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Shaw, Heather M.
Heather M Shaw, 34 of Windsor was lifted on the wings of Angels from the wreckage of her car on March 18, 2013. She is survived by her mother and dad, Alicia and Dan Laris; her father Andrew Shaw; her grandparents Fred G Velez and Norma Whitmarsh; her brothers Dan Laris and Andre Shaw; her sister/cousin Serenia Bowman; Uncles: Fred and Robert; Aunties: Yulonda, Stephanie, Felicia, Laurie; Susie, Diane, Joan, Linnie and Amy. She also leaves with love; a very large extended family who loved her in return. She also leaves behind with love: many friends from Windsor School and LaSalle University where she attended school, and Broome Developmental Center where she worked. Heather was creative and kind with a wonderful sense of humor, style and grace that showed in everything she did. Heather recently wrote this but it applies to her so well:
Like all great people, you touched so many lives. You shaped the ideals and, beliefs of accepting minds and inspired love in the hearts of most. I will try to mourn your passing, Because as I look to the people who knew you and delve within myself l can still feel you with me. I will take comfort in having known you. I will find strength and love in the lessons you taught me. My memories of you will continually inspire and push me to be a better person. And when I start to cry I will try to remember that you are not gone, but simply waiting for the rest of us to reach enlightenment. Special Thanks to the Campville Emergency Squad and the staff of Wilson Hospital who valiantly tried to save Heather's life. Funeral Services will be held at the J.F. Rice Funeral Home, Inc, 150 Main Street, Johnson City Friday at 5PM. The family will receive friends at the funeral home Friday afternoon from 2PM until the time of the services. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may make memorial contributions to the charity of their choice in Heather M. Shaw's memory.
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11 years have passed and my love for you grows more as time passes.
Miss you
Dad
March 18, 2024
When I read your obituary once again and all these years later tears fill my eyes and my heart breaks all over again. I still can´t wrap my head around that you´re gone sometimes. We were all blessed to have known you and smile with our memories made with you. TIL we meet again.
Love ya
Diane
March 15, 2024
10 Years and we miss you more each passing moment.
Love You
Dad
Family
March 18, 2023
Sometimes I can still smell your cloves and hear your laugh.
We miss you everyday and know you made a difference in your short time with us.
Love You,
Dad
Daniel J Laris
Family
March 15, 2022
Heather, it is in the quiet moments that I find my mind drifting back to thoughts of you. Our last day together is forever etched in my mind. At the time it seemed like just an ordinary day. We had breakfast together and had a heart to heart talk about different moments in our lives. When I dropped you off that day I had a sudden urge to call you back to my car give you a kiss and tell you that I loved you. I'm glad I acted on it. I love you and miss you terribly. Mom
Alicia Laris
Mother
March 16, 2021
I think of you often even tho we did not know one an othere well you always had a kind word to say and a beautiful smile you are with the angles know safe
carol shanley
Coworker
March 15, 2021
Missing you everyday your smile and laugh will never leave my mind.
Hugs Miss Pink Sparkel you will always be forever young.
Dad
Father
March 15, 2021
Seven years have past, Mom and I miss you.
You are forever in our thoughts.
Coco crossed the rainbow bridge last night hope she found you.
Love you kid,
Dad
Daniel Laris
Father
March 24, 2020
March 18 will be 6 years since you left us, time has not changed how much I miss you. My daughter, best friend and my only child. I miss your laughter, your sharp wit, your generosity, your hugs, our long talks and shopping trips. Even though you had a full life, I am saddened for all the things you did not get to experience... until we meet again, love you Heather, mom
ALICIA LARIS
March 17, 2019
I remain keeping your family in my prayers Alicia, Trust in God's Promises.
Jason Miller
Coworker
March 16, 2019
Reflections of Heather brings back memories of such a colorful and creative person. But your mom is always thinking of you and loves you more than life itself. A very nice tribute from Elizabeth Edwards about remembering a life lived. And heaven is a lot more colorful and creative since they welcomed you. Thank you for your life you shared with us at BDC.
