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LEMBERSKY
Dr. BARRY C.
Age 61, a dedicated and well-respected oncologist at UPMC, died suddenly on Thursday, April 13, 2017. A graduate of the Medical College of Pennsylvania, Dr. Lembersky treated thousands of patients for breast, colon and pancreatic cancer for more than 30 years. His compassion for his patients and expertise in cancer treatment were well-known in his offices at the Hillman Cancer Center and Magee-Womens Hospital. Dr. Lembersky's kindness reached beyond his practice. He was a devoted supporter of The Aleph Institute, a non-profit that provides financial, emotional and spiritual assistance to Jews in prisons and mental institutions. His acts of compassion throughout his life embraced the institute's motto - Because No One Should Be Alone or Forgotten. Twelve years ago, Dr. Lembersky created the Patient Assistance Fund to help cancer patients meet the challenges of paying for basic living expenses while receiving treatment. The foundation raised more than $1 million and Dr. Lembersky often expressed his pride and gratitude that every penny went directly to patients in need. He was committed to the next generation of oncologists, mentoring Fellows and hosting an annual dinner at his home at the end of the year. His dedication at the University of Pittsburgh's School of Medicine won him a distinguished teaching award. To his close friends, colleagues and family, Dr. Lembersky was a character with endearing quirks and unusual, varied interests. He loved the history of Homestead where he lived as a young boy. He supported the small Homestead Hebrew Cemetery where his parents, grandparents and great- grandparents are buried. When he learned that genealogist Tammy Hepps was researching the Jewish community of Homestead, Dr. Lembersky helped support her research, spending hours answering her questions, making helpful introductions and giving her a much needed car. Several years ago, Dr. Lembersky decided to create his own compost in his backyard, watching over his worms as they turned food scraps into rich soil for his wife's garden. He was passionate about physical fitness, getting stronger, and challenging himself. He boxed, skied, played golf, biked, and took Pilates classes. He recently participated in the Tough Mudder Obstacles race and as one of the oldest of his colleagues on the team, he was proud to finish climbing, crawling and running through miles of muddy obstacles. Dr. Lembersky had a flair for writing creative and meaningful letters and notes. In fact, many people thanked him for his thank you notes. He even collected the junk mail that came to the house for his children, just so he could forward it to them with a loving note of his own. He loved traveling with his large family and close friends, especially relishing the trips with his brother, sister, and in-laws. He is survived by his wife, Diane Faust; son, David; and daughter, Abby; a brother, Dr. Robert (Sue) Lembersky of Knoxville, TN; and a sister, Roberta (Marven) Goodman of Montreal, Canada; as well as an adoring extended family. Services at Temple Sinai, 5505 Forbes Avenue, Squirrel Hill on Tuesday at 10 a.m. NO PRIOR VISITATION. Interment Homewood Cemetery. The family requests memorial donations be made to the Aleph Institute, 5804 Beacon St., Pittsburgh, PA 15217. Website: www.alephne.org. Phone: 412-421-0111. Arrangements entrusted to RALPH SCHUGAR CHAPEL, INC.
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April 12, 2021
Luci Miller
I honestly can say there is not a day that goes by that I don’t remember Dr Lembersky. I know I will never receive the type of care he gave me He shared his vacation discoveries with me so I could enjoy my time better. From a Vienna coffee house to a restaurant in Hilton Head that he loved even though they used paper table cloths what a funny man he could be and then just as serious and direct as he needed to be. I’ve still not found the dr to replace him. No one has and will my heart hurts for his family wh were so very lucky to have him in their lives He is gone but Never forgotten for one moment.
April 12, 2021
Friend
Patty Thomas
I can't believe its been 4 years. Barry, I miss you. You are the best doctor. You helped me and my mom and my sister. I think of you often.
April 11, 2021
Friend
Patricia Adkins-Bernardi
I still think of him often. I feel I would not be celebrating anniversaries if I wasn’t treated by him. He always made you feel like you were his only patient—never rushing when you were with him. He never went without sending a thank you for cookies or gifts. I miss him!
April 14, 2020
Cindy Rogers-Resave
Dr. Lembersky was the best oncologist I have had for both his knowledge and his kindness. Although I have now found a new oncologist no one compare to Dr. Lembersky. He will not be forgotten
April 13, 2020
Friend
Mark and Michelle Herron
We think of and pray daily for our Dear Barry. Thank you for your friendship and laughter. May you rest in peace.......
April 10, 2020
Elaine Williams
Remembering Dr. Lemberskys positivity and great smile in this month marking three years since we lost him! He was one in a million and I will NEVER forget him.....just a grateful patient!
April 21, 2019
Friend
patricia adkins bernardi
On May 3, I will be a 23 year survivor thanks to Barry. If it wasnt for him i would not be here today. He was wonderful and kind to me always. He would always make time to talk to me. He is always in my prayers and heart. May he always be shining down on all of those he touched. He was an angel on earth as well as now. Sending prayers and love. Patricia
Just also a Thank you from her family for your husband saving our Aunt and mom
April 9, 2019
Friend
Patty Thomas
I truly miss Barry. I think of you often. I wanted to call your cell, just to hear your voice. It is so hard to find a doctor who really cares for his patients. You took care of my mother, my sister and me. All with breast cancer.
