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Ruth Soforenko Obituary

SOFORENKO, (RIMA) RUTH (WEISS), 82, passed peacefully with her beloved daughter, Nancy, by her side on February 20, 2011. She was the wife of the late Arnold Soforenko. Born in Passaic, N.J, she was a daughter of the late Abraham and Rose Weiss. Mrs. Soforenko moved to Providence as a young girl and attended John Howland School, Nathan Bishop Jr.High School, Hope High School and Brown University, graduating from Pembroke with a major in Philosophy and a minor in Art in 1950. She and her mother founded and ran an art and antique gallery, Vogue Antiques, in Central Falls for many years. As a longtime supporter of civil rights, she fought for fair housing for minorities in the '60s. She moved to Palo Alto in 1971, began a career as an interior designer and founded a very successful design firm, Ruth Soforenko Associates. She was an ASID member, was renowned in her field and won numerous awards. Ruth made immediate connections with many who crossed her path. She was beloved in her community, both in Providence and in Palo Alto. She could be counted on to help her friends make their social and political events into special visual experiences. Ruth was an avid runner and ran her first marathon at the age of 48. Ruth loved her dog Cyrano who was a familiar sight on the streets of Palo Alto. She also loved to entertain and had an impeccable sense of style and taste. She is survived by her daughter Nancy Soforenko and her beloved son-in-law (David) Deke Gerken of Monte Sereno, CA. She was the mother of the late Suzanne Soforenko, and sister of the late Judith Cohen and Arthur Weiss. Her funeral service will be held Friday, February 25, 2011 at 11 AM in Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Shiva will be private. Arrangements by Sugarman-Sinai Memorial Chapel.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Feb. 24, 2011.

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Rosanna Mah

March 17, 2011

Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. We have worked with Ruth for many years, we are very delighted that she gave us that opportunity. Ruth will be in our hearts forever.

Love From Bruce Mah & Staff at Mah's Furniture Transport

Russell Abraham

March 14, 2011

Ruth was a client and friend for many years. I will always have fond memories of her good taste, remarkable skills, and kindness.

Russell Abraham

Michelle MacLaggan

March 2, 2011

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. My husband and I had the opportunity to sit and meet with Ruth for a business meeting in the design field. Ruth left a lasting impression on us. Her home, hospitality and kindness was one of a kind. During the hour we met, Ruth made us smile as she served up hot French pressed coffee and homeade coffee cake. She was a gem. We were lucky to have met with her.

With Sympathy,

Michelle & Brian MacLaggan

Jeremy Cohen

February 27, 2011

I will always have Ruth in my heart. I have been close to her since the day I was born and have celebrated nearly every holiday event in my entire life with her. I love Aunt Ruth!

Stefanie Harris-Degarmo

February 24, 2011

My Prayers and thoughts are with your family nancy. I grew up on the east side and went to school and temple with your sister. I remember your mom very well, she was a loving person.

Here is my aunt Ruth dancing with my nephew Miles on her 80th birthday.

Stephen Cohen

February 24, 2011

My aunt Ruth was always a real hero to me. I will miss her!

Marilyn Deitchman

February 24, 2011

I have loved and admired Ruth all my life. I treasured her and was so happy to have such a beautiful, loving, and talented cousin. I will always miss her.

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