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Andrew Kapi Obituary

WALLINGFORD - Andrew N. Kapi, 63, of Wallingford, died Saturday, Jan. 25, 2013, at MidState Medical Center in Meriden. He was the loving husband of Dawn E. O'Day Kapi.

He was born in Shreveport, La., a son of the late Andrew Kapi Jr. and Anna B. Petty Kapi. He was valedictorian at his Lyman Hall class of 1968 and a political science graduate of Yale University; he worked as a marketing manager for various enterprises and retired in 2005. Andy was a lover of music and a guitar aficionado who had an encyclopedic knowledge of many music genres and classic movies. He also loved all animals.

In addition to his wife, Dawn, he is survived by his children, Juan Florez, and his wife, Silvia, of Redding; and Adriana Bernal, her husband, Ricardo, and his granddaughter, Valentina, of Madrid, Spain; his sister, Barbara Kapi, of Wallingford; many dear cousins, in-laws, nieces, and nephews; and his dear friends, Al and Theresa Stasiewski; Jim and Claudia Mezza; Lois and Jay Fishbein; Norm and Gabe Ramos; Sue and Don Pierson; Barbara and Wayne Gamache; and Rita Kovacs, all of Wallingford.

His family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. Ext., Wallingford, on Wednesday, Jan. 29, from 5 to 6:45 p.m. A service will be held in the funeral home Wednesday at 7 p.m. Interment will be private. Gifts in his memory may be sent to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241-7005, or the Meriden Humane Society, 311 Murdock Avenue, Meriden, CT 06451. www.wallingfordfh.com

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Published by The Record-Journal on Jan. 27, 2014.

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Jay Fishbein

January 22, 2025

I think of you always. Someday we will meet again.

Jay Fishbein

January 21, 2020

It's not right that Andy left this world at so young an age. He was a good friend and added much to my life. I think about him often. I miss him.

Brad Carlton

February 3, 2014

My sincerest condolences Dawn. A sobering and unexpected loss. He was one of the "good guys" who understood where mankind is and to where it hopefully will someday go. Andy will be missed by all who called him friend.

Jay Fishbein

February 3, 2014

My condolences go out to the entire Kapi family, both immediate and extended.

And to you, Andy, I will miss you. We shared many good times, whether it was politics, music, guitar, tequila, or sharing fine food.

You were one of the most intelligent people I have ever known and someone who defined the word "friend".

Your friendship and kindness through the years made my life better. I will never meet another like you.

May God grant you safe passage, my friend.

Kevin Finucane

February 2, 2014

One of the more cerebral of fellows that I had the good fortune to meet in my day. Enjoyed our political jabs with Bruce and sharing our effort and time.

Judy Holder-Juan

February 2, 2014

Andy, It's been a lot of years. Rest well. God bless you and the class of 1968!!

Gabe & Norma Ramos

January 29, 2014

We will remember and miss his passion for music and discussion. Our times together with "Don's Groupies" will never be the same.

Love and Prayers

Michael Dee

January 28, 2014

My memories of Andy are mostly from college, with his wit and good humor, his insights and mischievous smiles. Andy contributed to many lives, and he will be missed.

Ellen Dunn Davies

January 28, 2014

I am so happy we had the opportunity to visit with each other at Aunt Catherine's party. May God and good memories always bring you comfort.

Larry Freundlich

January 28, 2014

Dawn, Amy and I are devastated by this. So unexpected. His years with you were his best. I will be there tomorrow.

Lynnette Hucul le Mat

January 28, 2014

I send my deepest condolences to Andy's wife and family. Andy was my friend in high school and college. I have many good memories of him and so sad to hear of his passing.

Patricia Rose Farrell

January 27, 2014

I didn't know him well, but he married into a great family and was loved by all. He is well missed.
Prayers.
Love you, Dawn.

Hobie Faulkner

January 27, 2014

We will miss him. My codolences to Dawn and the rest of the family.

Michael Gray

January 27, 2014

I am sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I have many great memories of him and I hope that his family can take comfort in their own memories. Thanks for reminding me of his love of music. His death has certainly led to my own pause to reflect on how we let important friendships lapse.

Raymond Rys Sr.

January 27, 2014

Im sorry to hear about Andy . I wish all his family condolences . God Bless !

Rich Casagrande

January 27, 2014

I remember Andy's HS valedictory address, delivered shortly after Bobby Kennedy and Martin Luther King had been assassinated. Andy cared about and worried about ordinary folks.

And, of course, he cared and worried about his beloved Yankees.

Andy was a good man and a good friend.

This is a terrible, premature loss.

January 27, 2014

I went to school with Andi and I will never forget him portraying Abe Lincoln and reciting the Gettsburg Address. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Sharon Paradise Bolles

American Heart Association

January 26, 2014

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

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