April 9, 2019
Friend
Luci Miller
There has not been a day since Dr. Lembersky has been gone that I havent had a thought about him. Feeling lost without his direction, not having our sparring sessions over what to do. But most of all, I miss our discussions about our daughters who both attended the Ellis school. One story that still brings a smile to my face is when he learned I was going to Hilton Head and he said you have to go to this one restaurant. Its so good. The only thing he said is they use paper table clothes.! Ive gone to that restaurant ever since he told me about it. Food is outstanding, but alas paper tablecloths. Its frightening to be without Barry taking care of me. He always had my back. No one will replace him for me. I think that his family was so very fortunate to have had him. His loss must be beyond understanding My prayers go out to them. So again I say Good bye to an amazing individual who, yes, saved my life. I miss his smile and vitality .
November 19, 2018
Wendy Rea
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
April 1, 2018
Philip Landau
I worked with Dr Lembersky the year before he began his oncology training. We were hospitalists at Harmarville Rehab Hospital. He told me about a 1959 visit to Pittsburgh by Russian Premier Nikita .Kruschev. I believe he met Kruschev at that time (Dr Lembersky was quite young). It's a humorous story that I found memorable. Wish I could speak with him more about this. I regret Dr Lembersky's passing.
February 10, 2018
Classmate
Linda King
I went to California High School with Barry and was a member of the advanced placement classes with him. He was super intelligent with a wicked sense of humor. I was not surprised to learn that he became an oncologist and a respected member of the medical community. Sincere condolences to his wife, children and extended family.
August 22, 2017
Rebecca Beatty
Dr. Lembersky took care of my sister for a number of years keeping her chronic breast cancer at bay. Last Fall when the tide turned, he took care of our family during the months leading to her death in November. As a nurse for more than 40 years I have never met a more brilliant doctor or a better human being. I was shocked to learn today of his passing. My heart goes out to his family and colleagues. He was a great man.
August 16, 2017
Lisa Frola
I brought my best friend my sister Julie to see Dr Lembersky for a second opinion for her metastatic breast cancer. I have worked with many oncologist and have never met a more sincere and compassionate person. He had never met us before but treated my sister like a person and not a disease. The kindness and sadness in his eyes as he told us there was nothing that could be done I will never forget.
I am so sorry for your loss as I know what you are feeling. Julie lost her fight on January 25, 2017
May you find peace in knowing what a fine man he was TRULY
June 12, 2017
Friend
Elease Smith
I said here with tears in my eyes, because I am just finding out today I just cannot believe my beloved oncologist Dr. Barry lembersky is gone I have an appointment scheduled for July 10th to see him, and and I were going to Rejoice at the good news that I made it through my five years under his care .He treated me with such respect and dignity always asking how was really doing he pushed for anything that I needed to get me through my ordeal .now that I'm coming up on my fifth year there's no doctor lembersky to Rejoice with me so sad he allwoed me to be active in my care ,my opion matted too.my heartfelt sympathy to his family and his friends I feel like I've lost a friendnot just a oncologist.
June 11, 2017
Luci Miller
A man of all men. He saved so many lives including mine I actually looked forward to my visits which were frequent as he always seemed to sense those of us who might need closer following for many different reasons. He encouraged me to travel and we shared many travel suggestions. I'll never forget when he told me about this great little restaurant in Hilton head that had paper table clothes if I didn't mind but it became my favorite place for seafood he also insisted I visit this one coffee house in Vienna when we visited. He was right of course. But the gleam in his eyes and the telling of his time there with his kids made me know I would also be going We both had girls who went to Ellis which we discussed often He was my biggest support in making my decision to winter in Florida. On my recent second bout of cancer in my other breast, he said go ,relax in the sun. Come back and we'll discuss a plan for you . Well that won't ever happen now and even forgetting about my own grieving for a man I truly believe saved my life in 2006. I can't imagine anyone who can fill his shoes now but as we all must do , we must try to continue to live our lives with the zeal and energy that this one incredible human being did in his. Great men don't come along often and these note of tribute to him show he was one .his thoughtfulness this past year even covered the presidential election he knew how hard I worked for Hillary and when he saw me he gave me a big hug and said I'm so sorry I know how disappointed you must be because I'm in disbelief myself. He was a man who by example tried to show us how to take care of ourselves and encouraged us to have some fun The past11 years may have been difficult and scary at times but a lot less with Dr Barry Lembersky guiding us. If I did t tell him before I want to say thank you to this very special man I'm glad he was in my life during some terrible times but even more when I was well he inspired me. To his wife, Diane and their two children , I say Iam so sorry. I wish I could have told you of my admiration while he was with us. There are so many funny little stories What memories you must have. They are to be cherished and just try to move forward with some of his zeal and love of adventure. It's what he would want for you.
June 5, 2017
Angelina Faiella
I am forever grateful for Doctor Lembersky as I celebrate 11 years in remission from breast cancer. I will never forget how much compassion he showed me at 35 years old starting my journey to being well. He pushed me when I didn't even understand what was happening to my body. He educated me better than any physician and genuinely cared about me and my two daughters, always asking if we needed anything. God Bless you Doctor Lembersky and your family. I will miss you greatly. Thank you for everything!
