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John Sapinsley Obituary

SAPINSLEY, JOHN MILTON, 89, professor, mentor, businessman, philanthropist, World War II veteran, champion golfer, avid skier, wonderful husband, father, and grandfather, died of cancer at home in Providence, R.I. on February 29. His extraordinary talent for inspiring others to reach their full potential was evident in his professional career as a professor of economics and management at R.I. College and Brown University, as well as in his personal life as the husband and campaign manager of former R.I. State Senator Lila M. Sapinsley. He was a source of unwavering confidence and support for his family and for his students, many of whom remained in touch with him and sought his advice long after they had graduated. Born on April 10, 1922 to Elsa and Milton Sapinsley in Providence, John graduated from Hope High School and was admitted to Brown University at the age of 16. Following graduation from Brown magna cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa in 1942, he enlisted in the Navy, and was put in command of an LCT, a vessel designed to land tanks on enemy beaches. When he received orders to report overseas, John and Lila, who was the love and light of his life for almost 70 years, were married at the Naval Base in Norfolk, Virginia. During World War II John served in North Africa, Sicily, Anzio, and Normandy, survived the destruction of two of his landing crafts by enemy fire, and was promoted to Lieutenant Commander. After the war, John and Lila returned to Providence, where they raised four daughters, Jill, Carol, Joan, and Patricia, and John became President of the Crescent Company, later named the Carol Cable Company, an electrical wire and cable business started by his father. He was a member and served on the board of the Young Presidents' Association, an organization of executives who become presidents of major companies before they reach the age of 40. When he was 43, John retired from Carol Cable, returned to Brown to pursue a graduate degree in economics, and began his second career as a professor of economics at R. I. College, where he also served for a time as the Vice President for Academic Affairs. John retired from RIC as an Associate Professor in 1987, but continued to teach economics part-time at Brown until 1995 and then became an advisor in the Small Business Association's SCORE program, where he counseled many fledgling entrepreneurs who benefited from his knowledge and business experience. Following family tradition, John was also very active in community affairs, serving on the boards of Miriam Hospital, the ACLU, Roger Williams College, the Small Business Association, the R.I Public Expenditure Council, as a founding director of Common Cause of Rhode Island, and as founding Executive Director of the R.I. Council for Economic Education. He also served as president of the Walker's Pond Conservation Society to protect his beloved Conway Lake in New Hampshire, where he and Lila built a vacation home and enjoyed many happy years. John and Lila's love for the performing arts led them to endow a theater at Rhode Island College, which is named Lila and John Sapinsley Hall in their honor. In addition to his wife and four daughters, John leaves four sons-in-law: James Mooney, Alan Rubenstein, Richard Lewis, and Harold Levy; nine grandchildren: Robin, Caitlin, and Jay Mooney; David and Julie Rubenstein; Zachary and Samuel Lewis; and Hannah and Noah Levy; and his sister Jane S. Nelson. Donations may be made in memory of John M. Sapinsley to Rhode Island College, 600 Mount Pleasant Avenue, Providence, R.I. 02908 or Common Cause of Rhode Island, 245 Waterman St., Suite 400A, Providence, R.I. 02906. Funeral services will be held at noon on Friday, March 2 at Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence. The family will receive callers in the Temple Beth-El Meeting Hall immediately following the service, and at Laurelmead, 355 Blackstone Blvd., Providence, from 5 to 8 PM on Saturday, March 3. For information and condolences visit www.SugarmanSinai.com.

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Published by The Providence Journal from Mar. 1 to Mar. 2, 2012.

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Tom Iannotti

April 10, 2012

Professsor Sapinsley ingnited my interest in economics. Enjoyed his classes very much and I am sure he will be missed by many students, friends and family. He was a great guy and very helpful to me as I went through RIC.

Patty Olen

March 9, 2012

Dear Mrs. Sapinsley,

I was so saddened to learn of your husband's passing. It was such a pleasure knowing him all those years at Laurelmead.

I always admired Mr. Sapinsley's intelligence, quick wit and quiet confidence as he chaired the Budget Committee and served in so many other leadership roles in the community.

It wasn't until after I read your autobiography that I really got a glimpse of the softer side - the loving husband and father he was. That was a real treat, but certainly no surprise.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Patty Olen

Suzanne Williams

March 5, 2012

Dear Lila, I remember John driving the campaign car up and down and around and about RI with a box of balloons and a helium tank in the back. He was so enthusiastic and kept all our spirits energized. I was very very lucky to know him and you. Best wishes, Suzanne Williams

Barry Preston

March 4, 2012

John was a driving force in the Providence Citizen's lobby, a group working for a better Providence in the late '70s. He was an inspiration to all of us who worked with him then. He and Lila have been good friends to and fearsome bridge opponents to my Mom Sis Barnes at Laurelmead. John, we will miss you.

