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1945

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2013

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Paul Cutrupi Obituary

Paul Cutrupi

Fishkill - Paul Cutrupi, a resident of Fishkill since 1972, formerly of Valhalla, died on Sunday, December 15, 2013. He was 68.

Son of Francis and Rose (Vigliotti) Cutrupi, he was born in Bronxville on October 30, 1945. He attended the American Academy McAllister Institute of Funeral Service to become a funeral director, and was then drafted into the U.S. Army and served his country during the Vietnam War. Following his Honorable Discharge from service, he married Barbara McDermott in Valhalla on December 9, 1967.

For nearly 40 years, Paul served countless families as a Licensed Funeral Director at McElroy-Flynn Funeral Home in Elmsford and Cassidy-Flynn Funeral Home in Mount Kisco.

A proud Veteran, he was an active member of the American Legion Posts in both Mount Kisco and Elmsford. He loved motorcycles and cars, and cherished his 1953 Indian Motorcycle and his 1955 Chevy Bel-Air.

He is survived by his wife, Barbara at home; his daughter, Dena Lunetta & her husband Sam of Amherst, NY; his daughter, Lori Heckmann & her husband Michael of Hopewell Junction; his son, Josua Cutrupi & his wife Susan of Fishkill; his grandchildren, Samuel, Gina, Sarah, and Kevin; his sisters, Maria DiLeo & her husband James of Scarsdale, Gloria Forte & her husband Thomas of Florida, and Carmela Cutrupi of Bronxville; and many nieces, nephews, and other loving relatives & friends.

He was predeceased by his father, Francis Cutrupi in 1988 and his brother, Francis Cutrupi in 2010.

Calling hours will be held from 2 to 4 and 7 to 8:30 p.m. on Tuesday, December 17 at the McHoul Funeral Home of Fishkill, Inc., 1089 Main Street, Fishkill. A funeral service will take place immediately following the visitation at 8:30 p.m. The U.S. Army will conduct Military Honors.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Bob Woodruff Foundation, 1359 Broadway, Suite 800, New York, NY 10018; www.bobwoodrufffoundation.org.

For directions, online condolences, and memorial donations, please visit Paul's Book of Memories at www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Dec. 16 to Dec. 17, 2013.

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Karen hey

January 9, 2014

Looking thru Poughkeepsie journal Obits for someone else - I came upon this one . Although it's been a really long time I have very fond memories of camping in your backyard and the homebirth of your youngest . Godspeed ..

Walter myers

January 4, 2014

Very sorry for your loss my condolences to Barb and family Paul will be missed

December 19, 2013

Thank you for all the heartfelt entries in Paul's guestbook. May you Rest in Peace Paul. May the Good Lord Bless you and Keep you. love Donald and Carmela

Ron & Cheryl Paulson

December 18, 2013

A gentle man taken to soon. He has touched so many lives. He has given me my own special memories that I have shared with my boys and will share with my grandchildren. Paul you will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to you Barbara and your family. Also to you Aunt Rose and your family.

December 18, 2013

Glad we got together one last time at the reunion. See ya later............Doug Catuogno

John Macone

December 17, 2013

Paul was the most unselfish man I will ever know in my life.He gave 100% always, to his country,his clients,his family and friends.I will miss him everyday for the rest of my days! Rest in peace now my great friend!...

Susan and Michael Guglielmo

December 17, 2013

We were saddened to hear of your loss. Take comfort, those who we love will be reunited in eternity. May God's love make your grief bearable. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe Giardina

December 17, 2013

Always the professional and a perfect gentleman, Paul will be missed.

Jerry & Annette Boyle

December 16, 2013

We have fond memories of good times together. Rest in peace, my friend, you will be missed.

The Wrye Family

December 16, 2013

To be his neighbor was to hear him yell out when he saw you: "hello, neighbor!" He loved and cared deeply for his children, whom he'd brag about, and his wife, whom he affectionately called "his girl." He was rich with friends and his friends cared for him deeply, because he was always there for them. He cared deeply for this country. He is a man we won't forget. He worked so hard for so many years and he has earned his place of rest at the feet of our Lord. God bless you Paul. Thanks for so much.

Brian & Kit Wrye

December 16, 2013

A neighbor for 11 years, we'll never forget his yelling out when he saw you, "Hello, neighbor!" He loved his wife, whom he affectionately called "his girl." He truly, truly loved his kids and I know they loved him. He was passionate about so much, with friendships and neighbors taking care of neighbors being high on that list. We his neighbors will miss him. The greatness of a man is the amount of friends he has and Paul had many. People loved being around him. God bless you, Paul, and may He caress your weary head in assurance that you both deserve and earned your peaceful rest with Him.

Lynn Guercio

December 16, 2013

My cousin, my friend my guardian angel
To your family - you were our Guardian Angel.
To others - you brought light into the darkest hours of all the families you have helped over the decades of your career.
God's peace is now yours!
My heart will never be the same my "first cousin"

December 16, 2013

A great man who will be missed. To all the Cutrupi family I extend my condolonces.
Mick McPherson
Formally of Royco Auto Parts

December 16, 2013

You have my deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find peace and comfort from God and from loving memories of Paul. (Psalm 146:5, 9)

December 16, 2013

May you rest in peace, Gloria

Steven Mann

December 16, 2013

My great-grandfather was Vincent Cutrupi from Flushing and later Leeds, NY who would have been probably a brother to Paul's grandfather. Please accept my condolences at your loss. The family has gotten so small over the years. I wish I had known him.

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