June 4, 2017
Friend
Marybeth Kober
As were many I was shocked to hear of Dr Lembersky's passing. I cried because I thought if this man could have made such an impact on my life I couldn't imagine how wonderful of a father and husband he must have been. I first met him 20 years ago when I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the young age of 33. Dr Barry and I had an instant connection as he made me feel that he understood how difficult it was to raise a young son and an infant daughter while going through cancer. He made me a part of my healing plan, respected my decision to have a bone marrow transplant even though he was against it then gave thoughtful insight when it couldn't happen. He always made me feel I was the most important patient. He teases me when I was worried about little things that couldn't possibly be a reoccurrence yet he comforted when he knew that there was something to be fearing. He saves my life with his knowledge but more importantly he saved my sanity as I struggled to balance fear and raising my children. I knew he was sincerwly there for me! I continued to have a yearly appointment with him for almost 15 years which was not always necessary but he knew that it gave me peace mind that couldn't be replaced. My hope in sharing my story is that you, his wife and his children will find peace of mind as you see that Dr Barry could not have lived life more fully nor could he have filled one life with more accomplishments. He loved you and he always found a way to bring you into the conversation - and the pride he had showed through. His life may have been short but it could not have been more well lived. If we, his patients know this, then surely you do too. May he Rest In Peace knowing that he was loved greatly and that this love will
Hold you up as you continue to mourn his loss.
May 26, 2017
Nivkie Pennington
Was devastated to hear of the loss of this gifted and caring physician. I truly felt a personal relationship with my oncologist. Traveled all the way from State College to see him every year. Always worth the trip because I felt he took his time and focused on each patient.
May 26, 2017
Debbie Efkeman
I am heartbroken at the loss we all suffer with Dr. Lembersky's passing. He was my doctor for almost ten years and always treated me as an equal partner in my health care. He truly will be missed by so many.
May 26, 2017
Cindy Resavy
I was a patient of Dr. Lembersky's and am truly saddened by this news. He always made me feel that I was in good hands. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends, co-workers and patients.
May 25, 2017
Sharon Dornetto
I will truly miss him. He was a great doctor and I totally trusted him. My sympathies to the Lembersky family.
May 25, 2017
Elaine Williams
So very sorry to hear we have lost this great man and physician. Dr. Lembersky walked me through the worst experience of my life, using his great intelligence, compassion, expertise and of course....his humor. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to his family and all his co-workers.
May 25, 2017
Dear Mrs. Lembersky,
I received my notice of your husbands passing today. I did not know your husband other than he was my favorite Dr. My sister and I called him "blue eyes".
After reading the obit I see why he was such a amazing person. I dearly loved him, and he was always so happy for my compliments. I suppose there were many patients who were not as upbeat as myself. So that was probably a welcome change.
He always told me to "go out a do good". I've always live life that way, maybe that was the reason for the great connection I had with him.
You and your family have been blessed having him, the memories have to be so special. My sincere sympathies.
Margaret Haswell
May 24, 2017
N M
Dr. Lembersky was my oncologist since 2003, through 2 bouts of breast cancer. The last time I saw him, he talked about his own fitness program, by way of example. He was knowledgeable, energetic, and compassionate. I will certainly miss seeing him, and extend my heartfelt sympathies to his family.
May 24, 2017
Diane,
Although it's been years, Beth and I are horrifically saddened to hear this news. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
Gary Kay
May 24, 2017
Vickie Davis
I am so sorry for your loss. I am a former patient of Dr. Lembersky. I am a 11 year breast cancer survivor, and much of the credit for that goes to him. He always treated me with kindness and had a wonderful bedside manner. I am very thankful that I had this very caring doctor by my side during my treatment. I will always remember Dr Lembersky.
May 16, 2017
J M
To the family of Dr Lembersky: Please accept my condolences. Dr Lembersky brought kindness and humor while shepherding me through my cancer treatment. I'm sure he did the same for many, many others. I am so very sorry for your loss.
May 15, 2017
Acquaintance
Mary Ellen Read
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one, Dr Lembersky. I was shocked to learn today that he has passed away.I have been a patient of his since June 2015 and appreciate all that he has done for me. Besides the quality of his care, Dr. Lembersky had a sense of humor that allowed me to banter with him. He will be missed professionally as well as by family and friends. I share your loss.
May 15, 2017
Lisa Stevenson
To Barry's family - I am just heartbroken to hear that Barry has passed and send my deepest sympathies. I knew Barry from our work on a nonprofit Board and am not surprised to see that his brilliance, kindness, generosity and good nature were themes throughout every aspect of his life. It was truly a privilege to know him. What a great loss. He will be greatly missed.
May 14, 2017
Susan
Our family did the Race for the Cure today. We celebrated my 4 years being cancer free...thank you Dr. Lembersky. You will always be in my prayers.
May 12, 2017
Acquaintance
Mary Jo Brzana
Dr. Lembersky treated my mother for cancer until she passed last year. He would say that if it was him in my mother's situation, he would go to Paris and see the Eiffel Tower in its glory, instead of suffering. I can only hope he did not suffer, but rather saw the beauty of life as he so expressed. Deepest condolences to the Lembersky family. May you find comfort in knowing how many lives were impacted by a single man. God bless you all.
May 11, 2017
Peggy Woods
Rest in Peace Dr. Lembersky.
