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1959

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2014

Melissa Scaltrito Obituary

MELISSA SCALTRITO Melissa Scaltrito died peacefully at Seasons Hospice at Phoenixville Hospital on October 13, 2014 surrounded by her family. Born Melissa (Missy) Mae Thompson May 5, 1959 in Pottstown to Carroll E Thompson and Marilyn J (Focht) Thompson both deceased. Melissa graduated from Pottstown High School in 1977 and from The Allentown School of Nursing in 1984. Melissa was as a nurse at Allentown Hospital starting in 1984, Paoli Hospital in 1990, and ManorCare Health Services in Pottstown from 1993 until just weeks ago. Melissa worked as nurse in the Pottsgrove, Boyertown, and Pottstown school districts including the past five years as part time School Nurse at Rupert Elementary School. Having a passion for helping young children, Melissa began working part time this past year at the Warwick Child Care Centers. Melissa is survived by her children Julie Scaltrito and Frank A Scaltrito and her husband Frank P Scaltrito, brothers Blake and Edward Thompson, their wives Fran and Vicki Thompson, her niece Zoe Thompson and nephews Jonathan and Matthew Thompson, nieces Alexa and Dominque Scaltrito and nephew Michael Scaltrito, and great-nephew Zachary Thompson. It was Melissa's wish that her remains be cremated, that there be no funeral, and that the burial be private. Friends and relatives are asked to meet with the family to remember Melissa on Saturday, October 25 any time from 10 a.m. until 12 p.m. at Cutillo's Restaurant, Sanatoga Rd and High St. Pottstown. Instead of flowers, friends and relatives are asked to donate in Melissa's memory to any favorite charity that benefits disadvantaged children or protects our streams and rivers.

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Published by The Mercury from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2014.

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October 25, 2014

Julie,

I was so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,
Mary Stein(former teacher at Franklin)

Flora M. Taylor

October 24, 2014

May the Lord be with you and your family during these difficult days. So sorry for your loss...

October 23, 2014

Dear Frank, Frankie and Julie,
We are very sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you all in the days ahead. Missy was such a kind person.
With deepest sympathy,
Linda & Dave Everett and Lois Panoc

Linda Giuffrida-Moses

October 22, 2014

Melissa was such a sweet and gentle soul. I loved that she enjoyed visiting my parents and "her cousins" in South Philly. Especially on New Year's Day...a fellow lover of the Mummers! Know that prayers continue for Frank, Julie and Frankie, and I truly hope that you find comfort knowing how much she loved you and was so proud of you, and that she is at peace. Unfortunately, Mark and I will be out of town this weekend, but know that we will be thinking of all of you and hope that we can gather together over the holidays.

October 22, 2014

Melissa was such a sweet and gentle soul. I loved it that she loved coming to South Philly to visit with my parents and "her cousins", especially on New Year's Day. My thoughts and prayers continue for Frankie, Julie, and young Frankie. I hope you all find comfort knowing that she so loved you and was always so proud of you, and that she is now at peace. Unfortunately, Mark and I will be out of town this weekend, so we won't be able to attend on Saturday, but we'll be thinking of you and hope to see you over the holidays. Love, Linda

Keshia Smith

October 21, 2014

Dear Scaltrito Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I had the great pleasure of working with Melissa while she substituted at the south Coventry warwick center. She was very happy, and always came eager to work. She always had toys for the children and played games with them. She always came with a smile and the children loved her. She will be deeply missed by all of the students and teachers and staff. May she rest peacefully.
Sincerely
Her co-worker
Keshia Smith

October 21, 2014

We love you Missy. You will always be with us in our hearts and memories. We couldn't have asked for a more loving sister, sister-in-law, or aunt. You will be greatly missed.
Blake, Fran, Jon & Zoe

MaryJane DiMona

October 21, 2014

So very sorry for your loss.

October 21, 2014

Frankie, My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

Lisa Angelo

October 21, 2014

I am so sorry that Anthony and I will not be able to attend on Saturday as you remember Melissa. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Randy Silcox

October 21, 2014

Frankie, I'm praying for you and your family at this trying time. So sorry for your lose.

Art Scaltrito

October 21, 2014

I was dancing with another nurse at my cousin Lois' wedding. Frankie & Melissa were dsncing next to us. One of the grooms friends stepped on his dance partner's feet. She started hopping around in pain and Melissa lost it. Another is when my late wife was in the hospital on THANKSGIVING and Melissa invited me to her house to share Thanksgiving dinner. She was ALL RIGHT in my book.

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