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Benson Schaeffer
August 22, 2023
I came to Eugene in September 1966 as an Assistant Professor in the Psychology Department. One of my first memories of Eugene is being taken by Gerry in his McKenzie River boat fishing for trout on the McKenzie. He'd point out a riffle, I'd cast, and by gum I'd catch a trout. We roasted and ate the trout we caught on the banks of the McKenzie. Gerry knew on helluva lot about fishing, as well as psychology of course. The trip was a great introduction to Oregon.
Jobeth Anderson
September 26, 2016
What an amazing gifted teacher and champion of children and families he was. I was very fortunate to be one of Jerry's students. This was early in my teaching career and using his wisdom I taught autistic children and many others. May his legacy continue. RIP.
Benson Schaeffer
September 25, 2016
I skied with Jerry for years, and once went fly-fishing with him. I wish I had worked with him. He was a marvelously feeling human being. I'll miss him.
Joanna Hoskins
September 4, 2016
I'm so sorry that Wes and I missed the memorial for Jerry. He was such a significant influence on me in my journey to become a psychologist. I have used his concepts of social learning and coercion regularly and have handed out many copies of "Families." Thank you, Jerry and Marion.
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Carlos Sluzki
September 1, 2016
Marvelously creative researcher, extraordinarily charming person, important contributor to the field. My homage to him in his passing, and a hug to you, Marion.
Tammo ter Hark
August 31, 2016
In 2006 I was introduced to the PMTO community when The Netherlands started implementing PMTO at several agencies. I then quickly saw that PMTO was based on many years of research and dedication by a team that was inspired by Jerry Patterson.
When I met him at his house, he was very eager to get to know the people, the first Dutch group of therapists that would drive PMTO forward in the Netherlands. You could see his eyes twinkle when he told the group about what was driving him.
Later, in 2009, Jan Ehrhardt and I started our compony Tools for Research and with that we could expand, based on the previous work for PMTO. In fact we can say that our company is based on the years and years of work by Jerry Patterson and the people around him. We will never forget that.
Will Phillips
August 29, 2016
Jerry was one of the heroes of my life who my friends often heard me refer to as my Papa Scientist.' I'm so grateful to have known him and have had an opportunity to participate in the work that he and his wife, Marion, have been continually developing and improving for over forty years. In my role as data and technology coordinator, I often archived awards that had been presented to Jerry. The one I loved the most was a presidential citation from the American Psychology Association, because it not only honored him for his five decades of exemplary contributions, his ground-breaking research on aggression and antisocial behavior, his writings on the origin of war, and mentorship of researchers scientists and clinicians, but best of all, it noted his zest for life that provides a model of the balance between professional accomplishments and personal well-being. That was Jerry. His presence will be missed, but his positive impact on the world is irrevocable and his work continues to be developed by researchers and scientists around the world because that is his and Marion's credo: Always working to make it better.
Linda Wallenius
August 28, 2016
I just learned of Jerry's passing today and I'm saddened by this news. Marion and family, I send my prayers over you all during this time of grieving. I was blessed to have spent 11 years at OSLC and to have had the opportunity to work with you and Jerry. Love and blessings...Linda Wallenius
Jane Eyre McDonald
August 28, 2016
It was my privilege to work with Jerry as he finally was able to read his war poems outloud. We shed many tears over the poems and he perhaps found some peace in that.
An amazing mind and heart! Play on with your harmonica,Jerry! RIP
William Conwill
August 28, 2016
Wishing blessings of love and peace for Marion and family in this time of celebration of Jerry's life.
Cheryl Greer
August 28, 2016
Later today in Eugene, Oregon, there will be a memorial service for Dr. Gerald Patterson. There will be many people who gather to share condolences with Marion and their family, friends, and colleagues. Here in Michigan, my thoughts cross the country to be with you today. Each of your storylines with Dr. Jerry is interwoven with everyone else's story in how you all knew this extraordinary man. Because this seemed to be the nature of Gerald Patterson: He was deeply connected to the earth. And he extended his sense of how this felt, into navigating his way to help people connect together in the ways that matter.
How can I know this when I only met Dr. Jerry once in-person and enjoyed a brief telephone conversation? It is from all the evidence surrounding Dr. Jerry and radiating from him that taught me what a great Connector he was: That community --- with nature and with each other --- is the essential core of living. I know this from reading his books, these jewels where he recounts his life experiences [A Guide's Tale; Free and Moving (loved Chapter 3: Finding Your Marion)]. I know this from his video messages shown in PMTO conferences...
But most of all I know this from my experiences with a few of the people so close to Dr. Jerry: Marion; Laura; Margaret; Margret; Mona; Nancy; Kelly; Cheryl (H); Jon; Will; Jeremy; Anna; Cathy; and Luann. Each one of you reflects that light that beacons others to join and connect. How inspiring to me that Dr. Jerry was so inclusive. He devoted his profession to studying ways that people find themselves socially detached from those around them --- and the remedies for creating pathways of return for them. And so I feel that in this sense Dr. Jerry metaphorically championed guiding "the protocol son" --- and maybe the protocol spirit? --- back home again. Dr. Jerry knew how this felt first-hand. He was a decorated WWII hero, who returned home devastated inside. He felt lost and on the fringe until he found his way back when he met Marion. So he knew.
And now decades later, we celebrate all the ways he touched so many lives. As for me, I am so grateful to be part of the PMTO family across this Earth because of the rich, deep of value for nature and humanity. I marvel at the sense of joy that Dr. Jerry and the people so close to him shared together. I am sending my sympathy and blessings to all of you today. Peace be with you.
Love, Cheryl (Greer)
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