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Donald Rea

1928 - 2017

Donald Rea obituary, 1928-2017, Reno, NV

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1928

DIED

2017

Donald Rea Obituary

Donald Rea

December 9, 1928

June 30, 2017

Donald Rea 1928-2017

Donald Rea died peacefully after a short battle with cancer, and a long, happy life, full of love and music. He was 88 years old - the same amount of keys that are on a piano.

He is survived by his sons Matthew (Laurie), Mark (Lori), and daughter Carla. His amazing grandchildren Adam, Angela, Alissa, Thomas, Nicholas, and Daniel, and great grandson Preston. He is predeceased by his father Thomas Rea, mother Mary Rea, brothers Thomas, David, and Louis Rea, and sister Dolores,

Born in Detroit Michigan December 9, 1928. He married the love of his life, Susan Benning (Queenie) on February 24, 1951. Don and Susan had a storybook romance, which on some days was also like a Lockhorns cartoon. They were in love from the day they met, until the day Susan died, June 19, 2012. Truth be told, he will love Susan forever, and Susan will love Don forever.

At around 13 years old Don started playing piano, and went on to become an accomplished pianist/keyboardist. He joined the Gaylord's in 1949. A musical trio on the Mercury label, that performed throughout the country, and landed gold records and top 10's on the Billboard charts in the late 50s: The Little Shoemaker, Tell Me Your Mine, From The Vine Came The Grape. Along with Don Rea the original members were Burt *Holiday* Bonaldi, Ronnie *Gaylord* Fredianelli, and Billy Christ. These four men went on to be lifelong friends, and "brothers."

In 1950 Don entered the army, and was stationed at Fort Leonard Wood in Waynesville Missouri. He played in the Army band, and went on to achieve the rank of sergeant before leaving his service.

In the 60s The Gaylord's became the musical comedy team of Gaylord & Holiday. Don was their keyboard player, musical director, conductor, and arranger. They made numerous appearances on The Colgate Comedy Hour, The Mike Douglas Show, The Merv Griffin Show, The Tonight Show, The Flip Wilson Show, and Rowan and Martin's Laugh In. They worked with other major headliners throughout the country, including Duke Ellington who called the Gaylords "purveyors of tonal zest."

In the early 80's Don became entertainment director at Circus Circus in Reno, where he booked and contracted the musicians who played for the live circus acts.

In 1961 Don moved his family to Reno Nevada, where he remained until his passing. He continued to play piano with small bands, large bands, community events, and even doing some studio session work.

Don was an amazing father, and the kindest, funniest, most generous, loving and talented man you could ever meet. He never met a stranger, and he loved to talk. If he was still here he would still be talking.

The Bonaldi and Roenspie families were the Rea's second and third families. Thank you to them for all the love and kindness over the years. And a special thank you to the VA Community Living Center, Reno for their kindness and compassion.

In Lieu of flowers pleasemake donations to the VA Community Living Center, Reno. Checks can be mailed, or dropped off: VASNHCS, 975 Kirman Ave, Reno, NV 89502. Donations are tax-deductible.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader on Jul. 6, 2017.

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Christopher Guerra

June 30, 2020

Still to this day I think about Don!! I have a folder of music I listen to, especially when I'm cruising in my 1964 Ford Galaxie we chatted about and I enjoy the ride listening to music I know Don would love to hear. This song always makes me miss him just a little more than I already do: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJtYof44PtM

KELLEY

July 13, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV.17:17

Joe Roenspie

July 10, 2017

Mat, Carla and Mark. Your Dad was one in a million. Some of my best memories are of your Dad at our house when he would play the piano. I will never forget his smile or his laugh. Such a great man to be around. My prayers are with you three. Love you all and praying for your peace to get you through this sad time.

Joe Roenspie

July 10, 2017

Carla, Mat and Mark your Dad was one in a million. I will always remember his smile and his laugh.my prayers are with you.

