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Thomas McCallie Obituary

Thomas Spencer McCallie II, of Roanoke, Va., died at his home on Sunday, June 27, 2010. He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Phyllis; a son, Trey McCallie, of Lexington, Ky.; a daughter and son-in-law, Laura and Kevin Anderson, of Rocky Mount, Va.; and a very special granddaughter, Taylor Anderson. In addition, Tom is survived by his niece, Elizabeth Davis, of Knoxville, Tenn. Preceding him in death were his parents, Thomas Crane and Gladys McCallie; and a sister, Gladys Davis, all of Chattanooga. He was born on October 3, 1934, and raised in Chattanooga, Tenn. Tom was a graduate of McCallie School, attended Washington & Lee University, and graduated from Vanderbilt University. At Vanderbilt, Tom was a member of Beta Theta Pi Fraternity. Before graduating from the Medical College of Virginia with a Masters Degree in Hospital Administration, Tom completed the Naval Officer Candidate's School in Newport, R.I. From 1965 until 1993,Tom was the Associate Administrator of Jefferson Hospital then Executive Vice President of Community Hospital of Roanoke Valley. He developed many close relationships there, which he cherished to this day. Tom was past Chairman of the Roanoke Chapter of the American Red Cross and a Past President of the Rotary Club of Roanoke. Tom was a board member of the Virginia Hospital Association and volunteered for WVTF Public Radio. Tom loved his family, his dogs, and was an avid Virginia Tech fan, joyful in every Hokie victory. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, June 30, 2010, from 4 to 7 p.m. at Oakey's South Chapel and a Memorial Service will be held 10 a.m. on Thursday, July 1, 2010, at Second Presbyterian Church in Roanoke. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Second Presbyterian Church. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jun. 29 to Jun. 30, 2010.

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Bob and June Bruce

July 9, 2010

Hi Phyllis,
We are so sorry for your loss and we know God will be there beside you to comfort you and your family.
God Bless

Tammie Obenshain

July 3, 2010

My dearest Phyllis. My heart aches for you and the kids. I wish so much to ease your burden. He rests with no more pain. My love to you.
Tammie and E.B. Obenshain

Sue Johnson

July 1, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loses. Mr McCallie was a great person. My family work in the 70's and early 80's at the Community Hospital. I have a lot of great memories of Mr McCallie. He will be missed.
Sue and Eddie Johnson

Chip Liles

July 1, 2010

Phyllis, Trey and Laura..Many years have passed since you were our neighbors next door on Wyndale..however, fond memories are still there of what wonderful folks you all were and how kind you were to us. Mom cherished your friendship and Tom was so kind to stop in and see her when she was ill at Community...What a wonderful person he was as I have read so many wonderful tributes to him....Our thoughts are with you all as are our memories of growing up and having you all as our neighbors.

Chip Liles, Roanoke
Karen Liles Wickstrand, Va Beach, Va

Carole Gray & family

June 30, 2010

Phyllis, Trey and Laura, we are so very sorry for your loss of a husband and father. All of you are in our prayers.

Judy Mitchell

June 30, 2010

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Mr.MC Callie was always one of my favorite people at Community Hospital. He was truly the heart of that Hospital and always had time to talk to you about any problem large or small. I spent 26 years at Community and never saw Mr. MC Callie be anything but kind and caring.

Linda Pulz

June 30, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Mr MCCallie was such a great guy . We have wonderful memories of him from our days a CHRV. Many prayers , Larry & Linda Pulz

Linda Wolfe

June 30, 2010

He not only was Executive Vice President of Community Hospital, he stood for everything Community was about. He made it like family. I learned so much from him about leadership with kindness. He will truly be missed. God bless you and your family.

Jane Anderson

June 30, 2010

Laura, So sorry for your loss. I know you will miss him very much but just remember all the good memories you have of him. And know that he is in a much better place and he's not hurting anymore.

Susan Love

June 30, 2010

Phyllis, Trey and Laura.. I just read this today. I am so sorry for your loss. I have wonderful childhood memories of Mr. McCallie, what a fun guy! I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Judy Harris-Shorter

June 30, 2010

Phyllis, Trey and Laura.....I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Janet Benge

June 30, 2010

I am sorry for your loss. Phyllis you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Janet Benge (ARC)

Trish Young

June 29, 2010

Laura and Mom- I am sorry for your loss. I know these past few months have been very difficult for your family. In times like these remember the good times and know that he is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless!

Tracy Rothschild Lynch

June 29, 2010

I hope the memories of this wonderful man that you all share will bring you peace today and in the days to come. I have my own set of very special memories of Mr. McCallie, and I've been filled with them today. May God bless all of you. Your friends from far and wide are sending you lots of love.

Abbi Phillips

June 29, 2010

This is a truly tough time for you and your family. Don't feel alone for an instant. You have a second family in all of your friends. Please lean on us should you need anything. Our arms are around you.

Steve and Angie Bell

June 29, 2010

So sorry on your loss. Take care and God bless you and your family.

Terry and Holly Sparks

June 29, 2010

Trey and Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great man and you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Diana Easter

June 29, 2010

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

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