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RALPH PAXTON Obituary
PAXTON, RALPH ALAN 61 - of Mays Landing, died on October 15, 2010. He was born May 2, 1949 in Dumont and grew up in Fair Lawn until he enlisted in the US Air Force for four years and served in Vietnam for one year, he also became a member of the 177th Air National Guard after moving to South Jersey. He lived the last 38 years in South Jersey. Ralph worked at Bally's Park Place Casino for 20 years, was co-owner at Yesterday's Past Antique Co-Op in Mays Landing and then part time at Bombay in the Hamilton Mall and Eddie Bauer at the AC Outlets. He enjoyed a good life with his family and friends. Ralph is predeceased by his daughter Deanna Lynn. He is survived by his loving wife Theresa and his three sons; Keith of Mays Landing, Jeff of Folsom, and Craig of Mays Landing. Ralph was also the proud grandfather of four; Kimberly, Robert, Logan and Taylor. In addition, Ralph was blessed to have his sister-in-law Ceil and two special daughter-in-laws Billie Jo and Stephanie. Ralph is also survived by two brothers, Don and Robert and a sister Dorothy who he adored. Dorothy's three children were also a special part of Ralph's life; Timothy, Collette and Daniel. His brother-in-law Thomas Buntzen, sister-in-law Elizabeth Buntzen, and their children, Deborah, Michael, Franklin, and Derek were also special in his life. Viewings will be held on Wednesday October 20, from 2-4pm and 7-9pm and Thursday 10-11am, at the Boakes Funeral Home, 6050 Main Street, Mays Landing, where services will be held at 11am. Burial will be in Holy Cross Cemetery, Mays Landing. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that contributions in memory of Ralph be made to the Humane Society of Atlantic County, 1401 Absecon Blvd., Atlantic City, NJ 08401, or Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation, 811 W. Evergreen Ave., Suite 303, Chicago, IL 60642. (info and condolences to: www.boakesfuneralhome.com)
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Suzi taylor
October 12, 2019
A piece of him is in my Bj Craig and especially Taylor. Hope he is in a better place seeing ur daughter and my Mikey
Deborah Oler
November 15, 2010
Dear Mrs. Paxton & Family,
I was shocked and very saddened to hear of Mr. Paxton's passing. He was such a wonderful person and always so kind. Deanna and I were childhood friends, since the fourth grade, so I have many wonderful memories of the Paxtons. Mr. Paxton was quiet, but I remember when he would say something to Dee and I, he always had us laughing. Lots of happy memories. Your home was always filled with lots of love, laughter, faith and happiness--well, except on occasion when one of Dee's little brothers would get into trouble, usually Craiggie. Dee was a beautiful bridesmaid in my wedding, and I remember you and Mr. Paxton being there for me, too. Growing up, you always made me feel like a part of your family, and I have never forgotten you. Please know that I am so very sorry for your loss. I will faithfully continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bring you peace during these difficult days ahead. May all of your happiest memories of Mr. Paxton help ease the sorrow in your hearts. May it also bring your family great comfort to know that Deanna and her father are reunited, together again, and that they will always be remembered by the many people whose lives they touched. My Deepest Sympathies,
Donna McDevitt
October 28, 2010
Dear Terri and Family,
I had the pleasure of having Ralph as one of my supervisors at Bally's. I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing. He was truly a wonderful man and a fair man who will be greatly missed. He is now safe in the arm of our Heavenly Father. May he rest in peace.
MaryLou Antinozzi
October 21, 2010
Dear Terri & family, I worked with Ralph for many years. He was truly a gentle soul and a man who was well liked and respected by all. My thougts & prayers are with you. May the happy memories you have comfort you.
Rose Connor
October 21, 2010
Dear Terri & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at your time of loss. I worked with Ralph at Bally's. God Speed.
