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Mary Verselli Obituary

WALLINGFORD - Mary Gallagher Verselli, 51, of Wallingford, died Tuesday, Oct. 16, 2012. She was the beloved wife of Mark Verselli.

Mary was born in Pittsburgh, Pa., daughter of Nancy Lersch Gallagher, of Wallingford, and the late John T. Gallagher. She was an active parishioner of Most Holy Trinity Church in Wallingford, acting as a lector and past President of the School Board. She graduated at the top of her class at Sheehan High School, and is an inductee in its Hall of Fame. Mary received her bachelor's degree from the University of Hartford and continued her education at Northeastern University, earning an MBA with highest distinction. She worked at Masonic Home and Hospital, and was chosen as the first administrator of Ashlar Village, where she oversaw the development and construction of one of the first retirement communities in Connecticut. She began her own business consultancy, Senior Markets Network, helping many other senior housing developments to prosper within the state. Mary's passion for learning and commitment to purpose led her to offer her skill and talent to other organizations, including The National Theatre of the Deaf and The Governor's Prevention Partnership. In 2005, Mary joined Choate Rosemary Hall, in the senior leadership position as Director of Strategic Marketing and Communications, where for the last seven years she worked tirelessly and effectively to improve how the school communicated within its own ranks and with the external community. She represented Choate as a member of the Quinnipiac Chamber of Commerce, where she was President-elect for the coming year. Mary was known to all for her kindness, generosity and genuine concern for others. It was a pleasure for her to help her fellow man in all that she did, from the time she was a young teenager volunteering as a candy striper at Masonic, to a young adult advocating for the elderly, and most recently serving as liaison with the SCOW community of Wallingford. To serve others was her goal and mission in life, and she consistently did it with grace and great conviction. Mary will always be remembered for her positive approach, can do attitude and a smile to light up the world!

In addition to her husband and mother, she is survived by her two cherished sons, Michael and Matthew; as well as her sister, Karen Giangrande and husband, David, of Andover, Mass.; sisters-in-law, Joyce Chessher and husband, Steve, of Cleveland, Ga., Laura Verselli. of Cleveland, Ga., and Ione Hernandez and husband, Jose, of Meriden. Mary was the proud aunt of Emily and Chris Weigand, Rachel and James Hunt, and Kristina, Liza, Peter and Jason Giangrande.

Her family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 North Main St., Extension, Wallingford, Thursday, Oct. 18, from 4 until 8 p.m. Funeral services will be held on Friday at 11 a.m. from the Wallingford Funeral Home when the funeral cortege will proceed to Most Holy Trinity Church where a Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 12 p.m. Interment will be in Saints Peter and Paul Cemetery in Wallingford. In lieu of flowers, gifts in Mary's memory may be sent to Holy Trinity School, 11 North Whittlesey Avenue, Wallingford, CT 06492, or the Palladino Family Cancer Center, c/o MidState Medical Center, 435 Lewis Avenue, Meriden, CT 06451.

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Published by The Record-Journal from Oct. 17 to Oct. 18, 2012.

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October 26, 2012

My Friend Mark,

I am very sorry to hear of this loss. And will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Please bear in mind as a one departs this earth there is family member's always accepting them on the other side rejoicing for their return.
I am truly sorry
~John Pizzi

October 25, 2012

Mark: Our family was so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Lloyd, Trudy and Janice(Pascarelli)Prescott

lloyd prescott

October 24, 2012

Mark, We are so sorry to hear of you wifes passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Trudy ,Lloyd and Janice(Pascarelli)Prescott

Nancey (Tweedie) Russo

October 23, 2012

Dear Mark and Family:
I am so sorry about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It's hard to believe so much time has passed since we were kids at GBC.
Please give my best to Ione.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Tom & Theresa Readey

October 23, 2012

Mark and family,
While I am deeply saddened for you for your loss, I am happy for Mary, who is continuing her journey home, into the loving arms of our Father. May you find comfort in the love that she spread, as expressed by everyone whose lives she touched. Mary is a beautiful soul. She and her genuine smile will be greatly missed!
We will continue to pray for her soul as we also keep you and your family in our prayers.