May 10, 2017
Amy Wilson
Wow I am in total shock!! I just found out of his passing. I am deeply saddened of this. He was my oncologist for 6 1/2 years. He made getting thru breast cancer very easy with his encouraging words, his knowledge, his patience, and his humor. Prayers to his family for the great loss they have suffered.
May 9, 2017
Sharon Howcroft
Doctor Lembersky was myoncologist for 17 years! He had a special way of making me calm in the midst of this storm of Breast Cancer. We shared our faith in God and I remember him saying, keep praying. God can do miracles that medicine can not do. He always reassured me that with my fighting attitude you will beat this. He will be sadly missed by all who had the privilege to have him for theirDoctor.I loved to crochet and I wanted to make him a scarf for the cold weather here in Pgh. He was so thankful for the scarf and told me could you make one for my beautiful wife, this way we can keep warm together! He had a keen sense of humor, always would make me laugh, when I wanted to cry,He is smiling in heaven! Thank you Dr Lemberskey for your dedication to all of your patients and the Love, and kindness you showed to all of us, Rest in Peace! My thoughts and prayers are with his wifeand children and his family.
May 2, 2017
Judy Wagner
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Dr. Lembersky. He was my doctor for the past 2 years. Truely a wonderful man. You are in my prayers.
May 1, 2017
Caren Bender
I am so sorry to hear the passing of my Doctor. He was a kind Doctor, a good Doctor and a considerate Doctor, and Dr. Lembersky listened to my concerns. I had an appointment this June for a check up. I will truly miss him. My thoughts and prayers to Dr. Lembersky's family.
You were so fortunate to have him in your life and so was I fortunate and blessed to have him as my Doctor.
April 29, 2017
Kathleen Tylka
I am sorry to be sending condolences so late, however I just heard of the passing of this great man while at the Hillman Cancer Center yesterday. When I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2014, Dr. Lembersky gave me the help, strength, and the courage to continue my flight. He declared me cancer free in May 2015. I will always be grateful for his great knowledge, and his compassion. He always made me feel as if I was the only patient he saw that day. I will never forget the words of encouragement he gave me to help me continue. He said, " Never stop praying. Prayer is better than any medicine we can give you here". He will be missed greatly missed, but this world will forever be a better place because he graced with his presence.
This year we will dedicate our Walk of Hope in memory of Dr. Lembersky . And, as in the past three years ,all the proceeds will be donated to the cancer patient care program that he started.
I pray for his family for the strength they will need to carry on.
April 28, 2017
Diana Lecocq
April 28, 2017
It is with great sadness and through tears that I write my last message to the Doctor that mixed the medicine that saved my life. He was compassionate, kind, and soft spoken which put me at ease and made me believe that I could beat breast cancer. I am now a survivor of 20 years thanks to Dr. Barry and my wonderful surgeons. It will take a very special person to take his place in the medical field. The world has lost a wonderful man, doctor, husband and father. He always spoke proudly of his wife and children at our many appointments over the years.
My deepest sympathy to his family, co-workers, and patients. Rest in peace Dr. Barry, until we meet again.
April 26, 2017
Mary Kasicky
Dear Diane, Abby, and David,
It has been many years since we sat with other Ellis families watching young girls in white dresses parade across the courtyard at the Ellis School Graduation. I always tell people Pittsburgh is just a big small town which was proven again last fall when I was diagnosed with breast cancer and Barry became my oncologist. He must have been very busy, but he took time to ask me about Anna and caught me up with what Abby was doing. We reminisced about the girls when they were little. I reminded him that Otto Chu once claimed Alexa could only be friends with girls whose names began with "A"-Anna, Andrea, and Abby. Our little chat helped me to relax during what might have been a tension filled visit.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Mary, Paul and
Anna Kasicky,
April 25, 2017
That though the radiance which was once so bright be now forever taken from my sight. Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.
William Wordsworth
April 24, 2017
Acquaintance
Lisa
A True Angel
You made such a difference in my sisters life. She had the opportunity to be under your treatment, for such a short time. When every other doctor gave up on her, you never did. I will never forget her smile when she met you. She said you made her feel like she had hope. Even though it was for such a short time you made the difference. She no longer is with us, but the time she was, you made her believe it was special. My heart goes out to your family. I'm sure their life is empty without you. Every one's life you have touched is a better because of the person you were.
Thank You for your hope!
You were a true angel!
April 23, 2017
Fredric Price
A wonderful physician and a superb colleague, collaborator and advisor throughout my career. I worked with him at Magee, Shadyside and Allegheny General Hospitals. He took care of friends and family members. I will miss him and his insight, his sense of humor, and his perspective on the practice of oncology.
April 22, 2017
Theodore Kerr
Dr. Lembersky was my oncologist for 21 years. It is well known that he was a great Doctor but he was also a great man. After only a few years I thought of him more as a great friend than my Doctor. I was only a patient but his passing made me cry . I am sure he will be missed by many.My condolences to his family and friends.
