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Theodore "tj" Day

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Theodore "tj" Day obituary, 1949-2014, Reno, NV

Theodore Day Obituary

Theodore J. Day

May 12, 1949

January 24, 2014

Theodore James "T.J." Day, successful Nevada businessman, community philanthropist, ranch operator, and locomotive and aviation enthusiast, died on Friday January 24 at his home in Reno. He was 64.

Born on May 12, 1949, in Los Angeles to Robert A. Day and Willametta Keck Day, T.J. was beloved by everyone who came in contact with him and was greatly admired as a man of his word and was someone who generously gave of himself to improve the lives of others. Those that knew T.J. knew that he lived his life in accordance with the code of the West and that his word was his bond.

T.J. attended Black-Foxe Military School in Los Angeles and graduated from Robert Louis Stevenson School in Carmel in 1967. He received a bachelor degree in Economics and Business from Linfield College in 1971, a Master of Business Administration from Stanford University in 1973, and a Master of Science in Applied Earth Sciences from Stanford University in 1975.

His family had extensive interests in oil and gas ventures and they left Los Angeles and moved to Nevada in 1967 where they preferred the Nevada way of life.

T.J. and Debbie Cole were married in Portland, Oregon on June 23, 1973. After finishing his graduate work at Stanford, T.J. and Debbie moved to Canada where he was employed by Canadian Superior Oil, Ltd. in Calgary, Alberta. They moved to Reno in 1978 where he joined Preston Hale in business developing industrial and commercial properties. Over the years, T.J. was involved in many large land transactions in northern Nevada including building and later owning the Porsche Building in downtown Reno.

In 1980, T.J. and Debbie purchased the Pitchfork Ranch located on the banks of the Walker River in Mason Valley, Nevada. They spent many special occasions with family and friends on the ranch. T.J. was always at home at the Pitchfork because he placed such importance in the ranching traditions of the West.

He was a director of a private exploration company, Western Exploration and Development, and a director of the W.M. Keck Foundation, as well as the Board of Directors of the Reno Championship Air Races. T.J. sat on the boards of Linfield College, Stevenson School, Nevada Area Council, Boy Scouts of America, the Nevada Taxpayer Association and the National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum. He served for 25 years as member of the board of directors of NV Energy and its predecessor company Sierra Pacific Resources.

Earlier this month, T.J. was honored by the Nevada Area Council of Boy Scouts as one of four recipients of the Good Scout Award. T.J. was deeply committed to the Boy Scouts and he was instrumental in helping build the new Scout Center in Reno.

T.J. held the special distinction of being appointed by three different Nevada Governors to the Nevada State Athletic Commission. In 2005, Governor Kenny Guinn first appointed him to the five-member panel, in 2008 Governor Jim Gibbons reappointed him, and Governor Brian Sandoval reappointed for a third time in 2011. T.J. was proud of this assignment and considered the work of the Athletic Commission to be vitally important to the State of Nevada.

He was a member of the prestigious Bohemian Club in San Francisco as well as the California Rancheros. Additionally, he was a member of several business and social organizations including the Nevada Development Capital Corporation, Northern Nevada Business Development Council, Economic Development Authority of Western Nevada (EDAWN), Northern Nevada Network, Citizens for Private Enterprise, the City of Reno Roundtable, the Prospectors Club, the Valley Club in Montecito, California, the California Club in Los Angeles, and the University Club in Portland, Oregon.

T.J. was a Charter Member of the University of Nevada, Reno Foundation and he received the University of Nevada "President's Medal" in 2000 and the Dean's Award for the UNR Medical School in 2004. He was inducted into the Junior Achievement Hall of Fame in 1991 and was named Republican of the Year in 2008.

An avid bird hunter, T.J. was especially fond of visiting the San Tomas Hunting Club in Falfurrias, Texas. Several times a year he would invite friends to the club and it was here that he would preside as "Chancellor" of the "College of Knowledge". T.J. was a founding member of the Rolex Riders Motorcycle Club and he was one of the lead planners for the bi-annual North-South luncheon that brought together business leaders from northern and southern Nevada for a day of friendship at Barron Hilton's Flying M Ranch in Yerington, Nevada.

T.J. was preceded in death by his parents and his brother Lawrence Hook Day. He is survived by his wife Debbie, his brothers Robert A. Day and Matt Day, and his sister Tammis Day.

A reception celebrating T.J.'s life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers and in memory of T.J. Day, contributions can be made to the Nevada Area Council of Boy Scouts of America, 500 Double Eagle Court, Reno, NV 89521.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader from Jan. 29 to Jan. 31, 2014.

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John Melonas

July 15, 2025

As a former college roommate of TJ´s I can honestly say he was an incredible human being. Absolutely no pretenses, what you see is what you get. We shared many moments together always with joy and laughter. May is memory be eternal......John Melonas

Philipp Pascual

June 7, 2025

Love you TJ. Think of you everyday. If you ever need me to ride a motorcycle into a bar (Rapscallion) I´m your man, always.