October 22, 2012

To the Verselli Family,
Our deepest sympathies to all of you....we are so very sorry to hear of Mary's passing.
With Love, The Marotti Family

Rob & Lori Simon

October 22, 2012

We were so saddened to hear of Mary's passing. As others have written, I have wonderful memories of time spent at the Gallagher house when we were in school. Many years had passed when my wife Lori and I met Mark and Mary during baby classes as we both anticipated the birth of our children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Robin Wilson

October 22, 2012

Mark - I talked of Mary at our ATHENA Awards lunch on Oct. 18 and thought I'd add the thoughts I shared to your Guest Book:
"For the past several years, we have had the good fortune to have a very special woman serve on our Board of Directors and most recently as our Incoming Chair. Mary Verselli held several high-ranking positions both at Masonic and Choate Rosemary Hall. She was an incredibly unique individual who was able to get anything accomplished with a calmness, kindness and professionalism second to none. She was not only a huge asset to our QChamber, and a friend to me, but to all who she met. For all those reasons and more, she was a 2010 nominee for this very award. I'm so sorry to say that Mary passed away Tuesday after a long and courageous battle with breast cancer. She never complained and she never asked for anything. So, in her honor, our QChamber is making a contribution in her name to help patients and their families dealing with this disease.
Robin Wilson, on behalf of the QChamber

Sam D'Angelo

October 21, 2012

Mike and family,
All of my love in your time of loss, I'll keep you all in my prayers.

Deborah Krisak

October 21, 2012

My deepest sympathy to all of Mary's family. I met Mary when she was employed by Masonic. She was one of the nicest, most caring and genuine individuals I have ever met. She was such a professional. May she rest in peace. She will be missed.

October 21, 2012

Mark,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I always admired Mary in High School and am so proud to read of all her accomplishments. May she rest in peace. Sincerely, Anita Cuerbo Salomon

October 20, 2012

Dear Mark, Michael, Matthew and Mrs. Gallagher,
I was so saddened to hear that Mary lost her valliant fight with cancer. My memory of Mary will always be of her as the woderful and loving parent she was. My condolences go out to you.
Susan Hunter, Jacksonville, Florida

Dorothy Vieira

October 20, 2012

Nancy,

My deepest condolencese to you on the passing of your daughter, Mary. She was an accomplished lady and I know you will all miss her. May our Lord console you and provide His peace and strength for the days ahead.

Sincerely, Dorothy O'Sullivan Vieira
Venice, FL

October 19, 2012

Dear Mark,Nancy, Karen, and family.
We are so sorry to hear of Marys passing. we were unable to attend the service, but we wanted you to know our thoughts and prayers are with all.. Edward & Jeanette Lamb

Sharon Kobrin Vojtila

October 19, 2012

Mark and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Mary was such a huge part of my childhood and I have so many wonderful memories of school and the neighborhood. you are in my prayers

Robert Wells

October 19, 2012

To Mark and Family:
I am so sad to hear about the passing of Mary. My prayers are with you.

Lynne Geiger-Bailey

October 18, 2012

Karen, Mrs. G, Mark and families...I have such fond memories of the Gallagher household as children. We took all of life for granted, for we knew no better. And now in this time of great sorrow, I pray that heaven awaits us all, until we meet again. Mary was a bright light, with the voice of an angel. Take comfort in knowing that she truly lived and will never be forgotten.

Christine Mansfield

October 18, 2012

Gallagher & Verselli families,
God called one His best home -- so tragically early for all of us. Our hearts ache for your loss, and mourn the passing of such an inspiration. A heroine, a friend, a board member, a leader, a faith filled mother who lived every minute. God bless you all in this journey of faith and strength. Wallingford stars shine less brightly without her presence. Mansfield Family

Thirl and Debbie Gravell

October 18, 2012

Nancy, Mark and family, We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved, Mary. You are in our prayers and thoughts.

October 18, 2012

Dear Mark,Nancy, Karen, and family.
I am so sorry to hear of Marys passing. I was unable to attend the service, but I wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you. Frank Pasinski

Kathy Goodrich

October 18, 2012

Mark and your precious children, Jim and I are beyond sadness for the loss of Mary. We remember her as a wonderfully talented woman with a zest for life that left a lasting impression on all those who knew her. We can only imagine you and your family's loss. God knows your pain and we pray that you find some comfort in the days, weeks, and months ahead.......remembering her smile and her unending love for family. We will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers, Kathy and Jim Goodrich

Mary LeClair

October 18, 2012

Mark, Karen and family- I am so sorry to read about Mary's passing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. Love, Mary LeClair (Hutchinson, Acampora)

Tom O'Sullivan&Family

October 18, 2012

Mark&Sons,Nancy&Karen Our deepest condolences to you all.Mary can now rest in peace with her Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

October 18, 2012

Mark, Karen, and family,

Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of you wife Mary at such a young age. We both deeply share your loss, and we truly understand what it is like to lose someone we truly love. I am sure that after the grief slowly subsides, you and your sons can look back and remember all the wonderful things about her which will never go away.
Have faith, always keep her in your heart, and pray that her soul goes directly to the Almighty's home

Ginny and Tom Gersz Sr.