April 22, 2017
Elaine Cable
Dr, Lembersky treated me for colon cancer and I was cancer free as of last June, I am sorry for your loss, My thoughts and prayers are with you all,
April 22, 2017
Joan Sobel
On behalf of Diane's family I would like to thank everyone who signed this guestbook. Your messages provide comfort for all of us. We knew Barry as a very funny, very generous brother in law and adoring husband to our sister and father to our niece Abby and nephew, David. While we knew Barry was highly accomplished in his field, and a beloved Dr. who helped those with the most severe of a cancer diagnosis to overcome the odds, we did not fully understand the extent of his accomplishments. Barry was a very humble man. He rarely talked about himself. Instead his interactions with others centered around who they were and and what was important in their lives. He was deeply curious about all people and showed deep humanity to family, friends and strangers. Barry loved life celebrations and never missed a family gathering no matter how difficult his schedule was. That included holidays, weddings, birthdays and yes, funerals. We all referred our friends and family health problems to Barry, and he helped to find the right resources. When a cure could not be found he mourned deeply and offered his love and reassurance that God had a different plan. This message was almost always delivered in person - even though it frequently meant a quick appearance and an immediate trip back to his patients in Pittsburgh. Barry loved his birthday. Each year he took Diane's parents, 6 siblings and their spouses on a destination celebratory weekend. He always made it clear he was sponsoring the weekend including guest accommodations a big festive birthday dinner and a round of golf. We will deeply miss that special weekend each July. To his nieces and nephews he was a role model. He freely offered them advice in finding the right career paths and in just being good contributors to society. He was immensely proud of his wife and his children. He loved them above all else. He had special nicknames for each of them. We will all miss hearing those special terms of his endearment for them. Again, thank you all for bringing us your stories of Barry. We have such pride in knowing how he touched the lives of so many. Rest in Peace Barry. We all loved you beyond measure.
Joan Sobel
April 22, 2017
Amy Bischoff
Dr Lembersky was an outstanding oncologist and a so compassionate human ,,, a true rock for his patients . I was one of them .
He was a main reason I chose to do pet therapy at Hillman with my Newfoundland dogs . He always thanked me for "giving back " .
I in turn can not thank him enough !
My deepest sympathy to his wife, children and family . Rest In Peace Dr Lembersky .. you will be missed more than words can express .
April 22, 2017
Amy Bischoff
April 21, 2017
April 21, 2017
Tammy Gatto
We would like to express our deep and heartfelt sympathy over the loss of your husband and father . Dr Lembersky- what a good and kindhearted man he was. He will me missed by so many. We have been praying for your comfort and will continue to do so. Once again our deepest sympathy is with you.
Tammy and Fred Gatto
April 21, 2017
Karen Fowler
To the family of Dr Lembersky. I am so shocked and sorry for your loss. Dr Lembersky was my doctor; treating me for breast cancer. He was so compassionate and made me feel so relaxed as I go through my treatment. I will truly missed him. I thank God for allowing me to meet and know him. Continue to pray for comfort to your family.
April 21, 2017
Carolyn mendelssohn
Dear Birdie Marven & Family, Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Barry. Our thoughts are with his family at this very sad time...May the great gifts of his life be remembered forever. Carolyn & Joe Mendelssohn Montreal Canada
April 21, 2017
Melanie M.
Dr. Lembersky was calming, gentle and kind. I was blessed to be his patient for the past seven years. I will miss him. Rest in peace Dr. Lembersky.
April 20, 2017
J G
April 20, 2017
Michael Collins
I was surprised and saddened to learn the passing of Barry Lembersky. The man who halted my cancer 27 years ago. My prayers goes to his family and friends.
Rest in peace, Dr. Lawyer and Thank you.
April 20, 2017
STEINBERG FAMILY
Dr. Lembersky was a true role model. A Doctor that helped save so many lives and make such a positive impact at Shadyside Hospital, and all throughout Temple Sinai and the community. It truly is a shame that his life ended at such a young age. Most Sincere Sympathies and Respect to his whole family.
April 20, 2017
Darla Glinski
Such enormous shoes to fill! Dr Lembersky, I never had the chance to say thank you for being there for me and my family. Just found out about your passing yesterday. I am a stage IV breast cancer patient under your loving care for the past four years. I am a single mom, with 4 children ages 9, 10, 10 & 12. I dedicated my 10 mile bicycle ride yesterday to your memory. I will continue to follow your encouragement of challenging myself and continuing a healthy lifestyle. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for your kindness and support :) You will be greatly missed !
April 19, 2017
Barbara Chapman
Dr Lembersky "freed" me last year after 15 years of annual visits since saving my life. I told him I couldnt be free from him and scheduled my next visit. I am going to miss him so much. He was the best. THE BEST!!
April 19, 2017
Susan Wagner
A few months ago I sent Dr. Lembersky a note of gratitude for being part of the fabric of the strength I needed. He was the second oncologist I consulted and knew immediately as he spoke and held my gaze, and my anxiety and fears lessened, that he was the perfect fit. When I last saw him in the fall he thanked me for picking him as my doctor and for allowing him to know me as a person not just his patient. I was amazed that he would thank me! He truly loved his patients and I was truly blessed to have him as my doctor. I was looking forward to my check up in May and anxious to discuss with him canine olfaction and the early detection of cancerbut one never thinks the person who works tirelessly to save the lives of others would be taken suddenly. Now with sadness and deepest sympathy my husband and I express our gratitude to Dr. Lembersky's wife and family for sharing his medical brilliance, kindness, compassion and care with his patients. I pray the fond memories of Dr. Lembersky wrap you in strength at this difficult time. Rest in Peace Dr. L.
