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Herbert Carter Obituary

MURRELLS INLET, S.C. - Herbert Leland Carter Jr. died Monday, May 21, 2007 at the N.E. and Ruby Green Hospice House in Georgetown. Born in Mayfield, Ky., on Nov. 13, 1920, he was the youngest son of Herbert Leland and Kate Morris Carter. Herb was preceded in death by his parents, brother Morris, and his beloved wife Louise Vey Putnam Carter. He is survived by two daughters and their husbands, Patricia and Mickey Driver of Salisbury, N.C., and Pamela and Laurie McAlpine of Murrells Inlet; five grandchildren, Jonathan, Andrew, and Leslie Driver, Katherine McAlpine Mooring and Anna McAlpine; and a great-granddaughter, Jessica Driver. His family also includes the thousands of students he mentored and taught as Director of Bands at East Carolina University in Greenville, N.C. Herb graduated from Murray State University where he began his career as a clarinetist and jazz musician. There he met and married Louise "Put" Putnam. During World War II he served in the United States Air Force as a woodwind specialist and conductor. After the war he earned a Master of Arts degree from Columbia University and continued study at the Julliard School of Music in New York. In 1946 Herb and Put moved to Greenville, N.C. where he established a band program at East Carolina University. During his tenure he was a dynamic partner in the growth of the School of Music, serving as Director of Bands and chair of the Instrumental Music Department. He established the first jazz band, "The Collegians," directed summer music camps and state high school band clinics, served as adjudicator for music festivals across the country, and recruited many musicians to ECU. Herb's Symphonic Wind Ensemble performed at meetings of the College Band Director's National Association and the Music Educator's National Conference. Under his direction, the wind ensemble premiered original works by such noted composers as Gould, Giannini, Dello Joio, and Persichetti. Herb served as president of the College Band Directors National Association, president of the North Carolina Bandmasters Association, and Province Governor of Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia Fraternity. He was also a member of the American Bandmasters Association. He was selected as one of the ten most outstanding music directors in the United States by the School Musician Magazine and received the Citation of Excellence by the National Band Association. After his retirement in 1987 Herb and Put continued to be active in the university and community. They served as tutors, volunteered for Meals on Wheels, and were active members of St. Paul's Episcopal Church. They loved to play golf both in Greenville and in the North Carolina mountains where they spent their summers. Herb was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He fought a long and determined battle with Alzheimer's disease and was a true gentleman through it all. A memorial service and celebration of Herb's life will be held at St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Greenville, N.C., on June 15, 2007 at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be made to the Herbert L. and Louise P. Carter Collegians Music Scholarship at East Carolina University School of Music, A.J. Fletcher Music Center, Greenville, N.C. 27858, and to Tidelands Community Hospice, 2591 North Fraser Street, Georgetown, S.C. 29440. Sign guestbook at www.goldfinchfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Daily Reflector on May 22, 2007.

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Coon (Robert) Williams

June 8, 2007

Ah, Precious Herb; Such a Mentor to me in the 1950's. As a trumpet player in the Greenville High School band, I met Herb on his visits to the band in 1948-49. I also attended Dances at Wright Auditorium when the Collegians were playing. Herb was the lead Alto Sax player. I entered ECTC in 1950, majoring in Music, and joined the band..and was estatic when I got the 3rd trumpet position with the Collegians...great bunch of guys. I spent all my spare school hours hanging out around the band room where Herb had his office. My junior & senior years, I was hired to work for him and was paid $30.00 per quarter. Herb was my closest adult friend and teacher for my EC years. Again, such a precious man to share your young life with...and Miss Put was a very close part of those 4 years. I attend the Collegians "Reunions" every year at homecoming and Herb is always a part of our conversations. We were all Blessed to have Herb in our lives.
Best Regards.."Coon"..Robert K. Williams

Barbara Memory

June 4, 2007

Herb Carter is an ECU Music legend, and I am old enough to have seen him in action in the School of Music halls, rehearsals, and concerts, as well as in retirement years as he and Put took walks in our neighborhood, and later in music functions at his home in Cypress Glen. He started a generation of talented, committed, enthusiastic, and professional music educators and music therapists, and did it with class and collegiality. Thank you, Herb Carter. We will never forget you.

Brad Foley

June 2, 2007

I was sorry to learn of Herb's passing earlier this week from Charles Schwartz. As a young faculty member at ECU in 1979, Herb and Put were like family for me and my wife Diane. Over the years Herb was my mentor, colleague, and supporter. I always appreciated the kindnesses and encouragement shown to me by both Herb and Put. They gave so much to ECU and Greenville and the School of Music is a great place today because of their love and devotion to the many students who came to ECU. I miss them both greatly and cannot thank them enough for helping me grow into the person I am today. Pam and Pat you are in our hearts and prayers.