Janet & Peter, Stephen and Matthew Stagon

October 18, 2012

Mark and family,
We're very sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Meredith Fellner Meilleur

October 18, 2012

Mark,

My parents let me know of Mary's passing. It seems like just yesterday we were together singing our hearts out. She was a great kid then and judging by what has been written she was a great woman.

Wishing you and your family Peace during this most difficult time.

Scott & Karent Barnett

October 18, 2012

Mark, Karen and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Mary was one of the brightest and most engaging classmates I ever had and her time on this earth made it a better place. I am sorry I cannot be there with you but wanted to send our condolences.

Noel Jordan

October 18, 2012

Mark and family, saddened to hear of Marys passing,she was always a go getter and helper and positive person and always was smiling.She will be deeply missed ,you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Divya Mishra

October 18, 2012

I've worked with Karen over the last 6-7 years and have come to know her as a truly beautiful, giving, kind, caring friend & colleague. While I never had the pleasure of meeting Mary, I know how much she was loved by her family. My heart is full of empathy and love and my prayers are with you and your family.

October 18, 2012

I am shocked to learn about Mary's death. My prayers are with you and your family. With lots of prayers for all of you. Lorraine Rutledge

October 18, 2012

Dear Mark, I do not expect that you'll remember me by name. I worked at Ashlar Village with Mary. In fact, she and I were it's first employees. Since that time, I have been out of touch. I want you to know how saddened I am to hear of Mary's passing. It just cannot be. My heart is filled with compassion for you, your children and your families. My prayers go out for all of you. She was an inspiration to us that worked with her and to the many residents who looked up to her. God Bless.

Nancy Aiello

Beth Charamut Florian

October 18, 2012

Mark & Family,
I am so saddened to hear of the earth's loss of such a wonderful person. I am not sure if you realize this, but you and Mary were such a positive influence on me in High school at a time of great confusion for me. I loved your attitudes on life and your warm and welcoming personalities. This earth is at a loss without Mary, but she is with the Lord where there is no disease, or pain. Only happiness and contentment. God Bless.

October 18, 2012

Mark and family - So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I remember her way back. Always a caring, helping person.
Carol and Frank Notaro

Rich Goodness

October 17, 2012

Mark, So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joel Grossman

October 17, 2012

Mark and family
I am saddened to learn of Mary's passing. I know Mary touched so many lives and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family to find comfort in your memories.

Bonnie Albanese

October 17, 2012

How sad to those who remain behind, how lovely that Mary sits with our Lord and Saviour. I remember that sweet, sweet little girl who has grown into a remarkable woman, wife and mother. I wish I knew her in her adult years. Thinking of her family at this time. God bless you all.

Jane Galbraith Mahaffie

October 17, 2012

Mark and sons, Mrs. Gallagher and Karen,

I am thinking of you all at this time of great loss. While time and space didn't keep us in touch, my high school memories will always be framed by Mary, and hanging out at the Gallagher's and with Karen and of course you Mark. I was just telling my youngest the other day of walking on stage with Mary in one pair of very large pants and singing "me and my shadow". There are no other words to say except I am so sorry.

Eileen Barton Powers

October 17, 2012

Mark,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sorrowful time.
Love and blessings

October 17, 2012

Mark & boys, I was saddened to hear of Mary's passing. She was a wonderful woman who really put herself out there for everyone. My heartfelt sympathy.
Dee Dyer

October 17, 2012

Dear Mark and Family,

What a loss to our world! Working with Mary at Ashlar Village was quite a challenge. She taught me so much. Mary had confidence in people when they didn't in theirselves. She made us all better for her presence in our lives. Bless you Mark and boys. Paul and I send our love and prayers.....
Eleanor and Paul Brown....Cape Elizabeth,Maine

Jeannine Kremzar

October 17, 2012

To all of Mary's Family,
I worked with Mary at Choate awhile ago. Her laugh and smile, was so cheerful and warm. I remember seeing her at baseball games. She always had a kind word to say about everyone. Her laugh was so full of life. God called this angel home, to be with him. Will miss you Mary. God Bless your family and let them find comfort in the memories of the lives you have touched.

