Jan. 18, 2013
Lisa M. Thoma Setta, 40, Carlisle, Pa., and formerly from Wilkes-Barre, entered into the hands of the Lord unexpectedly on Friday, Jan. 18, 2013.
Born in Wilkes-Barre on Aug. 10,1972 , she was the daughter of Mary Corallo and her husband, Steve Tonkin of Hanover Township, and Charles Thoma II and his wife, Cindy, of Wilkes-Barre.
She was a graduate of Hanover Area High School and Luzerne County Community College, with a degree in photography. Lisa was currently serving in the Pa Army National Guard as a 92A in the 3622ND Maint CO and also as a federal tech at the Carlisle Readiness Center. She was a member of St. Patrick's Church, Carlisle, Pa.
Lisa was a devoted wife, mother and enjoyed time with her family camping, fishing and hiking.
Lisa was proceeded in death by grandparents, Kenneth and Sarah (Kelly) Thoma, and Carol Corallo.
In addition to her parents, she is survived by her husband of 15 years, Sgt. Dino Setta; her daughters, Isabella, Olivia, Sophia and Gianna, all at home; brothers, Charles Thoma III and Christopher Thoma, both from Wilkes-Barre; sister, Michelle, and her husband, Jason Karpowich, from Hanover Township; several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.
Funeral will be held Wednesday at 9:30 a.m. from Mamary-Durkin Funeral Service, 59 Parrish St., Wilkes-Barre, with Mass of Christian Burial in St. Aloysius Church, Wilkes-Barre. Interment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Hanover Township. Friends may call Tuesday from 5 to 8 p.m.
Those who desire may give memorial contributions in the name of the children to St. Patrick's School, 87 Marsh Drive, Carlisle, PA 17015.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Lisa, I miss you so much, from holding you as an infant,to holding your hand and watching you grow. Teaching you how to pray and laughing at the things you used to do and say. I miss your wit, and your laugh. This candle represents you and how you lit up everyone around you. Now,you shine in heaven as a bright star. You are my baby and I will always miss you - Love you - Mom
February 18, 2014
It's so hard to believe a year has passed since you left us. Life will never be the same without you...We all miss you so much and love you dearly.
Love you forever and ever.
Dino, Isabella, Olivia, Sophia and Gianna...Rest in eternal peace Sweetness.
Dino Setta
February 17, 2014
Lisa, I have been thinking about you a lot lately...I know it was your birthday yesterday and I still can't believe you are gone...was thinking of the last time I saw you and Dino and the girls at that football game...I keep praying for your family to heal in time... you are missed and loved so much by so many
August 11, 2013
Happy Birthday in heaven! Miss and Love you dearly and i cant wait to be with you again.
your loving sister Michelle
August 10, 2013
You touched so many lives. Inspired so many people. Made so many smile. So many broken hearts now your gone. So many tears now. We will never understand why this happened to you. So missed. So loved. For ever and ever....
Dino
August 5, 2013
Love you thinking of you and miss you dearly!
Michelle
August 4, 2013
I thought about Lisa today while I was in church at St Al's, listening to the magnifiscent music I thought this is what heaven must be like, and I said a prayer for you and for all the family that one day we will meet again. Happy Easter in Heaven Lisa. Aunt Nancy
March 31, 2013
My dear Lisa,You were the best sister a girl could ask for. We did not have enough time together and my heart will forever be broken. I will do my best to make you proud and I will watch over your girls as if they were my own. Thank you for the memories...
Love Michelle xoxo
February 11, 2013
My Dearest Lisa,
Although you are no longer within our sight, your presence is still here in the things we do,see or feel. Your love will live on forever in each memory or thought of those you've shared and the happiness you had brought to us. Your love will live within us and will never fade away.
Love you forever,
Dad
February 6, 2013
Chuck, I'm so very sorry for you and your family's loss.
Brian Klepac
January 29, 2013
Chuck, sending our thoughts and prayers for you and the the family. I cannot imagine your pain in this most difficult time. Praying that God gives you all comfort and peace knowing Lisa is smiling down on you.