Bob Ferrari

July 9, 2017

YOU WILL BE MISSED BY MANY OF YOUR FANS. THE LAST ONE OF THE GAYLORD & HOLIDAY ENTERTAINMENT TRIO!! BOB

Madeleine Zunino

July 8, 2017

My thoughts and prayers to the family. I will miss Don's warm wonderful smile. I am fortunate to have known him.

Mishelle Rios

July 7, 2017

My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. May his music forever play in your hearts....

Christopher Guerra

July 7, 2017

What a pleasure it was getting to know Don. I enjoyed many conversations driving to gigs with him and talking about family, music and cars. I will miss you.

Tony/Marilyn Chieffo

July 7, 2017

Rest in peace dear Don. I'll always cherish our musical experience forever. You loved my wife's Biscotti's and she appreciated it. Good stories shared of our Italian heritage and music. Play your butt off in your next adventure. Tony & Marilyn Chieffo

Craig Evans

July 7, 2017

Last year just about this time, Bob Carroll & I sat down to lunch with both Don & Burt Bonaldi, to reminisce about all our shared experiences over the past 50 years. We had a great time, laughed a lot, and both of them were still full of life. It's really difficult to realize they have both gone on now to the next great adventure, and it almost seems like Don was in a hurry to catch up with Burt, to continue their collaboration. Don was a wonderful human being and was always up & optimistic about life. It was indeed a great privilege
to call him friend. Thanks for all the good times Don. I will miss you greatly. In Love & Light, Craig Evans

He always put a smile on my face

Lawrence Elliott

July 7, 2017

A music- master, show biz guru to so many and a real gentleman. Back bone of the delightful classic Nevada group "The Gaylord's", I was blessed to have known him. All the best on your journey' Don, The Amazin Elliott

Ready to perform at a moment's notice right up to the end.

Curtis Langdon

July 7, 2017

Always good natured and upbeat

Curtis Langdon

July 7, 2017

July 7, 2017

I looked forward to our chats during your daily walks. Rest In Peace. Kathy Cooper

Tony Bondi

July 6, 2017

Rest in Peace Don. Miss you. Wonderful knowing you and always getting together When I come to Reno. You have never refused to get together when I visit and we have lunch or dinner with my family you and Burt and also Susan before her passing. your friend always
Tony Bondi
My prayers go out to the family.

July 6, 2017

My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief. May God's loving kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. Psalms 119:50,76

California~

Jennifer Rea

July 6, 2017

Uncle Don was a vibrant person who is speckled throughout my childhood. I have memories of him, and Aunt Susie, laughing and chatting. Happy!

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

Great Uncle Don was a legend - not only in the music business, but within the family! I was fortunate enough to visit with him a few times in the last few years, and every visit yielded another series of amazing stories. Keeping him on point was always a challenge ("oh, Daniel, that reminds me..."), but in the end he would always get back to his original story, and not a moment went by when I wasn't on the edge of my seat waiting to see where the story would go.

Whether or not he intended it as an analogy, he always showed me his interpretations of music, with his fingers flying on the keys. But he would never play a song in the original way, but would say, "you know, Daniel, this song sounds more interesting in ragtime, here listen...", and he was right, it did sound great! Then he'd change to a bluesy version, and again, magic! It made me think that regardless of how we're made (what melody we were created with), everyone is made with the same melody, only played differently, and we're all awesome in our own way. That's one of the biggest take-aways I think I ever learned from him, though I don't think I really "got it" until just now.

Will always love that man, and will continue telling the stories and adventures he imparted, and remember his kindness, generosity, and true friendship he exuded upon everyone he met.

Here's to you, Mayor of Reno!

Uncle Don posing for me with Reno in background

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

Uncle Don doing what he does... :-)

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

Visiting with Adam, Uncle Don and Aunt Susan

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

In Reno with Uncle Don and Aunt Susan

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

Uncle Don and Aunt Susan visiting us in Michigan

Daniel Rea

July 6, 2017

delbra moss

July 6, 2017

He was just a lovely man. proud poppa, witty, a great smile, and the best hugger. "I know you will tickle the ivories in paradise, sir!"

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