Robert W. Stanley

  • "Dear Stanley family, I only heard the news of Bob's passing..."
    - Andy, Maria, Tomas,
  • "What a wonderful person you were. Never hesitated to help..."
  • "Fond memories of our working years at Aetna years ago. ..."
    - JoAnn Goodwin
  • "To Brian & Jennifer & your families: We had the pleasure..."
    - Dean & Pete Baron-Krieger
  • "Diane and sorry for your loss! May time- peace-..."
    - Brenda Buzzi

Robert W. Stanley, 53, of North Haven, entered into rest on May 16, 2013. He leaves behind Diane (Lane) Stanley of 27 years. He is survived by his son, Brian Lane Stanley of Cambridge, Mass.; daughter Jennifer Jane Stanley of North Haven and his two beloved bulldogs Capone and Daisy.

He was born in New Haven on Sept. 10, 1959 to Opal "Vicky" (Haugh) Stanley and Robert Stanley of Florida. He was a graduate of Guilford High School, class of 1978, earned his B.A. in biology at Quinnipiac University in 1983, and earned the title of Certified Employee Benefits Specialist (CEBS) in 1995 from the Wharton School of UPenn.

Bob worked diligently as an Implementations Program Manager at Aetna and had been with the company for over 30 years. During his youth, he was a DJ at Roller Haven where he met many of his life-long friends. Bob was also very active with Troop 810 and helped to guide many young men to attain the rank of Eagle Scout. Bob was a member of the Branford Widow's Son Masonic Lodge. He was an avid collector of antiques, enjoyed restoring vintage cars, and was always eager and willing to lend a helping hand.

He is survived by his two sisters, Dede Guerrera and Laura Christian of Florida. He leaves behind many loved ones including nieces, nephews, a great-nephew, his in-laws William and Eleanor Lane of North Haven; and brother-in-law and sister-in-law Gary and Ellyn Lane of Wallingford. He was predeceased by his nephew, Bubba Guerrera.

A Memorial Service was held May 24, 2013 at the North Haven Funeral Home. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Bob may be made to the Animal Haven, Inc., 89 Mill Road, North Haven, CT 06473.
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North Haven Funeral Home, Inc.
36 Washington Avenue North Haven, CT 06473-2309
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Published in North Haven Citizen on May 24, 2013