BRETT JOSEPH CHARMELLO
BRETT JOSEPH CHARMELLO
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BRETT CHARMELLO Obituary
Age 17, suddenly on Wednesday, April 14, 2010, of Kittanning, formerly of the N.S. Beloved son of Scott and Nicole; loving brother of Dominic and Cadence; grandson of Gary and the late Nancy Graham, Carmen and the late Donna Charmello; great grandson of James and Elizabeth Crawshaw and Catherine and the late Raymond Gonzales; also survived by Lori and Jim Amsden and Carmen and Donna Charmello; also numerous other aunts, uncles and cousins. Visitation Friday 2-9pm at BRADY MEMORIAL HOME, INC., 1151 Southside Ave. Spring Hill with Funeral Mass of Christian Burial Saturday 10am at Holy Wisdom/St. Boniface Church.
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Judy
February 28, 2011
In rememberance.
Debbie Kasenic
April 25, 2010
Dear Nicole and all of Brett's family, I don't know if you remember me Nicole but I am your Aunt Linda's friend Debbie. I no longer live in PGH and I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear of your tragic loss. I can't imagine the pain you all are going through especially so soon after the loss of Michael. My heart aches for your whole family. I hope you can find comfort in the special relationship you had with Brett and in knowing that he is now up there watching over you with your beautiful Mom.
Paul & Carol Hubert
April 22, 2010
Scott, Nichole, Dom, Cadence,
We are sorry we were out of town when this tragedy happened. Our thoughts and prayers were and still are with you. We can't imagine the pain you are going through, but you are not alone. Brett truly turned out to be one of the nicest kids you could ever be. He was raised in a family of love, and we hope and pray that love will somehow ease your pain.
SISSY RIZZO
April 21, 2010
SCOTT AND NICOLE AND FAMILY. I DONOT KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU ALL HOW SORRY WE ARE. LOVE AUNT SISSY UNCLE LOU
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Marc Gonzales
April 21, 2010
Dear Scotty and Nicole, I have no words that I can offer to ease the pain. All i can say is that I am sorry and that Brett will always be looking down on you two and the kids, watching over and guiding. I truly miss him so much already and think about him constantly. I love you guys as always in my thoughts and prayers. Love Marc (aka Smurffy)
lisa schmitt
April 19, 2010
scott,Nicole,Dominic,cadence and family
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Brett. my heart has been hurting since i heard the news. I can't imagine what you are going through.I Can recall all the great stories Nicole use to share with me at twin scissors about Brett.I know Brett
was your rock he made you keep on going. He had those blue eyes that lit up the whole salon everytime he came in.
our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Tony,Lisa and family
Danielle Opacic
April 19, 2010
Dear Charmello Family,
I want to extend to your family my deepest condolences. I taught Brett in second grade at Spring Hill. He was such a good kid and I can still see him smiling. His life on earth was short but he touched many people. I was blessed to have him as a student. I hope you can find comfort knowing that his memory will be eternal. I will pray for your family.
Shauna Gonzales
April 19, 2010
Scott and Nicole,
I wish there was some magical way to take away all the pain you are feeling and to bring Brett back to us. There are no words that will being you comfort and all of us will find our way to get through it... But I pray that God sees you through this withe strength and courage. I miss him and I will miss his smile and his laugh and him telling eveyone I bit his ear when I babysat him (it so did happen on accident LOL)!! Brett, I will miss you so much and I hope that you watch over this family and all of your friends so that we can somehow find a way to get through this. I love you Brettie and I will carry you with me always!
I love you baby cousin!
April 19, 2010
Hey Brett,
It's been six days since the accident. I miss you so much already I can barely stand it. I can't help to wonder how different things would be if I had text you back and said don't worry bout coming home right now. I didn,t and that's a regret I will always live with. today's Dom's birthday and it's beautiful out, the sky is so blue and there's not a cloud in the sky. I'm sure you know that after all it's yor beautiful eyes looking down on us. I miss you so much. I miss talking to you,I miss you eating everything in the house, you leaving your laundry laying around everywhere. All those silly things that ususally bothered me. I cleaned your room last night, it really needed it, but i did'nt change anything. Everybody keeps telling me this happened for a reason and that something good will come from this. Idk what that could EVER be cause losing you has been the biggest nightmare of my life, like losing part of myself! You have always been my rock and my strength, i could talk to you bout anything and now your gone. Everybody always told me how you were so much like me, and that's so untrue. you are a much better person than I could ever be. You're the kind of person I wish i was. There's so much I wish I had said to you before this happened, but you know how very much I love you and that you will always be my BA. Daddy always said you were such a mama's boy! He was just jealous, lol. How lucky for me to be your mom. I LOVE YOU BA! and miss you like crazy.
