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for Thomas Gill
Wendy
July 10, 2025
Noodle, I can't believe it's been 15 years since you left us. It still breaks my heart when I think about you and makes me miss you so much! Thank you for continuing to protect me always. Keep those signs coming that you're still surrounding us all. The kids are so grown up now, 19 and 16 (twins). I miss them all so very much. Feels like they just get farther and farther away the older they get! My love for you all is constant and stronger than ever! I will always be here if/when needed! See you on the other side (but not too soon, k?) W~
Susan Rubesh
July 5, 2024
Tommy I can't believe it's been 24 years now. We all miss you so very much. I think of you often.
Stephanie Tanzer Sherratt
July 9, 2022
The last time we spoke, I laughed so hard I cried. You are missed every day. I love when I get to see your sis & niece. They are beautiful people
Linda Vaughan
July 5, 2021
Remembering your smile and the joy you brought us at WCDF.
Tom Gill
July 4, 2020
Almost 10 years since you left this earth to wait for us in heaven. I think heaven is a pretty great place to be right now! We love so much and miss you every day. Dad & Chris
Zachary Arvold
July 4, 2019
Missu.
May 1, 2013
To our dear son, you would have turned 40 today! Instead of a milestone celebration, we will pay our respects to you at the cemetery. This has been such a heartbreaking time in all our lives. We miss you so very much son, and will always love you!! Dad and Chris
August 4, 2012
TOMMY,WE JUST ATTENDED A GATHERING LAST WEEK OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY !!! YOU HAVE TOUCHED SO MANY. IT WOULD WARM YOUR HEART AND PUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE. YOUR CHILDREN ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN,HUGS JOHN AND KATHY
Tom & Chris Gill
July 18, 2012
We just returned from Pinecrest. Payton caught the biggest fish. You would have been so very proud of her Tom - just like the fishing you and I did at Pinecrest. We know you were with us and watching over us. We miss you every day and will never stop loving you! Dad and Chris.
Chris Martin
October 6, 2011
Tom, I was just thinking about you today so I figured I'd stop in and let your family know that I think about you often. I cherish all the laughs we had in operations and intake. Everything I wrote in your evaluations was true. I miss you bro.
July 7, 2011
Dear Noodle,
Not a day passes that I don't think of you and wish you were still here with us!! I hope you enjoy today's golf tournament with the rest of us and please don't make them get too many bad shots!! Love you always!! Wendy
Maureen Duvall
July 7, 2011
To Tom Gill, Senior - I remember reading a year ago about your son passing.....I also know how over-the-moon you were for your children and I remember your beautiful home in Novato. And I do remember meeting your kids...never knew them as adults but I can see your devilish smile in your son's photo. Hugs to you - my old friend from the phone company. I am sorry for your pain and I hope the support of friends and family helps your heart. Maureen
Tom & Chris Gill
July 7, 2011
Our dear son, today it is a year since we lost you and your wonderful smile. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and miss you more than words can say. Know that we will always love you - see you on the "other side"! Dad and Chris
Zac Arvold
July 5, 2011
Well my brother, its been a year since you've been gone, and there's not a day that goes by when you are not in my thoughts. All the mornings you sped past me doing 80 late for work, then call me on the cell "Frank was that you I just passed". See you again someday, I love you and miss you BRO. Oh and by the way hacker, i got all your golf equipment.......... Zac
SHERYL
June 8, 2011
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY!!!1 MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND WATCH OVER YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY.
Brenda Merwin
October 11, 2010
Dear Wendy and family,
As I read about Tom's life and saw all the pictures, I was deeply touched. Please accept my sincere condolences for your incredible loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Victor & Marianne Waterman Family
September 28, 2010
Dear Gill, Kelly & Powell Families,
We've shared many fun holidays and parties together made a bit more special with Tommys presence. Victor was lucky enough to go on a crazy 4 wheeling trip with Sean, Tommy and some others and has such fond memories of their misadventures!
What a great memorial site to keep the good times and happy days in our thoughts.
We love you all.
Andrea Capano
September 1, 2010
My Dearest Tommy,
Words cannot describe the sadness I am overwhelmed by. My heart aches for our family, especially. I will never forget how you were always larger than life. You had a innate gift to lighten up a room. Your enduring sense of humor.... incredible. We grew up discussing or debating heavy metal bands and I razzed you until even the last time I saw you about your latest tattoo, or as you liked to call it "work of art."
We were always in synch in our lives. You were the first to get hitched and than a week later...me. We each brought our first child and for that matter our second child (well, in your case second and third) into the world around the same time.
