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1960 – 2013
Thomas Andrew Eveland, born March 23, 1960, in Los Angeles, CA, the fourth of ten children of Frederick and Helen Eveland, passed away September 9, 2013, in Poway, CA.
Tom was a member of the first class to enter and graduate Mt. Carmel High School. He then attended Palomar College.
He enjoyed Little League, Junior Achievement and Boy Scouts, rising to Sea Scout. He loved ocean sailing with his father and friends and enjoyed traveling all over the US and Canada, especially to our farm in Vermont.
Tom's career course included El Bizcocho at the Rancho Bernardo Inn; Fundamerica Inc.; ADT Sterling Security Services, rising to Captain; and World Heritage Foundation. He owned/operated San Diego Yacht Cleaning/Auto Detailing before becoming a service rep for Pacific Bell. He then spent ten years with Restaurants on the Run.
He settled in Imperial Beach with Rachel, his companion of many years. He enjoyed long walks in the area with his beloved dogs, especially to the IB Pier.
Tom developed his artistic, literary and musical talents, singing and playing keyboard and guitar. He loved "rockin out" with his "idol," Ozzy Osbourne and Black Sabbath.
He was extremely generous, of deep religious faith, and fun-loving. Tom made everyone around him smile and he kept his sense of humor to the very end.
He was pre-deceased by his father and infant brother, John. He leaves behind his loving mother, Helen; sisters, Kathy, Patricia, Helen and Joanna; brothers, Richard, David, Michael and Christopher; aunt, Jessie; goddaughter, April; 24 nieces and nephews; and two grand-nephews. We will miss you forever "Tobby."
Services for Tom took place at Saint Demetrios Greek Orthodox Chapel, followed by interment at El Camino Memorial Park, San Diego, CA
Contributions to the San Diego Zoo in Tom's name would be appreciated.
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Sponsored by His Loving Family.
Thinking of you big brother and know that you´re watching over each of us, like you always did! I love you and miss you everyday can´t believe 10 years have passed by since you went to heaven
Joey
Family
September 20, 2023
We love you and miss you so much Big Bro Tobby! I can´t believe it´s been 8 years since you left us. I think of you all the time and enjoy all our precious memories
Helen Engel
Family
September 20, 2021
It's been 8 years and I still miss you , it sometimes seems like I could just drive down and you would be there , clearly not the case . I imagine you're having a blast up there , say Hi to everyone , I'll see you sooner than later !
Richard
Family
September 20, 2021
My Dearest Tobby,
I hope you are soaring with the angels in eternal life. I'm sure you are happy to be with Kathy again and I know you, dad and all our family are watching over our precious mom right now. We need your prayers and love. Please surround mom and help her pain go away.
Missing you always, but keeping all your memories and thoughts alive every day!
Love you❤
Helen Engel
June 2, 2017
Thinking of you beloved brother! I can't believe it's over 2 years since you've gone to heaven. I miss you so much and think of you all the time. Love you!
Helen Engel
October 24, 2015
Helen Eveland Engel
November 8, 2013
Helen Eveland Engel
November 8, 2013
I miss you big brother
October 24, 2013
RIP Tom, You will be deeply missed. Prayers to you and your family.
Greta Davila
October 22, 2013
Tom, there is a very noticeable VOID without your presence,based on all the people you have touched.There is a lot of LOVE out there for you.I am glad that you are out of pain even though your missed.R I P Brother. Peace!
Mark Drews
October 22, 2013
To my precious big brother..."Tom, Tobby, Andrew, Ozzy", you will always be alive in my heart! Missing you dearly every day, but remembering as well the words you spoke that remain etched in my thoughts..."No matter where you are, no matter what you do, always remember...Tobby loves you"! Thank you for sharing that with me as it literally keeps me going. You were a treasure, a gift and you know truly how much you meant to me. I hope you are singing with the angels, dancing in the sand, and having the best "Affa Party" heaven could throw! I love you...until we meet again...keep joking and making everyone happy <3 "Right On"!
Helen Eveland Engel
October 22, 2013
Helen Eveland Engel
October 22, 2013
Helen Eveland Engel
October 22, 2013
I do not claim to know much but his I know- Thomas Eveland was loved and cherished by his siblings. May the joy, laughter and happy memories forever bring a smile to your family and friends. Peace be with you
Shirley
October 22, 2013
I will always remember Tom with a smile on his face, because that is the only way ever saw him, with a smile on his face.
Pamela Fregia
October 22, 2013
Just know you see that light better than anyone today. R.I.P.
I will see you soon one day.
Rosa Dearstine
October 22, 2013
My Big Brother Tommy "Tobby" "Ozzy" I love you with all my heart and will forever and will miss you every day for the rest of my life. You were the craziest and sweetest brother around and a very sweet Uncle to Emma Gremma and Joey. To be with you the moment you slipped away was the saddest and most special moment of my life. I sure wish I could still give you a hug but I have been in my dreams. Thank you for your love Tommy, I always felt it.
Joanna
October 7, 2013
Tom I didn't no you all that well but the way I see you being talked about sounds to me like you where a fun loving brother and friend to many God Bless Tom and his Family
james miller
September 28, 2013
I know you're having fun in Heaven, Tom!
Tom Savell
September 28, 2013
Thomas "Ozzy" Eveland lives!
Ed Curry
September 28, 2013
Have fun Tom. I'm sure Micheal is glad to be with you. See ya soon! <3
Karmann Abbott-Hamlin
September 27, 2013
So sorry, Richard and family. He is okay where he is now.
Bonnie Stewart
September 27, 2013
Always a "Big Brother" forever in my heart. I wish you all stregenth, love and peace.
Debby Mirabelli
September 27, 2013
R.I.P. Tom for you are at peace.
Margo Cooper
September 27, 2013
My condolences bro. Heavy hearts and prayers for the family.
Andy Denzien
September 27, 2013
My condolences bro. Heavy hearts and prayers for the family.
Andy Denzien
September 27, 2013
Prayers to your family
September 27, 2013
RIP and Godspeed Tom!
Mark Williams Williams
September 27, 2013
bill hamiltion
September 27, 2013
Loving thoughts & prayers are with you all. I am truely sorry for your loss...may your memories & love fill the empty part of your heart from the loss of Tom ?
Patty Costello/Hamilton
September 27, 2013
Tom will be sorely missed. Always a bright spot in everyone's day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Love you.
janet schwartz
September 27, 2013
Rest in Peace, Tom. You were loved by many and will be missed!
Jean Grant
September 27, 2013
September 26, 2013
September 26, 2013
may you find comfort in the lord and may your smile shine down upon your family in their time of need. Mrs. Susan Cunningham and Family Easton Kansas
September 26, 2013
September 26, 2013
What can I say , Tom was my little brother , he IS me in so many ways , we have done and shared so much together, we worked together , played together , lived , loved , and cried together , I would gladly trade places with him if that would bring him back , I will miss him everyday for the rest of my life and I was SO lucky to have him for a brother that I can't put it into words , he would give anyone the shirt off his back and if you were anywhere near Tom , he wouldn't let you leave without a smile on your face ! I Love you Tom , and I know you are at Peace now and the hard part is over ! Rest in peace Little Brother and I'll see you again !
September 25, 2013
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