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Coon (Robert) Williams
June 8, 2007
Ah, Precious Herb; Such a Mentor to me in the 1950's. As a trumpet player in the Greenville High School band, I met Herb on his visits to the band in 1948-49. I also attended Dances at Wright Auditorium when the Collegians were playing. Herb was the lead Alto Sax player. I entered ECTC in 1950, majoring in Music, and joined the band..and was estatic when I got the 3rd trumpet position with the Collegians...great bunch of guys. I spent all my spare school hours hanging out around the band room where Herb had his office. My junior & senior years, I was hired to work for him and was paid $30.00 per quarter. Herb was my closest adult friend and teacher for my EC years. Again, such a precious man to share your young life with...and Miss Put was a very close part of those 4 years. I attend the Collegians "Reunions" every year at homecoming and Herb is always a part of our conversations. We were all Blessed to have Herb in our lives.
Best Regards.."Coon"..Robert K. Williams
Barbara Memory
June 4, 2007
Herb Carter is an ECU Music legend, and I am old enough to have seen him in action in the School of Music halls, rehearsals, and concerts, as well as in retirement years as he and Put took walks in our neighborhood, and later in music functions at his home in Cypress Glen. He started a generation of talented, committed, enthusiastic, and professional music educators and music therapists, and did it with class and collegiality. Thank you, Herb Carter. We will never forget you.
Brad Foley
June 2, 2007
I was sorry to learn of Herb's passing earlier this week from Charles Schwartz. As a young faculty member at ECU in 1979, Herb and Put were like family for me and my wife Diane. Over the years Herb was my mentor, colleague, and supporter. I always appreciated the kindnesses and encouragement shown to me by both Herb and Put. They gave so much to ECU and Greenville and the School of Music is a great place today because of their love and devotion to the many students who came to ECU. I miss them both greatly and cannot thank them enough for helping me grow into the person I am today. Pam and Pat you are in our hearts and prayers.
Brooks Buck
May 25, 2007
Pam and Pat, I have so many wonderful memories of your Dad and Mom.It seemed they were a part of our family.You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love to you all, Brooks& Coy
Betsy Orr-Anderson
May 24, 2007
With his great sense of humor, Herb Carter made the hard work of music seem like fun. His influence rippled out to my own students as I tried to imitate him. That, alone, is quite a legacy. I wish Pam and Pat and their families the strength to bear such a very great loss.
Todd Stone
May 24, 2007
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Mr. Carter. I too, was one of those fortunate enough to have been a student under his mentorship. As a member of the Wind Ensemble and Summer Band Camp Assistant I learned the meaning of professionalism and friendship from a truly great man and musician. I will always cherish numerous memories of my time at ECU with both Mr. & Mrs. Carter and take them with me every day into my own classroom.
Dottie and George Knight
May 24, 2007
It didn't matter to Herb that Dottie was an experienced c-melody saxophonist and George didn't know there were two third-space C's on the clarinet. He saw that we were there, so he went for it. He always went for it with everything he did; and if he hesitated to go for it, Put was there to make sure he did. We love them both. They are part of us.
Brad Langhans
May 24, 2007
I had the privilege of being a member of the ECU Wind Ensemble during Mr. Carter's final year with the university. As the years have passed, I gain a deeper appreciation of that experience and will always treasure being a part of that ensemble. Although we are all saddened by his passing, I feel a tremendous sense of pride and joy for knowing such an outstanding musician, teacher, and person.
Fletcher Stubbs
May 24, 2007
Mr. Carter was one of the reasons I attended ECU. I was honored to be in the Wind Ensemble and to work for him with band camp and as a librarian. He was my teacher and mentor, but also a wonderful friend. I cherish my memories of both Mr. and Mrs. Carter.
Jim Cribbs
May 23, 2007
It was an honor to have had music instruction from such a fine and gracious man. What I carried away from ECU thanks to Mr. Carter and other great teachers has helped me all through life. To his family, I am truly saddened by your loss of such a truly great man.
Lowell Graham
May 22, 2007
I am very sadden at the loss of Herb. He was a gentleman that affected the industry and the lives of countless musicians in such a positive way. While I was never a student or attached to the university, each and every time he saw me, it was like having been a friend for life. I shall miss him.
Allen Pettit
May 22, 2007
I was privileged to be a member of the ECU Wind Ensemble during Mr. Carter's tenure. His influence on musicians at this university is unmatched and he will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Lu Graham
May 22, 2007
I'm truly saddened at your loss. Both Mr. Carter and Mrs. Carter were wonderful and loving people. May God comfort you in this difficult time.
My Love always,
Lu
Steve Morgan
May 22, 2007
My condolences to Herb Carter's family. He touched countless lives in so many positive ways. Many of us can attribute part of who we are to this influential man. Thanks for being who and what you were.
Rodney Schmidt
May 22, 2007
Herb's time at ECU was a period of extraordinary growth towards excellence. The ECU School of Music made great strides towards national recognition with his leadership. I am proud to have worked with him for many years.
Kim Herd
May 22, 2007
Andy & Leslie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mike August
May 22, 2007
There is a part of Herb Carter in all of us who played for him in the Wind Ensemble at ECU. Professionalism and passion for music come to mind as things that went with me when I left the rehearsal room. He will be missed, but long remembered.
Percussionist - Class of 1982
Mark Taggart
May 22, 2007
Herb was a trail-blazer at ECU! I was lucky that our careers were able to overlap a few years. His excellent work here will not be forgotten.
Bill Blount
May 22, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
William F. Williams
May 22, 2007
What a great man - He and Put were our home away from home.
William F. "Bill" Williams, Lt/Col USAF Retired, Class of 1953
John O'Brien
May 22, 2007
What a wonderful life to celebrate and a loss for us all. My condolences to the family.
Herb and I taught together for 2 years at ECU. I began my career at ECU 39 years after Herb first came to ECU. In his 40th and 41st years he was still a vital teacher and musician and a wonderful colleague, friend and role model to a young faculty member. He will be missed however his legacy at ECU remains.
John O'Brien
Harrison Grey
May 22, 2007
To have known a noble person is to have a light upon your path always.
Jon Baker
May 22, 2007
A great Professional and true ECU friend
Gene & Sue Lanier
May 22, 2007
Herb and Put were fantastic people. Their endearing ways and personalities always made you feel better. Truly devoted supporters of ECU and Greenville, they were indeed ambassadors. We feel very lucky to have known them.
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