Judy Switalski
April 18, 2010
Dear Nicole, my thoughts and prayers, always, and we will see our sons again.
London Eshenbaugh
April 18, 2010
brett, you were such a great friend, always there when someone needed you, and gave your all to help them, all my prayers go out to your and your family. ill see you when i get up there man. just remember that your in a better place. rest in peace brett
Jen Ken
April 18, 2010
Dear Brett's family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your son was an amazing boy who touched many lives. He was always smiling and knew how to make all of us laugh. His time here was to short, but it was just part of God's plan. He touched more people then some of us ever will. God only takes the best! Stay strong. Brett you will never be forgotten we will see you soon. Keep it real my friend.
Love, Jen Ken
Brian,Melody and the Bestic Family
April 17, 2010
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause into what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord!
Nicole & Scott I hope these words will bring you a little comfort knowing that Brett is now an Angel watching over you and the little ones. Know that we are here for you and we are so deeply saddened by the loss of Brett. We are truely blessed to have know him and we treasure the special memories that we have.
We love you and you will be in our thoughts and prayers always.
guardian angel, i love you brett <3
April 17, 2010
Lacey Hohl
April 17, 2010
Scott, Nicole, and Family ...
I can honestly say that your son was one of the most amazing people I have ever known. He could make someone smile in the matter of seconds, no matter what what was going on in your life at that time he was there. His smile could light up a room, and always did. Everytime I would walk into foodland and see him, there was that smile, and gorgeous blue eyes. He has touched so many lives, and I am so thankful to be one of them. I will never forget Brett, and he will be in my heart forever. I know he is watching over us, and he's up there in heaven hittin' on all the pretty angels. He has a special place in my heart, and he will always be my guardian angel. Your family is in my prayers.
Stay forever young Brett, I love you <3
Lexi Rice
April 17, 2010
Brett was an amazing friend, making me smile everyday, and making me feel better everyday. I miss him tons and so does everyone else. I'm very sorry for your loss, God will take great care of him. He's greatly missed and loved very much.
Casey Patton
April 17, 2010
To Brett's parents:
You're son was the most bright-eyed, bright-smiled, and enthusiastic friend that anyone could have. My dearest condolences to your family, and may God take good care of your son. He was a great impact on everyone.
April 17, 2010
Nicole, Scott & Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and the family. Remember he is now that special angel watching over all of you. And he is there with your mom now watching over you all.
May god bless you all and keep strong!
Janine Stettner-Fonzi & family
Shannon and Donnie Gerst
April 17, 2010
Nicole, Scott, and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May all your memories of Brett bring you comfort.
Justin Belvedere
April 17, 2010
Scott,Nicole,and Family, Dave mazza told me of your loss.I am so sorry.As a father myself,there is nothing that compares the bond between parents and there children.May GOD give you the strength each and every day to move forward.Brett will forever be with you!Scotty C stay strong call me if i can ever do anything.Again my Deepest Sympathy. Justin Belvedere&Family
April 17, 2010
It's doesn't seem fair to have a child so young taken from you, but God must have had a special mission for your son. Know now that he is at peace and until you meet again, he'll be watching over us all.
The Cummings Family
Rita Adrian
April 17, 2010
Dear Scott & Nicole, Sometimes there simply are no words............
Sometimes it is our faith & hope
Wishing All of You Peace..............
Sincerely,Rita Adrian (Aunt Loretta's daughter)
April 17, 2010
We are so so sorry for your loss! There are no words to say to take away your pain, you are in our thoughts and prayers......(your cousin Kenny Rock & Brittany) We love you and will always be here for you!!!
