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Richard Fitzsimmons Obituary

WALLINGFORD - Richard F. Fitzsimmons, ""Fitz,"" 77, of Wallingford, the beloved husband of 55 years to Deborah Bradley Fitzsimmons passed away Saturday, Dec. 15, 2012 with his loving family by his side after a long and courageous battle with cancer at the Masonicare Hospice Center.

Fitz was born in New Haven, Dec. 20, 1934, a son of the late Eugene ""Whitey"" Fitzsimmons and Catherine Cannon Fitzsimmons. Fitz received his bachelor's degree at Southern Connecticut State University and furthered his studies at the University of Hartford. He began his 40 year teaching career for the Wallingford Board of Education as an Elementary Physical Education Teacher in 1957. He also coached football at Lyman Hall High School, a year later Fitz moved to the new Moran Middle School, where he taught Social Studies for 13 years. He served as Principal at the Robert Early Middle School, served as Principal at Pond Hill School and later at Rock Hill Elementary School until his retirement in 1997. He enjoyed officiating at high school and college football and basketball games. Most of all, he loved spending time with his family and friends. He was a former member of the Connecticut Teacher of the Year Committee and had been named Wallingford Administrator of the Year. He loved to travel, and spending time at the family residence on Cape Cod. On many Saturdays, Fitz could be found at the Yale Bowl with his friends, and was also an avid Boston Red Sox fan. He was a parishioner of Our Lady of Fatima Church for many years, was a past board member of the Wallingford Credit Union and a member of the Wallingford Lodge of Elks No. 1365.

In addition to his wife, Deborah, he is survived by his daughter, Debra F. Sitter and her husband, Steven T., of Williams Bay, Wis.; his son, James C. Fitzsimmons and his wife, Megan B., of Wallingford; his four grandchildren, Caitlin D. Sitter, Jamie A. Sitter, Colin A. Fitzsimmons and Sean A. Fitzsimmons; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Gene Fitzsimmons. Richard was very proud of the accomplishments of his children and grandchildren.

His family would like to thank the staff of the Masonicare Hospice Center for their loving care and compassion.

His family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 North Main St. Ext., Tuesday, Dec. 18, from 4 until 7 p.m. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Dec. 19, from The Wallingford Funeral Home at 9 a.m. when the funeral cortege will proceed to Most Holy Trinity Church, where a Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Interment will be in St. John Cemetery in Wallingford. In lieu of flowers, gifts in his memory may be sent to the Masonicare Home Health Care and Hospice, 33 North Plains Industrial Road, Wallingford, CT. 06492 or the Wallingford Senior Center, 238 Washington Street, Wallingford, CT. 06492.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Dec. 17, 2012.

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Ron Gagliardi

December 11, 2020

I was thinking of him just yesterday.

Ron Gagliardi

December 19, 2012

To the Fitzsimmons Family,
I was saddened to learn of Dick's passing when I saw his obituary on Monday morning. I only knew him in his role as principal at Rock Hill School. He was a very compassionate and dedicated supervisor and principal. I will always remember his smile and his mellow manner. He was the optimal boss.

December 19, 2012

Dear Mrs. Fitzsimmons, Jimmy and Deb, I have such fond memories of our Cape Cod family vacations. I have also been in the Wallingford Education System for many years. I wish my mom could have joined you, but she is also at Masonicare. She sends her love! Please let me know if you need anything. With Sympathy, Joan Papale and Fayne Kowalski

Pamela W. Moran

December 19, 2012

To Deb and family --
I was so very fortunate to teach at Robert Earley Middle School when Fitz was principal. He cared about his students and teachers in such a special way that we were a true family. Our memories of those times are magic and we are so grateful to Fitz for being an enormous part of that
joy.

Patti Langella

December 19, 2012

Fitzsimmons Family, We're sorry for your loss. May all your cherished memories bring you comfort, to help ease your pain and saddness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Langella Family

December 19, 2012

Mr. Fisimmons was one of the nicest teachers I had at LHHS! He made class interesting. Although he is now out of pain, he is not lost to us, for he will always be in our hearts as a special person in our lives. Tom and Carolyn Ferraiolo

Mary Ellen Eckels

December 19, 2012

Our heartfelt sympathies to the Fitzsimmons family. We have such a long connection to you all - Fitzie was an amazing friend to my parents, and such a wonderful teacher to both of our families. God bless.
Mary Ellen Kingsland-Eckels and Steve Eckels and family

Debbie Gravell

December 18, 2012

Dear Deb, Jim and Debra
My deepest sympathies at the loss of your beloved husband and father. I had so much respect for "Fitzy" as he was called at the schools. I loved when I was assigned to substitute at one of his schools throughout the year. He always treated me as a valuable member of the staff for the day. His bright smile and cheerful personality will be missed. I am sending up prayers for all the family and friends who loved him.

