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Philip T. Ashton

1934 - 2017

Philip T. Ashton obituary, 1934-2017, Meriden, CT

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Beecher & Bennett-Flatow Funeral Home - Meriden

48 Cook Avenue

Meriden, Connecticut

Philip Ashton Obituary

MERIDEN - Philip T. Ashton, 82, husband of Jane (Bishop) Ashton, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, Jan. 27, 2017. He was born in Meriden on Feb. 24, 1934 to the late Philip E. and Millicent M. Ashton. Philip was a graduate of Meriden High School, class of 1951, and Yale University, class of 1955, with a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering.

He began his career in 1957 as a cadet engineer with Conn. Light & Power Co. After holding various positions at CL&P and subsequently Northeast Utilities, Phil was selected Vice President of Transmission and Distribution in 1978 and in 1982 became Senior Vice President and General Manager of N.U.'s Gas Business. In 1989, Phil was honored to be chosen Chief Executive Officer of newly incorporated Yankee Energy System Inc., a position he held until his retirement in March of 1995. Phil was very involved in his profession through many organizations, including registered Professional Engineer, Treasurer and Vice President of the Power Energy Society, President of the Guild of Gas Managers, Chairman of the New England Gas Association, Chairman of the Iroquois Pipeline Management Committee, and Director of the American Gas Association, to mention only a few.

Phil loved Meriden and his community by serving his neighbors and region. He held various positions at the American Red Cross, was an unbelievable 55-gallon donor, corporator of the Meriden Boy's Club, Director of Church Homes Inc., Founding Director of Conn. Capital Regional Growth Council, and campaign co-chairman of United Way of Meriden and Wallingford. He was also a trustee of the First United Methodist Church of Meriden, member and later chairman of the Meriden Planning Commission, director of the Meriden Economic Development Commission, Chairman of the Meriden Flood Control Commission, and appointed to the Connecticut Siting Council. See a short biography of Phil from his 1995 induction into the Meriden Hall of Fame at http://www.meridenhalloffame.org/Inductees/Year.asp?InductionYear=1995.

He loved his family, talking about and volunteering in politics, studying history with a special affinity for Winston Churchill, and was fascinated with all things related to Bermuda.

In addition to Jane, his wife of 60 years, Philip is survived by his four children and their spouses: Debbie and Tom Molloy, of Meriden, Kate and Stephen Grice, of Georgia, Bob and Susan Ashton, of Virginia, and Stuart and Krissi Ashton, of New Jersey. Philip also had 10 cherished grandchildren: Ryan and Daniel Molloy, Taylor and Nathan Grice, Catherine, Philip, Emily, and William Ashton, and Nicholas and Stefan Lazaroae.

A memorial service honoring Philip's life will be held on Saturday, Feb. 4 at 11 a.m. at the First United Methodist Church, 159 E. Main St., Meriden. Burial will be private. The Beecher and Bennett Funeral Home, 48 Cook Ave., Meriden, has been entrusted with the arrangements. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Phil's memory may be made to the Community Foundation of Central Connecticut (http://www.communityfoundationcc.org; 35 Pleasant St., Meriden, CT 06450). To send a condolence to his family, please visit www.beecherandbennett.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal on Jan. 29, 2017.

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Mary Mushinsky

February 12, 2017

Phil Ashton will be remembered as the champion of flood control in Meriden. He always kept his word to manage floodwater without harming downstream neighbors such as Wallingford.

Stephen Milas

February 7, 2017

I was very sorry to read of Phil's passing. Meriden has lost a great friend and leader.

Rose Bruenn

February 6, 2017

My dear friend Phil- you were a wonderful person and I truly appreciate all you had done for our city and for ME. I admired your strength throughout and will truly miss you. You're in a better place now and I am sure you are smiling down on us all. Until we meet again my friend -
Rose Bruenn

Elmer A Gonzalez

February 4, 2017

My deepest heartfelt to the Ashton Family on your loss. Phil always had Meriden, his family and friends first and foremost. Growing up as a life log Meriden resident he and My dad were close during their political days here in Meriden. A true gentlemen and scholar in deed. In our thoughts and prayers. May Phil rest in peace with the angels. God Bless

Regards,
The Gonzalez Family
Elmer A, Caroline and Kids

Novelyn Cosmiano

February 4, 2017

heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family.. Praying for comfort and peace for your family

February 4, 2017

To the Ashton Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring. Let Pray to the most high GOD

Bob & Marcie Pagini

February 4, 2017

Our deepest condolences to the family of a man who was so dedicated and generous to the community. We will always remember his tireless efforts in flood control and to his work on the Land Trust protecting open space. It is sad to think that some of his dreams and visions were left undone.