Fred & Beth Funk and Sons
April 17, 2010
Nicole, Scott, family and friends,
At a time like this, when the loss is so great and the good-bye is too soon, please know that quietly, tenderly, your sadness is shared. Lean on one another.
Melissa Couch
April 16, 2010
Brett, I wish there was something I could say to change all of this, I wish I could just rewind time and make things the way they were a week ago. You are too young to be gone, you were such a wonderful kid and had so much going for you. Brett you made so many people happy, my god, did you have a lot of friends. I have not seen you in a while but from the pictures I seen you have grown to be a very handsome young man. Brett, you will be missed by many forever. Keep an eye on your mom, dad, brother and sis. They need to know you are ok up there. I love you Brett:)
Uncle Bo & Aunt Janet Gonzales
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole:
there are no words we can say to help you through this. Just please be proud that you raised such a loving son. Brett was one of a kind and we all our proud to of had him in our lives. We love you guys and we are here for anything you need.
April 16, 2010
Scott, Nicole and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God bless you and help you get through this trying time.
With our love and prayers.
Your cousin,
Ed (Leroy) and Donna Schneider
Pittsburgh, Pa.
Ashley Beam
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole,
I am so sorry for you loss, ive known brett ever since we were in diapers.. we practally grew up together.. we have so many memories, i miss him so much he was an amazing person and always knew how to make someone smile. me him and amber used to get into so much trouble together everytime we used to go up mime's n pap's house. i love and miss him so much. i hope the pictures helped. if there is anything else i casn do or anything else you need let me kno. rip brett gone but never forgottn..i kno he will love the tatoo im getting for him.. <3
April 16, 2010
Scott, Nicole, Dominick, & Cadance:
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel for you and your family.
I pray that you find comfort and happiness in knowing that your beloved son has touched the lives and hearts of so many others and gave them the eternal gift of many happy memories.
With thoughts of peace and courage for you and your family,
Nicole Steiner
April Cieply
April 16, 2010
May you and your family find peace in your time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 16, 2010
I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again.. I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, from which I'll never part. God has you in his arms.. I have you in my heart.
Karen ,George Kane
April 16, 2010
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Ben Kane
April 16, 2010
Scott& Nicole
I Dont have the words to say.I wll keep you both and the family lifted up in prayer.
April 16, 2010
May God comfort you all, especially Nicole, Scott, Dominic, Cadence and the rest of the family, in the devastating loss of Brett. We were stunned to get the news, especially following on the recent loss of cousin Michael Crawshaw. It is not possible for us to understand why God calls home one so young, so loved, so promising as Brett. We can only hope that in time you will find the inner peace of acceptance. Love and prayers from Jan McCoy (Great Grandma Betty's cousin) and Ron McCoy, Anchorage, Alaska
amber, brett and ashley (me) ill never forget in all of our pictures you were always kissing me.. you were such a sweet kid. <3
April 16, 2010
April 16, 2010
Scott, Nicole and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son Brett. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dana Gorman
Keith and Alicia's mom
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole and family,
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jennifer Simpson-Gunde
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole, We are so shocked to hear about Brett. I'm putting the family on our church prayer list. Nothing will be able to comfort you now, but please know that time will help and love and support from your family and friends will get you through. Our prayers for strength and peace are with you. Love Sharla & Bruce
Cindi Brunsell
April 16, 2010
Scott and Nicole,
I am saddened for your loss of Brett. You both should be so proud to have raised such a wonderful son. I hope that you both know you have friends and family here to support you during this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
April 16, 2010
My heart aches for you all. Words can not begin to describe how saddened I & my family are for your loss. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
Jen Law
Kathy Hinsman
April 16, 2010
To Scott, Nicole and family,
This is the greatest burden any parent can bear, to lose your first child. I can't imagine how hard it must be, but I know that your friends and family are here to help you and share the pain of Brett's loss. Your co-workers at Allegheny Plastics are praying for you and we're all deeply saddened. The pain will never go away but some day it will get a little easier, with God's grace. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandy Balzer(May)
April 16, 2010
Scott, Nicole, Dominic, and Cadence,
I wish there was something I could say or do to ease the loss and pain you are feeling. There are no words to express how deeply saddened we are for all of you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers that you are somehow able find the strength to get through this extremely difficult time. If we can do anything for you please do not hesitate to let us know we are all here for you.
