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Kevin Appell Obituary
He came into this world kicking and screaming on May 28, 1974, in New Haven, son of Roger A. Appell and the late Linda (Deming) Appell. If he wasn't running from his older brothers, he was on the track with the track team at Lyman Hall where he graduated class of 1993. Kevin was a guy who started as a cook but ended up helping us all sneeze a little less, working for Protein Sciences, who manufactures flu vaccines. He gained a reputation, not just because of who he was, but because of the work ethic and pride he displayed. As a true "Dead Head" he lived the life, and it was anything but ordinary. Possessions weren't his life, people were, and as such he was always the guy finding a good deal on a hoody at the Salvation Army, or an outlet store. He loved chilling outside and golfing, (FORE!). He loved rocking out to the bands String Cheese and Shinedown. He was pretty good at fishing and could raid your refrigerator and make one hell of a meal. Oh wait, did we mention the numerous flip-flops that met their demise as a result of his shuffling around?
He left behind his biggest fans: his dad, Roger, of Wyoming, his big brothers, Michael, also of Wyoming, and Brian and his wife, Amy of Massachusetts. Hey, did we also mention he had two awesome nieces, Ella Rose and Fauna Belle, both of Massachusetts? And who could forget his partner in crime, Jeremy Waycott, of Wallingford; along with some aunts, uncles; cousins; and if you were lucky enough to be called a friend of his then, of course, you?! We all know the party of life continued when he wrapped his arms around his Mom, Linda - God, it must be awesome to see her again.
Dude, here's the deal, you should totally head down to the B. C. Bailey Funeral Home (let's face it, it's probably nicer than his friends' houses, but it's all we got) on Saturday, Nov.29, from 10 a.m. in the morning until 1 p.m. in the afternoon. Be advised, if you're wearing a suit, we will laugh at you! Hoodies are preferred, and if you wanna wear flip flops, cool, and boy do we mean cool, after all it's winter. Then at 1 p.m. we're all going to behave ourselves and say some pretty nice things. Burial, well you're off the hook because it's private. If you wanna do something to recognize his coolness, then you should make a donation to the Shriner's Hospital and Burn Center; that can do so much more than flowers. Donate online at www.shrinershospitalsforchildren.org or via snail-mail to: Office of Development, Shriners Hospitals for Children, 2900 Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607. To leave a message of remembrance or for directions, please visit BCBailey.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kevin Appell
Kara Joyce Waycott
May 28, 2025
Happy Birthday Kevin... I miss you. I wish you were here. Thinking of you...
kayleigh mott
April 8, 2022
I have these faint memories of you from years ago I remember you being a sweet, funny man. I considered you family you were an amazing person. im sorry this all happened to you you were truly amazing and deserved none of this.
Paul & Miriam Vanacore
December 1, 2014
Kevin may you rest in peace. We feel cheated, but only God knows why he needed to take you from us so soon. You will always live in our hearts because you were a true friend so much that you became a big part of our family, and the kids are as heartbroken as we are because you are no longer with us. We will always love you, never forget you. You will be there when your friends play your favorite music, and at every golf game. To the Appell family again, our condolences on this huge loss. May God give you the strength to go on.
Jeff Wolcheski
December 1, 2014
Deep sadness as we say good bye to a great guy.
James Jarvis
November 29, 2014
I will miss you my friend. I will always remember when you taught my daughter how to put.
Brian Reed
November 28, 2014
I am very sorry for your loss Kevin was a great guy as r all the appell boys he missed RIP KEVIN
Kara Waycott
November 27, 2014
I love you Kevin. You were the greatest uncle and the greatest friend. You had such a kind heart. You will always be in my heart and i will always remember you. We will always miss you. XoXo
Chuck Grusse
November 26, 2014
To say Kevin was one hard worker, is an understatement; to say Kevin had the biggest heart of anybody I, or probably you have known, is an understatement; to say Kevin was one of the most sensitive people I ever knew, is an understatement; to say Kevin always (& I mean always)put all others before himself, is an understatement; to say I always looked forward to seeing & playing golf with Kevin, is an understatement. Kevin is the only person of my son's age group who could call me "dude", it was accepted as Kevin offered with respect & love. To say Kevin will be sorely missed, is an understatement.
My sincere sympathies to his dad, Mike, Brian, Amy, his nieces, and all his extended family including his bonded brothers Jeremy, Shawn, and Dana. Keep 'em laughing Kevin!
MARK KNOWLTON
November 26, 2014
GOD BLESS Kevin !! I Have A Handfull Of TRUE FRIENDS & KEVIN Was At The TOP Of That LIST !! ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU !!! HE Has Helped Me Thru MANY A Rough Times !! I LOVE HIM & WILL Be At A LOSE For A VERY LONG TIME !! LOVE YOU DUDE !! THANKS !!
Mark Knowlton
November 26, 2014
As I Wrote On My Timeline , I Have A HANDFULL Of TRUE FRIENDS !! & KEVIN Was On The Top Of That List , He Has ALWAYS been There For Me , ALWAYS Had Your Back !! I LOVE HIM & I WILL MISS MY FRIEND In The Hat & Flip Flops DOD BLESS YOU KEVIN !!