Scott Hawley
Coworker
March 15, 2019
Missing you. I can't count the number of times I think about you every day. You are always in my thoughts and heart. Love you, Mom
Alicia Laris
March 5, 2014
heather, i am still missing you like crazy life will never be the same without you i love and miss you
savannah
March 4, 2014
Missing you so much.
Kisses Miss Heather.
Dad
February 17, 2014
Yesterday I saw a tote with sparkley pink Converse and thought of you. So many things remind me of your beautiful spirit. We will always miss your sparkle here on earth. God Bless Girly!
Beth Mahar
February 12, 2014
Missing you during these holidays. You would have lit up the center with your creativity. Merry Christmas in heaven.
Scott Hawley
December 20, 2013
Heather,
Christmas is almost here without you it will never be the same for all the people you touched in your short time with us.
You are missed Miss Sparkle,
Loving you Dad
December 19, 2013
heather, yesterday was your birthday and it was the hardest day for me. i miss you and loove you so much!! happy birthday little miss pinkie!!!
ariel rolston
September 17, 2013
"If you know someone who has lost a child... and you are afraid to mention them because you think you might make them sad by reminding them that they died, they didn't forget they died. You're not reminding them. What you're reminding them of is that you remember that they lived. And that's a great great gift." Elizabeth Edwards.
It makes me happy when I hear someone else talk of you even though it may bring a tear. I love you Heather, Mom.
Alicia Laris
August 28, 2013
So it's been a little over 5months and life just isn't the same... I love you and miss you with all that I am........ Til the day we meet again, Rena
Serenia Bowman
August 27, 2013
Heather,
Although I haven't accepted your death, I'm ok w/ it...
Jim Iles
August 5, 2013
Love you Heather, Mom
July 31, 2013
I had trouble figuring out what to write, but on Saturday I seen all the lives you have influenced and gave love to. You touched my life in many ways, I looked up to and always wanted to be like you.You are the wind beneth my wings. I love and miss you. Sparkle on Miss Heather.. See you in enlightment. -Jasmine
Jasmine Rolston
July 30, 2013
heather, i love you you were always there for me, jasmine and ariel you were the best i love and will never forget you i miss you ,savannah
savannah rolston
June 12, 2013
Heather, Mom's first Mothers Day without you to call. We cry for you everyday, miss your voice and the giggles.
Love you Miss Pink
Dad
May 12, 2013
Rena Marie
May 11, 2013
heather im just thinking about you and i have to say i smiled more than i cried because i have had so many great memories with you. i love you and you will always be in my heart. im very sorry the laris family, you have my prayers.
April 25, 2013
heather you have touched so many peoples' lives and have always had something about you that could cheer anyone up. i will miss you dearly and i love you so much!!!
April 23, 2013
Missing you Heather. I tried so hard to protect you always, maybe to much. But not enough. I am so lucky to have had you in my life. I still hear your voice calling my name.
I Love You,
Dad
Dad
April 14, 2013
Heather you always had so much life and spirit. Your eyes always seemed to be smiling. I always loved your spunk when we were in school and you had such a caring and giving heart. I have no doubt that you are among the angels now watching over all those you loved while you were here with us. Until we meet again.
Tina
April 5, 2013
To the Laris Family,
I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to you all and may God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Scott Laris
April 5, 2013
May God hold Heather close.
May He hold her loved ones closer~
Val(bearkat511) & Jack Brooker
March 31, 2013
Dan, Alicia and family,
Our deepest condolences at this most difficult,terrible time. We will keep you all in our prayers and thoughts~
Val (bearkat511) & Jack Brooker
March 31, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you!! My deepest sympathies!
Renee Huber
March 28, 2013
heather oh brother--- my sister cousin, there will never be a family function that will be the same,there will never be a camping trip that will be the same...the day you were taken,is the day i lost my sidekick...2 little girls swinging on the swings singing(well screaming) " I LOVE ROCK N ROLL PUT ANOTHER DIME IN THE JUKE BOX BABE" to 2 big girls with their own styles,hearts and grace still driving our mamas and lynnie crazy!!!! i will miss you dearly heather and til we meet again...muazzzzzzzzz <3
RENA
March 26, 2013
Alicia, Dan, Dan Jr. and the Laris family,
My heartfelt sympathies to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Jones Walsh
March 25, 2013
Alicia, Dan & Family,
Deepest condolences to your family. My prayers are with you as the days pass without Heather in them. It was an honor to have been her roommate & friend when we worked together. She was such a free spirit & wonderful soul. Her memory will live forever in the memories of all who loved her. ((HUGS)) Love, Heidi
Heidi Elahi
March 24, 2013
Alicia,my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. It was a pleasure to work with Heather!