Judy Inguaggiato

October 17, 2012

Mark,Nancy,Karen.We go back a very long time together and I cannot even tell you how sorry I am. I think about all the great times, parties and dinners we shared and those times will not be forgotten. She was a amazing young lady and fought so hard for what she believed in. My thoughts & prayers to the entire family.

Carol and Charles Farley

October 17, 2012

Dear Mark, Nancy, Michael and Mark,
We are very saddened to learn of Mary's passing. She was a very special person who will be missed by all who knew her. Special thoughts and prayers for her, and for all of you!

Judy Mik

October 17, 2012

Mark I was saddened to hear about Mary's passing.I am glad I finally got the chance to meet her this past May. I hope you were able to enjoy your Florida trip.
Sincerely

October 17, 2012

Dearest Mark,

My heartfelt prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Mary was a gift to all that knew her.

My family and I have been blessed. Love, Sharon Totz

Joe&Patti Townsend

October 17, 2012

Mark, Patti and I are so sorry for your loss. It seems just like yesterday we were making Homecoming floats at the Gallagher's house. She will be missed

Suzanne Cornwell

October 17, 2012

Mark and sons,

Having worked two summers with Mary in the Communications Office at Choate, I felt a strong emotional attachment to this wonderful, warm, capable woman. She always spoke with such affection of you guys, the men in her life, and I know you must be so relieved that she can now rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Francie Hensley

October 17, 2012

Mark,Nancy,Michael and Mark, Our prayers and thoughts are with you through this difficult time.Mary is looking down upon you and will give you the strength to get through this...Our love always.

Sheldon Larsen

October 17, 2012

Claudia and I are truly sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She will be missed.

Lin Verselli

October 17, 2012

Mark, I am so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by everyone's life that she touched. My deepest condolences to you and the boys, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Paul, Danny, Tony & Andrea Verselli

October 17, 2012

Mark, We can't express enough, just how sorry,and sad we are for the loss of your beautiful wife.

October 17, 2012

May God Bless you in your time of sorrow.
Mary was always had a smile and was happy. We are thinking of you . Love Tom,Karen, Emily and James Gallagher

Greg Roy

October 17, 2012

Mark, So sorry for your loss. I was shocked to see the news. You and Mary had something wonderful. All who knew her were blessed for knowing her. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elizabeth & Martin

October 17, 2012

There are simply no words. No words to describe how wonderful she was, no words to illustrate how deeply she was loved, no words to express how much we will miss her.

You're in our thoughts and prayers, always.

Peter Verselli

October 17, 2012

Hi Mark. So very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She was such a happy person with a wonderful outlook on things and I always enjoyed our conversations. I will miss her. My best to you and the boys. Pete

Mitu and Alpa Patel

October 17, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss and in the short time we knew Mary, her beautiful smiling face brought us joy and touched us with her kindness. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Debbie Versell-Stancil

October 17, 2012

My dear cousin Mark and his boys,I was so deeply sadden to hear of Marys passing.She was such a wonder,beautiful lady.Her battle with this deacese was heroic.I pray every day and night they find a cure.Marys memory will live in our hearts.I know she is in the arms of our Lord and she will be watching over us.

Jackie & Art Ward

October 17, 2012

Mark, how very sorry we are for your loss of your wife, friend, mother to your children......your extended family loved her truly and will miss her being a great sister-in-law and their friend......love ya

Fredric Leiss

October 17, 2012

I am saddened by the loss of a wonderful woman. God bless to Mary's family, You are in my prayers.

Debbie Verselli-Stancil

October 16, 2012

My dear cousin mark and sons.I am so deeply sadden for your loss.Mary was such a wonder,beautiful lady.Her strength to fight this decease was heroic.In my heart I believe she brought love,happiness and promise in every life she touched.I pray that we will find a cure for this decease.Mary is in the arms of the Lord and always watching us.I love you Mark and my prayers are with you the boys and the family.

Michelle and Andreas Widmer-Schultz

October 16, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss, and will continue to pray for you during this very difficult time. We hold on to many beautiful memories of times that we have spent with Mary and her family, and we will always remember her with great love and respect.

Scott Baur

October 16, 2012

Mark,I'm so sorry to hear of your loss,Mary was way to young!

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