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Aimee STERLER Obituary

Aimee Sterler has gone Home to God on November 12, 2012. Her passing was peaceful. She was surrounded by her loving Family. Aimee was born on Saint Patrick's Day, the 17th of March in the year of 1925. She always said the World celebrated her Birthday. There was always a parade down Fifth Avenue in New York City! What a glorious day to be born, indeed. She was born to her Mother, Iola Mae Lane Anderson and to her just recently deceased Father, Per Emil Anderson in Elk River, Idaho. The two of them had met in a lumber camp in Idaho where Per Emil was employed as a logger and she as a serving girl in the dining room. They lost their hearts to each other. She was named Emil Mae, in honor of her Father. He had been killed in a mining accident in a new business he was conducting building roads in Idaho, just seven months previous to Aimee's birth which completely devastated her Mother, just a girl of merely 18 years at the time. Aimee's Mother went on to Great Falls, Montana where she met later John Wahlberg, fell in love again and married him. They had three children together, Jon Neil Wahlberg (now deceased), Elaine Madlyn Wahlberg Bartholomaus, and David Karl Lane Wahlberg, Aimee's two brothers and sister. John Wahlberg was a very proud naturalized citizen of the United States, formerly from Latvia. He only wanted English spoken in his home, the native tongue of his adopted land. The Family grew up speaking no Latvian language, ever. Aimee grew up in Great Falls, Montana, attended Lincoln elementary school, S.D. Largent sixth grade school, Junior High School for seventh and eighth grades and then four years at the Senior High School, graduating on the 4th of June, 1943. Aimee made many friends, but retained four of those friends for the balance of her life, Lularose Webb Habel (deceased), Alice Pilgeram Maurer (deceased), Gladys Urschel Jordan (deceased) and Helen Ludtke Lower, still residing in Great Falls, Montana. Along the way, Emil Mae became Aimee which she maintained as her name forever after. She met and married Bernard Sterler who was stationed in Great Falls, Montana as a member of the United States Air Corps. It was Love at First Sight for both of them. They were married for nearly forty-seven years when Bernie passed away on the 9th of December 1991. They had five beautiful children together in Brooklyn, New York who survive her: Lynne Leslie Sterler Cawley, Elaine Frances Sterler Mashy, Robert William Sterler, Gail Anne Sterler Boyd, and Sharon May Sterler Mathews. Aimee also has six beautiful Grandchildren, Ray Andre Mathews, twins Clinton James Mathews (deceased) and Robert Bernard Mathews, Ian Matthews Cawley, Sierra Sarah Sterler and Olivia Raquel Sterler. Aimee is survived by her beloved sons-in-love Dennis Boyd, John Earle Cawley, Lynx Mashy, Lew Andre Mathews and her beloved daughter-in-love, Susan Jane Hrastar Sterler. She is survived by her beloved sister, Elaine Madlyn Wahlberg Bartholomaus and her daughter Dawn Carol and by her sister-in-love Donna Wahlberg and Donna and Neil's children, Barbara, Darcy, William and Stephen and by her loving brother David. Aimee always loved her life, being a loving daughter, a loving wife, a loving mother, a loving grandmother and a loving friend to many.

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Published by Press Democrat from Nov. 22 to Nov. 23, 2012.

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Gail Boyd

November 12, 2023

Gone 11 years ago today, November 12th, 2012. Bless you Mom. You WERE perfect! We all love you still and always will.

Daughter Gail

Robert Sterler

November 12, 2020

My Mom was the most special person in my life. She always believed in me and encouraged me to do well. She showed me how to practice the Golden Rule by example. I have never known anyone who followed the Golden Rule better than my mother. She was and is a shining light for me always. Love you Mom forever.

Robert Sterler

November 12, 2020

Kathy Bartels

December 18, 2012

What a lovely life tribute to a dear, sweet woman who defined her life by those she loved. Relationships were very important to her and she passed that joy and gift onto her children. I know this because I have been blessed to know her daughter Gail, who I love like a sister, for over 40 years. May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus and spread her love in Heaven as she did here on earth.

Jim Corbett

December 4, 2012

Aimee, What a sweet, kind woman. I always appreciated her email messages

November 24, 2012

Aimee's Loved Ones: You have our sympathy at your loss of Aimee. God granted her many years of a long and fruitful life - and, in sounds like, surrounded by your love. May you know the blessing of the Holy Spirit's care, comfort and grace now and in the days ahead. You are in our prayers.
Calvary Chapel of Great Falls
John 17:2-3

Diana Lee

November 24, 2012

My Aunt Aimee was the kindest & most genuinely sweet person one could ever be blessed enough to grow up knowing. Rest in peace knowing that you are so loved by so many people who adore you.

November 24, 2012

Aimee really loved the internet. She was always sending articles of interest and kept in touch with her family. She will be missed. Love Donna, (sister in law)

Aimee & 6 Gradchildren 1996

Gail Boyd

November 24, 2012

Aimee & Bernie 1954

Gail Boyd

November 24, 2012

Phyllis Goodrich

November 24, 2012

My dear Aunt Aimee was a true treasure in my life. She was the first woman I ever knew who combined strength and gentleness.
We were all privileged to have known her. I shall miss her but her Spirit shall remain with me forever. A great Lady I shall always love.

Linda Maiorana

November 23, 2012

What a beautiful lady.. inside and out! Aimee found a way to accept whatever God gave her and she surely made the most of it. Her daughter Gail, my "sister-in-heart, has been my great friend for over 40 years. She has always spoken lovingly about her Mom. I know Gail wouldn't be her caring, loving, emotional self had it not been for her mom's example. Aimee will be missed by many but will watch over them all forever.

Martha Manfredi-Coughlin

November 23, 2012

It was an absolute privilege to have had Aimee in my life. She was a beautiful person, inside and out! I loved her and will miss her very much.

Gail Anne Sterler Boyd

November 23, 2012

My perfect Mom, so happy you're with Dad and all your treasured loved ones. [What a party going on!] You're in my heart forever, sweet and perfect lady. Daughter Gail

Emil Mae Wahlberg, what a darling girl!

Gail Anne Sterler Boyd

November 23, 2012

November 23, 2012

We were so blessed to have YOU as our MOTHER. Yes you have passed on, but you are not over. You are home with God and all is possible for you and those you so loved! Daughter Gail

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