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Raymond Merena Obituary
Raymond Nicklas Merena, 75, of Vero Beach, FL, and Wolfeboro, NH, died May 21, 2013 in Marblehead, MA, from complications of Alzheimer's Disease, an illness he not only dealt with for ten years, but actively supported in research and fund-raising for a cure. Merena was born July 9, 1937 to Nicklas and Josephine Merena in Johnson City, New York. An Alumnus of Johnson City High School and Cornell University he was a member of Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity. A nationally known professional numismatist he was president of Bowers & Merena Galleries, Wolfeboro, New Hampshire, until his retirement in 2000. The company was a major auction house for consignors of some of the countries most prestigious rare coin estates. Merena was a life member of the American Numismatic Association (ANA), the Professional Numismatist Guild (PNG) serving as president from 1995 to 1997. During his years in Wolfeboro, Merena was an active member of the community, donating land to community development, helping to establish the town's annual musical festival Great Waters, and supporting its wonderful World War 2 museum, the Wright Museum. An accomplished pianist he especially liked playing progressive jazz. He was a modest and reserved man but always enjoyed lending his baritone voice to any gathering of singers. Golfing in Florida and boating on Lake Winnipesaukee in NH were favorite pastimes. He claimed playing bridge was, too, but that was often debatable. He is survived by his wife of 51 years, Patricia Roberts Merena and his children: Mark Merena (Gina Adams), Caroline Merena and Sara Merena. His grandchildren: Nicklas Merena Suga, Theodore Raymond Linde, Caroline Patricia Linde, Beau Carson and Chad Carson. He was predeceased by his sister, Julia Merena Zlamal of Binghamton. After being diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's disease in 2003, he and his wife became advocates and fund raisers for research, understanding of the disease, and part of a research project at Penn Memory Center of the University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia. Contributions in Ray's memory may be made to:
Penn Memory Center
Alzheimer's Disease Center
ATTN: Chelsea Brand
3615 Chestnut Street, Room 236
Philadelphia, PA 19104
A Memorial Service for Ray will take place (date) at All Saints Church, Wolfeboro, New Hampshire. A reception will follow at the Wolfeboro Inn. Burial will be private.
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Memories and Condolences
for Raymond Merena
May 31, 2013
Pat and family,
My family will always remember the fabulous, funny and memorable times had with the Merenas. Ray was kind, generous, a wonderful leader to the Bowers and Merena team and a friend to many. Our deepest sympathy for your loss.
Bob and Chris Karstedt, Wolfeboro, NH
martin berman
May 31, 2013
on the fun side of the ledger, we traveled with Pat and Ray and have wonderful memories.Ray was always the perfect gentlman and that is how we will remember him.Condolences to Pat
and family who were so attentive to Ray's needs these past few years
Marty and MaryAnn
Mark Borckardt
May 31, 2013
Pat, Mark, Caroline, and Sara,
Mary and I send our sincere condolences. We will always be grateful that Ray introduced us to New Hampshire. I will always cherish his friendship and guidance for many years. He will remain forever in our memories.
Dave Bowers
May 30, 2013
Pat and Family,
Knowing Ray was a great trip as you know--dating back to 1961. My fond memories are endless, and I will always remember him as a wonderful friend and business partner.
Dave Bowers (and family)
Christie Bowers
May 30, 2013
Pat, dear friend,
I send you my love and sympathy.
I keep thinking what a good-hearted man Ray was. I always enjoyed his quiet humor, his kindness, and his sincere, caring spirit. It was wonderful to see the joy and love in your blessed marriage and your loving parenting.
May God bless and embrace you with His love and comfort.
Randi Christiansen Roberts
May 29, 2013
Pat - I remember well, and with such fondness your arrival in Wolfeboro and the many great times we shared both personally and professionally back when Bowers & Merena was just starting out. I am so glad to have known you and Ray during such happy times and will always treasure the memory of that experience. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy. I am sending love and hugs...
Don Snyder
May 29, 2013
Ray had hired me back in 1983 to work with him at Bowers and Merena. We were so much younger than and full of spirit. He was the great facilitator. He accomplished so much and all the while remained a true gentleman. I have thought of you often Ray and will surely miss you.
Rick Gagne & Staff
May 29, 2013
Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
Julian Leidman
May 27, 2013
I went back to the late 1960's with Ray, dealing with him in his capacity for Paramount Intl. in Ohio and continuing thru his business with Bowers and Merena. He was always a calm reserved individual and enjoyed numismatics, his profession. All numismatists will remember him fondly and Fran and I send Pat and his family our sincere condolences.
May 26, 2013
Pat, Eleanor just called to tell us of Ray's passing. So sad, but I hope all those good memories keep flooding back. Larry Gray
Alfonso and Latice Perna
May 26, 2013
Dear Aunt Pat, Caroline, Sarah and Mark,
We 'll have a cigar in Uncle Ray's memory. May he rest in peace.
Ange Vahamikos
May 24, 2013
May his memory be eternal.
May 24, 2013
Pat and Family, A beautiful obituary for a beautiful man. I think of the wonderful evening, many years ago, when you entertained us with a delicious cookout and lots of fun. Our children were young as were we. RIP and Memories Eternal, dear Raymond. Barbara Shlatz
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