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Stephanie SUGARS Obituary

SUGARS Stephanie Of Sonoma County, age 60, died peacefully at home on November 20th, 2016, surrounded by love. A quiet, but potent, lesbian-feminist activist, her work in Sonoma County included: worker at Santa Rosa Community Market; writer and co-editor of the now-defunct publications "Women's Voices" and "Runes" newspapers; engagement in Sisters of Lesbos Against Radiation; co-founder of the 1980s "Greens"; docent work at the Bouverie Preserve and Quarryhill in Glen Ellen; work with the ill, dying and dead; and many activities with Rudolf Steiner's Anthroposophy and The Christian Community: Movement for Religious Renewal. Internationally, she maintained years' long friendship with others who shared her rare genetic disorder, Peutz-Jeghers syndrome, and the advanced breast cancer she lived well with for over 25 years. She attended Healdsburg HS, SRJC, UCSB and Antioch University majoring in art, religious studies and business administration. Stephanie defied all odds by living with active cancer since 1990. She incorporated unconventional and alternative approaches to healing and her life of healing through service. Anthroposophic medicine (working for healing that is humane and considerate of all worlds including human, natural and spiritual) transformed her. Stephanie's lived her later years on a small farm in Kenwood and her life encompassed friendships near and far, books, conversation, writing and reflection. For Stephanie, nature, ideas, art, beauty, imagination, memories, the dead, the divine and spirit were her friends. She created a Circle of Care, a close and loving group of friends and family members who surrounded her with support, song, food, prayer, presence and deep love. A great gift in her life was writing to heal and empower readers. She may not have changed the world through force but she changed, inspired and touched many through her writing. Stephanie's life radiated a pure presence and gifted vision that made its mark on humanity. You can access her words and thoughts at her blog https://www.mylifeline.org/stephaniesugars/updates. Her other, written works are at San Francisco's GLBT Historical Society archives and museum http://www.glbthistory.org Her funeral is Friday November 25 at 11 a.m. at Santa Rosa Memorial Park Cemetery and Crematory, 1900 Franklin Ave. in Santa Rosa. A memorial will be held in the Spring to celebrate Stephanie's life. An invitation will be posted on her blog at MyLifeline https://www.mylifeline.org/StephanieSugars/updates when we have a date and the details. In lieu of flowers please make contributions in Stephanie Sugars name to Commonweal's Cancer Help Program http://www.commonweal.org.

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Published by Press Democrat from Nov. 23 to Nov. 24, 2016.

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Alexandra

November 17, 2021

She was my guide star while my husband was going through his terminal cancer illness. I was always educated, enlightened, and inspired by Stephanie's postings. Her name is a blessing.

Stuart C Johnson

November 17, 2021

A gentle soul.

December 17, 2016

Thank-you Stephanie for your kindness and strength - your sharing with me and my friends enhanced our life!!

Ellis Dumont

November 28, 2016

I join everyone in also stating our families deep appreciation to Stephanie's advocacy, leadership, and love! In times of great trial or just for information, Stephanie was always there. Despite her own personal battle with PJS and cancer, she remained optimistic and supportive. While we will miss her, Heaven has gained an Angel!

November 24, 2016

What a joy it has been to know Stephanie!!! I so appreciated her beautiful spirit and gentle ways. How thankful I am to have known her. Such admiration for her free spirit, exquisite talents and acceptance. A blessing in my life !

Sandy Martin

November 23, 2016

Your light of love and wisdom burns brightly, Dear Stephanie. oxox

Sandy Martin

November 23, 2016

I learned something from each one of Stephanie's posts on her blog and I will miss her wisdom and grace. I've placed the Quan Yin card she sent to me, as well as her other notes, on my small altar of remembrance. Rest assured, Dear Stephanie, that I will continue to pay if forward in your honor. My deepest condolences to the family.

November 23, 2016

It was a privilege to companion you in your spiritual journey. We became deep friends. I will always value our time together. See you later, dear friend.
~ Alexandra Montoya

Cheryl Mathwig

November 23, 2016

My heart is broken. You were always there when I needed a someone to talk to. You will be missed by so many. Sending love and light to you Stephanie.

Paul Pearson

November 23, 2016

You were a light, an inspiration and remain to be so. You taught me much and meant so much to me. You will never be forgotten. Travel well my dear Stephanie xxx

Forever Loved

Karen Sugars

November 23, 2016

A Force of Life

Karen Sugars

November 23, 2016

Beautiful Baby

Karen Sugars

November 23, 2016

Stuart- Commonweal 2001 & 2007

Stuart Johnson

November 23, 2016

death defies life's logic...some piece lives on:
the spark that starts at conception will always have identity-
life comes in stages...from inception to demise:
we travel to find a gateway; an impossible new realm-
be brave and face the inevitable and live the life you choose:
but remember- the sun sets on every day, every life.
Stuart Johnson

Mimi Mindel

November 23, 2016

Love love love you now and forever.

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