Karen Wagstaff
March 24, 2013
Alicia Laris
March 24, 2013
Alicia Laris
March 24, 2013
Alicia Laris
March 24, 2013
Alicia Laris
March 24, 2013
To Heather's Family,
My thoughts & Prayers are with you. Heather & I were good friends in school. I have alot of wonderful memories of us together. I am so very sorry this had to happen. May God be with you & know he called her for a special reason.
Michelle (Ramsey) Richardson.
March 23, 2013
Heather you will never be forgotten. You left a legacy of kindness and beauty inside and out. I will remember the days of hiding in the racks at the store to drive our moms crazy and playing school (sorry I never let you be the teacher)... heather I will remember you till the day I die and I am so sorry this had to happen to you. I love you and I always have. Love Aunt Di
Diane & David Slater
March 23, 2013
You will never be forgotten. You touched so many and left a legacy of kindness and grace. I am so sorry this happened to you-I love you Aunt Di
Diane Slater
March 23, 2013
Alicia, Dan and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Such a tragedy. Our hearts go out to you and pray you find the strength to get through this. I had the opportunity to meet Heather when Alicia and I were co workers at the Columbus St IRA. She is a splitting image of her Mom. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris and Nancy Davies
March 23, 2013
Annette Smith
March 22, 2013
To Heather's family, My Deepest Sympathy to you. Sending prayers your way. I am so sorry for your loss.
March 22, 2013
Dan, Alicia, so sorry for your loss. I wish I could have came to the funeral, know that you have my deepest sympathies. I will pray for your whole family and the strength to get along in the days that come. God bless u all.
Mandi Walker
March 22, 2013
Thom Ormsby
March 22, 2013
"Oh Brother" I don't have the words to express the depth of our grief when the angels took you home. I know that your wings are pink and the stars are covered with glitter. Our family has been blessed with your love and our hearts are broken ...
Auntie Londa
March 22, 2013
donna pancoast
March 22, 2013
You made the world a better place, your laughter,smile and kind heart will be forever in every person you touched. Your not gone, you live forever in our hearts. With our deepest sympathies Al & Ella De Maio, Dave & Angel Bradford, Helen & Alexis Bradford
Ella De Maio
March 22, 2013
we gather today not to say good bye but to celebrate a life of a girl so beautiful & kind & funny & just laughed & had fun in all she did > touching so many lives w/her heart & her laughter >shine on Angel ,so glad my last words were you are so _beautiful ,you are!! Always your crazee potty mouthed Auntiee~
Corky Clark
March 22, 2013
Love is stronger than death
Though it can't stop death from
happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people
from love.
It can't take our memories.
Life is stronger than death.
God bless you
Mark Terry
March 22, 2013
Heather, I miss you terribly already. It brings me great comfort to see the light and laughter you brought into so many people's lives. I wish you had known how many people loved you. If your death teaches us anything, I hope that it would be to hold our loved ones close and to always let them know how truly special they are. Love you, Mom
Alicia Laris
March 21, 2013
Heather the pink sparkle in my life. I am such a lucky man to have had you in my life. I love you.
To every person that has a child or love one hold them and tell them how much you love them every chance you get as tomorrow you may not be able to.
Dad
Dan Laris
March 21, 2013
Sorry for your loss. Heather will be missed. I havent seen her since High school and only talked to her once since on fb.
Amy Gill (Lehr)
March 21, 2013
You all are in my prayers and may God comfort you through this time of need. Dan I love you and am sorry for your loss.
Susan Wheeler/NC
March 21, 2013
Remembering you is easy, we will do it everyday, but there's an ache within our hearts that will never go away.
