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Ernestine Bugbee Obituary

BUGBEE, ERNESTINE MITCHELL, of Providence, RI died peacefully on Tuesday October 3, 2006 at the Phillip Huiltar Inpatient Hospice Center in Providence, following a long illness.

Born in Louisville, KY on November 18, 1943 to Edward D and Ernestine Roberts Mitchell, she grew up in a large and loving family in Madison Wisconsin. As an undergraduate at Bennett College in Greensboro, NC, she participated in the student sit-ins and boycotts that helped focus national attention on America's civil rights movement and inspired similar actions by students in 54 cities across 9 states.

Upon graduation from Bennett, Ernestine's interest in fashion and style led her to New York, where she wrote marketing copy for Allied Stores and Mademoiselle before becoming director of public relations for the professional products division L'Oreal. Her success designing and fabricating custom tablecloths, napkins and table arrangements made her a sought-after expert both on national television programs and in the consumer press. Following four years in Harrogate, England, she and her husband relocated to Rhode Island, and their present home on Providence's east side. Her volunteer commitments included the Women's Center for Domestic Abuse and ASSE Student Exchange. Until forced to retire because of her illness, Ernestine was the Director of the Community Kitchen Culinary program for the Rhode Island Community Food Bank. An member of St. Martin's Episcopal Church, she taught church school and was involved in many activities focused on helping the less fortunate members of the Providence community.

The beloved wife of Robin Alexander Bugbee for over 35 years, Ernestine had a great sense of humor and a magical laugh--both frequently directed at herself.

To her love of plaid, music and children she brought her big heart, great common sense, an unshakeable belief in people's essential goodness and an eagerness to help others however she could. She touched the hearts and helped change the lives of many.

She is survived by her devoted husband; her sister Marilyn Mitchell of New York City (their brother Don predeceased her); her brothers in law Christopher Bugbee of Las Angeles, CA. and Bruce Bugbee of Napa, CA, her nieces and nephews, Sara, Erin, Isabelle, Rachael, Byron and Colin; her godchildren, Christopher Altchek and Tamara Brown; and a vital community of family and friends throughout the world who knew the gentleness of her touch and loved her as dearly as Ernestine loved them and every minute of her wonderful life. She will live forever in our hearts.

Funeral services will held at 5 PM, Saturday October 14th at St. Martin's Episcopal Church, Orchard Avenue, Providence. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a contribution to the Southern Poverty Law Council, the Rhode Island Community Food Bank or the Phillip Hulitar Hospice Center.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 5, 2006.

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Heather Langlois

September 29, 2024

She was my friend and I was so fortunate to spend the time I had with her. Her spirit lives on. When we look back at memories, I get to tell my kids who she was and how much she meant to me- that is untouchable. Forever in my heart and I feel so blessed!
Never forget the love she share with Robin!
Love,
Heather, Nathan, Caden & Jewel

Robin Bugbee

November 6, 2006

Ernestine was a sweet girl and we were blessed to have had such a wonderful life together. Thank you so much for leaving your kind words. I appreciate it very much.
Sincerely:
Robin A.Bugbee

Denis and Elke Moonan

October 14, 2006

Thank you for being a big part of our lives

Ellamarie McMullen

October 12, 2006

I had the pleasure of meeting both Ernestine and Robin at the Westin Gym. Every morning that I saw Ernestine and Robin at the gym my day was brightened by their warmth and friendship. Ernestine was also a wonderful role model to me by witnessing her ability to help others,her strong work ethic and her positve attitide. Both Ernestine and Robin graced all of us by being such a beautiful and loving married couple. God has blessed me by knowing both Ernestine and Robin and I am so grateful for that. My prayers are with you Robin and with God's angel, Ernestine.

Erica Hanson

October 10, 2006

"The world has lost a wonderful person, but Heaven has gained one great soul." Thinking of you and praying for you Robin - and thanking God for bringing Ernestine into my life. She was an incredible woman and life teacher.

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Serge

October 8, 2006

Thanks for evrything and everyone you touched,we will all miss you very much. There is no words for how wonderfull as a person and as a friend you were. You left us but you will stay in our thought and our hearts for ever.
Serge W.

LeRoy Danielson

October 6, 2006

Dear Ernestine: I have a card that was meant for you, written but not sent, on my dresser. I think to myself, "If only I were as thoughtful as you always were...so diligent..." But you seemed to know that about me and befriended me anyway. Thank you for all that you taught me.

Barbara Blossom

October 5, 2006

My heart shares your sorrow and loss; and, celebrates the joy and loving you shared with Ernestine. My thoughts, prayers and sympathy are with you, Robin, and your family. She was much loved by all.

Mr. & Mrs. Edward Langlois, Jr.

October 5, 2006

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

dorinda montague

October 5, 2006

my thoughts and prayers are with your family. ernestine was a very wonderful and hard working person. our paths crossed through our jobs.

Arthur Snow

October 5, 2006

Ernestine, you were quite a woman. Thank you for helping me out when I needed it.

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