Marian Clough Hillsdon

December 18, 2012

Dear Fitzsimmons Family,
I had the pleasure and privilege of working with "Fitzy" when he was vice principal and I was a teacher at Robert Earley Middle School. I have so many fond memories of his wonderful smile and his gentle ways. I am so sorry for your loss, but please know he lives on in the memory of so many he touched.

December 18, 2012

Dear Deb stay strong. I had a special and great relationship with Fitz in college. He was a good man and I will always remember him. I will pray for him and you.

John Robertson

December 18, 2012

We are sorry for your loss and wish your family peace and love. Your in our thoughts and prayers! Love The Robertsons!

December 18, 2012

Jim - So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Larry, Jen, and Charlie Jalbert

Renee Cote

December 18, 2012

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. I still remember Mr.Fitzsimmons from the days of my youth as the Principal at Pond Hill . He was a loving and caring man !!!!!!

December 18, 2012

John and I are so sorry for the loss of your husband and the father of your children. Debbie and Steve shared their love of "Fitz" with their Air Force friends. God be with you in this time of sorrow.
John and Jeanne Becker, O'Fallon, Illinois

December 18, 2012

We are sorry for your loss. We never knew your Dad but it sounds like you have so many wonderful memmories. We hope these will comfort you. Love Scott Julie and Mitchell Swick

Donna Moore-Sicard

December 17, 2012

My deepest condolences to the Fitzsimmons family. I was fortunate to have Mr. Fitzsimmons as my Civics teacher at Lyman Hall, earlier in his career. He was a wonderful teacher, made the class interesting & was a genuinely nice person. I am so sorry for your loss & pray that fond memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Maureen Rieger

December 17, 2012

Deb: I'm so sorry for your loss
My thoughts and prayers are with
you.

Lauren & Jeffrey Arons

December 17, 2012

We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved father/husband! We loved Fitz and will miss him! Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time!

December 17, 2012

So very sorry for your loss. Deb, our prayers are with you and your family.
Jean and Rich Erff

A. T.

December 17, 2012

You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Loved One-Richard F. Fitzsimmons.
May you cherish your Fond Memories. May God's promise of a Resurrection to life to enjoy a peaceful life in a beautiful Paradise forever on Earth help to ease your sorrow.(Matt 5:4-5; Lu 23:43; Ps 37:9-11,29)

December 17, 2012

Deborah-my thoughts and prayers are with you.I am so glad I saw Richard at our class reunion.
Mary Shaw Poirot
Charlestown NH

Paul Merola

December 17, 2012

To The Fitzsimmons family;
You all have my heartfelt condolences of the loss of your husband & father,and a very great man. I had the pleasure of being one of his students many (40+) years ago and he was one of the best teachers I can say I ever had. I know he is going to be sorely missed by his friends,family and he will be in the thoughts and prayers of his former students.
May he rest in peace.

Tonia

December 17, 2012

To the Fitzsimmons Family. May you all find comfort from Gods word during this difficult time. Draw close to him and he will draw close to you. James 4:8

Lafond Family

December 17, 2012

Mr. Fitz was one of the most wonderful men I have ever known. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time.

Matty Gagliardi

December 17, 2012

I was very sorry to read about Richard.My prayers are with the family. May he rest in peace.

Jodi Scranton-Bouza

December 17, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the entire family. What a wonderful man with a very warm presence.

Baxter Family

December 16, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of this very special, loving man. May his memory be a blessing and a comfort to all who knew him.

Joseph Proto

December 16, 2012

Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of such a fine educator and overall human being. Our prayers are with the entire Fitzsimmons family. May God have mercy on his soul.

Fondly,
Adele and Joe Proto

Bud and Julie Johnson

December 16, 2012

We are thinking of you all in the loss of "Fitz". A great man with a kind and gentle twinkle in his eyes. He is finally at peace after a courageous battle.

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