Sincerely,
The Kelly Family (Shannon, Mandy, Jack, Colleen, Jack Sr.)
Bob and Lisa Rodenbeck
April 16, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dana Brunsell
April 16, 2010
Scott and Nicole,
My family and I are very sorry for your loss.. You are in my thoughts and prayers..
Tyler Grantz
April 16, 2010
Hey man, its gonna be really hard without you here. everyone misses you so much. i cant believe this is happening. every morning i wake up thinking i snapped out of this dream. i know your up in heaven with that big smile on your face. just please watch over us brother. i love you and miss you so much already.
love toe..
April 16, 2010
My brettie boy,
My life has been turned upside down, how will i ever go on without you? The bond that you and i share can never be broken. I'm so lost without you. You were and always will be the most amazing kid. I am so proud to be your mom. I have always known how amazing you were, but i NEVER realized how many lives you touched. You were always the best part of me. You were takin from me way to early, but the time we had together i will forever cherish. You are everything to me, your wonderful smile and those beautiful blue eyes could light up the room. As much as i enjoyed you as ababy, i enjoyed you even more as a teenager. You are one of kind,the light of my life, my pride and joy! Once again i am so honored and proud to be your mom. Be happy babe with your
Dose and never stop smiling that beautiful smile. I LOVE YOU!MOM
Jamie Ober
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole We were saddened to hear of the tragic sudden loss of your son Brett please accept our deepest sympathy and no that you are in our prayers
Jamie (Richard) Ryan & Emily Ober
Amy Goldberg (Jack Needham)
April 16, 2010
Scotty, Nicole and family, Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of Brett. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and keep you in this time of sorrow and always.
Sherry Boyd
April 16, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
April 16, 2010
Scott and Nicole,
My family and I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything let us know.
MCcreary-Bocka Families
Mary Lee(Harmon) Couch & Chris (cousin)
April 16, 2010
Nicole & Scott, I'm you cousin, sorry for the lost of your son. Our prays are with all of you. He is up there with Aunt Nancy now and she will take care of him until we all can be together. Sorry for the lost.
Missy Stettner-Demme
April 16, 2010
Scott & Nicole,
We are so sorry for your loss words can not express our sympathy. Our Prayers are with you and your children during this time. Cherish the years you had with Brett and remember he will always be with you.
With Deepest Sympathy
Missy Stettner-Demme & Family
brett we love u
April 16, 2010
April 16, 2010
Dear Bretteboy
im so proud to say im your dad. In the short time u were here u touched so many lives, so many hearts. Your smile lit up the room no matter what the occasion was. U were everything i wish i could of been. STAY FOREVER YOUNG. Ill c u when i get there
love dad
Holly Geeting
April 16, 2010
Scott, Nicole, and Family, So sorry for your loss, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all!!
Holly Geeting and Family
April 16, 2010
My dearest Brettie boy,
My life has been completely turned upset down, You were truly the most amazing kid. Everything feels so wrong without you here. The bond that you and I shared was unlike any other. You are truly my pride and joy, i am so proud of you, so proud to be you mom. I have always known how amaxing you were, but i NEVER realized how many lives you touched. I dont know what i will do without you, you were always my rock., my strength. Be happy babe, i know your with Dose and i know your smiling that beautiful smile. I miss you so much already and love you more than words could ever say. You were takin from me way to early, my sweet brettie boy, but the time that you were here,has brought so much happiness to my life. You are truly the most amazing, most beautiful boy i could ever ask for, and once again i am so PROUD to be your mom. I love you, my sweet Brettie boy!
Carla & Jeffrey Clarke
April 16, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bobby gerst
April 16, 2010
Brett we love you eternally and we are gonna miss you eternally.. Don't know why you left us so soon? There will never be other another friend as good as you.. We will always remember that sweet little boy asking, "Can Bobby come down and play?" You were such a good friend to him...Help your mom and dad, brother & sister get through this - give them a sign you're at peace..
Farewell our friend
Bobby Gerst & family
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