Shelley Hamilton mack

February 2, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the Ashton Family. My parents, Mark and Elaine Hamilton, thought the world of him. Shelley Hamilton Mack

John and Chris Robinson

February 2, 2017

We fondly remember the tall, gracious gentleman walking the dog in our neighborhood. What a life of accomplishment and giving back! Condolences,

Anne Sheehy

February 1, 2017

I remember Phil from South Broad St when I started 35 years ago. What a great guy! So sorry for you loss

Irene Veillette

February 1, 2017

Dear Debbie and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you in the passing of your father. Mr. Ashton did so much for the city of Meriden to make my hometown a better place to live and work. He will be missed by many. Prayers and healing light are sent to you.

February 1, 2017

My condolences to you and your family, it is never easy loosing a loved one, may Gods promise for the very near future help you endure these difficult times, 1 Thessalonians 4:14.

Cheryl & Jim Duey/Ingala

January 31, 2017

Although we can't be there with you at this time, our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jane. We loved Phil. He was a great neighbor, a champion of our beautiful lake and a dear friend. May he Rest In Peace.

Maryann Leonard

January 31, 2017

Dear Jane and family,
My sincere condolences upon the passing of Phil.
He has always been a great asset to the city of Meriden with all his many contributions to the betterment of our community. May the memories of this great gentleman give you comfort. You are in my prayers.
Maryann Leonard

Michael Barker

January 31, 2017

Jane, very sorry to hear of Phil's death. He was always the ultimate gentleman, and always sought to make Meriden a better place, which always impressed me along with his and your efforts for the Red Cross.

Tina Manley

January 31, 2017

I have fond memories of working with Phil at Northeast Utilities. He was a wonderful man and contributed so much to the City of Meriden. My condolences to the family. RIP Phil.

January 31, 2017

So deeply sorry for your loss. May God's wonderful future promises console your hearts. (John 6:40)

WW
Florida

Paul Melluzzo

January 30, 2017

I was hired by Phil and always thought highly of him. So sorry for his loss.

Paul Melluzzo

Beverly Heselton Jenkins

January 30, 2017

Love and prayers go out to all. You will be greatly missed. I will never forget your great leadership as the fellowship leader, as a friend and a wonderful father. You have given many great memories to many of us. Condolences to your Family.

Alan Ponchick

January 30, 2017

It was an honor to have served together with Phil on the Central Connecticut Foundation's Board. He was a caring and compassionate gentleman and will be missed by many.

Linda Owsianik

January 30, 2017

So sorry to hear of Phil's passing. He was a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Marjorie Kimball

January 30, 2017

As a member of BLA I extend my sincere sympathy to Philips family.

January 30, 2017

Your membership on the Siting Council made us a better and smarter group. You can never be replaced and you will be greatly missed.

Dan(or as you called me Danny)Lynch

Melissa White

January 30, 2017

Sending my prayers & love to Katie's whole family. Holding all of you up in prayer.

Meriden Citizen

January 29, 2017

Meriden has lost a Great Citizen. Sincere Condolences to His Family May He Rest In Peace

January 29, 2017

The John Lippolds send their condolences and love.



January 29, 2017

January 29, 2017

Dear Jane,
How fortunate we Adams feel to have spent quality time with you and Phil. We are so very sorry for your loss and offer you our sincerest sympathy, condolences and of course our prayers.
Fondly,
Jack and Ann

Marie Barucci West

January 29, 2017

Dear, Jane, So sorry to hear of Phil's passing but he is at peace now. Know that I can feel your grief as I have been there myself. I am glad we were able to have our 65th Class Reunion with Phil enjoying it. God Bless You!

Frank Lewandowski

January 29, 2017

Phil was a very caring person. He took the time to explain issues to me so I could better understand them. He deeply loved Meriden and did all he could for Meriden. Meriden has a very large void now. RIP Phil.

Dolores Carron

January 29, 2017

I am sorry for your loss, Jane. May your happy memories bring you peace and comfort.
Fondly,
Dolores (Sadlowski) Carron
Newington, CT

January 29, 2017

Jane, Debbie, Kate, Bob, and Stuart:

Phil was a wonderful neighbor and role model for us. So sorry to read of his passing.

Jo Ann, John, and James McManamy

January 29, 2017

Phil was a wonderful travel companion, a terrific European tour guide and fellow traveler, a delightful and knowledgeable Bridge partner, and an avid Backgammon observer.

David and Leisha Spencer

January 28, 2017

Many memories of a wonderful civic role model, father, husband and Christian. Our love and condolences to the entire Ashton family.

Bill Corvo

January 28, 2017

He was a good man.

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