EAST HAMPTON - Dominick "Dick" A. Scarfo, husband of the late Patricia (Spencer) Scarfo, died on Friday, Jan. 11, 2013, at Marlborough Healthcare Center. Born July 28, 1920, in Mammola, Italy, he was a son of the late Gaetano and Nancy Scarfo. Dick proudly served his country in the U.S. Army during World War II. After working two full-time jobs, at General Electric and Stanley Works, he retired and enjoyed his grandchildren and visiting family and friends.
The family wishes to thank Marlborough Health Care Center and Masonic Care Hospice for making Dick's final days peaceful.
He is survived by a daughter, Paula Cassidy, of Middletown; a son, Alan Scarfo and his wife, Melissa, of East Hampton; two grandchildren, Conner Cassidy and Isabella Scarfo; two brothers, Carmine Scarfo, of Meriden, and Nicholas and his wife, Jeanne Scarfo, of Southington; a sister, Mary Pisarz, of Meriden; and a sister-in-law, Bette Scarfo, of Meriden. He was predeceased by a son, Gary Scarfo; a brother-in-law, Peter Pisarz; two brothers, John and Luigi Scarfo; and a sister, Rasaella Scarfo.
Family will gather on Tuesday, Jan. 15, 2013, from 10 to 11 a.m. at the Beecher & Bennett-Flatow Funeral Home, 48 Cook Ave., Meriden. Burial will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery. Relatives and friends may call at the funeral home on Monday, Jan. 14, from 4 to 8 p.m.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Jan. 13, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Dominick Scarfo

18 Entries

Brian, Kellee, Julia & Kelsey Smith

February 4, 2013

Little Pop we will miss you. Lots of love to Al & Paula and their families...may good memories be with you....Rest in Peace Little Pop until we all meet again xxoxoxox

February 4, 2013

May you rest in peace PopPop. It was a pleasure knowing you and having you as part of "our" family especially with you sharing the same birthday as my sister. Now you can celebrate together in heaven as we did many times here on earth. Give my love to her, my parents and my brother. Till we all meet again.

Yvette Rivera

January 18, 2013

Paula and Alan, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. He was a wonderful man. I have so many great memories of time spent with your family growing up and will always think of him fondly.

Yvette Rivera

January 18, 2013

Paula and Alan, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. He was a wonderful man. I had wonderful times with your family growing up and will always remember him fondly.

January 14, 2013

Dear Al, Missy and Bella, My sincerest sympathy to you at this very sad time. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love, Joyce Smith

Isabella Scarfo

January 13, 2013

Pop-pop, you were everything to me. I loved you more than anything in the world! It's so hard to believe you're gone. I know you loved me too as much as i loved you.......love you to the moon, stars, and back
Love Bella

Grace Coombs

January 13, 2013

Dear Bella,
Always remember that Pop loved you. You could tell by the way he smiled at you; you made him so proud! May he rest in peace. May warm memories of your times together bring a smile to your face. He'll be watching over you now from Heaven.
Sending you our love,
Aunt Grace, Peter, Alina, Ben and Alex

Grace Coombs

January 13, 2013

Dearest Al, Melissa and Bella,

Please accept our family's condolences at the passing of Pop. I'll always remember the kind and gentle man that he was. I will also remember how proud he looked standing next to you, Al as you and Melissa shared your wedding vows with each other as Melissa's mom, Millie, stood alongside just as proud! Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything at all that we can do, please don't hesitate. We love you. . .
With our deepest sympathy and love,
Peter and Grace M. Coombs and family

Paula Cassidy

January 13, 2013

Dad, what can I say? The one word that comes to my mind first is "Thankyou". Thank you for being the best dad that anyone can have. Thankyou for always being there when I needed you. From the time when I was very young to the very last time we talked. Thankyou for being a great grandfather to my one and only son, my son, who has many of your mannerisms..... The best being his easy going attitude! I have been blessed having you as my father. I will miss you dearly but I know you will always be with us in spirit. May you RIP always. To the best man I have ever known and raised me to be strong....... Tink! I love you Pops!!!!
Paula

Pam Murphy

January 13, 2013

Al, Melissa and Isabella,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Remember all the great memories that you had with your dad to help you get through these following days.
Pam and Dan Murphy

Joe & Nancy Esposito

January 13, 2013

Dear Paula, Alan & Family,
Our deepest sympathies go out to all of you. Uncle Dick was such a wonderful man and will always hold a special place in our hearts. We will always remember the good times we shared together. May all of those wonderful memories live on in our hearts and may he now rest in peace. All our love,

January 13, 2013

We always looked forward to Little Pop joining our everyday lives or times we got together as a family. He always was a bright light in the room. He will be missed greatly. Alan, Missy , Isabella and Paula: our hearts are heavy for you. Love, The Messervy Family

January 13, 2013

Paula and Alan,
So sorry for your loss. We was a wonderful man and he played an enormous part of my life when I was younger and I know he was a great Dad to you both!
Love,
Mike and Lori Roy

Edward Bagnaschi

January 13, 2013

Al,
Sorry to read about your dad's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. God bless you and your family.

Melissa Scarfo

January 13, 2013

Isabella and I have been so blessed to have lived with you Dad for the last 10+ years. She is so fortunate to have you for a Pop Pop and I for a father-in-law. A spot in my heart is breaking for you and your most wonderful son Al. You could not of asked for a better family. Our heavy hearts will hold you and your love and memories forever and ever. I will cherish Thursday night, the last night when I was tickling your feet and you said in your strong voice, Stop that, cut that out and we all started laughing. You were smiling so cute. One of my best memmories ever of you on your last day. I love you dearly and you are missed beyond believe. Love Melissa

January 13, 2013

God Bless PopPop.
Chachi

Dense LaMontagne

January 13, 2013

Dear Paula Marie, Alan, The Scarfo & Cassidy
Families,
My Deepest And Heartfelt Sympathies are being sent Your way.
I remember Dad as being a Very Kind and Gentle Man Who Loved His Kids. He Certainly would do Anything for All of Us. I feel very Thankful to have had spent time with Him, Especially Time in Quincy Mass. OMG I cant say this without a huge Smile and Hearty Laugh . Paula & Alan that One Taxi Cab ride to Quincy Mass. with Both of You and. DAD.. is By Far the Most Interesting Cab Ride I have ever taken.
On a Serious Note...I Send You My Condolences ....
With Much Love,
Denise

Al Scarfo

January 13, 2013

Dad,I will always love you. You were my role model and you will always be missed. My you rest in peace and comfort.

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