I think of you as I play with my children, when I am enjoying the outdoors, when I see the ocean, when I stop to smell the roses, when I hear Ozzy, when I see a sheriff SUV and now at the beginning of fall...synonymous with football season. All the things you enjoyed so much, I think of you. Your were my step cousin in essence but more, my brother. You remind me to hold my children closer, hug my husband more. I miss you so much and what I would give to have one last bear hug from you.
Susan Rubesh
August 31, 2010
Tommy was such a bright light in so many lives. I am so glad that he was in my life if only for awhile.
I will think of him and smile, as he will always be in my heart,
Love you Tommy,
Susan Rubesh
Kimberly Zaragosa
August 24, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can't imagine the pain you feel everyday but take comfort in the memories of Tommy for they will keep him alive in your hearts forever.
Kim Zaragosa
Tom & Chris Gill
August 23, 2010
Our dear son. Not a moment goes by that we don't grieve for you. Words cannot describe our loss. The proudest times of my life were the births of your sisters and you, and again when I had the privilege of pinning your badge on you when you graduated from the Sheriff's Academy. We will always love you Tom and you will always be in our hearts. We'll see you "on the other side". Love, Dad and Chris.
Dianna Powell
August 20, 2010
In the silence you will be with me, Tommy. When I breathe the air. When I watch the children play. You are my wonderful boy and always will be. You will always be in my heart and in my prayers. I'll love you forever, MOM
Mary Pickett
July 18, 2010
Dear Tom and family, Please accept my deepest sympathy. I intimately know the pain you are going through. I am here for you. Mary
July 16, 2010
Dear Gill Family-
I have such fond memories of Tommy as a little kid. He was such a huge part of my life and I am thankful to have known him. I love you all and my prayers are with you. Love,Meredith Tanzer
Trudy Grover
July 14, 2010
Dear Tom and family, words cannot express how much we feel for you. Know that our prayers for comfort are with you all.
Mike and Trudy Grover. (macchia)
July 14, 2010
Dear Tom, Dianna, and Family,
With sincere sympathy and many prayers that God will give you His help, His strength,and His hope during this time of sorrow.
With Sympathy and Caring,
Bill and Fran Craig
Suzanne Zimmerman
July 14, 2010
Dear Gill Family -
Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Tom, I know his wonderful father and Chris.
My heart aches for you all and please know you are in my special prayers.
Suzanne Zimmerman
Danville, CA
July 13, 2010
To Tom's family,
Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
With our deepest sympathy.
Doug & Lourdes Bascara
Marc and Karen Hermsmeyer
July 13, 2010
Our thoughts are with the entire Gill family in this time of sadness. We pray for strength and healing!!
Jim and Cindy Perry
July 13, 2010
To Ronelle, Tom, Chris, Dianna, Don, Stacey, Wendy and Families:
There is really no way to express how we are feeling other than to say that we are SO SAD, our hearts ache and feel as if they might break.
You are all in our prayers and constantly in our thoughts.
Even though we're over 2,000 miles away we will always "be there" if you need us.
With much Love and our deepest sympathy,
Jim and Cindy Perry
Patti & Bill Johnson
July 13, 2010
No words could ever express how sad we are to hear of this tragic loss. We will always remember how Little Tommy was so happy, funny, and full of life - just like his Dad - and always with a smile and a laugh. We hope you feel the love and caring of all those who were touched by his presence.
Jessica Johnson
July 13, 2010
Wendy,
I met Tommy last year at the Butter & Eggs Parade and he made a big impression on me. I remember thinking how personable and friendly he was. He talked about how the twins were due shortly and his excitement was overflowing.
I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you are comforted by the great memories you have of him. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jessica Johnson
Lindy Griffin
July 12, 2010
Dear Tom, Dianna, Marilyn, Stacey, Wendy and Ronelle:
We spent so many family years together when I was married to Tom Sr.s Brother (Bill Gill). We have so many wonderful memories of "Little Tommy" Stacey and Wendy. Those years are a treasure to us. Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of such a special young man. Although we haven't spent time together in many years, when the news came, the family memories seemed like yesterday. We will have a Mass said for "the family" at St. Matthews in San Mateo where we worship every Sunday and you'll constantly be in our thoughts and prayers. No words can ever comfort the loss of such a loved one. Naturally Dianna's spouse, Tom's spouse, Payton, Mia and Zac are included in our sincere condolences. We did not have an opportunity to get to know them. With love. hugs and prayer, Lindy Griffin (Rob too) aka Lindy Gill, Foster City, CA.