Perry Bernstein

March 4, 2012

Dear Lila. My wife Lois and I wish to extend our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. My Mom, Bianca (Bernstein) Delahunt held you and John in highest regard and so proud that you offered to speak at her service Lila. Lois and I and my two daughters will never forget your grace and sincerity during our difficult time. We wish you and all your family the very best.

Ken Rosenthal

March 4, 2012

On behalf of my Aunt Helen Rosenthal and our family, we extend sincere condolences. Helen cherishes wonderful memories of the time shared with you both.

Harriet & Bob Sharp

March 3, 2012

Dear Senator:
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Sincere sympathies to all.

March 3, 2012

Lila: My sincerest sympathy to you and your family.

Anthony Arico

Sandra Hamlin

March 2, 2012

Beyond life's window panes
John Sapinsley Milton's Shadow
Henceforth
Linger's over Providence's brightest horizon
Timeless hearts of life
Never quite does such an essence leave;
Not the shore's of New England
Nor
In winter's bitter season
Does such a man fade away?
Nay !
Spring's rebirth will ne're replace his spunk for life;
Nor cloud his feisty eyed missions for beauty
Never does death erase a warming embrace
Nor silence that hand that reached out to others'
The formal side
Maybe;
A passionate stance
Always;
A Lingering glimmer
In other's stories
In other's hearts .
For it is in what we leave behind-
Our
Actions;
Drives
Desires
All
Constant and enduring sparks
An Eternal flame of hope
Such moments ignite a man's life..
A man's legacy and home.
His hope for Providence
For humanity is etched into all of us
For long after the soul of Mr. Sapinsley Milton
Fell to slumber
He graced our lives with charity.
The fondest of memories always
The Hamlin family somberly sends their utmost condolence
A powerful force
Once graced

March 2, 2012

Lila and John Sapinsley were like a second family to us while I did my graduate work at Brown. I will never forget their great generosity and warmth. They had a great impact on our lives. My heartfelt condolences go out to Lila, Jill, Carol, Joan and Pat and their families in this time of sadness.
--Marlene Nusbaum, Newton, MA

Tessa Tavares Costa

March 2, 2012

Dear Mrs. Sapinsley and Family, please accept my deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers. Mr. Sapinsley was a great man and will be missed by all.

Lori Tyrell

March 2, 2012

Dear Sapinsley Family,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of this great man. Prof. Sapinsley was an inspiration and I admired him tremendously. He loved to teach and had a flair for keeping his students excited. He will be greatly missed.

scott molloy

March 2, 2012

Dear Lila, John led such a long and productive life, it seems like he will always be with us. The both of you madr Rhode Island a better place, best, Scott Molloy

Bill Drapeau, former RI State Rep.

March 2, 2012

Lila, my thoughts, prayers and most heartfelt sympathies are with you and your family.

Lila and John Sapinsley after a Common Cause event at their home in 1994.

Phil West

March 1, 2012

John Sapinsley cared deeply about reform. He and Lila worked over the decades for ethics and open government reforms. Their leadership proved crucial in bringing separation of powers to Rhode Island. Warm blessings for Lila and all who mourn John's passing.

March 1, 2012

My love and sympathy to Lila, Jill, Carol, Joan and Pat, from one who spent many hours at 25 Cooke Street during our teen years - and even with you in Paris 1967! My most recent memory is of John and Lila's visit with me and being fondly greeted by John as his ' fifth daughter'. All my love from across the miles, and with a heart full of love and admiration. Sudi Cumming (Florida)

James Bierden

March 1, 2012

Condolences to Lila and the Sapinsley family. John was an important part of the Rhode Island College Community. He was a great colleague. He will be missed but his legacy lives on.

Dave Layman

March 1, 2012

John was a tremendous asset to Rhode Island. Aside from his obvious great work in business and education, he was a big supporter of helping young people understand how the economy works and how to manage their money. John and Lila were a great team. We will miss him. My best to Lila and the Sapinsley family.

Kate Reed

March 1, 2012

John was a wonderful man and I have many many fond memories of him from New Hampshire, my time in Providence and then at our wedding. My heart goes out to Lila and the entire Sapinsley Family. All my love, Kate (Weinreb) Reed

Walter Blanchard

March 1, 2012

A great friend and community leader.

John Giusti Sr.

March 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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