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Margery Jones WOLF

1933 - 2017

Margery Jones WOLF obituary, 1933-2017, Santa Rosa, CA

Margery WOLF Obituary

WOLF, Margery Jones Born in Santa Rosa on September 9, 1933, Margery died of acute respiratory failure in Kaiser Hospital on April 14, 2017 in the presence of her family. As a young girl she lived on Humboldt Street with her parents (Alvie and Alvia [Makee] Jones) before they moved to a five-acre homestead on Brush Creek Road. Margery graduated at age 16 from Santa Rosa High School and received her A.A. degree from Santa Rosa Junior College in 1952. Enrolled at San Francisco State during 1952-53, she left to marry Arthur Wolf and moved with him to Ithaca, New York where he completed his B.A. at Cornell University. When Arthur entered graduate school in Anthropology at Cornell in 1955 Margery began work as a Research Assistant to the social psychologist, William Lambert, coding ethnographic material as a part of The Six-Cultures Project. Recognizing her keen intellect and her curiosity, Lambert, anthropologists Robert J. Smith and Lauriston Sharp, and other professors mentored Margery teaching her social science research methods and treating her as a junior colleague. From 1956-57 Margery worked for Lambert and others as a Research Assistant at the Stanford Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences. The Wolfs lived in Taiwan for two years while Arthur conducted fieldwork in Taipei and nearby rural villages before returning to Ithaca in 1960. Arthur completed his Ph.D. in 1964 and joined the Cornell faculty. Based on her experiences in Taiwan, Margery wrote her first and best known book, "The House of Lim: A Study of a Chinese Farm Family", published in 1968. That book, which is still in print, established Margery as a China scholar with a particular focus on women and the family and it became the touchstone for her unusual and extraordinarily successful academic career. Margery continued her scholarly writing after Arthur moved to the Stanford University faculty in 1968, and published "Women and the Family in Rural Taiwan" in 1972 and "Women in Chinese Society" in 1975. Margery was also a Visiting Fellow of Wolfson College at Oxford University in England in 1975. In 1980-81 Margery carried out ethnographic fieldwork sponsored by the U.S. National Academy of Sciences in the People's Republic of China immediately after China reopened to Western scholars. During a subsequent fellowship she wrote her 1985 book, "Revolution Postponed: Women in Contemporary China". At Stanford Margery was also a Fellow at the Center for Research on Women and was very actively engaged in second-wave feminism. With her first marriage in process of divorce in 1984, Margery accepted a position as a Visiting Associate Professor at Duke University in North Carolina. She was hired in 1985 by the University of Iowa as a Full Professor of Anthropology and Chair of the Women's Studies Program where she remained until her retirement in the spring of 2001. While in Iowa, she married Mac Marshall, another anthropologist on the Iowa faculty. In 1992 her widely taught volume, "A Thrice Told Tale: Feminism, Postmodernism, and Ethnographic Responsibility" appeared. Following her retirement Margery returned to Santa Rosa where she published two novels: "The Orchards" (set in Sonoma County) and "What the Water Buffalo Wrought" (set in Taiwan and Sonoma County). Upon learning of her demise friends and former students have described Margery as "a force of nature, larger than life, strong and whole"; as an "extraordinary scholar, activist, thinker, writer, and mentor"; as someone who "had this perfect balance of thoughtful reticence, acerbic wit, and joyful engagement"; and "besides being a brilliant adventurous scholar she was a gentle, generous soul who could be fierce when appropriate, tender when needed, and always present and fair". Margery is survived by her husband, Mac Marshall of Santa Rosa, her step-son, Kelsey Marshall, grandson, Elliot Marshall, and daughter-in-law, Stacy Marshall all of Poulsbo, Washington, and her sisters-in-law, Lei Ann Marshall of Highland Park, Illinois, Gail Jenkin of Carlsbad, California, and Connie Tyson of Lake Oswego, Oregon.

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Published by Press Democrat from Apr. 23 to Apr. 24, 2017.

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Carol J. Colfer

April 18, 2022

Just sending sympathy, Mac; and also gladness that you are not so terribly alone as some are. Although I'm sure this period of the year will always be bittersweet, I'm glad you've found friendship and love again.

Carol Colfer

April 29, 2017

A remarkable woman!

Steve Sangren

April 27, 2017

I knew Margery best while I was a graduate student at Stanford in the 1970s. Her work was an inspiration, and she was always extremely helpful and encouraging in responding to my early efforts. Her legacy in feminist studies is unmatched. I will miss her enormously both as an acute an emphathetic observer of life, qualities evident both in her work and in her person.

Kathryn March

April 26, 2017

So sorry for your so sudden loss. You, Mac, were the light of her later life. She, Margery, was one of the brightest lights of my anthropological career. From our first encounters to the last, she was ever unflinchingly honest and committed to understanding how people, communities and cultures operated. Her work and example has inspired an entire generation of feminist anthropologists. She will be missed.

