, I know the pride you had in him as it shown through whenever you spoke of him. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in your memories of good times spent together.

Milyn Midgette

October 8, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Susan Albert

October 8, 2014

I am at a loss for words. I know there is nothing for me to say that will make your loss easier. I hope you can understand what I can't put to words. Love and Thoughts and Prayers.

Martha Springstead

October 8, 2014

Our prayers continue for your comfort and peace. Know that you are loved and lifted up continuously by those who love you.
Martha and David Springstead

Chanica Harris

October 8, 2014

Mrs.roby you have done so much for me in my high school years and before Garrett even started at norview we all felt like we knew him from all the great stories you told of him. Then when Garrett came to norview we all loved him and he was the most kind hearted person I had ever met, he was always nice to me always made me feel welcomed in varsity always had a smile on his face and could make a joke about any situation Garrett was like family to all of us ALL of y'all are family to us and I'm very sad to have to say goodbye to a good friend all too soon. May we all remember him for the bright caring kind hearted, person he was. My condolences to your family in this tragic and very hard time

Chip Broadbent

October 8, 2014

Danielle, Kevin & Gabby, words are inadequate to express my sympathy and condolences at this stunning loss of your son, and brother, Garrett. My heart goes out to you and your family. Comfort and peace be to all.

Leander Kinchen

October 8, 2014

To the Roby Family,

My heart was broken to hear of your loss. My family and I are praying for your families strength, and comfort in these difficult times. May God bless you all.

Tim & Robin Jackson

October 8, 2014

Kevin and Danielle, we are praying for your family. Our hearts are broken to think of this loss to your family. Garrett is a special person and we can only imagine how difficult it is to suffer such loss. May the Lord comfort you all and we will continue to pray for your family.

Donna Wentt

October 8, 2014

May God give all of you comfort and peace. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Colleen Dawson

October 8, 2014

Kevin,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that happy memories of Garrett comfort you in the days ahead.

Anita Laurent

October 8, 2014

Kevin and family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart grieves for your loss. May God comfort you at this sad time.

Becky DiRosa

October 8, 2014

May you find comfort in the Peace of Christ...and may God continue to hold you in the Palm of His Hand...Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.

Dawn Allen

October 8, 2014

Ye have lost a child -- nay, he is not lost to you, who is found to Christ; he is not sent away, but only sent before; like unto a star, which going out of our sight, doth not die and vanish, but shineth in another hemisphere. ~ Samuel Rutherford

Kimberly Fogan

October 8, 2014

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Vance & Jenny Owens

October 8, 2014

Someone as special as Garrett will never be forgotten. Hold tight to the memories for comfort and allow the love of family and friends to give you strength.

Shantal Cherry

October 8, 2014

You are in heaven resting watch over us all Garrett you will never be forgotten . We all love you ?

October 8, 2014

Wow! I am just at a lost for words. Garrett was one of the coolest men at Norview High. It was an honor to be able to work along with him in Varsity Chorus during our senior year. His death is a shock to our entire class and he will definitely be missed. Rest on Garrett...

Blessings,
Minister Da'Qwone D. Hill
Class of 2013

Lauren Simpson

October 8, 2014

Danielle,
I can only imagine. Bless your heart. My words try to come as comfort to you and your family. Knowing you in Middle School, and then you and Garrett being at Norview with my children was a true blessing. There is something special with people that connect through Gods gift of music. You are a awesome Chorus Teacher! The only sense I can make of God taking Garrett home with him way to soon is God needs a awesome Chorus Teacher in Heaven, and He chose your beloved son. I am so very sorry for your loss.
With love
Lauren (Wilkinson) Simpson, Jordan and Bryce Simpson

Teresa Arrington

October 8, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Chris Knighton

October 8, 2014

Not too many guys will go crawling through the thickest thicket on their hands and knees looking for a bear that was shot with a bow and arrow. Garrett did didn't even have to ask him ! I only knew him through Scott and hunting but he was a special kid and had a heart of gold. Reading all the post on his fb page really shows how he was special and touched the whole community. Prayers for the family and friends in this time of greavance. R.i.p.

Monica Mullins

October 8, 2014

I remember the day that he was born. Our choral group was so happy to welcome the newest member of our family! We celebrated with you all then, and mourn with you now. I pray your comfort and strength grow each and every day. I can't be there physically, but you are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Love you all! (Norview c/o 96)

loretta Israel

October 7, 2014

Such sorrow,grief and saddness for the loss of Garett Roby. Garrett's Father, Kevin Roby is my first cousin, Garrett has accomplished many goals and achievements, I have seen and heard so many amazing stories and pictures through the years. his love for Hunting and fishing with is his Dad and Grandpa Roby and many others are great memories to cherish. My deespest condolences to Kevin, Danielle and Gabrielle Roby along with all Garrett's Grandparents, Uncles, Aunts, Cousins and friends. God be with you. Love and prayers, Loretta Israel

Gina Lopez

October 7, 2014

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

I still hear ya voice

Amber Haskins

October 7, 2014

Garrett you have left a mark on us we will never forget you I know I won't I loved you like a little brother singing will not be the same for me any more I wouldve love to just sing with you just one more time or say my last goodbye I still don't believe it,its still hard to swallow I don't know why or don't know how but God got him a great angel and your singing with them now rest easy baby boy love ya save me a place in the choir

sheila Critchfield(Zebley)

October 7, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.I will keep your family in my prayers.

Karen Waddell

October 7, 2014

I never got the pleasure of meeting Garrett personally, but hearing his mom talk about him and his accomplishments over the last four years made me feel like I did know him. My deepest sympathy to the Roby family and to those who held Garrett close. My family's thoughts, love, and prayers are with you, and my service is yours if there is any way I can help.

Once a Pilot - Always a Pilot #42

Tracie Bias

October 7, 2014

Garrett will always be in our hearts. I hope your hearts will heal with time. He was truly an incredible young man. He gave so much to others and always very respectful. He will be missed.

Dawn Eibel

October 7, 2014

Words cannot express my sorrow for your family. All of the stories that I have heard and read about Garrett are amazing. May your memories comfort you all. If there is anything that I can do for you, please don't hesitate to ask. Lots of hugs to all of you.

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