July 12, 2010
Dear Uncle Tom, Aunt Diana and family: May all the Angels in Heaven be with you and God bless you and comfort you.
With deepest LOVE, April
July 12, 2010
Dear Ronelle, Dianna,Tom,Stacey, Wendy,Chris,Don & family,
Words cannot express the sadness we are feeling for all of you. We are going to remember Tommy for his zest of life and all the good times we had together. Tommy lived life to the fullest in his 37 years. How about those pre-49er game BBQ's. They say there is strength in numbers so we will always be here for you and with you.
All our love and prayers,
Ray and Karen
Laura Dean-Ingrassia
July 12, 2010
I am so saddened by the news of Tom's death. My heart is hurting for everyone in Tom's life who knew and loved him. I am grateful for the years I had working with and socializing with him; comparing tattoos, dropping Motorhead verses on each other, sharing countless stories about work and family, and loving that contagious smile that we all know.
As for Tom's West County family, I believe that the best memories will always be with us and the hardest days ahead will be eased by the awesome support system we have in each other.
Tom Sr., you are one of the kindest, most genuine people I have ever known and please know we all love you and would do anything to ease your pain. Tom always talked about what a great dad he had, and I know that he was as proud of you as you are of him.
I know that in the past few days, I have hugged my husband a little tighter and said I love you to my parents a bit more than often. Tommy, I know that when the sadness subsides, I will think of you often and it will always bring a smile to my face. We love ya buddy. I will miss you.
Allan Wann
July 12, 2010
Dear Gill Family
We were saddened to hear of your loss. You have our deepest condolences and are in our thoughts. I will always remember Tom's infectious smile and his huge sense of humor.
Allan & Kathy Wann
Maureen Duvall
July 12, 2010
Dear "Gill" Family - Many years ago (1977) I worked with Tom Gill (Senior) in Terra Linda and remember him talking about "Little Tommy" and the girls.... And I was saddened today when I heard the news of Tommy's passing. May the unity of friends, family and cherished memories bring healing for all of you..... God Bless.
Maureen Duvall
B Wat
July 12, 2010
Tommy, we shared a lot of laughs during the short time you were with the department. Laughs I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family so god will see them through this difficult time.
Marilyn & Dave Tag
July 12, 2010
Chris and Tom,
We love you both so much. We share your grief, and lift you up in prayer. Please know that we will continue to pray for you and your dear ones.
July 12, 2010
Ronelle, & kids,
We are saddened to hear of Tom's passing. He was a wonderful husband, daddy, & friend. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you in this time of grief.
Much love,
Brad & Sandie Burge
Stacy H
July 12, 2010
Upon reading Deputy Gill's obituary notice I wanted to express my condolences. I am very sorry for your loss. May peace be with you and your family.
Gina Moyer
July 12, 2010
Tom. Thank you for your laughter, smile and funny stories. I was really sorry to see you leave Hertz, but I knew you were pursuing a bigger dream. A dream that came through. You will always be in my heart.
Dave & Dora Lopes
July 12, 2010
Dear Tom and Chris,
Dave and I are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
July 12, 2010
Tom and Chris..our love and prayers for you and your family. Words can not capture the depth of sorrow we feel for the loss of someone so dear. It has always been obvious to Matt and I that family is your first priority and at the core of who you are as a couple. Tommy was gracious, fun, and we are better for having shared time with him and his wife and children. Our hearts ache for you Stacey and Wendy and their families . Please know we are here for you now, and in the future for whatever support you need. We love you Matt, Jeanine & Lauren
Russ Moore
July 12, 2010
Ronelle,
It brings tears to my eyes to hear about the loss of such a good friend.I have such great memories of Tommy working with him at Big 4/Hertz and camping and most of all,Riding.I will miss him dearly.My thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.Don't hesitate to call if there is anything I can do to help. 707-695-1000
Kara and Lee Reposa
July 12, 2010
To Ronelle, Wendy and the rest of the Gill family,
we love you and will always be here for you. You are great friends and our thoughts are with you.
John Sheffield
July 11, 2010
Tom and Chris,
We are very sorry for your loss. We are completely set back upon hearing this very sad news. I have such fond memories of Tommy and will never forget him. Still deep in my heart is the time Tommy pulled the joke on me when he asked how many gears my car had. He is such a great guy. We are so sorry that his charm and humor is no longer with us. John and Carole Sheffield
Anneke Hopkins
July 11, 2010
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are in my prayers and we love you!