April 19, 2017
He was my husband's doctor for his last 6 years and was so caring and honest with me during the hospice treatment and his death. This man was a saint and I felt he was the best provider my husband had for his cancer treatment. I am so sad for his family and hope they are able to recover from this loss. I have nothing but praise for this man.
April 19, 2017
I am deeply saddened by the passing of my friend and colleague, Dr. Barry Lembersky. Barry and I met in the mid 1990's as we developed an NSABP breast cancer clinical trial, B-34. Barry was the protocol officer and I was the statistician. He was smart, enthusiastic, extremely energetic and a lot of fun to be around! Barry and I are the same age within a few months and we seemed to have grown up together in our adulthood with our careers and family. My kids (Joey & Naomi Anderson) I think crossed paths with Abby and David in Hebrew school at Temple Sinai.
In 2006, Barry gave an extremely moving eulogy at Heinz chapel for my friend, Dr. John Bryant. He had been John's oncologist & spoke of John's remarkable life & struggle with head and neck cancer. More recently, Barry was the oncologist for a dear family member, Laurel Rudavsky. I saw Barry in action as he answered questions and provided support for Laurel, her husband, Zarky and their three daughters. I can see why he was so beloved by his patients.
One funny note. As I listened to his family & friends remarking about his driving difficulties at yesterday's service, I was reminded of an incident that occurred about 2 years ago. I was walking down the hill next to Scaife Hall in Oakland when a car, also traveling downhill, abruptly stopped in the middle of the road. It was Barry who was excitedly telling me about the boxing group he was in. It was pure Barry! He seemed to be imploring me to attend while at the same time ignoring the surrounding traffic.
My heart goes out to Diane, Abby, David and the rest of Barry's family and friends. We have lost a very vital person in our lives.
Rest in peace, my friend!
Stewart Anderson
April 19, 2017
Carol Broz
For those who did not know Dr. Lembersky, this is what I posted on Facebook today:
I just opened my newspaper today and read that my breast cancer oncologist, Dr. Barry Lembersky, had passed away at the age of 61. I wanted to let others know that Dr. Lembersky was a wonderfully kind man and a great doctor and gentleman. I wanted to tell others that in 2015 during the beginning of my most recent illness, though he was not my doctor and not involved in my treatment in any way, he took the time to make a personal visit to my bedside at Shadyside Hospital to give me his private encouragement and to tell me that he knew that it would be hard, but he also knew that I could deal with what was facing me. One of my new doctors asked, "How does it feel to receive a personal visit from Barry," and I told him, "Pretty dang good." In a world where I often see mountains being made out of molehills over what I consider minor issues, I wanted to let others know that Dr. Barry Lembersky, while not large in stature, was a mountain of a man who did so much good throughout his life in both large and small ways and for those he knew and those he didn't. What a doctor. What a man. What a loss.
April 19, 2017
Joyce Vargo
So sorry for your loss. He was my doctor for my breast cancer. I had the best. I'm sure he will be greatly missed
April 19, 2017
Patty Schultz
Rest in peace Dr lembersky..
April 19, 2017
Beth and Mark Zimmovan
Diane,
We are deeply sorry and send our love and prayers to you, Abby, David and your family. We will always cherish our memories with you and Barry. They were always loads of fun and one of a kind. We will never forget this wonderful man.
April 19, 2017
Ruth C
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Dr. Lembersky calmed my fears and helped me to see that I can continue to fight cancer. His calm manor, and sense of humor was a God given gift to me. He will always hold a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends and colleagues !
April 19, 2017
JoAnn Pomietto
Dr. Lembersky and his team took care of our son, Kenny. We met Dr. Lembersky at Bellevue Hospital in November 1998. He said it was his daughter's birthday but it was very important to meet with us. Kenny was 18 years old and diagnosed with Ewing Sarcoma. He took time from his family for our son!!! Thank you doctor, Kenny is now 36, married with 2 beautiful children! God bless and sorry for your family's loss.
April 19, 2017
Jocelyn Tan
Very sorry to hear this sad news. My deepest condolences to Barry's family. May he now reap the rewards of his earthly service in the hereafter.
April 19, 2017
Brad & Terri Cherkin
Dianne;
I am so very sorry for you and your family.
Although it has been many years I fondly remember the times we spent together full of fun, promise and anticipation of our lives as they were about to unfold.
Growing up with Barry in the Valley was a special experience.
Reading all the kind comments from patients friends and colleagues confirms what a great guy he was both personally,professionally and to the community never forgetting where he came from .
Please know our hearts and prayers are with you and your family at this time .
April 18, 2017
Aparna Kalyan
Barry was not only one of the best clinicians I have had the pleasure of working with but more importantly was an amazing educator and mentor that I ever had the chance to work with. He truly believed in delivering the best care to all of his patients. He made me a better oncologist. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with Diane and all his family.
April 18, 2017
Kathy Hoffman
Dr. Lembersky was a kind, compassionate and intelligent man and Doctor. I was blessed to be a patient of his for 10 years. His dedication to all of those who suffer from this terrible disease will never be forgotten.
Dr. Lembersky was my life saving Oncologist. Therefore I am forever grateful. I thank his family for sharing this wonderful man to help others. You will always be remembered,
Dr. Lembersky. I am forever grateful. Until we meet again.