H.T. & Kathy Bowen
January 27, 2013
Dino, I'm so sorry, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Tina Daley
January 26, 2013
God bless
Amanda Mason
January 25, 2013
Lisa, we will miss you and love you forever. You taught us so much about living a full life. R.I.P. Sgt.. Lisa Marie Setta
Carm and Nick Sosik
January 24, 2013
Dino, sending our thoughts and prayers for you and the girls. Praying that God gives you all comfort in this difficult time
David and Kendall Berry
January 23, 2013
To Chuck & Family I am so sorry for your loss. We know now there is another Angel in Heaven, looking over us.
Bernard Logue
January 23, 2013
Chuck, I am so very sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I can't even phathom what you are going thru. I remeber her when she was just a little girl. I am so deeply sorry, my heart is with you.
Joseph Ryan
January 23, 2013
Chuck, Cindy and Chris
I cannot say I know what you are experiencing, but the loss of your daughter must be the hardest thing any parent will ever face. Her life was a credit to you and your family, and everyone who came into contact with her knew that they had met an angel.
We can only offer our deepest condolences and we would welcome the chance to help with anything you need doing.
Alyson PJ and Erika Graham
January 23, 2013
Setta family, We are thinking about you and praying for your comfort.
Glenn Lookabill & Family
January 22, 2013
You'll be missed Lisa. I'm glad I met you in the Army. You were a great person! Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
James Orwan
January 22, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Lisa was a wonderful woman. Her smile always lite up the room. She will live on in all our hearts.
LoriAnn Gallagher
January 22, 2013
Heartfully sorry for your loss. Lisa always had a smile for everyone. I hope her family finds peace in knowing what a wonderful person Lisa was...much prayers for inner peace. Karen M/Forty Fort
January 22, 2013
Lisa left to early RIP. Dino hang in there and Gods speed.
Robert & Mary Pissott
January 22, 2013
Thanks Lisa for all the GREAT memories. We had sooo many more to make. My heart will forever be broken but know that you will be in the thoughts of the many people who loved you everyday. Lots of hugs and kisses.
Christy Johnson
January 22, 2013
May your beautiful children find comfort in every day details that they remember of their mom. She is watching from above and will see you again one day. Love to your family
January 22, 2013
Lisa left to early RIP. Dino Gods speed, Gods speed.
ROBERT & MARY PISSOTT
January 22, 2013
Diane Elmy Searfoss
January 22, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. A good person gone way too soon. Obviously the Lord needed her more than we did here. My thoughts and prayers to Dino, daughters, & family. RIP Lisa
Diane Elmy Searfoss
January 22, 2013
So Sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Tara Duffy/Strausbaugh
January 21, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family in these difficult times.
Richard & Sherri Brogan
January 21, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Maria Eby
January 21, 2013
kelly mislivets
January 21, 2013
we are so sorry for your loss , our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. heaven has gained a angel from this beautifull earth . and she will watch over you and girls forever.
tom n heather stark
tom stark
January 21, 2013
We Love and miss you Lisa.
Chuck (Dad) Thoma
January 21, 2013
God sure has a wonderful angel with him in Heaven. She was an amazing person. Such a great friend, battle buddy, mother and wife. The world has suffered a great loss but her memories will live with us for the rest of our lives. RIP beautiful you will not be forgotten by those who love you!
Crystalynne Christman
January 21, 2013
It hard to believe you are gone, but never forgotten, may you rest in peace Lisa.
Sandra Gaines
January 21, 2013
She was a good person,she always had a smile for u when she saw u.I will miss her!!!! Love u Lisa
jane barrick
January 21, 2013
Cathy Hower
January 21, 2013
A loss of a great person.Your family will be in our thoughts and prays.
Cathy Hower
January 21, 2013
Justin Eck
January 21, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy.
CSM Kirk Dougherty
January 21, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Sharon Rogers
January 21, 2013
A wonderful young woman may god bless her husband and girls! prayers and thoughts to all !
Tricia Pascoe
January 21, 2013
Lisa,You and your Family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Gill
January 21, 2013
Tom Mazur
January 21, 2013
Words cannot express our feelings of sadness for you and yours. If you need anything that we have, don't hesitate to ask, Love the Taggart Family
Dusten Taggart
January 21, 2013
I pray God comforts you and your girls Dino. I cannot imagine the pain you all are experiencing. Lisa was beautiful inside and out and I feel blessed she touched my life. God keep you Dino.
