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Barbara Bukowski Obituary

MIDDLETOWN - Barbara Bukowski, 84, wife of the late Otto Bukowski, died peacefully at Waters Edge in Middletown, on Friday, July, 19, 2013, surrounded by her Family.

Born in Meriden, she was the daughter of the late John and Susan (Zakutansky) Stagon. Barbara grew up in Meriden and graduated from Meriden High School in 1947, where she was voted " Girl with the biggest line" by her classmates. She met Otto on the dance floor and they married shortly after in 1948. They remained in Meriden to raise their children and be close to family and friends. In the early 1960s, she was a supervisor in Dutchmaid and Queen's Way. Barbara was also the co-owner of the Colonial Shop and Purple Door both in Meriden. She retired from the Purple Door when Otto retired in 1990, to spend more time together. They summered at Old Colony Beach in Old Lyme, where they loved to entertain family and friends and go on tag sales. Everyone was welcomed; they would also spend time in Florida during the winter months with friends at Fort Myers Beach.

She is survived by her daughter, Pam Trudel and Mark Vartanian; son, Jeff Bukowski and his wife, Karen; grandchildren, Kyle, Alex, and Eric Bukowski; her sister, Marion Fellegy; and her nephew, Todd Fellegy. Besides her husband and parents she was predeceased by a sister, Ann Mickunas, of Bayonne, N.J.

A Mass of Christian burial will be held on Wednesday, July 24, at 9:30 a.m. at St. Stanislaus Church, 82 Akron St, Meriden. Burial will be in St. Stanislaus Cemetery Meriden. At Barbara's request there will be no calling hours. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden, CT. 06450. For online condolences please visit www.jferryfh.com

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Published by The Record-Journal on Jul. 22, 2013.

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July 26, 2013

I'm sorry for your loss. May God give you and your family peace in your time of sorrow.

Ms Porter

Donna Upchurch

July 25, 2013

Barbara was a very special lady, it was always a joy to be in her company.She could tell stories that would make me laugh so hard, I'd cry as did Otto. I was lucky enough yo have met them over 30 years ago through Dutchmaid. My girls and I had some fun times at the shore house and I spent many hours at your Mom's kitchen table in Meriden. We loved Barbara. Pam and Jeff she loved you so much and she talked of you, often.
Barbara will live on in all our hearts. You are all in my prayers.

July 24, 2013

Jeff & family,
Very sorry yo read of your mother's passing. Deepest sympathy to you. Fondly, Eve Sokol

Richie Shamock

July 23, 2013

Jeff, Karen & family, My sincere condolences to your entire family. God bless you all.

July 22, 2013

To the family of Barbara, she was a wonderful lady and I will always remember picking out my wedding dress w/her and my Mom. I felt so comfortable with her and appreciated her expertise. Always, Mr.& Mrs.Walter Hadvab & Family

Jack Walsh

July 22, 2013

Dear Pam and Jeff:
I had the pleasure of knowing Barbara and Ann in high school. She was a real fun person. We enjoyed many good times especially at the dances at Crystal Ballroom and having sodas at Katz's after class. You have my deepest sympathy. She was a great classmate and friend, and am sure she was a terrific and fun loving mother. God bless.

Sharon Vartanian

July 22, 2013

Dear Pam and Jeff,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families as you go through this sad time. We were so honored to know your Mom and thought so highly of her.

We loved her smile and great sense of humor. Her joy for life was unbelievable. She will be greatly missed.

I will never forget working with her when I was picking out my wedding dress. I have never laughed so hard as the day when I was trying on dresses and she was giving me her thoughts. A truly wonderful lady.

Regards,

Sharon and Jack

Thomas Mongillo

July 22, 2013

Dear Pam & Jeff,
I am so sorry the learn of your Mom's passing. She was a hoot and was always full of life and had a zest for life and made me very happy when we all got together.
I'm sure God welcomed her warm smile along with Otto welcoming her to heaven.
I will pray that God comes to you both and lessens your sorrow.
She will be in my prayers and may she rest in peace.
Tom

Barbara Marut

July 21, 2013

Knowing you was such a pleasure. You will be missed. I will keep you in my prayers.

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