April 18, 2017
Arlene Mones
Dear Birdie, Marven and Family, I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. Barry seemed to be a wonderful person. My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
April 18, 2017
Helen Analo
Barry was one of the most brilliant oncologists I know. He was also very practical -a rare combination. I used Barry as a great second opinion for my patients and always valued his input. Barry also took active part in the NSABP clinical trials over the years and has contributed greatly to the practice and science of oncology. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to the family-May God give you strength.As physicians we spend our life taking care of others and many times we forget to take care of ourselves.
April 18, 2017
Danielle G.
To the Lembersky family,
I am shocked to hear of Dr. Lembesky's passing, he was a person with such care and vitality about himself. My Mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and under his care twice before she passed away and he made sure that all of my family knew what the game plan was and he kept tabs on my Mom's status. She said he was a good man and helped her a lot.
I also send my condolensces to the Magee cancer center, he was a well-known presence there and will surely be missed!
April 18, 2017
Brad Lieber
I grew up with Barry as young man and spent much time at the Goldberg home in Little California. When we where kids we played golf together at Nemacolin CC and I'll never forget those days.
We did Bar Mitzvah classes together and I and our family always admired Barry.
I'm so very sorry for your loss please accept our condolences.
Brad Lieber
April 18, 2017
HARRIET HOXIE
Thank you Dr Lembersky
April 18, 2017
Eric Hill
Dr. Lembersky was in the process of saving/extending my life. He had my total trust and admiration and yes friendship. I will continue that fight with the same zeal but missing him and the joy my successes would be shared with him. Thank you for being part of my life Barry and please R.I.P.
April 18, 2017
Patty Williams
I met Dr. Lembersky as a new nurse on the first day of his residency at Presby in the early 80's. In recent years we joked that we "grew up" in medicine together.
Barry was not only an extremely gifted and compassionate physician but a loving and kind person who saw beyond his own needs to the needs of those around him. He had the ability to make folks feel very special.
My sincerest sympathies to his family, friends and the many patients whose lives he enriched.
April 18, 2017
Stacey Ambrose
Dr. Lembersky was chosen as my med onc by Dr. Rubin. From day one he assured me that I was one of the lucky ones. He treated me for five years and released me last summer, with a big hug and re-assurance that I would be fine...I will never forget his encouragement over the years. I was diagnosed on my first mammogram and referred my friend to him who was a young 36 when diagnosed. It saddens me greatly to here this news..God Bless his family...
April 18, 2017
Acquaintance
David Roth
There's a secret that never dies - like a song of hidden meanings that we never apprehend... thank you for all you were for so many in need... rest in pleasure!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQvGXFprmz0
April 18, 2017
Marcy Halpin
I just heard the news and am completely heartbroken.
I no longer live in Pittsburgh, and a close friend just called me this morning.
In 2005, at age 31, I was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, which had metastasized to my spine. In March of 2006, I was declared in remission. It has been almost twelve years since my diagnosis, and as of March, eleven years of remission. Quite simply, Dr. Lembersky is one of the doctors who saved my life.
I will never forget how much time he spent consulting with me on that first visit (even running across the hallway to consult with Dr. Bejjani). I will always remember his care and his compassion.
As time passed, and appointments spaced further apart, I will always remember the joy he had in the success of my journey.
As I moved away, first to Ohio, and then to Idaho, I still came back to see him, because he made me feel safe.
I had a 'scare' shortly after moving to Idaho, when one of my scans showed something unusual. I came back to Pittsburgh, not only for him to determine 'it was nothing' but also for him to reassure me that even if there were to be a problem, that I had nothing to worry about.
Dr. Lembersky has been my doctor for almost twelve years now. Although its been almost a year since I saw him last, I will miss his warm smile and warm welcome, often coupled with a big hug, and always a departing wish for me to 'stay well'.
I am so grateful for Dr. Lembersky and all that he has done for me. He has been a true guardian angel for me and so many of his patients. His compassion and kindness will never be forgotten.
My deepest sympathies.
April 18, 2017
Dear Bobby and the Lembersky family,
Words cannot express my sorrow at your loss. I worked with Barry at Magee, and he was extraordinary. Smart, funny, and personable, and he was always so kind to me. His patients told me how much they adored him. Your words at the service today were beautiful. I will keep Barry and you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy Balk
April 18, 2017
Natalie C.
Prayers to the Lembersky family. I was 27 when diagnosed w/ breast cancer and selected him as my Dr. after reviewing a long list of capable physicians. He was a quick thinker, very direct, and challenged me when I wanted to give up. I am glad I chose him because not only did he help me through the most difficult time of my life but he saved my life. I am truly saddened to hear of his passing.
April 18, 2017
Upon hearing of your great loss, and learning of all the wonderful accomplishments Barry made in his life, I feel such sadness. Please accept my sincere condolences to all the Lembersky-Goodman family. Sincerely Shelby Goodman
April 18, 2017
Loretta Brinkman
RIP Barry. My heart is broken as we say goodbye to a brilliant and caring oncologist. I knew Barry from the time he was a young boy and I married his cousin. I am a two time breast cancer survivor and cannot put into words how Barry helped me thru these horrible times. I would not be here today without Barry. Each time I expressed to him that I was going to quit chemo, he encouraged me to keep fighting so I could enjoy my grandchildren. Praying for Diane, Abby and David.