Holley Connors
July 11, 2010
You will never be forgotten Gill. I will always remember how your face would light up when you spoke about your wife and children. It was clear to me you loved your family dearly. You and your family are forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Charyl Coleman
July 11, 2010
Tom and Chris know that we share your deep pain and loss . We love you and hold you and Tommys family in our hearts and prayers. I am so sorry. Charyl Coleman
KC Wen
July 11, 2010
Friend and Coworker...you always had a smile on your face. We will greatly miss you. Always in our memory.
July 11, 2010
My dearest Ronelle,
I am so shocked to hear of your loss I am so very sorry and my prayers and thought are with you and your family. I always remember Tommy with that big smile and his kind and giving heart .
- Pam Studley
Steve Sawko
July 11, 2010
Tom and Chris,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son Tommy. I know you were proud of him and loved him very much. Anything we can do let us know. You and your family are in our prayers.
Steve and Philomena
Mike Callahan
July 11, 2010
Words cannot express my deep and heartfelt feelings nor can they provide any real sense of comfort during this of period of shock and grieving. I knew Tommy since his initial days of abalone diving when Tom would pick him up on our way to the North Coast. I saw him later develop into a mature young man, a good husband, a proud parent and a fine Deputy Sheriff. May the grace of God watch over those who he left behind and give them the strength to overcome this tragedy.
Charles Vann
July 11, 2010
We love you Ronelle. Always have. Always will.
Uncle Chuck and Aunt Barbara
July 11, 2010
Tommy was such a great guy and is going to be missed by so many. Our prayers are with his wonderful family, we love you.
Tricia, Tony, Jeremy and Maggie
Brian Vanderlind
July 11, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Tom's wife and children. I will miss my friend and fellow deputy. He will live in our hearts forever and never be forgotten.
Kim Thompson
July 11, 2010
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. The news of Tommie's passing was truly heart wrenching. He will be greatly missed.
Tom Gill
July 11, 2010
To my wonderful son and best buddy. I was so proud to pin your badge on when you graduated from the Sheriff's Academy. Words cannot describe how empty I feel. We'll miss you son. I'll always love you and always be proud of you. DAD
Linda Vaughan
July 11, 2010
My heartfelt sympathy to Tom's wife, children, family and friends. My prayers are with you and may the LORD help and comfort you through this dark time.
palmer
July 10, 2010
Dear Gill family,
Our hearts and deepest sympathies go out to you and your family in this time of need. We will have you in our thoughts and prayers. Tom was a good friend and will be greatly missed by all his fellow deputies. He was always full of life and loving. We are so very sorry for your loss.
July 10, 2010
Tom will continue to live in our hearts and in our memories. I only knew Tom briefly but our common interest in music and his sense of humor will make me miss him dearly. He was fun to work with and was always good for a laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with the Gill family. May you find the strength to weather the storm of this tragic loss. God Bless.
"Timmy"
Bryant Williams
July 10, 2010
My heart and prayers go out to the entire Gill family. Deputy Gill will be greatly missed.
Sharron Matteri
July 10, 2010
To Tom's Family....I always felt like Tommy was part of our family. His ability to brighten the moment with his beautiful smile and his laughter will be cherished forever. My love and prayers to you Ronelle, Little Payton and the boys.
kerry peachey
July 10, 2010
Ronelle, kids, Tom, Dianna, Wendy, et. al. we are heartbroken with you, and send you all our love and support, now and in the future. peace -- kerry martyn and peachey girls
Andrea Singer
July 10, 2010
Dear Gill Family,
Our deepest sympathies to you and your extended family for the loss of this treasured loved one who is gone from this earth far too soon. What a beautiful lovely, warm and funny family you all are---we know of you through Wendy, who is a powerhouse of love, friendship and support to all who come in contact with her. We are thinking of you in this time of great loss. Sincerely, The Singer Family
July 10, 2010
If it can be any consolation at all, we want you to know you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Ronelle, as parents of twins, we know how overwhelming this all seems right now, but those 3 little ones will also bless your life in many ways. May the strength of your family and support of good friends get all of you through these hard days. Our love, Fran and Ralph
July 10, 2010
My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. Having known Tommy only casually, I am nonetheles struck by a deep sense of remorse. He was a good person, beloved husband , son, brother, friend. He touched many lives and will be sorely missed. I will remember him fondly. May you have the strength to move foward in the face of this tragic loss. My deepest sympathies. Web
Becky Bruce
July 10, 2010
Gone from our sight but never our memories or our hearts. He shall be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
July 10, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to Renal and the
entire family. We have a deep hole in
our hearts and pray for your strength.
May the happy memories bring a smile treasure them.
LOVE JOHN AND KATHY
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