Nancy Bell-Szwalla
March 21, 2013
My deepest sympathy for her family & friends. Heather was a classmate of mine and a kind person. She will be missed by many for sure.
John Acquisto
March 21, 2013
So many good memories I don't know where to start. You were a free spirit with a heart of gold. We will never forget you, our little Polly Pocket
Shaun Boorom
March 21, 2013
Alicia, I never had the opportunity to know Heather, but it sounds like she was a wonderful, special person. At work today,some of the guys she used to work with were sharing stories of their special memories of her. It was amazing to hear the stories and how she truly touched people's lives! I am so sorry for your loss! Heather will always be remembered by many with very sweet memories.
karen casey
March 21, 2013
Alicia, Dan and family members; I had the pleasure of working with Heather just a little when she worked on 5D and 5C. She was a great worker with great ethics and she really dressed cool. And her eyes could melt a pound of cheese. Alicia, I don't know how hard it is to lose a child but my sister-n-law does and my heart hurts a lot for you. I had just seen Heather at Dave Brown's funeral and she sat right behind me with Brian Rios and the Rachael girl. And I saw her driving out the lot in her cruiser. She had a beautiful dress on. I will miss her spirit a lot. Thanks for raising such a beautiful human being and sharing her with the world. May you find peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Scott (Food Service)BDC Hawley
March 21, 2013
Alicia, Dan and family I am so sorry for your great loss. I hope all the love around you and your memories will give you some peace. God bless.
Joan Brusteer
March 21, 2013
Continued thoughts and prayers for the family and friends of Heather.
May God's perfect love and peace comfort you.
Kathy Saunders
March 21, 2013
My thoughts and prayers for your loss. You will be sadly missed Heather
Kellie
March 21, 2013
You will surely be missed. Your spirit will still be with us. God will take care of you
Diane Scott
March 21, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Gail&Brian Greene
March 21, 2013
Although we lost touch after college, my memories of Heather during that time were always ones of love, understanding and absolute friendship. While the world is truly robbed of a source of pure light amidst the darkness, the lives of those who knew her are brightened by her presence, however brief.
Terry Youmans
March 21, 2013
Alicia,Dan and Heathers entire family, I know there arn't any words I can say to ease your pain,Heathers vivacious personality and spirit will be truly missed by everyone. I feel so blessed that I have gotten to know and work with her. She was one of a kind that will never be forgotten.
Deanna & Gene Laskoski
March 21, 2013
Alicia and Dan and family members of Heather; I am very sorry of hearing of Heather's passing. I saw Heather just 23 hours before at the funeral for Dave Brown. She sat right behind us. For the small amount of time I seen her at BDC while i worked in Food Service, she was always very nice and I thought she always dressed cool. And she had the most beautiful eyes. Alicia, you raised a great daughter and her work ethic was absolutely fantastic. She will be missed by so many. Talking to Jim my golf buddy we shared a memory he had with Alicia and Heather when they went to Darien Lake to see Nickelback. May you find peace and comfort during this difficult time.
March 21, 2013
My prayers and heart are with your family.
Peggy Ricciuto
March 21, 2013
Alicia and family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
May your memories bring you comfort.
God bless.
~
In one of the stars I shall be living,
In one of them I shall be laughing,
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night
~
The Little Prince / Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Sue McNerney
March 21, 2013
Fun and fiesty Those are the two words I would use to describe the Heather I knew in high school. We had some good times running Indoor track together. I called her "Coach Heather" because of her supportive ways for all of us. My heart goes out to her friends and family.
Kate Miller-Corcoran
March 21, 2013
A loved one is a treasure of the heart, and to lose a loved one is like losing a piece of yourself. But the love that this person brought you did not leave, for the essence of the soul lingers. It cannot escape your heart, for it has been there forever. Cling to the memories and let them find their way to heal you. The love and laughter, the joy in the togetherness you shared, will make you strong. You'll come to realize that your time together, no matter how long, was meant to be, and that you were blessed to have such a precious gift of love in your life. Keep your heart beating with the love and memories, and trust in your faith to guide you through. Know that though life moves on, the beauty of love stays behind to surround and embrace you. Your loved one has left you that...to hold in your heart forever. You will be missed Miss Heather Shaw.