April 18, 2017
Diane and family, I offer my most heartfelt sympathies to you on the loss of Barry. I did enjoy all the years we were able to work together. He worked so selflessly for all of his patients and I know they will deeply miss him. May the help he gave to so many offer you a little comfort in this difficult time.
Dr. Carol Evans
April 18, 2017
Denise Oliver-Taylor
To the family of Dr. Barry C. Lembersky,
I was saddened when I read that my doctor had passed on. He will be missed by many. He was caring and he had wonderful bed side manner. Dr. Lembersky spent time with his patients and explained everything regarding your treatment. He let you know that you had to stay postive and follow the plans that were set up for each individual. Ne was compassionate and encouraging. When your treatments were completed you received pink M&Ms. I will miss my doctor. May the Lord comfort and strengthen your family. I am praying for your strength and peace.
April 18, 2017
Dawn Lewis
I was saddened to hear of Dr. Lembersky's passing. He was a wonderful doctor and I owe him my life. Please accept my deepest condolences and take comfort in knowing his contribution to the world of medicine will resonate for years, given the lives he's saved and the students he taught. Rest in peace, Dr. L. Dawn LewisB.C. survivor 2008
April 18, 2017
We are all heartbroken....Thank you for being a wonderful oncologist, mentor, teacher, colleague but most of all part of the 3rd Floor Hillman.
With love and prayers to the Lembersky Family.
Always,
3rd Floor Hillman Family
April 18, 2017
Jeanne Peitz, RN
So very sorry to hear of Dr. Lembersky's passing. I worked with him many years ago and remember what a kind and compassionate physician he was. My deepest sympathy to the family.
April 18, 2017
Betsy Henson
Dr Lembersky saved my unborn daughters and my own life 2 years ago when I came to his office diagnosed with stage 4 colon and liver cancer while pregnant at the age of 26. My daughter is now healthy and perfect and it is because of him. I am able to be a mother today and everyday because of him. He made sure we always have the very Best treatment and that we always felt comfortable with the plan at hand. Going to his office was more like going to visit family because he was full of compassion and honesty. He called me personally a few times and I can't tell you how much that meant to me. He truly wanted you to get better so you could live the life that you wanted, I never felt like just another patient with him. And even though I continue my fight with cancer without my favorite doctor ever, I will carry the strength and hope he gave me everytime I saw him. And even though he is gone, my daughters life will always be proof of something beautiful he helped bring to the world. She will always be a reminder that we were so very blessed to have met such a remarkable and truly one of a kind man. Our hearts are with his family always, and my family will be forever grateful.
April 18, 2017
Martin Cohen
I want to thank g-d for giving us Dr. Lembersky his dedication and compassion can't be measured. Heaven truly has another angel. Rest in peace.
April 18, 2017
Dawna Martich
Many of my fondest memories of working at UPMC were when Dr. Lembersky was an intern and resident back in the early 80s. He was a loving physician and kind to all who knew him. I am sorry for your loss and pray that your memories will sustain you in the years ahead. God Speed Dr. Lembersky. Memory Eternal.
April 17, 2017
Jill Fetzer
My sympathies for your family at Barry's passing. Jill Cignetti Fetzer
April 17, 2017
Dr. Kisa Weeman
I first spoke with Dr. Lembersky in 1998, when a patient of mine saw him for a second opinion. He was so kind and professional, and put everyone at ease. He also treated a dear friend of mine who had a rare pancreatic neuroendocrine tumor , and he provided excellent care. He spoke with me several times about my friend, and although I'm sure he was very busy, I never felt rushed. Rest in Peace, Dear Doctor. You will be greatly missed.
April 17, 2017
To the Lembersky family, may God grant you peace during this sorrowful time and may you find joy in knowing how well loved and respected your husband and father is. I heard the shocking news at my checkup today. He was a wonderful doctor who always seemed to know exactly what I needed physically and emotionally. Thank you Dr. Lembersky for helping me become a breast cancer survivor! May God grant me the gift of thanking you face to face one day. A forever grateful patient.
April 17, 2017
Mary Barringer
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. He was a compassionate and amazing oncologist he saved my life I will forever be grateful .
April 17, 2017
Sonia Rogers
Such sad news I couldn't believe that the man that saved my life is gone. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010 and had been in treatment for two years my cancer kept coming back in the same place. I joined Pink Steel dragon boat team and a lot of my teammates saw Dr Lembersky. I told them that I have never been in remission so I finally decided to see Dr Lembersky. I was crying in his office and afraid I was going to die. Dr Lembersky looked at me and said "I'm going to fix you" and I have been in remission now for three years. He did fix me and he also made me feel so strong . Thank you to the Lembersky family for sharing him with me and many of his patients. You will always have a special place in my heart . God bless you and thank you for fixing me
April 17, 2017
mamatha chivukula
Dr Lembersky ...Shocked !!!RIP ..One of the most amazing, compassionate doctors i worked with in Pitstburgh.
April 17, 2017
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Tabitha Cavanagh
My deepest condolences to Barry's family, friends and loved ones. I met Dr. Lembersky earlier this year when I was diagnosed with colon cancer at age 31. He was a God send. I will forever be thankful for his presence in my life. He had such kind eyes and a warm smile and we were just becoming buddies. I always looked forward to seeing him and I'm very sad to have to continue my cancer journey without him. Prayers for all who lost a wonderful man. God bless.
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