Zina Whitaker Kent
October 20, 2010
To the Terri Paxton and family,I was so sorry to hear of your lost. I worked with Ralph for twenty years at Bally's. He was well liked and soft spoken. . The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
October 20, 2010
love is so heart full need to be strong love is pain and peaple will be with you and to cupert you so let joy be with you and let the lord speack for you love is family love is mareg and haveing babys love is about caring for others and beaing at our side nomader what by taylor paxton
October 19, 2010
My fondist memory of grandpa was going into the antique store I found so many treasures and my Mikey loved books and got many old ones. It was a happy day. He saved me a ruby ring and held it for me. This I will give to Taylor. Our prayers are to your intire family. Your extended family Suzi and Billy Taylor
Lisa Varesio
October 19, 2010
Terri - There are no words. Nothing will ever fill the hole in your heart but I can say to surround it with happiness and good memories and it helps ease the pain. I am here if you ever want to talk.
Lisa Varesio
Denice Stant-DasGupta
October 19, 2010
Terri, Keith, Jeff & Craig,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Ralph from when I was very young and Terri used to babysit me. He was such a nice man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Susan Duncan
October 18, 2010
My deepest sympathies to Ralph's family.
I have so many wonderful memories of Ralph from our days at Bombay. He had such a wonderful sense of humor. He always had me laughing at something every time we worked together. I will always remember him with a smile. I am so sorry for your loss. The world has lost a wonderful man. You are in my prayers.
Sam & Janice Allen
October 18, 2010
Dear Terry and Family,
Our heartfelt sympathies in the loss of your husband and father. Pleas know that our prayers are with all of you. May the love of God sustain you at this time and always.
Denise Aluise
October 18, 2010
Terri,
I am so sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. I was hoping for the best and have said many prayers these past few months, he is now at peace but I know how hard it is to lose a love. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise Christine Aluise,
Linwood Branch
Rachel Patla
October 18, 2010
My sympathies and prayers go out to the Paxton family. RIP Ralph.
Lydia
October 18, 2010
My husband and I had the pleasure of working with Ralph and Deanna at Ballys. RIP Ralph, now you and your daughter are together once again. God Bless your family, please bring them comfort and peace.
Stephenie Paxton
October 18, 2010
I miss my father in law terribly. he was one of the most caring and family oriented person i know. He will be missed sorely by myself and Jeff. We love you Dad....R.I.P.
Love,
Jeff and Steph
Jennifer Crohe
October 18, 2010
My deepest sympathies go out to the Paxton famliy. I worked with Ralph at Eddie Bauer last year and he always was friendly and always treated everyone with kindness.
Kathy Allen Hewitt
October 18, 2010
Paxton Family,
Mr. Paxton was always a kind man, he loves you all so much and everyone who knew him could see that. I know the days ahead will be hard, but you guys have each other. I am so glad I had the opportunity to know him, and see the love you all have for each other.
Sarah Namm
October 18, 2010
Ralph was the kind of man you couldn't help wanting to be around. He made the day better and brighter. A tragic loss of a precious man. Blessings and love to the family, may his beautiful memories heal the pain of your loss.
Deb Buntzen
October 18, 2010
To my cousins, I understand your heartache for the loss of a parent. Aunt Terri, I can't even begin to imagine your heartache. Embrace all the good memories. Uncle Ralph will be sorely missed. I always admired how meticulous he was. He'd come home, go straight to the kitchen and put up his belongings. It was so automatic. Or he'd be upset about something and it was hard to tell. He kept a quiet reserve about himself. I'm saddened for the loss of an uncle and a fellow veteran. You and Dee are united again. Terri and I love all of you!
Loretta Morris
October 18, 2010
Dearest Therri, Our deepest and most hearfelt sympathy is with you and your entire wonderful family.You and Ralph have always been such warm and loving people to everyone. I still can't believe it. All our love see you soon. Love Jim and Loretta
Glenda Turner
October 18, 2010
Ron and I remember Ralph from the antique shop on rte. 40. We are so very sorry for your loss and we will keep you in our prayers.
Robin Garwood
October 18, 2010
May God bless the entire Paxton family. May you all find comfort in the days ahead in the many memories that you have all shared. I was one of the lucky people who got to meet Ralph, and really admired him and how much he loved his family. And whenever Nathan and I were there, he made us feel like family. Nathan and I are both very saddened by this news. We will be keeping the Paxton Family in prayer!!
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