Debbie Cullen
March 21, 2013
Heather will forever be one of the nicest people I ever had the honor to cross paths with. I doubt that I will ever meet a person with the qualities she possessed. I will always remember her and I hope that everyone learned a little something from her at some point in her time on this earth. Thank you for being you Miss Heather.
Ryan MacLuckie
March 21, 2013
heather will be truly missed by all who knew her... I am so very very sorry for your great loss. I hope the comfort and love of your family and friends will help you through this extremely difficult time. Youa re all in my prayers. Anita Portelli
Anita Portelli
March 21, 2013
For the family I wish you peace and understanding. Rest Well under the Angels care Heather.
Jason Miller
March 21, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Adams family
Adams
March 21, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Heather was a great person. While it has been awhile since I spoke with her, she was always a kind person. My thoughts and prayers go out to all Heather's family and friends.
Margaret Christensen
March 21, 2013
Our prayers are with you now, and always. Danny boy...so sorry for your loss.
Mark and Lona Smith
March 21, 2013
My heart goes out to Alicia and her Family. I would just like to say, my last memory of Heather was when I left Dave Brown's viewing. Heather was standing outside. I only had the chance to wave and see her smile!! (as she always did) She looked absolutely stunning! A strong, vibrant, vivacious young woman, as you all knew. I did not get the chance to say :( to Heather what I am about to say to each and everyone of you who work on the floor. I would like to take this moment to thank you all for being who you are and doing what you do. It takes special people to do this everyday.
May we all feel her presence.
"Heather we love you!!!!" Sincerely Franny Ruston -coworker BDC
March 21, 2013
At this time of sorrow there is not much one can say but that my thoughts are with you and my deepest sympathy for your loss. Carol Shanley
March 21, 2013
So sorry for your loss, I didn't know Heather but I travel to and from work everyday on Day Hallow, and came apon the emergency crews that day, where they rerouted traffic over the hill, I can'y help but think of Hather and the accident each morning as I pass by, proayers and best wishes to you and yours on this great loss, she sounded like a beautiful person.
Tom F.
March 21, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to Heathers family and friends. Heather was a great person I always looked forward to seeing her. She will be missed by many. Love always
Sheena DeMartino
March 21, 2013
Udeze family
March 21, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies go out to her family.
Suzi Lusht
March 21, 2013
we are so sorry for your loss..heather will be truly missed by all.she was a beuitiful person..really gone miss her..
maryjo abrams
March 21, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Heather's tragic accident. Please put your faith in God and know that she is safe and watching over you.
Virginia Fuller
March 21, 2013
Heather was truly a free spirit and now her spirit is truly free....she is not suffering now, but those she leaves behind surely are....my heart aches especially for her mother, Alicia....I can imagine no greater loss....thank God for her loving family who, I am sure, are surrounding her with comfort and love....Peace to you all in your time of grief
carol knight
March 21, 2013
To Heather's family...I am so sorry for your loss. I never worked with Heather, but I did work with Alicia and her Aunt Yulonda, and I know that yours is a close and supportive family. I know you will all take care of each other during this dark, dark time. Thinking of you all.
Charlene O'Connor (Allen)
March 21, 2013
Our family grieves for the loss in yours.
Vince & Nancy Kotmel
March 21, 2013
Vince & Nancy Kotmel
March 21, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you..May the Lord comfort you...
Sue d'Auguste
March 21, 2013
"A loved one is never truly forgotten until it is no longer remembered." (Lacie Pettito) Have no fear that Heather will EVER be forgotten, because we will ALWAYS remember.
Brenda Wheatley
March 21, 2013
To Heather's Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the memories you shared. My thoughts and prayers are with you...
Jennifer Bond
March 21, 2013
It has been many years since I spent time with Heather, but her smile, laugh and light will never leave my memory.
Kaye Winston
March 21, 2013
You will be forever missed Heather. My condolences to Heather's family. May the Lord give you comfort in this time of sorrow.
Jennifer Lombard
March 21, 2013
A wonderful women taken way too soon, I will miss seeing your smiling face. Heather, keep watch over us from heaven until we meet again.
Teresa Swartz
March 21, 2013
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