Melanie Royer
January 21, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May our heavenly father send angels to continually guide and watch over your children in your absence. Amen
Jose Rosado
January 21, 2013
So very sorry! Lisa was a great person & much too young..I suppose God has a different plan for her..I hope you find strength & peace to help in this most difficult time..Rest Easy Lisa! God Bless!
Maria Molusky
January 21, 2013
Words fail in trying to convey my sorrow for you- Dino, Isabella, Olivia, Sophia and Gianna. May Lisa rest in peace. I am here for you.
Rev. Dwight Schlaline
January 21, 2013
Know that you all are lifted up in prayer by your Life Teen and Edge family at Saint Patrick Church. May you know His love and His light, especially at this dark hour.
Joe Goodman
January 21, 2013
Deepest sympathies and condolences to Lisa's family and friends. A young life ended way to soon. RIP Lisa.
Susan Sims
January 21, 2013
Our deepest condolences go out to you. We lost our dad/grandpa a day before Lisa died, and we've lost a brother who left 4 kids behind, so we have some idea of what you're going through. Lisa, go with God! We will pray for you and hope you will pray for us.
Lori Peters
January 21, 2013
So many of us at Saint Patrick School are so sad for your loss. Please know that we will pray for and watch over your girls.
- Peggy, Ken, Joey, and Lorraine Durbin
Peggy Durbin
January 21, 2013
I met Lisa (and Dino) when I rented an apartment to them in the early 1990's. In my 13 year "tour of duty" as a landlord in Wilkes Barre, they stand out in my memory as the finest examples of plain ol' good folks. A rarity, I've learned over time.
Lisa was an endearing, caring, kind, sweet and genuine person. My first impression of her was- exactly the type of person that she was. No false pretenses with her, she was exactly the person she portrayed to the world. I've learned, over time, that this is a very rare attribute. And one of the most endearing for a person to have. "Genuine" people are very rare today.
This is quite a loss for this earth. We need more people like Lisa here.
My heartfelt condolences to Dino, her daughters and family, and all who grieve her loss.
Al Dellarte
January 21, 2013
a sadness that evokes sentiment for which there are no words... many prayers for the family for the difficult days ahead ...
Donna Smith
January 21, 2013
God bless Lisa, Dino, Isabella, Oivia, Sophia, Gianna, Mary, Steve and The Whole Family. Wishing you strength and God's love. Lovingly, Ron, Laney, Aunt Lil, Steve, Paul and Michael Diahy
Ron, Laney and Family Diahy
January 21, 2013
No words just heavy heart so sad for her family her husband and kidsand family pray n luv always cause u just never know!!
jamaar taylor
January 21, 2013
Wishing strength and prayers to everyone through this time.
Scott Freeland
January 21, 2013
We wish you strength and peace during this difficult time. Much love.
~ Patrick Moran and Jill Urban
Jill Urban
January 21, 2013
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. With deepest sympathy,
Jacquie Rickard & Family
January 21, 2013
Sorry for your loss. We all love you Lisa
Bridget Sarnosky(Wuorio)
January 21, 2013
What a great women. Rest easy.
Bobb
January 21, 2013
Rest in peace, Lisa, you will be missed!
Pam Bachman
January 21, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your girls.
Lorri & Rodney Oberbroeckling
January 21, 2013
My prayers are with you and your family in this time of need. Live smitty mom
Gigi Smith
January 21, 2013
"I will never forget you Lisa, R.I.P."
Doris Delgado & Family
Doris Delgado
January 21, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Kelly & Joe Mercadante
January 21, 2013
Our prayers and love are with you and your family.
Christa Koter-Langdon
January 21, 2013
God gave me 23 beautiful years with you honey but he took you away from us too soon. You were my best friend and an amazing mommy to our litte girls.You touched so many lives.You were so loved.
Watch over us now from heaven.We will be together again someday my sweetheart.I will love you forever and ever and ever.
Your loving husband and daughters
Dino,Isabella,Olivia,Sophia and Gianna.
January 21, 2013
Sorry for your loss lisa was a great person i will never forget the good times we had in school together my prayers go out to her family especially her husband and children god bless
Nicole Palchanis
January 20, 2013
Chuck, Cindy & Christopher & Thoma Family - We feel your pain and we are here for you.
Bill, Laura, Nick & Rowen Potoeski
January 19, 2013
R.I.P Lisa
stacey thoma
January 19, 2013
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