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Betty Merriken Obituary

Betty Roof Merriken, 82, of Bedford, Va., passed away Thursday, April 29, 2010. She was born on Thursday, February 2, 1928, in Roanoke , Va., a daughter of the late Jeter Stratton Roof and Teressa Louise Willis Roof. She was also preceded in death by husband, William Hite Merriken; and a brother, Jack Stuart Roof. She was a member of Bedford Baptist Church. Betty graduated from Andrew Lewis High School in Salem and continued on to complete her R.N. degree from Roanoke Memorial Hospital in 1952. She and Bill married in 1956 and moved to Bedford where she worked for many years at a local physicians office and then worked and retired from Bedford Memorial Hospital with 23 years of service. After retirement, she enjoyed her friendships and activities with the Red Hat Society "Vintage Hearts." Visits from her "red hat ladies" helped to sustain her in her last days. Surviving are her four daughters, Patti Merriken, Jan Roberts and husband, Bobby, Amy Miller and husband, Mike, Kitty Giles and husband, Steve, all of Bedford; six grandchildren, Kelly Roberts, Cory Giles, Jenna Roberts, Michael Miller, A. J. Miller, Lauren Giles; two aunts, Madeline Calhoon, Elizabeth Sink, both of Roanoke. Funeral services will be held on Monday, May 3, 2010, at 11 a.m. at Bedford Baptist Church with the Rev. James Compton Jr., Dr. David Henderson and the Rev. Rick Dellinger officiating. Interment will follow in Greenwood Cemetery. Friends may call after noon on Sunday and the family will receive friends from 3 to 6 p.m. at Updike Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Bedford.

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Published by Roanoke Times from May 1 to May 2, 2010.

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Sonja Orange

May 10, 2010

We were so sorry to hear about your mother, she was a lovely lady. Losing a mother is very hard, but always remember that a part of her will live on in you. Gary & Sonja

glenda lynn white

May 5, 2010

Dear Girls and Guys

What could I possibly say? Your mom was possibly one of the nicest moms.
I visited her at her home a couple times. She always knew who I was and invited me to come in. I have many memories for grade schools trips with the brownies. I must tell a funny story on myself. Back in summer a couple years ago I stoped by to give some tomatoes from my garden. At this time your dad had passed away. She said thanks and as I drove away I looked back she already had much better looking plants than I. Pleasing to the end how very blessed you all were to have had such wonderful parents.

Old classmate God Bless you all.

Glenda Lynn

May 4, 2010

Your Mom was such a very special person and will be remembered fondly by so many people. My thoughts are with you. Valerie Wilson, Commissioner of the Revenue

Jane Wash

May 3, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

May 3, 2010

Amy, Mike, A.J. & Michael: Each of you are in my thoughts, my heart and my prayers. May God Bless you.

Betty McCraw, Gladys,Va.

Larry Elliott

May 3, 2010

My deepest sympathy to all of you.

Patricia Jones

May 3, 2010

Amy, Mike, Michael, & A.J. if you need anything give me a call. My Deepest Sympathy to you all,

Buddy Fleming

May 1, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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