Shawna (Lommel) Smith

September 29, 2024

I went to work for TJ at Hale Day Gallagher and Associates back in 1998. TJ, Mr. Hale and Frank were all so amazing to work for. Extremely intelligent and inspirational. I will never forget what I learned from them. Sending thoughts and prayers to Debbie.

Gae and Perry Basch

January 23, 2024

So hard to believe it's been 10 years. Gae and I have many wonderful memories of enjoying a glass (or more glass) of wine at the Napa Valley Auctions.The barge trip in France will never be forgotten, but just being together with TJ and Debbie.

Richard and Cindy Kirkland

January 23, 2023

We miss your incredible presence and all that you and Debbie did for Reno and Nevada. We will never forget our favorite motorcycle ride with you and the Rolex riders and we will never forget you,

Lee Lambert

April 8, 2021

Remembered TJ when he lived in 'New Dorm' at Linfield College
when he was a student there. He was a nice guy!

Dwight Stuart Jr

March 24, 2014

Have not seen TJ since our Black-Foxe military school days in Los Angeles so many years ago. Truly sorry to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace, TJ.

Darlene Damonte-Vopat

February 17, 2014

Debbie., T.J. was a very special guy. I have especially fond memories of great times at the gun club. A true loss to our community. Thoughts and prayers for you.

Patty Atcheson Melton

February 2, 2014

My prayers go out to Debbie family and friends of T.J.

Richard Kirkland

February 2, 2014

TJ was the consummate Nevadan and 'community benefactor' always willing to do whatever it took to make his community and state better. He will be missed but always remembered for all he did, unselfishly, for everyone, many of whom never knew....

Ed Hamer

February 1, 2014

Enjoyed many great times with TJ. He will be missed and remembered fondly.

Hank Kuechler

February 1, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ben Youngblood

February 1, 2014

Debbie,
I never had the pleasure of meeting you although have know TJ for many years. He was a big part of Rancheros, and dearly loved. Reading about him in this article I have learned so much about his life. TJ was so humble, he rarely spoke about his impressive array of accomplishments. We will miss him. Sorry for the loss.

January 30, 2014

We are sad to hear about TJ's passing he truly will be missed. He was a great man. If there is anything we can do we are here. sending our love Sheri,Mike,Jason and Nicole Schnack

January 30, 2014

Debbie we are so sorry for your loss. TJ will always have a special place in our heart. god bless you in this most difficult time. Sending our love Sheri,Mike, Jason and Nicole Schnack

January 30, 2014

Debbie, Robert and Matt: i been 19years since I have been incontact with your family however i have always held each of you in high regard. Your three and TJ were very instrumental to my maturing in the business world in my starting years in insurance at Marsh & McLennan. I was very sad to read about T.J.'s passing this morning. The article was right on in his character and integrity. I valued knowing him and I send my condolences to all his family, especially Debbie. WIth Sympathy, Christa Brozovich Hunt

Jodi Long

January 30, 2014

Hi Debbie,
I am so very sorry for your loss, if you need anything, please let me know.

Jodi Long & Kelsey

January 30, 2014

Dearest Debbie, Perry and I are so sorry for your loss. As you know, there was nobody like him. We haven't seen you guys in so long, but we sure made some lifelong memories. Much love to you and the rest of the family. Gae and Perry Basch

Sandy Johnson, Retired NSAC Staff

January 30, 2014

I had the honor to work with TJ during his tenure on the Athletic Commission and he was a pleasure to be around and always thought about the staff and those who he worked with, I am so sorry for his passing and my condolences to his family... Rest in Peace TJ

January 30, 2014

Debbie, we both were in such shock to hear of the loss of TJ. So many great memories over the years. We just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts. Happy Trails, Jerry/Melinda Black Ft Collins, CO.

Dr. Frank A. Portale

January 30, 2014

Debbie,
Please accept our deepest condolences. We have wonderful memories of the fun times together. TJ is in our prayers. Love, Frank and Hope Portale.

Brenda Long

January 29, 2014

Debbie I was so sorry to hear of TJ passing. He was a loved man by many. My prayers go out for you in your time of grief.

Leslie (Conklin) Walsh

January 29, 2014

Dear Debbie - I'm so sorry to hear of TJ's passing. Although it has been many years since I had seen him, I never forgot how well he treated me when I worked at Deloitte & Touche. My favorite part of the week was getting to work on his account. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 29, 2014

Reno will never be the same. We have lost an amazing man.
All the girls at St Ives Florist

Patti Lund

January 29, 2014

I was just heartbroken to hear of T.J.'s passing - thank you for the great memories you shared, and for all that you and your beautiful wife Debbie have done for us all. Rest in peace.

January 29, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of TJ. It seems like yesterday when we gave the
'Republican of the Year Award' to TJ and Debbie at the Governor's Ball in Reno. So deserving to be honored for the many contributions the Day's made the State of Nevada. God Bless TJ and his family during this time of sorry and may he rest in peace. Sue and Paul Lowden

Linda, Dick and Ashley Huntsberger

January 29, 2014

We are so sorry to here of TJ`s passing. Debbie, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember the great times we have had being a part of the activities at the Pitchfork.

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