Brooks Buck

May 25, 2007

Pam and Pat, I have so many wonderful memories of your Dad and Mom.It seemed they were a part of our family.You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love to you all, Brooks& Coy

Betsy Orr-Anderson

May 24, 2007

With his great sense of humor, Herb Carter made the hard work of music seem like fun. His influence rippled out to my own students as I tried to imitate him. That, alone, is quite a legacy. I wish Pam and Pat and their families the strength to bear such a very great loss.

Todd Stone

May 24, 2007

I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Mr. Carter. I too, was one of those fortunate enough to have been a student under his mentorship. As a member of the Wind Ensemble and Summer Band Camp Assistant I learned the meaning of professionalism and friendship from a truly great man and musician. I will always cherish numerous memories of my time at ECU with both Mr. & Mrs. Carter and take them with me every day into my own classroom.

Dottie and George Knight

May 24, 2007

It didn't matter to Herb that Dottie was an experienced c-melody saxophonist and George didn't know there were two third-space C's on the clarinet. He saw that we were there, so he went for it. He always went for it with everything he did; and if he hesitated to go for it, Put was there to make sure he did. We love them both. They are part of us.

Brad Langhans

May 24, 2007

I had the privilege of being a member of the ECU Wind Ensemble during Mr. Carter's final year with the university. As the years have passed, I gain a deeper appreciation of that experience and will always treasure being a part of that ensemble. Although we are all saddened by his passing, I feel a tremendous sense of pride and joy for knowing such an outstanding musician, teacher, and person.

Fletcher Stubbs

May 24, 2007

Mr. Carter was one of the reasons I attended ECU. I was honored to be in the Wind Ensemble and to work for him with band camp and as a librarian. He was my teacher and mentor, but also a wonderful friend. I cherish my memories of both Mr. and Mrs. Carter.

Jim Cribbs

May 23, 2007

It was an honor to have had music instruction from such a fine and gracious man. What I carried away from ECU thanks to Mr. Carter and other great teachers has helped me all through life. To his family, I am truly saddened by your loss of such a truly great man.

Lowell Graham

May 22, 2007

I am very sadden at the loss of Herb. He was a gentleman that affected the industry and the lives of countless musicians in such a positive way. While I was never a student or attached to the university, each and every time he saw me, it was like having been a friend for life. I shall miss him.

Allen Pettit

May 22, 2007

I was privileged to be a member of the ECU Wind Ensemble during Mr. Carter's tenure. His influence on musicians at this university is unmatched and he will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Lu Graham

May 22, 2007

I'm truly saddened at your loss. Both Mr. Carter and Mrs. Carter were wonderful and loving people. May God comfort you in this difficult time.

My Love always,

Lu

Steve Morgan

May 22, 2007

My condolences to Herb Carter's family. He touched countless lives in so many positive ways. Many of us can attribute part of who we are to this influential man. Thanks for being who and what you were.

Rodney Schmidt

May 22, 2007

Herb's time at ECU was a period of extraordinary growth towards excellence. The ECU School of Music made great strides towards national recognition with his leadership. I am proud to have worked with him for many years.

Kim Herd

May 22, 2007

Andy & Leslie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike August

May 22, 2007

There is a part of Herb Carter in all of us who played for him in the Wind Ensemble at ECU. Professionalism and passion for music come to mind as things that went with me when I left the rehearsal room. He will be missed, but long remembered.

Percussionist - Class of 1982

Mark Taggart

May 22, 2007

Herb was a trail-blazer at ECU! I was lucky that our careers were able to overlap a few years. His excellent work here will not be forgotten.

Bill Blount

May 22, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

William F. Williams

May 22, 2007

What a great man - He and Put were our home away from home.
William F. "Bill" Williams, Lt/Col USAF Retired, Class of 1953

John O'Brien

May 22, 2007

What a wonderful life to celebrate and a loss for us all. My condolences to the family.

Herb and I taught together for 2 years at ECU. I began my career at ECU 39 years after Herb first came to ECU. In his 40th and 41st years he was still a vital teacher and musician and a wonderful colleague, friend and role model to a young faculty member. He will be missed however his legacy at ECU remains.

John O'Brien

Harrison Grey

May 22, 2007

To have known a noble person is to have a light upon your path always.

Jon Baker

May 22, 2007

A great Professional and true ECU friend

Gene & Sue Lanier

May 22, 2007

Herb and Put were fantastic people. Their endearing ways and personalities always made you feel better. Truly devoted supporters of ECU and Greenville, they were indeed ambassadors. We feel very lucky to have known them.

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