Meena Khandelwal

April 25, 2017

Dear Mac and family: Because I came to Iowa as Margery retired, I did not meet her in person until a few years later in California. But I've loved teaching her feminist work in both intro courses and graduate seminars. What an important legacy. Meena

April 25, 2017

Dear Mac: I am so sad to hear this news today from Cecilia. Margery was a wonderful colleague, mentor, and friend to me. She recruited me into women's studies and was a great example of true devotion to scholarship. Love, Sally J. Kenney

Lexi matza

April 25, 2017

Mac, I'm so sorry to hear of Margery's passing. Take comfort in knowing her her radiant light will continue to shine on in other ways.

Rob Parker

April 24, 2017

I first "met" Margery Wolf as an undergraduate assigned to read House of Lim in an Anthro class at Brown; I then had the great pleasure to meet and become friends with her and Mac when we were all on the faculty at Iowa. Cecilia Ridgeway and I still remember dinner parties in Iowa City, hikes, visits at the "cabin" and in Santa Rosa. It was a great joy to know Margery Wolf.

Ran Nisbett

April 24, 2017

I met Margery (and Mac) as a doctoral student at U Iowa. For me, Margery was always indeed "bigger than life," yet so down-to-earth in her interactions. We shared an interest in Coyote as sentient creature and cultural trickster. I felt I came to know her closer during the Hadrian's Wall walk that Mac and I made in the summer of 2015--Mac told so many stories and spoke of his respect and enduring love for Margery. She was and will always remain an inspiration. As another guest wrote, I too am fortunate to have known Margery and, moreover, Margery & Mac together. My deepest, heartfelt condolences to those who cherish and carry her memory always. What a life so fully and honorably lived, so many victories from fighting the good fight! In her memory, may young academics come to know and honor how her accomplishments and commitments opened new vistas and opportunities.

April 24, 2017

Such a terrible loss for all who knew her. I will remember her always as a strong, compassionate, no-nonsense older sister, who helped put me back together after I lost my long-time partner. Thinking of you, Mac, in this time of grief.

Cecilia Ridgeway

April 24, 2017

Besides the pure fun of her friendship, I counted on Margery for the wry insight it takes to face life, do the things you want to do, and above all, enjoy it. She never failed in that. In my last conversation with her I talked about ageing and said it seems like the party is over. She looked me in the eye with her usual fierceness and said, It is not over. It is not over until it is over. Advice that has sustained me since. How I will miss her strength and wisdom.

Frank Salomon

April 24, 2017

Although I came to Iowa too late to know Margery Wolf, I was already in a way her student because her work was valued in graduate school. Sorry for your loss.

Ivan Brady

April 24, 2017

R.I.P. dear friend. You will be missed. My deepest heartfelt condolences to Mac and family.

Dan Jorgensen

April 24, 2017

I only knew Margery through her writings and by way of Mac's wonderful updates of life with Margery in Mendoland and abroad, but I can imagine how deeply and widely her loss is felt. Comfort to you Mac, and heartfelt condolences for those those she left behind.

Laurie Graham

April 23, 2017

Margery was a wonderful friend, colleague, mgntor. So many good memories - challenging and engaging discussions in the feminist reading group at Iowa, the F.A.T. seminar, fun dinners, her famous cioppino, candied ginger on vanilla ice cream, the Ukiah house and Orr hot springs! Mac and Margery and Margery and Mac - soul mates and inspiration . May so many wonderful memories give some comfort. I am so happy to have known Margery, and Mac and Margery together.

noni horwitz

April 23, 2017

There are few people who live as full a life and accomplish as much and also GIVE as much to others, as did Margery. My heart goes out to you, Mac, as this is a really challenging time. You know what she would want you to do, and hopefully, continuing to live a full life is the best way we all can honor her.

April 23, 2017

Dear Mac, What a loving tribute to Margery. It brought tears to my eyes. Our condolences to you and your family. Ryojin and I wish me could give you real hugs. But they will wait. What an amazing woman your dear wife was. Love Ryojin and Laura

Nira Pollock

April 23, 2017

Margery was always an example to me of huge strength and independence, and a role model for both qualities. She will always be that for me. I miss and love her.

Mica Pollock

April 23, 2017

Her force and spirit will be with me forever.

Kelsey Marshall

April 23, 2017

An amazing life lived. I was so glad to be there for part of it and will remember her always.

April 23, 2017

I am sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort be with you during your time of mourning. Isaiah 61:1,2 ; Matthew 5:4

David Zuelke

April 23, 2017

The enormous void created by Margery's passing will, at least in a small way,be filled with comfort from friends and family. My sincere condolences

Janet Keller

April 23, 2017

Her wisdom and her smile supported the American Anthropologist and its authors and editors for many years. Astute, bright, perceptive and kind are the words that come to mind. Though our times together were brief she will always
be with me and with so many others. Mac, it is a blessing you had so much time with her. Hold on to the images that must now fill your mind and heart and she will always be with you.

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