Eileen Cardona
November 26, 2014
My condolences to Kevins family and friends.. I didn't know Kevin personally but heard about the fire and was saddened of what happened. I would like to say that Kevins obituary was one of the most heart touching and most unique ever and loved it... It showed how this young man lived life and enjoyed it to the fullest which is awesome to hear. His obituary was very personal and touching to read what an extraordinary person Kevin was. Once again my deepest sympathy to his family and friends, God bless. Eileen Cardona Meriden resident.
Bob Brady
November 25, 2014
I grew up with Kevin and recently saw him at Colony Lanes, right away he recognized me and came over to our table to say what's up. It was early Sunday morning and he had the party already started enjoying his friends, bowling and beer. What a great way to spend a Sunday morning. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Appell family.
Kim Liso Perez
November 25, 2014
Peace and prayers to the entire family. Although I did not know Kevin personally, I hear great things from fellow classmates. That is a beautifully written piece about the person he was. May he rest in peace.
Ron Puckett
November 25, 2014
The Puckett family would like to send our condolences... I haven't seen Kevin since I was a kid but he was somebody I will never forget..
The Burnell and Segundo families
November 25, 2014
God's Blessings on Kevin and all his family and friends.He will be joining so many beautiful people when he enters those Heavenly gates."God be with you in your sorrow,through the nights and through the day;May some blessings come tomorrow That will clear its cloud away.God is generous in His giving,Give Him now the soul thats fled;May He bless with Faith the living,Rest eternally the dead"
Keith Mangini
November 25, 2014
I have not seen Kevin in quite a few years. And when I read the news of his untimely passing I was heartbroken. I grew up with all the brothers and have fond memories of our times together. After reflecting on those times, I can honestly say Kevin was one of the most true and honest people I have ever met. He was a "good" man down to his core who cared greatly about his family and his friends. To his family, his father, Michael and Brian; I am very sorry for your loss. Although time has passed us all by, you were all part of some of the best years of my life. I hope you find some semblance of peace in knowing how many people Kevin touched in such a positive way. When they walked away from him, even if it was just a simple conversation, I think most would say they walked away feeling a little bit better about themselves. I don't know if there is a greater compliment I can give. My thoughts and prayers are for Kevin, his brothers and father, his family and friends. Rest in peace old friend.
Lynne Geiger-Bailey
November 25, 2014
Roger, Michael and Brian.....The years that I spent babysitting for the boys were some of the happiest days of my youth. I am heartsick to hear of the loss of Kevin. My deepest sympathies to your entire family. He has been reunited with his mom and has probably already made friends with my son Mark. I will pray for strength to see you through the ensuing days.....with much love, Lynne
Vanessa and Patrick Stanio
November 25, 2014
Kevin always knew how to bring happiness and laughter to others. I could tell just how much he enjoyed the presence of his friends and family and living life. There are no words to express how much he will be missed. I know you're up there rocking the heavens! RIP Kevin you will forever be in our hearts <3
Alma Vanacore
November 25, 2014
Kevin was a beautiful person both inside and out. I was blessed to have met Kevin and he will be missed. RIP Kevin.
November 25, 2014
Hey, Kevin. I will miss you so much. We had some good times. You were the best. Love, Helen Dias (Jenny from the Oak)
Diane Bilodeau
November 25, 2014
Our hearts are broken. We will forever remember your kindness and thoughtfulness. You took such good care of those you loved.
Diane, Ron & Laura Bilodeau
Jennifer Sharpe
November 25, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Appell family at this difficult time. This Obituary was so truly brilliant! May you find comfort knowing he is now at peace. God Bless.
Jennifer Sharpe
Kenny Blakeslee
November 25, 2014
I am very sorry for the passing of Kevin who was a very special person. I had not seen Kevin for years since he played Track & field at Lyman Hall with my older brother David. I ran into him where I live in south Meriden a few years ago. He always asked how I was and my brother and it was a always a pleasure to speak to him he was just a very cool guy. We had some laughs with other friends and drinks at the local Cafe The Barn! and you will be truly missed may God bless you and your family. RIP Kevin you will not be forgotten!
Kenny Blakeslee
November 25, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tracy Barboni-Mirra
November 25, 2014
I have known Kevin since elementary school. He was sweet, smart and happy. Always had a smile for me. The world did become a little darker in that day. The obituary is a great memorial to Kevin, I'm sure he smiling down on us.
Janet Rea
November 25, 2014
I am so saddened and shocked (bummed) - Kevin always had that twinkle in his eye and was a righteous dude. A huge loss for us is Heaven's gain.
Beth Huntington
November 25, 2014
I'm so, so sorry for your tragic loss.
Whomever wrote the obituary did a brilliant job of capturing Kevin's essence.
I hope that God comforts you during this dark time.
Michael Buckley
November 24, 2014
This was the best obituary I have ever read. I went to elementary and middle school with Kevin. He was always an awesome and nice kid and reading this I can tell he was an awesome and very cool adult.
Sending love to his family and friends.
Craig and April Lumbra
November 24, 2014
It's been a long time since I've seen Kevin but what good times we had growing up with the guys or friends back in the day i remember all the good the we were the neighbor hood kids since about 5 years old rest in peace Kevin well miss you very much
November 24, 2014
Deepest Sympathy to the Appell Family may you find comfort from God's Love and may he give you peace and strength during your time of sorrow.
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